My boyfriend made a bad mistake and hurt me really bad. I told him it was okay but yet I can't get over it maybe she said it was OK but didn't reallly mean it.
I have to agree with Chiba. You have no balls. Although, I'm not surprised that a person that calls himself Jesusfreak bends over backwards a lot in a relationship.
It's better to be the dumper than the dumpee your headed for disaster cause your spoiling her cut absolutely crap bargain I might if you do this she thinks she can do anything and you won't complain she at some point will cheat on you she might turn in a crazy woman in a few years because of what you didn't do she is the boss or is it docile you
Girls don't like guys that are doormats. They want a protector. If you back down from everyrhing. Even when your right. Your allowing it to happen. In the end you don't have to argue or be mean to stand up for what's right. The relationship will never make it without respect from both. Ever heard the phrase nice guys finish last? It's true. Never said it was right. Just true.
she is cheating on you girls and guys are not verry diffrent from each other and plus I'm the same way with guys when I don't like them anymore or I cheat
Give her the old boot, she'll learn not to snap at you anymore. There are many nice girls out there, a girl has to learn to value & treasure a guy. Men can easily be lost, you must fight to keep them. Good Luck
Doesn't matter if he has mistreated in the past, what did have to do with you? Make sure you out her behavior toward you in check or leave. Some people know who to use.
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WTF?! ARE You HER BITCH OR SOMTHING? STAND UP FOR UR SELF MAN. it looks like she is the man of this relationship you better make a turn buddie or she is just gonna keep giving you sh*t
I think you should talk to her about it and ask her why. She is obviously frustrated about something and unless you can get her to tell you what it is then you will not be able to do anything about it.
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I haven’t read it all admittedly, but people are usually mean because of insecure self esteem issues.
I hate to tell you this, but the most likely cause for her behavior is that she is hiding something from you.
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Sounds like the last days of my marriage, my ex- wife was fucking another man. My ex-wife was doing the same shit, main thing I see that she was doing just like yours was not saying "I Love You on the Phone Anymore or to me".
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You need to talk to her, maybe gets third party like a pastor to talk to her or to counsel you. Pray really hard for her.
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"but she doesn't know how crappy it makes me feel." - thats your fault. If you dont tell her off, she'll continue.
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My boyfriend made a bad mistake and hurt me really bad. I told him it was okay but yet I can't get over it maybe she said it was OK but didn't reallly mean it.
I have to agree with Chiba. You have no balls. Although, I'm not surprised that a person that calls himself Jesusfreak bends over backwards a lot in a relationship.
It's better to be the dumper than the dumpee your headed for disaster cause your spoiling her cut absolutely crap bargain I might if you do this she thinks she can do anything and you won't complain she at some point will cheat on you she might turn in a crazy woman in a few years because of what you didn't do she is the boss or is it docile you
Girls don't like guys that are doormats. They want a protector. If you back down from everyrhing. Even when your right. Your allowing it to happen. In the end you don't have to argue or be mean to stand up for what's right. The relationship will never make it without respect from both. Ever heard the phrase nice guys finish last? It's true. Never said it was right. Just true.
Sounds like she is taking out her insecurities on you, with maturity she should hopefully gain appreciation for you- I hope she does!
she is cheating on you girls and guys are not verry diffrent from each other and plus I'm the same way with guys when I don't like them anymore or I cheat
So you're saying your garbage? Got it.
You're. Still garbage.
Give her the old boot, she'll learn not to snap at you anymore. There are many nice girls out there, a girl has to learn to value & treasure a guy. Men can easily be lost, you must fight to keep them. Good Luck
she doesn't respect you. relationships with contempt don't last very long
You sound so sweet. She is lucky to have you. I'm glad things are working out but be sure to remind her what you do when you don't feel appreciated.
Does she have PMS? If not, maybe she’s not happy in the relationship. Or she could even be bipolar.
Doesn't matter if he has mistreated in the past, what did have to do with you?
Make sure you out her behavior toward you in check or leave.
Some people know who to use.
WTF?! ARE You HER BITCH OR SOMTHING? STAND UP FOR UR SELF MAN. it looks like she is the man of this relationship you better make a turn buddie or she is just gonna keep giving you sh*t
Lol you're a beta male!! 😂😂 saying that you're a male would be an insult to all the males out there, so let's just call you a beta.
She doesn't deserve you. She is just using youuu. Wake up.
I think you should talk to her about it and ask her why. She is obviously frustrated about something and unless you can get her to tell you what it is then you will not be able to do anything about it.
I haven’t read it all admittedly, but people are usually mean because of insecure self esteem issues.
I am insecure and I am not mean
@Steven71 not everyone acts on it in that way - but a lot to, it’s one of the main reasons why.
Yes you are right
I hate to tell you this, but the most likely cause for her behavior is that she is hiding something from you.
Sounds like the last days of my marriage, my ex- wife was fucking another man. My ex-wife was doing the same shit, main thing I see that she was doing just like yours was not saying "I Love You on the Phone Anymore or to me".
You need to talk to her, maybe gets third party like a pastor to talk to her or to counsel you. Pray really hard for her.
"but she doesn't know how crappy it makes me feel." - thats your fault. If you dont tell her off, she'll continue.