Mysterious people are ghosts. Edgar Allan Poe was attracted to a ghost once.
You have to be aware of all of the variables.
"Mysterious" people could be criminals, people who are too insecure to express how they feel, and people who are dissociated because of drug use. The problem is that you're unconsciously suspicious of these people but you were taught what to interpret as suspicious behavior and to be attracted to people of the opposite gender who seem suspicious, Mr. Detective. You're looking for your partner in crime by profiling people.
I could simply avoid talking about personal subjects and boom, mystery, because somehow the girl doesn't think that's a red flag. I might be able to get away with something if she doesn't ask any more questions.
I've only talked to one woman who avoided personal subjects and I did not trust her. I stopped trusting her when she consistently displayed this "mysterious" (paranoid) behavior.
The mystery has to be worth the price of admission. So if the D is good and he listens and carries conversations well... that's a mystery that can captivate an audience. See? That's why this stereotype is so invariably linked with "artists" and ENFP personality types.
If you're a magician then you need a finale. That's what your female admirers are waiting on. They want the big show. They want you to become a star. They don't even really care if they stick around for everything, really, just the same as a stupid magician is always trying to solve others problems and ignore his own.
The dream of the mystery man is eternal travel and glorious romance. It's a dream. It's being in love with the wind, and what woman wants to be the mistress to that?
Yes i kinda like them cause it's makes me feel like there is something great in their personality but i want them to open up for me and if they don't then i lost interest and most of the time they are fake and just pretend to be mysterious so... you never know
Mysterious men are sought after because of the curiosity factor, the more you are curious about something the more your mind is occupied with that subject and people mistake that preoccupation with love.
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I’ve been told I’m mysterious. I have no idea why. I’m friendly, open, and honest and willing to talk about myself and my feelings and all that shit. All the girls saying they don’t like mysterious men make it sound like I’m the total opposite of a mysterious man but I’ve had the comment several times. It baffles me to be honest I don’t get it at all.
I don't know everything about my husband, he is smart beyond me. He reads a lot of text books on computer related things, takes a lot of exams, passes a lot of certification exams and can do certain jobs i could never. That's why he is mysterious, like a magical wizard... from some fiction world.
I don't like mysterious men. I think it's better the person appear like a regular person; a human being and to be sure if we're compatible or not. Mysterious people makes me curious and I wants to know more about them, but it also irritates me. Men who refuse to talk can appear as either someone trying to be hard to get, boring or uninterested. To me it's a turnoff. I don't like players or people not contributing in the relationship.
No, I think it's annoying. I hate trying to figure men out. If I want to play games, I'll turn on my PS4.
Isn't everybody a mystery till you get to know them?
I am weird.. mysteries keep me interested.. Hope its not some sort of mental disorder, but i am kind of attracted towards crazy risk taking mysterious guys.
Nah, I don’t care about mysterious men. If a guy is good looking, nice and have goals in his life then that’s enough. I am too busy to handle a guy who can’t open up his feelings to me that easily
No. I have a hard enough time figuring out my own self. The last thing I need is a batman or James bond trying to "catch" me off my guard.
Oh, look who got his thesaurus out for the five dollar word.
What even IS a mysterious man?
The less she knows about him, the less human he seems. Women don't want a partner who's a human being, because that would mean she'd have to "put up with" treating him like an actual person instead of a machine that exists for her convenience.
I like to wonder if they're going to rape me. It's a mind trick I like to play on myself. Women know all men are either rapists at heart or actual rapists.
Mysteries never fade... They take on new dimensions... Always intriguing
only if he is tall and good looking then they like it.
if he is short and average well, she won't notice him.
Because women don't know the size of his pecker. They always want to know.
It does make me wonder if they will qualify a man, who has no social media at all as mysterious.
Many of them do find these guys interesting, especially if they find them attractive
But is the mystery worth it if your reward for solving it is a piece of cardboard?
The more mysterious they are the more drama and adventure found in the relationship
No, they sound frustrating and elusive.
I am curious and a mystery to me is an addiction
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