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Haha! I did the same thing, minus initiating the flirting. We are still friends but we were in grade school. He was always flirting with me, I may not have realized it then, but I was friendly back. One time he slapped me on the butt in a friendly manner to him probably, but the water bottle in my hand made a full circle and up into his man hood.
Teacher didn't say a word, he deserved it. We both still laugh about it to this day.
I still think it was kinda harsh for her to knee me in the balls.
I was on the floor in pain for like 5min escpcially since I slapped her butt playfully.
Dont you think that was a little bit over the top?
I don't know... i wouldn't worry about it anymore since you respect women and maybe can steer clear of the unstable ones. :). I see don't see you getting kneed in the nuts in your future.
I think you answered the question yourself by stating that you don't do that kind of stuff anymore and that you have respect for women now. I think her reaction was that if you didn't respect her, she didn't have to respect you and she just got you back.
Don't you think the knee was kinda harsh though? She did lead me on.
I don't think she asked you to slap her butt. Maybe it was just an instant reaction without thought.
She kind of started it, you escalated it a little, and she went above and beyond. I don't think anyone deserves to get kneed in the balls unless they actually attack someone. You can do permanent damage to a guy like that.
Maybe slapping her butt was a bit too far - we don't know how hard or how playfully you did it. If it was really hard and intended to hurt than that's different than a playful smack. But in any case the knee was over the top.
The slap was meant to be playful.
Then yeah, she overreacted for sure. I do like that you act respectfully towards women though, and I'm very glad that you were okay and not seriously injured.
Well... she touched your butt, I don't see the problem except she is childish.
Are you sure it was her and not one of her friends, and you slapped the wrong girls butt?
Either way, if it's just a bunch of girls ganging up on you to exert "girl power", then it sounds like they are just a bunch of bitches.
Well it didn't seem like a bunch of girls ganging up on me. I smacked my crush's butt and she kneed me.
I guess it's possible one of her friends touched me initially but I can't be certain
Girls are sly. If they are just standing around laughing while your curled up on the floor then it sounds like they were. But look she touched your butt. So she was just being childish and asking for things she wasn't ready for.
Considering she touched yours first, no, you didn't deserve that. It'd be one thing if she didn't and you touched her inappropriately without her consent, but she clealrly started the touching. The fact that she and her friends laughed at it makes her sound horrible.
Did she act angry or amused after kicking you?
She seemed amused.
Man... I could understand her doing that if she was mad (not saying it would have been right), but really? She sounds so mean...
Yeah she wasn't very nice. I stopped talking to her after that. People like that are not worth it in my opinion. I devoted all my time to running cross country and track and made a lot of good friends there
Well, good for you. She really proved to you that she wasn't worth your time.
How hard did you slap her butt? You said you were a crazy kid back then... please explain so I can get a better picture why she would do such a malicious act and laugh at you. You had to be a perverted devil of some sorts, I don't think a girl would flirt and do that unless I'm missing something.
I didn't slap her that hard. Was meant to be playful/flirty.
Honestly I think she was just playing me and was a really mean person.
Sounds like it. High schoolers are mean. I would have love to be flirted with that way.
I think she deserved that and she was asking for that, normally im the first one to say that MEN WHO TOUCH WOMEN LIKE THIS ARE DOUCHBAGS but in this case you win... if she touches why can't you? I hope you slapped her really hard :)
Do you think I would deserve the knee too the balls if I smacked her butt, without her touching me first?
Then yes :)
She had no right to touch your butt in the first place, but that didn't give you the right to grab her by the butt either. If I were her I would be humiliated that a man publicly disrespected me like that. I don't agree with her kneeing you in ball though.
I admit touching her butt was wrong but I was the only one who was publicly humiliated cause I was laying on the ground for like 5min while all the girls laughed at me.
I also wanted to add in. She was more in the wrong than you. She was pretty much asking for it after she touched you. Her kneeing you in the balls was totally unnecessary!
I think at that age she didn't fully understand how much that actually hurts. If a guy smacked my ass I would let him know that I was pissed off, maybe curse him out if it's a stranger, but not assault him! She was wrong and getting kicked in the balls isn't funny.
When I read the title, I was like heeelllll to the motherf'in yes!!! but then I read the whole thing, I'm just not sure what the hell she expected? She made it seem like she wanted that. Plus she touched your butt then got mad you touched hers? I don't get it...
So you think I'd deserve the knee to the balls if she hadn't touched me first and I just slapped her butt for no reason?
Not to say slapping her butt was okay, but don't you think that reaction is a bit over the top? wouldn't a slap be more justified or just telling me off?
Most men, I would assume, might get shocked or whatever at first but then move on and probably do it again. Getting kneed will make sure you understand that this is just not acceptable. You don't just walk around and just touch people like that, randomly!!!