What female body shape to you prefer? Because I'm rather confused, I'm starting to get increasingly confused and annoyed at all the different terminology, definitions and ideals. This is my body type, I'm get called a stick. Excuse me I have a nice butt and I'm a B cup... that's not a stick. Sure, both girls are skinny, but aren't they also curvy? I thought that thick meant this: A lucky girl whose fat is stored in the right places. But it seems to mean this: Girls can be so nasty to each other too: As a skinny girl, I'm told 'eat a burger' 'you're anorexia' etc, I'm expected to not complain. No man has ever said this to me. As far as I know, they prefer my body shape. So why are all these other women putting healthy women down? When obesity is a real medical condition that causes many negative externalities and costs to society.
Not to mention the number of songs that glorify disrespect to skinny girls,
Nicki Minaj - “Where my fat ass big bitches in the club? / Fuck the skinny bitches' Doctor Feelgood - “Unless you weigh, around 400 pounds / And I don't dig chawing bone.” Meghan Trainor - “ Go ahead and tell them skinny bitches that / I know you think you're fat.” Whilst Nicki Minaj is a talented, I don't understand how she can shame women, claim to be a feminist, and say 'my fat ass big bitches' like she is one of them, when she has butt and breast implants.
Anyway, what do you think? What's you preferred body type? What do you think about women shaming each other on their bodies? Are you for or against 'fat shaming' when the person in question is actually overweight? I'm mostly sad how different women treat each other. Yes, I think that overweight women should lose weight for their health, but I would never shame them. But they all too easily shame me.
Women only put you down for being slim out of jealousy. Since they get fat shamed, and since the new thing is to fight against fat shaming, they feel like it's okay to bash slim women.
The truth is that most men prefer slim women, or the curvy women who as you say store fat in the right places, as in they have an hourglass figure. We don't prefer overweight women.
Some guys might say that they prefer overweight women, but that's like a woman saying that she prefers an average looking or maybe even a less than average looking guy over a good looking guy. These are for reasons other than actually preferring their looks, it's more based on assumptions about their character.
When people say things like the above, usually it's because they assume that good looking people are somehow "stuck up", arrogant or whatever. What this really means is that their experience with good looking people that they've tried to talk to and date, and they all will have at some point, haven't been good.
For women with good looking guys maybe he seemed like a bit of a player - as in he wasn't interested in anything serious with her. For guys with good looking women maybe she was a little stand-offish because she just wasn't interested in him.
Ultimately this again comes from a kind of jealousy where they think that they don't really have a good chance with a good looking person, and therefore they criticise them instead, pretending that they prefer less good looking people.
The guys who say they like overweight women are guys who could not attract a slimmer woman. They just lie to themselves and to others that it's a real preference.
Overweight women of course love to believe that those men genuinely prefer them, so they cling to that. Then they bash slim women still out of jealousy, because perhaps on some level they know that it's bollocks.
Fat apologetics are really only a thing in the West. Their obesity rates have tripled in the last 40 years, at the current [linear] trend, the amount of overweight people in the US will reach 95%+ in the next 50 years (and the amount of obese people will sit at 65%+).
Skinny shaming has become a trend because the vast majority of people in the US are now of unhealthy weight. Being fat and lazy is the promoted mainstream, while healthy body mass and lifestyles are demonized. It is the reign of idiocracy.
What I personally think, is that it is a clown fiesta, obviously. The only body type I personally find attractive is the healthy kind. And I am also in favor of fatshaming, obesity is worse than smoking and alcoholism, and it should be treated accordingly.
My body type is quite similar to the second girl you posted and a girl like that would definitely get a lot of skinny shaming on Instagram since she's skinny while bigger girls are the ones who get praised all the time now. It is incredibly ridiculous how so many girls are hypocrites. Talk about body positivity and then shame skinny girls lol
Honestly, if you are healthy and feel good about yourself, that's all that should matter. Who cares what other people think of you. Everyone has different preferences as well. I always felt I was too skinny and that guys would want a girl with bigger tits and ass, but it is honestly not true. I've met many men who were actually interested in my body type. My boyfriend seriously loves my body from head to toe and finds me very sexy. And I'm skinny. While in high school, I've been called by girls: anorexic, a stick, flat chested, that no guy will ever want me cause I have no "curves", and etc lol it was just full of shit and probably just jealous girls who wish they had my body. Who knows.
But ya, I know how you feel since I'm in the same boat. I wish girls would stop body shaming. It is just ridiculous. Especially the ones who try to glorify body positivity.
I was super self conscious about being skinny. My first boyfriend loved smaller chests and skinniness, that made me feel better, so I relied on him to build be back up when I felt self conscious. When he broke up with me I started hating how I looked, until I realised I could re-assure myself. Lucky for that, cause my next boyfriend thought it was okay to tell me he wants me to fatter and get a bigger chest. He told me I should workout to get a bigger chest, because he wants it to be natural, and he used to send me through pictures of girls he'd want me to look like. Lucky I didn't give a shit cause I like myself the way I am. I'm not too skinny, I still got curves, but how the fuck can someone think it's alright to tell someone they're too skinny and they want them to gain weight? I'm so glad we broke up (it was because I wouldn't masturbate for him). He told me heaps of times that I'm dumb and he's smarter than me (he used to count all my 'blonde moments', which I do admit I have, but doesn't make me dumb), and he thought he loved me after a day, and couldn't accept the fact that I can't 'love' him after 3 days. I think I'm an asshole magnet.
I like the kind of body that houses a fascinating mind.
But you know, you just fat shamed when you implied the fatter woman didn't have fat in the right places and might not be entitled to use the word Thicc/Thick.
Different people find different things they find sexy. It's ok to be whatever size you are.
My current girlfriend is 5' 5", weighs 112 lbs., has a 34C bust, and a small butt. My ideal is 5' 1"-5' 3", weighs 110-115 lbs., has 32A-34B boobs, and a small butt.
Every guy has a different ideal. Some guys want a girl with humongous boobs and a ass the size of Delaware, some guys want dainty girls, som want girls in between, and some guys don;t have a strong preference.
Whatever your body type is, there are plenty of guys out there who want a girl who looks like you and some who won't want you. Ultimately, you only need one guy to want you for the rest of his life.
In my oppinion a girl's body type is fairly irrelivent. And if guys on the internet is anything to go by, a guy online will send a pic of his cock to anything with a vagina, so don't worry about your body type, there will be a guy out there for you. I'd be down to chat to you about it if you want, I'm probably about the closest to your age your gonna get on here.
A woman like the second girl will ALWAYS get attention for her body. Almost all in-shape women will, provided their face is average/cute and better. On Instagram, fat women may be glorified, sure. But NEVER in real life. Healthy lifestyles are promoted always.
It’s not complicated, healthy is attractive. Talk to your doctor and if they say you are healthy, that’s it. Everyone will have a preference and the truth is you can’t please everyone. As a guy there will never be one perfect body shape to attract all women. Just relax and focus on being healthy according to your doctor.
My preferred body type is my own body type also I believe it's dumb that some women shame bigger are smaller women also I'm always against shaming someone for there weight and when it comes to what men prefer most men would be just Happy to get anyone women of any healthy shape but usually the most preferred aesthetically body shape is fit but also thick in some places but most men don't mind.
Why do you care about what they say, you must only care for what man say tonyou cause you will end up with a man and if you have a man, what matters is how he see you, if he's happy than you shouldn't care about what others have to say.
People are always going to shame someone for something. Guys will have a type of body they find attractive but if they really like a girl, they won't care about that. My first boyfriend loved big chubby/curvy girls but he still dated me.
All women are sexy. The difference is confidence and how they carry themselves. The biggest turnoff for me are women who are beautiful and will use their looks to get anything and everything they want.
I prefer thick to fat. Skinny isn’t really my thing. I’m a bigger guy height and weight wise, and I’m afraid I might be too much for skinny chicks. There are definitely hot skinny chicks but I prefer a woman that I don’t have to worry about breaking. Now as far as body shaming, I think it can be right and wrong depending on the context it’s used in.
It's not about comparing yourself to other women. It's about feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin. I don't really care if anyone deems me too fat or too skinny. My opinion of myself is the only one that matters. Tc
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