Girls, do you just want sex or do you want relationships?

[LonelyGuy87]

Maybe it’s just girls my age but it looks like girls just want sex. Many girls seem to love the ‘Hookup Culture’ and really enjoy having lots of casual sex with random guys. The girls my age party every week, getting drunk. They also hookup with guys A LOT. I know of girls who broke up with their boyfriends before they went off to college - is that so that they can have lots of sex with different guys?

Im honestly considering becoming a fuckboy because if girls just want sex then I’ll have to adapt. So girls, why do you want to hookup so much? Do you just want sex?

Sex! (obviously)

Relationships!

Updates

+1 y

If girls want relationships so much then why do they have so much casual sex? Someone please explain as I am really confused.

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+1 y

Can someone explain - if girls (88%) want relationships, why do you have so much casual sex? I don’t get it. This ain’t adding up.

[Nxtawm]

I'm confused, none of the girls I know are anything like that at all. We don't party/drink/have sex. Most of the girls I know usually just do these activities when they hang out with friends, watch a movie (home or at theater), sleepovers, eating at restaurants, going to carnivals (if there's any nearby), and I guess shop? Or they just hang out at someone's house. But that pretty much it, no idea where your image of girls come from.
If you just want sex then sure, become a fuckboy or date one of those girls. But if you want a more wholesome relationship where sex isn't as important then maybe try to increase your range and find girls more like the ones I said. You can't say all women are like that just because of a few people. If it worked like that then every guy can be considered a fuckboy too.
You seem to be really focused on sex, if you want to have sex only then just become a fuckboy, don't blow things up and blame the opposite gender. You don't need to justify your choice by blaming us. There are more types of girls than just party girls. We're not one person, each of us are different, some girls are super strict about sex and won't even kiss you until a certain point in the relationship. Some are so innocent about the world and sex they'll annoy you. Some like you said like to hook up but that's who they are, they view the world differently from you. Lust is human nature, they just accept it as part of them. Then there are the "normal" girls that only have sex with who they're dating. In the end we're all diverse.

[LonelyGuy87]

That’s great. That shows a really great view of women but can I ask a question? You are only 15, girls change. Also what country are you in? When I was 15 the girls were like that guy when they get a little older they get more wild, not sure why.

[Nxtawm]

I'm in the u. s.
I think they get wilder because as you grow up you are restricted a lot by parents to protect you but once you get older the parents become less restrictive to give you some freedom. I think it's them going crazy over that new freedom. They'll probably calm down after a few years when they mature, some faster depending on their personality. The girls around your area are most likely more wild compared to girls where I live too

[LonelyGuy87]

Maybe. I would say most girls have a wild, party girl & sleep around phase. College is usually the place where this happens I think but apparently some kids are doing that stuff in High School.

[TacosRAwesome]

Both... A relationship with lots of sex. At least till I'm in my menopause.

[LonelyGuy87]

So you are a cheater? WOW

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm not a cheater. I meant lots of sex with my partner.

[LonelyGuy87]

Oh..

[TacosRAwesome]

Congrats

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Dude you're fucking mental. Get some help. Do you hear yourself? Lol. You can't blame a whole gender over becoming a fuckboy. You're responsible for your own choice. Instead of blaming female behavior for becoming a fuckboy grow a pair and admit that it's what you want. Don't coward away behind that ridiculous statement because clearly your poll shows otherwise. Don't put at fault the whole gender simply for your success at a relationship or lack there of really. However, best of luck!

[LonelyGuy87]

... I mean... ok? No need to attack and insult me.

[simplyaramdomgirl]

I wasn't attacking you, I'm simply blunt and frank like that. Sorry if you felt offended. Either way I sincerely think that you should stop being a cunt and admit that you want to become a fuck boy. It's not something you'll get judged for, at least not from you're asshole friends who'll worship you and you'll get laid. If that's what you want go ahead, but deal with the consequences. Don't say we didn't warn you.

[LonelyGuy87]

I don’t want that! I want a good girl and serious relationships.

[Factshurt90]

Relationships!!! Sex in the absence of love is worthless. I tried fucking an ex i dated and still in love with well... because i was horny. We didn’t kiss at all and it was awkward and I felt cheap.
Average young girls do go for the full free spirited college experience though

[LonelyGuy87]

And the college experience for girls is getting pummeled by new dick every weekend... right?

[Factshurt90]

Apparently..😂 restrictions limit the experience. I didn’t go away to college i was faithfully married the whole time🤷🏾‍♀️ but a fuck ton of this chicks I new ghosted their boyfriend before they left for college

[LonelyGuy87]

Exactly. Girls dump their boyfriends so they can take. 38 dicks in just their freshman year. Girls are such hoes these days... yet all the girls here say that want relationships. What lies!

[Factshurt90]

Eh.. I don’t use such language towards sexual freedom. I can understand your confusion. Sex like some is a necessity for overall health and happiness. Women can want BOTH. While they wait for a relationship quality partner yes, some do need some dick in the middle🤷🏾‍♀️

[Ellie-V]

No one is required to get married anymore. So hookup culture exists. Well... honestly it was already there but no one was as open about it back then. Me personally, I don’t care for a relationship and I don’t care for sex. If it happens, it happens but I’m not gonna pursue it.

[LonelyGuy87]

... so most girls just want sex because they are now more open to it?

[Ellie-V]

No..

[LonelyGuy87]

Can I ask you a question then because I just don’t understand? Please.

[Ellie-V]

Because not every girl wants the same thing. Some want relationships some don’t. And you happen to be around a bunch of girls who don’t. This isn’t rocket science

[LonelyGuy87]

It’s not 50/50 though. About 80% of young girls in their twenties and late teens just wanna hookup with many guys. When they get older almost every woman wants love but the young women are the ones who hate relationships. I would agree that some want hookups and some want love but I think most *young* girls want sex.

[Ellie-V]

Okay

[nofunkgiven]

Relationships.
I know a lot of girls think that if they're hook up they're open minded and serious relationships are old fashioned and uncool but there are still girls who don't take sex and relationships for granted. You don't have to change into something you are to be able to fit in.

[nofunkgiven]

You are not *

[whatsgoingonwithme]

I don't know what you want me to tell you. It's human natural to want to fuck. Sex is a natural animalistic behavior that humans forget the simple fact that we are animals. But at the every same time, we are the only animals (I believe) that have relationships and show feelings to our mate. Every animal is different, but its also part of growing. Probably a phase that your age group/generation is going through.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah so I guess I have to be a fuckboy.

[whatsgoingonwithme]

If you want to be a fuckboy then by all means, do what makes you happy. But never regret your actions.

[LonelyGuy87]

Girls are the ones making guys become fuckboys. Girls created the fuckboy.

[whatsgoingonwithme]

No my friend you are making yourself a fuckboy cause you just want someone. Females don't focus you to do anything. They might influence your decision, but not forcing you to become a fuckboy. You chose it because for some reason you need attention from girls right now, but can't toughen up and stay true to your character. If you want to be one, then be one but don't look for an excuse or some pity of being one.

[LonelyGuy87]

Being a fuckboy is the only way to win.

[whatsgoingonwithme]

With whatever competition you think it is, go ahead.

[newbie2015]

most women i know pretend to like casual sex until they find a relationship. either you are not relationship material and you need to work on you OR they are trying to play it cool. and if you fuck up they would rather salvage their pride then admitt tou hurt them. very few are just sex for sex. its likely you who is dictating the direction. so figure it out and go from there.

[LonelyGuy87]

Why are they having lots of casual sex if they want relationships? That doesn’t make sense

[newbie2015]

because they dont know how to get and keep men. they assume men only want aex. but men have feelings! and want relationships! but they are feeding off the belief that men want a woman for sex. this is not true

[LCJ76]

Relationships only, I don't want meaningless sex. I'd only want sex with someone I have a strong connection with.

[LonelyGuy87]

You are probably in the 1% of women who still think like that.

[JanuaryCanine]

Relationship only. Sex means something to me and I have zero interest in having meaningless sex with a random person.

[LonelyGuy87]

Wow! It’s good to see girls out there with such strong values.

[JanuaryCanine]

In response to your update, why do you care so much whether some girls have casual sex or not? At the end of the day, it’s their lives to live how they want. You don’t need to get so worked up over it.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah true but the vast majority just want sex so that affects me as I want more than just sex, get why I care?

[JanuaryCanine]

No, the vast majority don’t. And there are girls out there who only want relationships and not just sex. So relax and get on with your life and stop worrying about what others are doing.

[LonelyGuy87]

Really? I’m sorry but I don’t believe that. It seems like most girls are hoes but maybe I’m just wrong, but a lot of people do agree with me.

[JanuaryCanine]

Yes you likely are just wrong. But back to the point I’m trying to make: stop worrying about what others are doing and focus on your own life.

[LonelyGuy87]

But it directly affects my life though.

[JanuaryCanine]

No it doesn’t. Other people’s actions (people who you don’t even know) don’t affect your life. The only person who affects your life is you. Don’t blame other people like that because you’re just going to end up being bitter and lonely if you carry on.

[LonelyGuy87]

I’m gonna be alone anyways because I refuse to date modern girls. I don’t wanna catch STDs. I also have dignity and I’m not gonna let some girl use me for a settle. Women are so horrible I don’t know why. I really wish they weren’t.

[JanuaryCanine]

Generalizing like that is not good and that alone is why you’re going to be alone. You think all girls have STD’s? That’s very offensive and very narrow minded. And back to the point I originally was making: you control your life, no one else. Don’t blame others and please stop generalizing because it’s offensive to an awful lot of women who aren’t what you describe at all. Have a nice life.

[LonelyGuy87]

Alraight alright

[Itismeagain]

I never have had causal sex, and I never could. It's disgusting.

[LonelyGuy87]

Why do so many girls do it though?

[Itismeagain]

Same reason guys do it.

[Itismeagain]

That's not true at all. I'm not a slut and I know tons of girls that aren't. Maybe just don't go after the slutty ones

[Anonymous]

Lol 'I'm considering on becomig a fuckboi"
Are you good looking enough to do so?

[LonelyGuy87]

Actually I am. Girls are easy to get into bed so it isn’t hard to become one. Fuckboys are great.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then good for you

[LonelyGuy87]

There’s no point in looking for relationships with girls anymore. Being a fuckboy is the way to go.

[Opinion Owner]

If you say so, it's your personal life expiriences that made you form that opinion. I can't make you just change your mind with a comment.

[LonelyGuy87]

It’s not really personal life experiences, just observations as well as hearing stories from people. Not to mention many people online agree with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, none of the two arw calid reasons

[LonelyGuy87]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Excuse me I meant *valid reasons.
1) People have expiriences of everything, so if you hear prom people that drive that got into accidents does that means that because of them you'll stop driving?
Lol of course not.
2) People on the internet isn't exactly who you should be taking advice from, most people here are 30 year old virgins that do nothing in their life

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah maybe. But in general young women are known for being massive hoes, especially at college. Don’t know whyZ

[Opinion Owner]

In USA probably, not in other countries though

[LonelyGuy87]

In USA & Europe. Australia too.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol nope

[blackandmint]

Didn’t I make myself clear in the previous questions I answered? I’m not someone who’s into hook ups. I even have a long term relationship now.

[NEW_YUKI]

i don't want sex&relationships
i just wanna get money

[Anonymous]

Relationships. I could care less about sex. And I would never have casual sex. That's just asking for STDs

[Anonymous]

Relationships—I refuse to have sex before marriage.

[DaChillCookie]

Relationships. Like, no shit. What the fuck kinda question was that?

[LonelyGuy87]

Why are girls sleep around so much then?

[DaChillCookie]

Because most of them are hoes, or they can't deal with their own problems so they drown it out with sex

[DaChillCookie]

That's exactly what I do. I run away from my problems like a little bitch because they're too much for me. So I drown it out with sex and drugs

[LonelyGuy87]

You just conradicted yourself. You just said most girls are hoes who only want sex (and drugs). Like seriously?

[DaChillCookie]

Yes, most girls. Not all of them, puta. I'm very aware of how I do the same shit, that's why I put myself out there openly. I'm not afraid to own up to it.

[Jimarie496]

I want a relationship but nobody loves me so that why i have casual sex

[latinabutterfly96]

Men and women want relationships. We can get sex easily, but relationships? Not so easy.

[LonelyGuy87]

Why do people hookup so much then?

[latinabutterfly96]

It’s fun. That doesn’t mean we want relationships with them specifically tho

[LonelyGuy87]

Exactly so girls are just scumbags who go around using guys for sex and then settling (using) good guys for relationships. Disgusting.

[latinabutterfly96]

Lol guys aren’t angels. Don’t make me laugh

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah they aren’t but guys like me who actually want good quality girls to DATE have to become fuckboys. It’s the only way to deal with modern girls. I really hope girls are happy for killing dating. I hope they love all of the fuckboys THEY created!

[latinabutterfly96]

We’ll fuckboy aren’t even a threat to women, so it’s not like you’ll feel better by being one. But okay haha.

And no, girls didn’t kill dating. Guys just became dumber :p

[LonelyGuy87]

No, girls did kill dating. Fact.

[0asis]

@LonelyGuy87 It's only a fact if you have scientific evidence to back it up. Without evidence, it's merely a claim. So you got some scientific studies on 'girls killed dating' or nah?

[LonelyGuy87]

@0asis no it’s just common sense. Girls just want sex. They hate relationships. They only use good guys for relationships, and now guys know about this so we are all fuckboys. Women did kill dating...

[0asis]

Okay, well these are merely claims as that is completely untrue as there's many girls who don't solely want sex. Girls also don't hate relationships. So you're wrong again. This is coming from a girl. You're making generalizations.

These are all claims (therefore just your opinion) unless you provide evidence, such as a scientific study.

[latinabutterfly96]

@0asis He’s just sour and resentful cuz a girl clearly used his dumbass. Guys have to be smart if they don’t wanna be fucked over by girls then. Both genders have to respect one another. That doesn’t mean girls who love sex are whores. It’s human nature. And that doesn’t mean you can’t date a girl just because she has fucked 4 guys before.

[latinabutterfly96]

@LonelyGuy87 Being a fuckboy will make it worse for u lmao how is being a fuckboy going to help u at all. Lmao 🤣

[LonelyGuy87]

4 guys? I would say the average girl goes through 75+ men by the time she leaves college. I would think that's the norm. 4 is way too low.

@latinabutterfly96 yes becoming a fuckboy is the only way as girls just use men for sex and when they get bored they use a good guy to "settle" with. It's so fucking wrong. So that's why I feel like I have to be a fuckboy. Does that make sense?

[latinabutterfly96]

I mean I know what you’re saying but you’re not hurting anyone but yourself lmao 😂 fuckboys get even more used. So good luck I guess?

[athena223]

I’m pretty sure it’s because guys are always doing it and now for equality/payback females are doing it now too. Still wouldn’t do it tho

[LonelyGuy87]

Payback?

[LonelyGuy87]

So I have to suffer for the actions of others 200 years ago?

[athena223]

Lol 200 years ago? Most guys now have sex all the time using girls for their bodies.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah and girls use guys for their bodies. I've had girls tell me that I was worthless and only good for hookups because I am not bad looking. Girls do it more than guys.

[athena223]

Girls definitely do not do it more than guys. It used to be frowned upon for girls to act that way. Your guy friends they talk about sex a lot right?

[LonelyGuy87]

Yes. Girls talk about sex a lot as well and encourage their friends to hookup with guys. They also brag about sleeping around.

[athena223]

Ok I’ve never met a girl who brags about sleeping around maybe getting head but 🤷‍♀️ I’m going to make a poll

[LonelyGuy87]

Girls brag about giving head? Wow.

[athena223]

Noo lol they bragged about getting head.

[LonelyGuy87]

What kinda guy gives head ahaha. Anyways, I am depressed over all of this.

[athena223]

Actually some girls do brag about giving good head and I don’t mess with guys that don’t give head 🤣🤷‍♀️. Anyways don’t be depressed over it everybody isn’t the same.

[athena223]

Look at the poll it proved my point 👏

[nextdoorgirl]

Casual sex!!
Relationships are just way to do enjoy mono sex. Nobody can be monogamous for a longer time. It has to come to an end. Nothing last forever. So be mature and have fun life.

[LonelyGuy87]

88% do not have a hatred for men like you do.

[nextdoorgirl]

I'm just sharing my opinion because you asked me to. I won't answer you anything from now.

[LonelyGuy87]

Why not?

[nextdoorgirl]

Because you are very disrespecting girls. Think you're acting like that in front of those 0.1% you like. Respect humans.

[LonelyGuy87]

Women don’t respect men so why should I respect them?

[Pink2000]

I prefer a relationship

[AquaBoo]

Relationship. I can't do just sex.

[LonelyGuy87]

You are the 1% of girls. Wow.

[AquaBoo]

It says I'm in the 99%

[AquaBoo]

95%*

[LonelyGuy87]

No those girls want relationships but they've most likely had loads of casual sex as well.

[AquaBoo]

And? How does that concern you? It doesn't. Are you a virgin? Are you looking for a virgin? What do you want for a wife? And angel or something?

[AquaBoo]

An**

[LonelyGuy87]

I'm never gonna marry a modern woman - any guy who does is a fucking idiot. All girls want is sex, so that's all they're getting from me.

[AquaBoo]

Then you're contributing to the very thing you despise.

[LonelyGuy87]

Yeah because guess what? - I have to do this. It's not my fault. If girls didn't act like wild animals I wouldn't have to be a fuckboy.

[AquaBoo]

Men like you made us this way. You told us that this is all we are good for. That this is all we want and you like us this way. And soon you guys got in our heads. And now we believe the lies.

[muffin-pie]

Both...

[muffin-pie]

RELATIONSHIPS SUCKS PEOPLE... haha