My friend is ALWAYS bragging about her body. It’s making me insecure, what do I say?

[Billie_]

Particularly her boobs. She’s always talking about her boobs are so much bigger than mine and it’s starting to get on my nerves. She’s a 36E and I’m a 32D, and I was very confident in my body until she started saying all this stuff.

She also randomly comes out with things like, “My ass looks so small today” when it obviously doesn’t and she’s clearly fishing for compliments.

She often shows off her body around the boys and has no problem with them sexualising and catcalling her.

Anyway, it’s making me really insecure about how I look. What should I say to her to make her stop? (Btw she’s EXTREMELY sensitive this needs to be worded carefully.)

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Update: I don’t know why people think I don’t work out? I have curves but they’re small, and my boobs aren’t even a small size so I don’t really understand, people are basically just saying that she is hotter than me so I need to get over it. Thank you so much.

[GirlGuy123]

Well Billie I personally think you are really cute.😊
You don't need to feel insecure or anything. I am 200%😂 sure there are a ton of guys who would love to be with you.
You have a nice body, a sweet smile and a sexy British accent. You have all the goods to be called a 'Blonde Bombshell'.
And Bille would you love that all the guys are sexualizing you and making lewd gestures or would you prefer being you and let the good ones who adore you make a move.
32D boobs are super hot and trust me ok because I mean it.
In case your friends tries to get on your nerves or irritates you too much you can say these things.
Suppose her name is 'Alice'
"Alice you know Roses are red Violets are blue, God has made me pretty, so please girl don't compare me with you".😎
Or if she says that you ain't getting the guys you can say
"Well I am a limited edition. So I am not everybody's cup of tea"😎
Or
"Well I am not dressed up to impress them".
and things like that.
You are special.
Yeah you are not 'Good looking' You are 'Super good looking'.
Be confident, keep smiling, stay happy and you will surely meet an amazing person.😊

[Nik1hil]

See she feels bad insecure about herself and she uses you to compare herself to you to make herself feel better..

You don't have a very beautiful shape so relax.. And exercise and eat healthy maintain it..
You have 2 choices here..

1) either break friendship so you don't feel bad about yourself..
2) you let her feel good about herself by comparing with you so she stays happy..

But if you let her feel good this phase will pass and you will be bigger person and mature person here.. That's how we men make great friends.. We watch for each other

Besides a women has lot to offer as a partner that just her body and chest size...

[Nik1hil]

You do* have a very beautiful shape so relax..

[Nik1hil]

So what did you decide

[pageturner]

If she makes you feel bad, it's maybe best to distance yourself from her, which I know is hard cus I've just had to do it recently, but it's best in the long term.

[EclipseoftheHeart]

Tell her she is like a prawn to guys - What do you do with prawns, remove the head and keep the body. So in other words she is just a body without a head or brain.

[Sevenpointfive]

people that fish for compliments need constant reassurance that they are good enough. if you were to say to her you actually grew a cup size and were equal to hers she'd freak out. i don't really associate with people like her and most guys wouldn't tolerate it unless she's really that hot.

[24brownish]

Hmmm. Well.. i read somewhere else u had the orange shape.. in that question u were the only one who had an orange shape.. regardless of size.. that shape itself should make u feel superior.. did u consider that it may be not her words that r making u insecure.. probably smth else like the way she acts around boys.. u r much more decent in dressing i can see.. so u can't compete in revealing what u have.

[MlleCake]

Tell her to stop talking about looks all the time. It's boring.

[OlderAndWiser]

"If a girl didn't know you, she might think you're stuck on yourself, and if a guy didn't know you, he might think that all you have to offer is your body."

[boggboss]

This is silly why would you be insecure because you're friend body is also nice that matters not

[Billie_]

Because she makes me feel bad about mine.

[boggboss]

So she specifically says you're body is wack?

[Billie_]

I remember once I said to her that we’re the same clothing size and she went, “But my boobs are bigger” instantly as if she’s trying to make me feel bad

[boggboss]

But her boobs are bigger so she was not wrong I believe you are taking things personal hun

[Billie_]

Yes, I know that. She reminds me every day. I don’t see how that statement was relevant to the conversation we were having.

[boggboss]

No matter what is said or what you did guys will compare you two because even if you have the same cloths size the body's where differnt you're comment could have sounded to here that u was saying you have the same body types when u don't

[boggboss]

Also why is it that just because she has bigger breats that means u don't look as good her beauty don't effect yours?

[Billie_]

Wow, thanks for making me feel shitty about myself. Guess she was right.

[boggboss]

Wait what are u talking about

[boggboss]

You and her are not connected just because she has bigger breasts don't mean u don't look beautiful

[jolly97xo]

She feels self conscious about herself which is why she’s always begging for compliments. Girls who have confidence don’t need reassuring all the time. P. s follow me on here so I can private message you? Wanna ask you something ☺️

[Dondelino]

Work on your body... become hotter... brag about it to your friend... see the jealousy manifest in her face

[pizzalovershouse]

to me bigger than double d, s I wouldn't want to date cuz she is going to have back problems most plastic surgeons say to reduce if over double d, s or if back pain with d cup

[pizzalovershouse]

plus are you the 1 on the right side in photo an let me guess friend or sister I say must be a friend but I'm probably wrong

[pizzalovershouse]

also never be ashamed of your body if your fit an in good health then be proud of who you are I hope to learn more about you sense I grew up being told I was ugly till I out grew my pimply face as a teen then i noticed girls thought I was cute or handsum depending on what girl you asked

[motownplayer2000]

Stop comparing yourself to her. And be happy with you. Then workout to be healthy and you will take a lot of stress off yourself

[Anonymous]

Laugh at her for being so pathetic! Smile inwardly, as YOU know you are just as good, if not, BETTER!!

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Which one are you in your profile picture? is she the other one?

[Billie_]

I’m the blonde one but she’s not in my profile picture, the girl in my picture is my best friend haha

[SuccessfulHornDog]

both the girls are blonde

[Billie_]

I’m the one on the left, then. Also my friend has frosted tips on her hair she’s not blonde.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

you're way better looking. I don't think your over friend should make you feel self conscious

[Karthik_1411]

Friends always mess like this...
Cuz I have many to deal with..😃
Don't feel for such weird stuff (convo)...😅

[aaa9501]

You're beautiful, you shouldn't be insecure. Also 32D is a very nice size too

[Billie_]

I feel insecure standing next to her in front of the guys. I feel like they’re comparing us.

[aaa9501]

They probably are comparing you two, but they're definitely rating you higher than her

[Billie_]

Yeah I highly doubt that. Guys always talk to her instead of me, I’m starting to believe that what she says is true.

[aaa9501]

Bigger boobs aren't everything though

[Anonymous]

I'd need to see you both to know for sure, but 32Ds could be better than 36Es since it likely means she's a good deal heavier than you.

[Billie_]

Yeah she has a bit of a stomach on her

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that's what I'd guess. Based just on the numbers (and assuming you're both wearing the right bra size, which we can't know without seeing you) the fact that she's a 36 back size and you're a 32 would suggest she's a fair bit heavier. Therefore your your boobs while smaller may look a lot bigger on your small frame.

[Anonymous]

maybe she's secretly insecure about her body compared to yours so she has to keep saying that stuff. I know I would be. ;)

[Straight_Shooter]

When she's 40 and has horrible back problems ask her how she likes her 36E boobs.

[Ellie-V]

Just cut the bitch off. She’s a tacky friend.

[truthbeknown]

Ask her how she manages her stretch marks.

[EmmaMary]

You just very simply ask her nicely to stop.

[Guanfei]

Tell her she looks like shit.