Me and my girl is exactly same in hight but she wears heels and gets taller than me. I don't feel good about it what should I do?

[Anonymous]

We both are like 170cm but when she's on heels she is 176 and I look shorter than her... And i dont feel good about it 🙄 why she needs to become taller even if we are on same hight but she loves heels and i dont know what to do because i feel bad if i ask her to give up heels.. what should i do?
I just put this image to relate 😅

[EmbraceThePain]

I personally wouldn’t care if my woman towered over me with or without heels. It’s just not something I’m concerned with or care about, but I understand many women and men care. If you’re worried about figure out why you’re worried about it and find ways to think logically about solving your worry. You might find that it is not a big deal at all and you’ll get over it quickly. There’s many ways to think about this, but you’ll have to figure those out on your own. If you want to equalize your height more then wear some boots or shoe lifts that give you a boost in height or talk to your woman about how her wearing heels makes you feel.

[btbc92]

Common rule of thumb if you don't date anybody you not going to be proud of being with, and regardless of your insecurities. If you feel like her height makes you emasculated as a man, you should not have to ask her to give up her heels even though I don't agree with wearing them. But you can't tell me what to wear and what not to wear, specially when you're not married. Overall I just think that you don't need to be dating her and just find somebody who you can really appreciate it. I'm not saying you're wrong, and I'm not saying she's wrong. You both are just not for each other.

[Asker]

As you said it would have been fine if i asked her to give up if she was married to me?🤔

[btbc92]

Well, naturally she would have to agree with it otherwise your going to have a fight on your hands. Maybe not take it too personally? Otherwise, if its that important to you discuss this insecurity with her. If she gets upset, let the relationship go.

[Lu_loo]

Talk to her about it. Come to a compromise on events you would like her to wear flats to. But don’t keep her from wearing them completely. You need to be confident with who you are and proud you have a tall woman by your side. I’m tall, 5’8 and usually met guys my height. And i love to wear heels, that boost our confidence and make us feel beautiful. So don’t take that away from her. Just come to a compromise.

[Asker]

Sometimes I really wish i was taller😅

[Donteeechoose]

Um wtf is up with the height questions on this website?
Just get over it , stop being so sensitive. I'm sure you're not perfect either but she ain't complaining.
If I towered in heels over say a 5'4 man I wouldn't care as long as he didn't care.
If you can't get over it at least let her know so she can get over you 🙄

[Asker]

Seriously? I'm looking here for some solutions and you fucking idiot want her to leave me? Do only women have rights to be insecure.. i dont your fucking opinion

[Donteeechoose]

No but you're being insecure over something very stupid. She is taller than you in heels , so what? If you really like her , this wouldn't be an issue. If anything you'd support her very much for wanting to wear heels and feel beautiful and do whatever she wants.
Why is this even a problem? It's just height and she is only taller than you in heels. Lots of women I meet sometimes are taller than their men without heels , even some celebrities and that says a lot! That it shouldn't matter. Work on your insecurity, figure out where it's coming from and if you can't get over it , then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

[Asker]

Now compare your first opinion and this one.. i just wanted to know if we both can be in same hight why she needs to feel taller can't she also think about it being in a relationship.. okay I'll get over it and will be fine with this she is free she can do whatever she wants but can't she be little bit concerned about me too?

[Donteeechoose]

Well most girls want an alpha male hunk super tall man. But she didn't want that and she wants you. And why wants to be taller or wear heels is up to her , maybe she just likes heels or being taller. That's her preference.
She chose you and I'm assuming she doesn't complain about your looks or choices , the fact that she wears heels around you and isn't concerned that you aren't some big 6'4 dude should be enough reason for you to not complain about this.

[Asker]

I'm not complaining about it I'm just trying to figure out a reason to get over it that's why i need opinions

[Donteeechoose]

You will have to figure that out on your own

[Asker]

I'm working on it but thanks for your support ✌

[Violethemmings]

I would say try lifts, they are instyle. Just an idea.

[StingRayxoxo]

Dont ask her to give up heels. I think you should really consider why it is so bad that she is slightly taller than you in heels.

[I_smell_Ducky]

Why the fuck are you insecure while dating a beautiful woman?

[brittslitt]

😭🤣🤣😭 no filter

[I_smell_Ducky]

@brittslitt that's kinda my thing.

[Asker]

Only women has right to be insecure?

[Asker]

I'm trying to get over it if you can't do about it at least don't be rude

[I_smell_Ducky]

Oh, it's stupid when we do it too.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I need to know that if I'm being worried for no reason or it's natural to me act like this

[I_smell_Ducky]

Fuck if I know. I'm not a god damn therapist.

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂😂

[Logorithim]

i wouldn't worry about this.

[Izumiblu]

She’s fine with it you need to be fine with it.

[YesIm4Foot9]

Not much you can do. Not care?

[MlleCake]

Get over it.

[_Harley_Quinn_]

Get over it duh

[brittslitt]

🤣😭omg dang

[_Harley_Quinn_]

Lmao😂😆😁

[TheSpartan]

Get over it.