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Should a girl stop stripping because her boyfriend wanted her to? (Page 2)
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Duh.
most of us do what it takes to survive on money.
women strip or sell their bodies and walk around with an iphone.
we men break our backs on minimum wages and overtime in order to not starve to death.
he knew what he signed up for. What's so surprising now?
It depends on the kind of club she is at. If she is at one that pushes the girls to give extras.. Like sexual favors, up to and including sex, he is very right to ask her to stop.. But if it's just niduty, no touching than there is nothing to be jealous over..
First.. There is no letting my wife do anything, I don't own her, on that same token, she wouldn't do that, she happens to think better of her self..
Well strippers make good money and they're entertainers, It's not like she's prostituting herself, she chooses to do so and she makes good money doing it. If he's not confident enough to trust her then maybe he's not the person for her, however I guess it all depends on the individual, would I want my girlfriend stripping? I guess it would depend on the trust level and who she is as a person.
I think he's trying to make a housewife out of a whore, his mistake. She is lucky to have someone care about her like that, doesn't seem like she's very 'helpable' though. Hey a girl can strip all she wants, but don't expect to have a good boyfriend, and if you somehow get one, yeah, take his advice.
I think she should expect to have a good boyfriend. Why would she only expect to have a bad one?
She should expect to have a bad one because she's a stripper, and the kind of guy that is okay with their girlfriend being a stripper does not care that much about their girlfriend, therefore, he is a shitty boyfriend.
Like imagine if a dad lets his daughter become a stripper. Does that dad care about his daughter? No, he doesn't give a fuck, that is the one and only answer, now and forevermore. I've heard enough of the industry to know what it's about, and trust me, you wouldn't want your loved ones involved.
This guy doesn’t care about her now. He cares about himself not getting “cucked.” That’s it. He’s a pos in others ways too.
Okay sure believe whatever makes u sleep well at night. Regardless of his motivation, his action is correct and is a positive force in her life. I try to judge people by their actions instead of speculating about their motivations
How is his action correct when he’s the only one benefitting from it? She’s not. It’s a selfish, one sided action.
As long as you see him as the only one benefiting from it, that is a logical conclusion.
But you are blind. You’ve probably been surrounding yourself with certain kinds of people for so long that you can’t see through the clouds. There are so many reasons why its mutually beneficial. She wants a good relationship doesn’t she? Is her cucking her man going to give her that? One small example.
Years ago, I withdrew from competing in the Miss USA competition because my then boyfriend didn’t like the idea of me flaunting my body in bikini on stage. I grew to resent him and I deeply regret letting him talk me out of it. I fear she’s doing the same.
She’s allowing him to have too much power over her life. It won’t last long this way.
With all due respect, that is a personal anecdote, and taking part in a bikini competition is not the same as being a stripper. I think if you were still with that dude u wouldn’t regret it
And by the way, why do you deeply regret it?
I regret it because it’s something I wanted to but I allowed his insecurities to become my problem to fix, and I should have forced him to deal with his own insecurities instead of putting a bandaid on it, which is a huge part of why we broke up. I couldn’t be me.
And my friend isn’t herself now.
i see you’ve got your narrative nice and polished, believe what you wanna believe about your past and her future, but I’m just gunna tell you right now, you’re not seeing the big picture here.
Well the 2nd half of my “narrative” and the moral of my story is that after him I married a man who was fine with my modeling and pageant ambitions.
I don’t think my friend and her guy are well suited.
Well I’m glad everything seems to be working out for ya, but once again, stripping is a totally different ball game. Your refusal to acknowledge this says a lot...
There are reasons why I wouldn’t be a stripper, but she seems to love it. I think people should do what they want if they know what they’re doing.
I think she loves easy money, and you know what easy money leads to (well at least wise people do)
like I said, I'm over trying to convince you on this point, you're stubbornly rooted in ignorance and to old to be worth the trouble
I’m glad you understand when to quit.
@MzAsh - why should she get a good boyfriend? She's a stripper. It's like a woman who blatantly sleeps around with anyone. They typically don't end up with good boyfriends, they end up with lousy ones. As they say, make thy bed & lie in it.
@GentleGirl baton pass :P team Canada goin strong for the win on this one!
Any woman doing what she enjoys regardless of who likes it deserves a good partner in my book.
@MzAsh - she enjoys the attention. Nothing more, nothing less. Such behaviour is a blatant lack of self respect, low self esteem, and really attracts good boyfriends like vinegar would bees (not happening).
So what. Plenty of strippers have great men.
@MzAsh - name one.
An ex roommate of mine.
@MzAsh - as provable he's a good boyfriend as a flying hippo. Pull the other leg dear. As I said I worked bar for 18 months for a friend & as he owns the place (for 7 years) I think I know a bit more about strippers and the "decent" men they attract than you.
You’re right. I have better places to be than the bar. However, that doesn’t change the fact that I believe she’s far too good for him.
She shouldn't stop. He knew beforehand what she did he should of a sucked it up and dealt with it or not bothered if it was going to bruise his ego. Who is he to tell her to stop?
To be honest, your friend is a dumbass for stopping and been influenced by some bartender.
He does not want to be with a stripper but starts dating a stripper. 🤔💭💡 He should not have started dating her in the first place. That would be like a guy not wanting any kids (biological, adopted, stepkids) but starts dating a single mother with two kids ages 4 and 6. Pointless.
Meh. Why is she surprised? It's like a woman who blatantly sleeps around. They rarely attract good boyfriends. Good boyfriends want *decent* women not borderline prostitutes (and don't kid yourself sweetie about your friend's virtue, I covered the bar for a friend at a strip club for 18 months, the strippers will fk guys for the right money if they feel like it).
Really if she had any self respect she'd have quit long ago. Nothing more than a sexual object for strangers to drool over.
And good boyfriends don't go to strip/swinger clubs. Only those with no self-respect. Or have you experienced something other?
@roland77 There are guys with self respect that go. But usually, if they have a woman, she's a Grade A+ bitch that plays games.
How is playing games and being a bitch grade A+? That's grade g
i think he loves her and if she's your friend and you cares make her understand that love is precious and everyone's struggling for food in different jobs and her time has come to start struggling like others. love is a gift and she will not always be beautiful to dance and make money cuz beauty never last forever.
As a guy who almost became a Male stripper no you shouldn't be insecure about it and you shouldn't also quite you job if it's better for you financially and you actually enjoy it better I get where he's coming from if you did anything to make him feel insecure on the relationship in the first place if you didn't i would be straight up about not liking this job and wanting to go back and start a dialog and see where it goes. Best of luck
She shouldn't have started "stripping" in the first place just out of self respect alone. Why the hell he would date her is a mystery but at least he got her out of doing that sick shit.
Maybe she does respect herself, regardless.
Then she's in for a rude awakening.
Why’s that?
What she's done is not respectable and as time goes by she'll realize that. It happens that way.
You don’t get to decide who respects themselves.
That's the problem you've got, it won't be me deciding and it's not me you're up against, it's the universe it's self, natural laws how things work. Try defying that.
Why should anyone care what others think? The right man will respect her anyway.
It will take a lot longer for her to find that man if she ever does and he would have respected her more had she not done what she did. It's too late now though.
No. This girl has options.
Ha ha ha ya a buch of cheesy characters just like herself.
She’s better than your uptight ass.
What ever she is or was, it's buried under a pile of shit now
According to some rando on the internet.
According to the laws of nature, you'll find out.
Revenge fantasy.
What does it matter to you? I'm some rando on the internet remember? You've been talking to me for a while now. Which one of us are you trying to convince anyway?
Good point. Bye.
If she is struggling he should help her financially, end of problem, u can't ask someone to quit but not make up for part of the struggle. If he won't help her and does not want her to go back she should quit him.
Not if it makes her happy. Personally if she was a stripper, and attractive then as long as she wasn’t sleeping with the guys I’d get a kick out of it. Knowing other guys wanted her, but it was only me that had her.
Stripping shouldn't even be encouraged for a girl. Most things people want to do should be thought by the girl first before doing it. Let me say you won't want your daughter to do so right? So why are you doing it or encouraging it. It's absurd. That's my opinion.
I think people should do what they want to do, assuming it’s legal and not harmful to others.
But think of the future. Will you happy if you have children as strippers?
What matters is her happiness.
Wow, for real. Is her body for the public or for her husband?
Can I ask you a question?
A woman’s body is hers before anyone else’s. SHE gets to decide how to use it.
Can I ask the question now?
Sure
Which do you prefer in an unwrapped sweet thrown on the sand and a wrapped sweet thrown on the floor? If you were asked to pick one, which one will you pick?
What does this have to do with the topic?
Answer the question first?
I have no idea
Obviously wouldn’t want anything on the floor.
But preferably the wrapped one ryt
What I'm insinuating is that no man would prefer such lady over the chastity one. Think about it. You are just filling his thirst with the nakedness. He won't even come to you for anything.
Most men fold in that. But based on principle, If a man prefers a chaste woman then he’d better be just as chaste as he expects her to be.
True, but females need to be more of chastity
No they don’t. That’s exactly why women today aren’t. Because there’s no reward in staying chaste when all she winds up with is a guy who’s had several flings.
The reward is good children
Pass. Chaste women have very high want chaste men.
I think if he knew what she did for a living then he should show her respect for her job and see if she thinks she should get a new job... it's never up to anyone to try to change some one... you can either deal with their fault or get out of the relationship
in love you take people as they are , not try to change them. Or tell them what to be. Its really a waste of time as people rarly fundamentally change. That is why a man who isn’t comfortable about a sex worker should not marry one. There are plenty of guys who are totally ok with being with a sex worker. Even pimping their wives
shouldn't have dated her in the first place if he didn't like strippers
she should break up with him. She's an exhibitionist, too lazy to do real work so she shows her body to desperate men for money. Probably bangs half of them for extra cash. She doesn't deserve a normal man. She deserves someone who values money over self-respect and dignity just like her. Have a nice day feminist. :)
I believe he shouldn't be dating stripper's but not stripping because you want to do better for yourself and your boyfriend is good but it sounds like she hasn't changed.
As long as she does it with integrity and respect for herself and doesn’t go outside of their relationship. I wouldn’t see a problem with it.
Both will have to decide what's more important to them. They can't force each other to change their criteria.