Why women feel comfortable around me and easily open up to me without me trying hard to get them to open up?

[Anonymous]

Why women feel comfortable around me to open up and share personal information that I keep to myself. My male friends told me this is a gift to have but I want to know why? What make a women feel comfortable enough to open up to someone who they barely know? And what make a woman comfortable to open up to a man they barely know?

[dph4997]

my friend if u can get girl to open up but not date u then u r kinda like me and what i call the should boulder. the one guy any girl or friend can come to to chill with get advice cry etc. but if u can get dates then u have a gift that any guy would kill to have. its jus our charm man we seem kool and relatable so its easy enough for anyome to open up

[Asker]

I don't have a problem getting them it's just I'm focused more on college. I'm more laid back and I like to laugh and joke. I'm a goofy person. But I can be serious to but the older I get the more women open up to me.

[dph4997]

yah its just a natural charm i get the same thing

[cheesecakes]

It's because you aren't intimidating. Think of the situation the opposite way. I find it to be very easy to talk normally and open up to not that attractive girls. While when there's a hot one around... I lose my grip and get abit nervous.

[Asker]

I don't open up at all to no-one unless I can relate to people. The older I get the more I realize looks isn't everything. I can be with a hot girl and be bored after I have sex with her. If I can't relate to her , she can't make me laugh, her personality is horrible and she don't have goals and ambitions then she's useless to me. She's not for me. It's weird I find myself attracted to girls that don't have a coke bottle shape or hot. They're just cute, funny, feisty and have an attitude but playful as well. When a few years back I was going after cute girls with big breast and butt. Weird how things change and I'm still young smh

[emerald77]

You're probably just nice.