so at church before service started my girl friend saw this guy we know and said hey lets go talk to him. But the problem was this guy was in a conversation with my crush and I get sooo nervous and awkward around my crush and was not prepared to talk to him at that moment.
so she comes up and says hi and something else to the other guy and them immediately starts talking to my crush! So im standing there in front of my crush but I already know the other guy (but not interested in him but we are friends) so I say hi to the other and he starts talking to me and me and him get into a conversation. So I thought me and the other guy was in a conversation while my crush and my girl friend were in another conversation but that's what it seemed like to me. Even though I managed to ask my crush a question i was afraid to look him in eye because I was nervous. But im not afraid to look the other guy in the eye because I have no interest in him and we have talked many times before already.
So then then my crush looks at the other guy and ask him does he want to go look leave get some coffee nearby. And proceeds to leave. But the guy winked at him and smiled and didn't move and just kept talking to me. Then my crush realized he wasn't leaving and came back. But I was wondering why did he leave.
so later that day my girl friend said that my crush was trying to talk to me and i kept talking to the other guy and kind of laughed at me. But to be honest I didn't know my crush was trying to really talk to me I thought he was talking to her. He rarely looked me in the eye also and he talked kind low I didn't really hear anything he said.
I didn't purposely ignore him it's just my nerves got the best of me and I wasn't prepared for that moment. I think i made it seem i was interested in the other guy and not my crush. I really feel i blew it. Did I blow it?
so she comes up and says hi and something else to the other guy and them immediately starts talking to my crush! So im standing there in front of my crush but I already know the other guy (but not interested in him but we are friends) so I say hi to the other and he starts talking to me and me and him get into a conversation. So I thought me and the other guy was in a conversation while my crush and my girl friend were in another conversation but that's what it seemed like to me. Even though I managed to ask my crush a question i was afraid to look him in eye because I was nervous. But im not afraid to look the other guy in the eye because I have no interest in him and we have talked many times before already.
So then then my crush looks at the other guy and ask him does he want to go look leave get some coffee nearby. And proceeds to leave. But the guy winked at him and smiled and didn't move and just kept talking to me. Then my crush realized he wasn't leaving and came back. But I was wondering why did he leave.
so later that day my girl friend said that my crush was trying to talk to me and i kept talking to the other guy and kind of laughed at me. But to be honest I didn't know my crush was trying to really talk to me I thought he was talking to her. He rarely looked me in the eye also and he talked kind low I didn't really hear anything he said.
I didn't purposely ignore him it's just my nerves got the best of me and I wasn't prepared for that moment. I think i made it seem i was interested in the other guy and not my crush. I really feel i blew it. Did I blow it?
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You've fucked up big time.
Really?
yeah, He probably thinks you're interested it the other guy.
How do I fixed this?
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Talk to him tell him you actually wanted to talk to him but was too nervous to do it. If it were me i'd be flattered by it.
What?
That sounds easy except my stupid butt is too nervous to talk to him. I only can manage to smile and wave at him, should I do that next time I see him?
Go for it. Give him a shit load of eye contact and smiles.