What does it mean when you ask a guy to hangout and he says sure?

[Pt5050]

Last weekend I met this guy at a party and we hit it off really well, just casual talk some dancing and then we exchanged numbers, and eventually kissed. That's as far as it went. I waited a couple of days later and decided to text him, he answered. We tlk every other day now but I always Initiate cause he seems like a shy guy and I don't want to let the opportunity pass me by. Today I asked if he wanted to hangout sometime and he said, " sure, not sure when I'm free next but we will work something out." what does that mean and is he interested?

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Ok we picked a day not what should we do?

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I asked what he would like to do and he says that he doesn't care :/ I don't know what to do or think lol

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Ok so we hangout, got some frozen yogurt, I continued to initiate contact until last thusday and then I just stopes initiating to see what would happen and then lastnight he sends me a text saying " happy Valentine's day! How was your weekend?".

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Is He more Interested? I'm not sure what to think

[LukeLockehart]

That's a pretty shady answer. Guys will almost never straight up tell a girl they don't want to see her. If a guy doesn't want to see a girl he will either disappear, not respond the message, or say something vague like he did above with ,"sure, not sure when I'm free but we will work something out."

Even if this guy is shy, you've done your part to let him know what he needs to know. Ball is in his court now.

If you want to send one last text, you could do something like: "Well I got some thing to do tonight and Thurs. but I'm free either Friday or Sunday. Let me know if one of those are good for?"

Its good to always give someone two options, and also not make it seem like you're are 100% available whenever he is.

After that text though, you've done all you can to help a shy guy. If he is interested he will either take you up on one of those two days, or will make a point to tell you, he can't then but he really does want to see you.

But I wouldn't hold your breathe after you text him because the signs aren't looking that great. If you don't hear a reply by Sunday. On TO THE NEXT ONE!

Good Luck girl... Keep us posted!

Luke Lockehart

[Pt5050]

Why does he always text me back and act fine if he isn't interested?

[Pt5050]

He agreed to us hanging out but now I don't know any good ideas for what to do. I asked him and he said he doesn't care so now I'm nervous on what to do and it seems as though I'm forcing him on this date. I don't know what to think.

[LukeLockehart]

He's either not interested or just indecisive...

Choose something you want to do, and ask him if he would like to do it. I would ask if he wants to grab some coffee and chat, something casual because you don't want to ask him to dinner, and a movie just wouldn't really be appropriate.