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Is it wrong to ask a woman how much she weighs? (Page 2)
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I think it depends on the girl and your connection with her. If she's sensitive about her weight then probably not. Unless you are in a relationship or you are good/best friends with them.
No unless she's slender and fit. I am 47 and I feel happy with my weight so I would even feel good if you asked me that, so I could emphasize one more time how slim I am :D
I meant she's not slender and fit.
It doesn't seem like the sort of thing you should be asking someone you don't know well. And that's not just women - I wouldn't ask a man how much he weighed either.
Yet you would ask him how tall he is...
@Wwwyzzerdd Maybe? I mean, I'm not even really sure how tall my boyfriend is. Like, I dunno, in a perfect world where weight wasn't a thing that people somehow associated with how good a person you are, I wouldn't be bothered asking about it. Height's different because no one tries to imply you're lazy for not being taller or that you're somehow vain if you're tall or something. It's just kind of there?
Really just depends. If you dont have a legitimate reason to ask i think you shouldn't. If its a friend i think its okay to ask if you know she won't take it personally
Some of them get offended but if you're really that close or know they wouldn't and you could ask, doubt they'll be comfortable telling you. Personally I wouldn't but that's me m8
My general rule of thumb is not to ask or guess unless she mentions it my only exception would be if it was someone I cared about and I felt she was unhealthily heavy or thin
Why would you want to know her weight, I'd be scared you were trying to figure out roofy dosage or something. :)
I think it depends on how comfortable that person is with themselves
It's wrong no matter who it is, boy or girl, skinny or fat, black or white, rich or poor, etc
It's not a problem but guys should ask about the height first, taller girls weigh more.
Talking about how thin a girl is can make her feel uncomfortable too.
I don't see the point in asking. You can tell right away whether a girl is skinny, chubby, or obese just by looking at her. Why does it matter what her exact number is?
as a man, I don't like anyone asking what my wage is. and I like to think that's how women feel when asked about their weight.
It's not rude if you're close to her.
But why you wanna know her weight?
that doesn't feel right unless you start a fitness related conversation
Its probably kinda personal if you don't know them that well how much someone weights i personally wouldn't care but know plenty of women do.
If a woman is insecure about her weight, that's her problem. Its always rude to do questions like that to people you don't know, but otherwise, it's fine.
If she's thin or average, you can probably ask if you are good friends. Overweight or obese girls, you should probably just never ask.
It is necessary at times to be able to closely estimate the number of times she can be bench pressed.
Its rude to everybody to ask that. But if she has the guts to ask me about my weight or height, then I will do the same.
A gentleman won't ask a woman her age or her weight,, it should be up to her,,, (unless she looks too young for the man, then ask about her age)
A real lady won't ask for his monthly salary.
@Unit1 she'll be able to tell if he is the right one, in how he treats her and if he has it together, but eventually salary may come up, just to see if they are able to afford taking the next step like marriage.
In my opinion salary is top secret information.
I am currently developing methods of how to deflect direct questions to salary or how to create effective diversions of the information of salary (such as wrong number mentioned or not mentioned at all) in order to protect that information.
@Unit1 If the guy or gal's main focus is whether or not one or the other is filthy rich, then that is really messed up.
A lady that isn't focused on wealth won't have to ask what his salary is. if he isn't stable she'll figure it out without him disclosing his salary.
But if they get married, there are no secrets,, they have to stay within a budget, knowing what is coming in so the don't spend more than what they make.
He knows her salary she and she knows his salary.
Your methodology may stop gold diggers or trick a woman into thinking you have your life in order when you don't.
If you focus on seeing if you and the girl have chemistry and base the relationship on truth instead of a lie, it won't make to much difference how big or small your salary is. Provided you don't sit around not working when work is available and she is the one supporting you.
Only asks if it seems OK for you to ask. For example if she's talking about her weight, then it might be OK to ask but it would not be OK to ask a woman you just met about her weight.
I know this makes me sound like an old fogey, but a gentleman never asks a woman how much she weighs or how old she is. Never.
What does that make her when she asks his income/height?
@Wwwyzzerdd If she asks about my income, she's a gold digger. I don't care about height.
You don't but she does. If she's a gold digger for his income/height, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with asking her weight. She broached a personal subject to qualify that man to get in her pants. Fuckboys have the same rights as gold diggers, fuck double standards. If she can ask to find out his sexual value then we can ask hers.
@Wwwyzzerdd Meh. Just because she's being a bitch doesn't make it okay for me to be one too. Ya gotta have standards, man.
Yeah I'm not saying that's how I'd act but if she asks me about my height/income/what do I do then I'm gonna retort with how much does she weigh.
If it's a good friend and you have an idea on how they'll respond. Then you know whether to ask or not.
It's not wrong to ask a woman her weight. After all she is discriminatory against our height and dick size, two factors that we cannot control.
She absolutely has control over how much and what she shoves into her face.
It's not wrong at all because you are just trying to get to know her
Indeed.
It's the same as asking what one makes (money-wise): it needn't be asked, and you should wonder why that person is asking it.
Meh tbh I'd only do it if you're a close girl friend? And ofc only if the topic's actually relevant lol
It's not wrong, but if they prefer not to tell you, don't push it.
The only reason to ask someone's weight is to make a judgement about it. Women already have society's constant commentary about how we look, nor matter how we look. We don't need it from you too.
I really don't understand why it's rude. Weight doesn't define one's beauty!
Oh and also you can surely ask but if someone isn't comfortable to tell her weight, she can choose not to tell.
I personally say I'm 6 pounds more than my original weight because I dress very baggy so people think I'm lying about my weight if I tell my real weight. It doesn't bother me much tho I actually have fun. :p
And I can totally understand not everyone is like me. It's ok. :)
It's rude to ask anyone how much they weigh, man or woman
Most often one of the first questions people always get asked is what ethnicity are you... lol
I mean that's pretty personal too but it's like first on the list boom... Then it can even move to family... which is also pretty personal hahah... and then even to past relationships, which people don't seem to have too much of an issue talking about... personal here too
Height is obvious
Are you sure it's because weight is personal and it's not just because of something else? Because if we are going with the personal route... a lot of things are personal but it doesn't stop anyone from asking about them...
@TripleAce well considering I didn't mention anything about it being personal...
I mean, you have the right to ask but it could come off as incredibly rude especially if she has a complex about her weight.
Thumbs up for realizing it's a valid question albeit tact not withstanding.
It's not wrong, but some women may find that question disrespectful, no matter what their body type.
I don't get offended by it, but I'm a pretty healthy weight.
I have no idea about it, but the girl in the pic is damn hot...
GAG posted that lol
who cares, still she actaully exists...
its not wrong.. whoever days that its wrong, she s probably fat and she can't deal with that.. and that girls re also feminists and they fight for equality.. so why the fuck is not wrong to ask to men?
I think if the person is obviously overweight, or obviously anorexic, it is wrong.
It's about as wrong of a question to ask asa asking a guy how tall he is.
No, unless you're fat (plus size) and you're insecure about yourself
I don't mind telling my friends, but not acquaintances.
It's a compliment with a fit woman... always gets a smile.
Of course I would NEVER do that if the woman was even a little overweight, never.
How have your bowels been lately? Regular? Dick still skinny as a worm?
These questions are on par with asking them their weight when you are not their doctor.
how is asking weight equivalent to asking if you have a skinny dick
@anoopranger03 because it's rude, dehumanizing and none of anyone's business.
Women ask for mens height all the time, I refuse to believe the only just rationale for a man to be concerned about a womans weight is in a medical capacity.
@Mexicoman101 unless you're blind, one may gauge a person's height with their eyes. Furthermore, there is no shaming short men for being short: there's not a whole hell of a lot to do about it unless you're interested in men that wear heels. There is HUGE stigma attached to weight, in that women are regarded as literally useless if they're even slightly overweight (or perceived to be as such). And why is it any of your business what someone else weighs? Does it affect you?
@Astoriana While I agree that people are far too preoccupied with weight (especially the weight of women) & that the culture promoted by photoshopping magaxine covers which makes models smoke/teenage girls bulemic is gross, you should not pretend men have no reason to be concerned over it at all. Some men prefer fat or at least some meat on their womens bones, but even many women view it as a sign of poor self restraint and respect to be morbidly obese. It might affect my life if I were to, for instance, successfully pursue getting her to go out with me. I wouldn't ask a womans weight unless I was unsure by looking at pictures of her how to assess it, but it's still a valid question. As is how tall a man is.
by the way fuck no, there is totally shaming of short men, not every woman is as cavalier as 'well, he was born that way'. Not everyone is good at gauging height, especially from photographs, especially in the age of movies where we can make Tom Cruise seem taller than he is.
@Mexicoman101 oh so you're a loser that only dates people you meet off the internet. How precious.
@Astoriana Nice generalization of me based on what I said, Wtf, you're gonna assume I only meet people online based on the fact that I mentioned an online dating angle of this argument so you can shame me? I give no fucks, lady. You're just in no hurry to prolong being wrong in a civil discourse.
@Mexicoman101 I'm in no hurry to continue an inane discussion of why some rude ass man child believes that he can ask people how much they weigh because he doesn't want to fuck a fatty
@Astoriana no shamed anyone here. be cool guys. let it go
@anoopranger03 your input is currently unnecessary.
so is yours.
@anoopranger03 it's my opinion. My input here is the only one that matters. You are free to make your own opinion, where your input will be the only one that matters. However, I don't care for you, so you can go.
But it's ok to ask men how tall we are or what our height is?
Apparently asking for someones weight is the same as saying... ''Dick still skinny as a worm?''... jesus i will make sure to mention females' weight if they piss me off ha.
@FreedomResistance those mean the same thing. Do you always repeat yourself?
@TheUsername27 glad to know that assholes enjoy being assholes.
I'm not an asshole lol but if someone initatyes being a dick to me for no good reason I'm going to fire back. I don't care if she is Cis Female, Agender, Bigender, Pangender, Genderqueer / Non-binary and all of the other stupid made up genders.
I don't think it's wrong but it surely as hell is awkward. I can't think of any scenario where you would need to know her weight.
It's rude to ask anyone how much they weigh unless you have some reason you need to know.
I say wait awhile because she may think she is fat even if she isn't
Girls are self conscious
Even if there beautiful asf
Never ask it brings down esteem
Is it wrong when they're online asking how tall guys are?
*Double Standard*
Depends on how good of friends you both are and if she'll respond upset or not.
it's not wrong asking that. however it's preferable to not do so
Only if it's also wrong to ask a man how tall he is.
My brain cannot comprehend why anyone will vote it's wrong...
I consider asking literally anyone how much do they weigh, weird xD
i'm a super open person and i'm not sensitive at all so yeah i'm fine. anyway muscle weighs more than fats
Why would you want to know anyway? By physical observation, it already says a lot. Don't have to ask.
It rude to ask a woman her age, I often say this then immediately ask them their weight, you'd be surprised how many actually answer ;)
From my experience, women get annoyed or offended when you ask how much they weigh so I don't do it unless there's a legitimate reason to
I don't know if it's wrong, but i'm not gonna risk getting punched in the nose... ok, maybe just i time ;)
Well, it's "wrong" only in the sense that it's a taboo question. In any case, girls who are self-conscious about their body would surely get offended.
I'm self conscious about my body, yet I don't care if people ask. It takes certain things to make me feel bad about my body, and someone asking me about my weight is not one of them.
@Shasta999 Obviously, there are exceptions.
It isn't wrong to ask how much someone weighs or their age as long as you are friends. I don't see the point in asking a stranger that.
Yes, society generally views it as being rude or impolite to ask a woman's weight. Much the same as asking if someone is a particular race by using a slang term for that race.
I think it depends on how close you are with the girl. Most people I know don't mind but I wouldn't go around asking if the convo wasn't there. Has to be a in the moment thing