Shy people, just need patience from people. They've been hurt a lot, and are also likely perfectionists, so, they're always looking for the right things to say/do. So, patience looks like being "mean", when really you just need to give them (us), time
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
the human race is retarded they spend their time watching the interactions between the human race HOW DO YOU THINK THEY SEE YOU?
dumb ignorant not smart nothing to offer stupid waste of time I can keep going down the list
shy people usually watch from a distance and see the stupidity in clear view
Ok? The very definition of a shy person is someone that's nervous to talk to others. You don't seem like an anxious person. Are you afraid to talk to me?
Then you aren't shy sweetie pie. I'm not shaming your view point, that's your right to see things that way. However, what you described in your first comment does not cohere to the meaning of being shy.
I was shy once also. Sometimes I couldn't even answer the front in my own house because of how self conscious and nervous I was. I never had thoughts like that circulate in my head like that. Not all shy people are like me I know that. Not all shy people are like you either.
What I usually think is "I'm going to screw up, they are not going to like me for it and they are going to reject me so I better stay put and STFU unless something relatable and safe comes up"
It's probably non verbal body language that makes other people think this way. When I'm in public, I don't smile much, busy in my own work/world and have a closed, defensive body language.
@namelessyoungold sorry I meant it could be lack of social manners and etiquette OR social autism /aspergers. I should of been more specific when I responded
"Social autism" doesn't exist, sweetheart. And keep your mouth shut if you're not part of the topic you're discussing about. It's like when you're white and you talk about your history of racism. Doesn't work.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
24Opinion
Shy people, just need patience from people. They've been hurt a lot, and are also likely perfectionists, so, they're always looking for the right things to say/do. So, patience looks like being "mean", when really you just need to give them (us), time
the human race is retarded
they spend their time watching the interactions between the human race
HOW DO YOU THINK THEY SEE YOU?
dumb
ignorant
not smart
nothing to offer
stupid
waste of time
I can keep going down the list
shy people usually watch from a distance and see the stupidity in clear view
That sounds sociopathic not shy.
@LadyLavender
when you believe a lie how else are we suppose to look at you?
and it's not just 1 it's many lies
Ok? The very definition of a shy person is someone that's nervous to talk to others. You don't seem like an anxious person. Are you afraid to talk to me?
@LadyLavender
why would I be lol no
That's not what shyness is.
Then you aren't shy sweetie pie. I'm not shaming your view point, that's your right to see things that way. However, what you described in your first comment does not cohere to the meaning of being shy.
@LadyLavender
I was once shy so I understand how they think
I was shy once also. Sometimes I couldn't even answer the front in my own house because of how self conscious and nervous I was. I never had thoughts like that circulate in my head like that. Not all shy people are like me I know that. Not all shy people are like you either.
What I usually think is "I'm going to screw up, they are not going to like me for it and they are going to reject me so I better stay put and STFU unless something relatable and safe comes up"
Personally most of the ones I befriend think I'm just psychotic enough to help them or defend them when necessary but the ones I meet are logical.
I think there revered reading people until their comfortable with people.
Because I don't talk to people unless I really need something or am spoken to...
It's probably non verbal body language that makes other people think this way. When I'm in public, I don't smile much, busy in my own work/world and have a closed, defensive body language.
"MAKE THIS END". But no, no one is trying to be rude.
They don't come across as rude. They are surrounded by morons.
Maybe they're thinking you're being judgmental. If you've never had a conversation why assume they're rude?
There being laid back reading the person or the room.
Lack of social manners and etiquette. Social autism aspergers
As a person with autism I KNOW that you're ignorant about all of this shit.
@namelessyoungold sorry I meant it could be lack of social manners and etiquette OR social autism /aspergers. I should of been more specific when I responded
"Social autism" doesn't exist, sweetheart. And keep your mouth shut if you're not part of the topic you're discussing about. It's like when you're white and you talk about your history of racism. Doesn't work.
@namelessyoungold actually it does exist and white people have been targets of racism for quite a while now by you libTARD democRATS SJWs
😂 You really believe everyone, don't you?
I’m also curious what shy people are thinking
You don’t want to know 😐 sometimes we don’t even know
@eshedd lol
Creating projects in my head or making faces out of clouds etc lol
@Warmapplecrumble sounds pretty cool ☁️
Always thinking about stuff lol.. to talk to someone I have to stop thinking and that takes lots of energy away from me
@Warmapplecrumble I seeeeee 🤔🧐
How to start conversation
shy people are lowkey weird.
I'm pretty painfully shy... and you're not wrong.
Because they don't look friendly