I'm always shy as I'm only 4ft6 but I'm not unattractive
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Most girls aren't insecure about their height. But yeah i see why 4'6 would make you shy. However you are making it a big deal by mentioning it and calling your username it.
Well just deal with it and dont be intimidated by it. I know tons of girls who might as well be up to my chest , super petite , but they dont care and neither do most people. They just notice your height but no one is actually gonna see it good or bad. Plus if you're hot you're hot , whether you're 4'sth (ariana grande, kylie minogue , etc) or 6'1( karlie kloss and many models are 5'7-6'2 ) .
I know tall dudes who are big asf as well and girls taller than me , i really do not feel anything. I just say 'oh that is a tall/medium/short person' in my subconscious or sometimes conscious mind but for like 3 seconds and that is it. I legit feel nothing. No intimidation or anything like that.
Yes girl , i interact daily with fat, skinny , obese , anorexic , super duper short (some even with dwarfism) , super tall ( dudes who are 6'5+ ) or tall girl , average height , stinky , super clean, bitchy , thicc , attractive and everything in between. I feel absolutely nothing around those people , because im not too busy worrying about how they make me feel. Im busy tending to myself and my own needs first.
Because they are insecure inside... doesn't matter about the outside.
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For me because I don’t have a great career, I live my parents, and I have anxiety that has prevented me from progressing but I’m pretty, a nice dresser and have a lovely personality.
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Maybe they don't see themselves as attractive or perhaps their low self-esteem is unrelated to their physical appearance,
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I'm always shy as I'm only 4ft6 but I'm not unattractive
Most girls aren't insecure about their height.
But yeah i see why 4'6 would make you shy.
However you are making it a big deal by mentioning it and calling your username it.
I see this as a way to make light of it. I'm not worried in myself, but when I have a girl wit legs as long as me next to me, its intimidating
Well just deal with it and dont be intimidated by it.
I know tons of girls who might as well be up to my chest , super petite , but they dont care and neither do most people. They just notice your height but no one is actually gonna see it good or bad.
Plus if you're hot you're hot , whether you're 4'sth (ariana grande, kylie minogue , etc) or 6'1( karlie kloss and many models are 5'7-6'2 ) .
They're both 5ft. I'm not saying I'm unhappy with my height but try standing next to simeone with legs longer than you, its scary
I know tall dudes who are big asf as well and girls taller than me , i really do not feel anything. I just say 'oh that is a tall/medium/short person' in my subconscious or sometimes conscious mind but for like 3 seconds and that is it.
I legit feel nothing. No intimidation or anything like that.
I'm not saying just walking past, but actually interacting with them
Yes girl , i interact daily with fat, skinny , obese , anorexic , super duper short (some even with dwarfism) , super tall ( dudes who are 6'5+ ) or tall girl , average height , stinky , super clean, bitchy , thicc , attractive and everything in between.
I feel absolutely nothing around those people , because im not too busy worrying about how they make me feel. Im busy tending to myself and my own needs first.
Because being attractive doesn't make the world a less shitty place.
Not sure but probably cause they have been judged before
because they probably have been judged before or feel like people don't like them
Our mind knows everything about us & he always find a way to take us down if we don't follow his orders..
People are assholes. People judge, get jealous, ruin others, all of which contribute to low self esteem or worse
bullying, shitty experiences, depression, maybe her parents made her that way.
Because low self esteem is a psychological thing, and it arguably doesn’t have anything to do with ones physical appearance
Generally because of people's jealousy. People try to prove them how they are not attractive to catch their attention. It is sad.
being beautiful is only the tip of the iceberg your looking at 10% out of 90% there more to people then just being attractive
I’ve found pretty girls are really hard on themselves about any flaw they have because maybe it sticks out more 🤷♂️
Cause your self esteem isn't only based on your looks, more on your vibes with yourself
Perhaps they have a disorder. Hard to say with out knowing ther person and their personality
Because they are insecure inside... doesn't matter about the outside.
For me because I don’t have a great career, I live my parents, and I have anxiety that has prevented me from progressing but I’m pretty, a nice dresser and have a lovely personality.
Because we all have traumas and problems in our life. Including an attractive girl.
Because looks are a subjective thing?
Agree
Abandonment? Rejection? Family issues? Abuse?
I don't know you tell me