My crush showed all the signs of liking me and suddenly started ignoring me this week! What should I do?

[EccentricVigil]

So, I had been talking to my crush on Thursday, we talked about our interests, hobbies, and other things about our lives. Mind this, this was before Easter weekend. Tuesday comes, and I see her again, and she completely ignores me, no hi, no eye contact, like she did in the weeks before. I tried to get a glance from her, and did, but it never started any conversation! What does this mean? Why is she so distant from me all of a sudden? I haven't done anything wrong, and I also notice her friend looking at me in a positive way, has she lost interest? She had totally been showing that she was into me on Thursday, and the weeks before, this conversation made me really excited, because I thought something was going to start between us, when she did this to me this week, It really hurt me, and made me sad, thinking of what I did or said wrong. What should I do?

[TheFlak38]

Don't be sad. Get rid of negative feelings because your body language reflects that and females are by nature very good at spotting this. If you show negative feelings you signal that you're not confident. If you're not confident you don't attract many women. If you don't attract many women then she doesn't want to hang out with you.

Continue greeting her when you see her without becoming clingy. Let her come to you if she is interested. If she's not, do not hunt her down as she and society expects you to do. You're the male. You have important things to do and you can get other females if this one is not interested.

If you go out with her eventually, leave all the relationship bullshit behind you. Girls just want to have fun. She is not thinking of relationships. All she has in her mind is travelling, money and dicks in her pussy. A relationship might be the last thing she would consider at such a young age. Why stay with just one man when she can bang a billion more?

[Friendship_7]

You need to get this girl lone and talk with her and find out what she is thinking. Someone may have told her some wrong information and the only way to find out what is going on in her head is to have a talk with her - Alone!

[EccentricVigil]

I think its because she's been the one doing most of the flirting and work in the mutual bond we've created, maybe she's ignoring me now because she sees that I'm too shy to do anything when I see her, and she finds it a turn off that I never engage with her. I've made my mind, if she sits near me on Monday, I NEED to talk to her for my health and wellness, I need to find out what happened.

[Friendship_7]

Now you are thinking correctly, even if you are not able to talk to her when you want to, make it a point to make that meeting happen for you - If she feels that you were not interested in her and that was the reason for her change, then that is your sign to show this girl that you are. But she needs you to put in as much effort as she has been ( You should put in more ) - Just by paying more attention to her, telling her more things about you - she seems like she would like to become your girlfriend (If that is what you want. ). Gut keep making it a point to interact with her no matter what she tells you when you do talk with her. That is how you keep yourself on her mind and it will help her feel good about herself. She is interested in you - You just need to show her that you are just as interested in her. Message me if you feel I can be of more help to you.

[MNM230]

From my experience, I was afraid of coming off as showing too strong of an interest in a guy. I was afraid of rejection, so I backed off and started acting distant. She is either probably afraid of showing too much interest/shying away, or she might really not be interested. Since her friend is looking at you in a positive way, she could be showing signs of interest and your crush decided to back off a bit for the friend, or her friend could be trying to figure out whether or not you like her. There are so many ways you could go with this, haha. Things might start to become more clear if you ask her why she became so distant. Maybe try telling her how you feel? I try to talk to the guys I like at some point, maybe talking to your crush about the situation would sort it out!

[EccentricVigil]

Hey! Yeah! Honestly, the chick I'm talking about always seems to have this type of behaviour, she's definitely REALLY shy for some reason, and on Thursday SHE had to engage with me, and (if I were to assume) Sat on a computer near where me and my friends were sitting. It seems like she was gathering up the courage to do it, and finally did. The thing is, I have done almost nothing on my end, that could be a reason why.

[MNM230]

If you noticed that she must've needed to get the courage to talk to you, then there's an even greater possibility that she might like you.

[EccentricVigil]

Being in my last semester of Grade 12, I REALLY want her to be with me :( I only have 2 months to do something about it, I went through a pretty tough and depressing week because of the behaviour she gave me this week. I think, Monday, needs to be the day, I need to talk to her and see what she says, if in the case, nothing occurs, I will have to move on with my life and go to college, always thinking about her. I FREAKING regret not asking for her social media, or asking her to hang out on Tuesday, this pain could have EASILY been avoided, I NEED to engage now, she's probably tired of showing that she wants me to talk to her, and now is starting to ignore me because she finds that I'm too shy to start any conversations with her. She's on the school rugby team, and DID win a game this week, so I can go in with a smile and congratulate her.

[MNM230]

@EccentricVirgil
Do it! You won't regret it! Throughout high school (I'm 19 by the way, not 17. GAG messed up my age), I always wanted a guy to admit that he liked me. I heard guys talk about me behind my back
Some were positive (like she's cute, pretty, etc) and a bit were negative (ugly, weird) and I definitely would've been really flattered. Maybe she likes you too! Do you mind following me, by the way?

[MNM230]

I meant to say @EccentricVigil, not Virgil. Lol.

[EccentricVigil]

I should also add that she's a Muslim, Wears a headscarf. But, her green eyes and olive skin, and her face, and how she's flirty with me, makes me not care about that fact. Our own beliefs shouldn't separate our attraction from each other, in fact, it should make us closer. How dating and all that other jazz will go with this girl, I have no clue, but getting to know her, and getting to a point where we become really close, is what matter to me, then I can figure out the rest. Whats your take on this additional info about her?

[MNM230]

Do you mind if I send a message with my response to this? It's easier.

[EccentricVigil]

Sure, No problem with that.

[MNM230]

Thanks! Sent you the message! Hopefully you could help me out too.

[divspppp]

Ask her out. Maybe she likes you too, but a lot of times, the spark fades because someone or the other didn’t make the first move. Either that, or she probably found out u have a crush on her somehow and started ignoring you. Try asking her out, and see what she says. Even if she rejects you, don’t be dejected. at least then you’d know she wasn’t worth your time.

[PrincessGrail]

No way to tell from these facts. Could be anything.

[KatnCat]

Maybe she splaying hard to get

[Anonymous]

Grow some fking balls and ask her out.