Older men have always tried to get at me, even as a young teenager and now that I'm older it still happens. Other than old men, guys that have no prospects or are just creeps also are interested in me, like guys that don't have jobs or weird fetishes or will straight out ask me to perform sexual acts. I'm not interested in any of these types of men and I am upfront about that, painstakingly so, and some of them just don't care or respect that I said I'm not interested enough to stop making advances.
I don't understand why the guys that I'm interested in are never interested or approach me and the fact that all these kinds of same personality types of men keep on doing so is really starting to make me think something is wrong with me. I'm not some hot little thing either, I am overweight, I will be honest and admit to having curves in all the right places and people tell me that they think I'm pretty or beautiful but I wouldn't go as far as agreeing with them on that, my eyes are large, brown, I'm tan and only 5'4" so what I think is that I must just not be attractive enough for the men that I'm attracted to.
I want to add that I don't date these men that I'm not interested in and for that reason, I have been single for over two years now. I use to give into the persistent ones but I learned from those mistakes and now I will only date again if there is a mutual attraction.
I don't understand why the guys that I'm interested in are never interested or approach me and the fact that all these kinds of same personality types of men keep on doing so is really starting to make me think something is wrong with me. I'm not some hot little thing either, I am overweight, I will be honest and admit to having curves in all the right places and people tell me that they think I'm pretty or beautiful but I wouldn't go as far as agreeing with them on that, my eyes are large, brown, I'm tan and only 5'4" so what I think is that I must just not be attractive enough for the men that I'm attracted to.
I want to add that I don't date these men that I'm not interested in and for that reason, I have been single for over two years now. I use to give into the persistent ones but I learned from those mistakes and now I will only date again if there is a mutual attraction.
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Something I should mention, I haven't went up to a guy that I was interested in and straight asked him out or anything but I have gone up to them before and made conversation and smiled and all the things you do when you would like someone to approach you
