I have big boobs ( a D cup). I’m not proud of it because I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder which mean that some men may like it while there are some that prefer small breast. I was talking about it with a « friend » and then she said: yep! Small boobs are the best! I bet you’re even jealous of me sometimes because I never look like a cow unlike you! Haha. I was truly offended, but I kept it cool. But I noticed that there is another woman that said God gives either breasts or a brain, and the bigger the breasts the smaller the brain. I know it’s a stupid quote but I was only 11 when I listened to her and I already started to have boobs, so I started to feel ashamed of it. And the fact that I was blonde make it even worse because whenever I get a bad mark at school a girl will claim that it’s not a surprise from a big breasted blonde. I wasn’t a bad student, but those sentences made me loose my self esteem as a pre-teen. But now I am starting to get pissed off when I see all the women claiming that « brunettes have more fun » or « small breasts are so much sexier ». Can’t they just be confident instead of putting the others down?
Why are some women so proud at the point of putting the others down?
THIS. I totally understand where you are coming from, and I, too wish women would help each other up instead of putting each other down. Unfortunately, that girl was most likely insecure with herself and therefore felt the need to make you feel bad so she could feel better. I have sympathy, though for the girl, only because she was 11 and has probably matured since then. As for the whole big boobs equal smaller brains thing, there have actually been studies that show women with bigger boobs are actually more intelligent then their small breasted counterparts. (And this is coming from a B cup girl!) If you want other women to stop putting each other down, I suggest that you bring other women up. Congratulate them even on small accomplishments. Compliment them when you like their hair or outfits. Trust me, its infectious and will spread positive vibes faster than the speed of light! :)
I had the weirdest experience with this neighbor I had when I was in Junior High.
She was getting pretty big breasts and I already had very large breasts. She would tell me all the time how hers were bigger and I wasn't wearing a bra enough. The thing is, I was perfectly happy with my breast size because they were already a D cup. Like, who needs more than that? I was like *shrug* "I don't care." I don't even know whose were actually bigger because I didn't care to find out.
Ahh.. the jealousy smh. Well it's pretty obvious that they envy you. Which good looking person doesn't have haters? And the things they came up with 'the bigger the breast, the smaller the brain'.. lol really 😂? And also that 'brunettes have more fun'? Lol from what I have heard, generally, it goes for the blondes. They're just insecure and you shouldn't bang your head with them. Keeping it cool and probably ending up with good comeback is surely gonna make them hate you more 😉. Otherwise, you can just smirk upon their jealousy and move on 😏.
Most women are very insecure, and when you are insecure... you project that insecurity. If you convince yourself that this quality you have is better than those around you, or see someone who has a similar quality you dislike in yourself - you tend to bring them down as horrible as it is. You can blame the media etc because it plays an influence on that internalised insecurity, however this isn't mutually exclusive to just women. Another reason would be that girls are taught to not be aggressive and "bolshy" so they tend to take things out snakily, bitchy, and through taking each other down mentally. It's sad but just how it be sometimes
First dont listen to them. I had a girlfriend with blond hair and D breasts. She was an exelent student one of the top in class. And no she didn't have sex with profesors because lots of my friends go same university as she and they said she was kicking ass on exams she knew everything and even help them study. Also fashion dictates trend and right now small boobs are fashion, its just a trend. Every normal guy prefer big boobs over small. And that "friend" of yours is just jelaous, she envy you on big breasts so she saw a moment to heal her own "wound" and put you down, she must saw hundreds of guys looking at your breasts and nobody looked at her, but its not your fault, its nature, so she started to feel low and you gave her opportunity for revenge. Dont worry majority of guys likes big breast no matter what fashion says. Be confident, head up and kick some ass
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Take it as being insecure. Also take it that she is jealous of you so she tries to justify to herself that she's better. Competition in girls can be gross and dumb. But it exists because of our own insecurities. Don't take it to heart because all people have against you are words. But no integrity.
That's just how some people are. You just have to ignore people who are like that. You can't help being the way you are so you should just embrace it. Hair colour, breast size, body shape or any physical aspect of you has nothing to do with your brain.
you noticed the crux of the problem. Women are far more likely to put other women down, and far more likely to slut shame.. Reason being is jealousy and their competitive nature with other women. You should be proud of who you are. what others say to you matters not to who you actually are.
When they put others down they have low self esteem. Women who build each other up have self esteems.
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Women are vicious bullies. Women are generally mean. Even when they are nice to each other they are often faking it, and when they are purposefully mean they are ruthless horrible psychopaths.
Men generally are mean to each other and don't mean it, or if they do mean it they are blunt about it and sort their shit out. They don't try and destroy the person's existence, life, job, reputation, etc.
It's traditionally said that blonds have more fun and bigger tits are better. Why are you getting butthurt just because now they're talking shit about you rather than the other way around?
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Girl i feel you. I am like you , i have big boobs. I also have a good looking face. Im also not dumb and get good grades. Other girls HATE me. I have everything they dont , and thats honestly why theyre hating. Its pure jealousy. She said looking like a cow? Lol well at least you dont look like a flat chested 12 year old boy. Sounds harsh? Well stand up for yourself just as harsh. Those jealous bitches want u to feel bad about what you have been blessed with.
I can see your point but if you are not happy with them how do you expect others will.. you have to sell them, not literally but, push them as if they bare your best asset !!!
Don’t be butthurt. Consider yourself lucky. You have everything media and, people in general, have made girls want. And with that blessing comes the insecurity and jealousy of other less fortunate girls. You’re going to have to learn to deal with it.
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Anonymous
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Just ignore her. She's probably jealous of your awesome endowments. One thing is for certain--no guy has ever gotten an incredible titty fuck from a girl with small boobs!
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