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Should a girl stop stripping because her boyfriend wanted her to? (Page 2)
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He knew what she did for a living before dating, so should learnt to live with it,,,
Seems he has some jealousy issues,,,
imho she shouldn't be suffering financially just to please him,,,
She might be doing it for him, but she is not happy stopping. They need a heart to heart about this , after all she was doing it when they met. Plus it only stripping not as if she giving sex...
And one doorstep away from erotic shooting, next porn. Na, no. I'm not dating any stripper.
She should stop stripping because a real job requires full penetration.
well this is complicated. if seh wants to she can stopt being a stripper. and in first place why didthe man date her in first place if he wanted to change everything she is? i have a male stripper friend and his boyfriend is ok with it
The relationship will end soon enough and she'll go back. Not much a conversation topic
Why people can't forget the past and start a new life? She can just respect him and start a new good life , I will never understand this selfish personality that girls have.
Why can’t he respect her?
Because she's a stripper? Men don't respect sluts/whores/etc. Its not a new thing.
The good ones do.
The dumb ones do. Case in point this stripper is fucking a man who looks down on strippers. Typical. If you want to fuck a stripper you are way more likely if you don't respect them.
At least we agree this guy is dumb.
he's the smart one. he's fucking a stripper. I don't know why he's bothering to date her but whatever
I mean it’s not like it’s hard.
Its hard if you don't think they are nasty whores. Some men actually pay just to see a titty. So most men are chumps.
He’s dumb for different reasons. And she’s dumb for putting up with it.
Well she's a stripper so obviously not likely to make good choices.
Her only bad choice was choosing to date him and quit doing what she enjoyed and what was making her tons of of money.
Lmao. Smh. No, turning herself into human garbage was the best decision of her life. 🤣 yeah right
I’ll just agree to disagree.
It can be summarized in one question:
Liked the girl to work as stripper while having a boyfriend?
If she Loves this work she should do it but at First trying to Talk IT out and there are actually other Jobs that have the same skill requierment
Well when you date a stripper, she gonna well... you know strip? What else is he going to try and control?
Priobally just made she earned 20 times what he did lol
That she did lol
I don't think its wrong to want your girlfriend to respect herself (be high value) and to keep her body for him only not every guy in the vicinity
It’s fine for men to have preferences but it’s not ok for them to assume she doesn’t respect herself or is not high value simply by holding an occupation like stripping.
Thank you for your input
Too late.
She was already doing it.
She is already corrupt, stopping doesn't change that.
Yes it is and she isn't high value.
lol... sex a "profession"?
What a joke.
Maybe you think that way but many others don’t.
He's an idiot for dating a stripper. No, he should not ask her to stop stripping, but he should not consider "dating" a stripper to be a serious relationship in the first place.
u r right no1 should not enjoy their job especially if she's a good girl he has to be able to trust her and make a fantasy come true by maybe getting another female stripper to include in their own bed.
she doesn't need to wait till they'll brake up if he loves her he will understand.
i think she needs to go back dancing if that is what she wants
i would like to know what she did eventually
That’s sad.. I understand the guys feeling and her struggling. Stripping is not the career will go forever. Maybe she need to go back to school.
She is in school.
She need to take out some student loan
Fuck no.
Us pervs need to see some booty shakin' !!!
Lol😂😂
no but she better not bitch and whine if he leaves her
it's really between them. it's none of our business
Yes if she loves him then yes. He maybe wants her to get a better job
No but guys shouldn't date strippers in the first place 😂
Exactly.
it's not a respectable...''job''. it's also a poor reflection on him.
Maybe in your opinion, but not everyone sees it that way.
where's the respect in stripping on stage for strangers for a little cash?
Strippers provide a service like any other job.
like what?
You know, like stripping? Lol They pay to see women dance naked.
so nothing, really. i mean really, is that all you'd want to be? seems very little for what they sacrifice..
Texaskid1 let you see what's in the mind of those men who they strip for.
It’s just entertainment.
at what cost? not all entertainment is good. look at porn stars-most don't like passed their passed their 40s.
I don’t know. It’s not my market. Ask men who are willing to pay a woman thousands per night.
as i said-Texaskid1 is a perfect example of such men. what it shows is that there is no respect. and frankly, i think such men are stupid.
So one guy makes you think less of all men who like to look at strippers? That’s foolish.
honestly, she should be happy now that people will see her as a person worthy of respect and not just a hot piece off ass.
you mixed up my sentences
Nah I see right through that. None of these guys who think she should quit are interested in respecting her anyways. They just want a woman who they feel is “his” and I won’t condone that.
or, maybe he really likes her and wants her to be better?
No guy should ever seek to change a woman for the better according to him. Now if she asked him to help her be better in any way then maybe that could slide but not in this case. He’s not respecting what she enjoys.
look, she's she has baggage-not many good guys are gonna take a chance on a stripper-it'll be a stain.
If they can’t handle the lifestyle of a stripper then they need to quit trying to date and change them.
so, you'd prefer your friend just be some stripper-shagging up with deadbeats? that's the alternative.
I’m not going to tell her what to do, but if you ask me I think she should best be single until she finishes school. I think she’ll be done stripping provided her career pays well.
it will follow her.
The right man in her future will not judge her for being a former stripper.
again, she's likely to find no shortage of those. most decent men will be put off.
No the decent ones will be understanding and respecting.
Well there are plenty of women in this world, like billions, why doesn’t he find a girl that suits him. Instead of wasting his time trying to change a woman career?
Selfishness. This guy has a boat load of selfish qualities that I haven’t even mentioned on here yet.
(or, maybe he really likes her and wants her to be better?)
I understand your view of point but people don’t change. There are many stories of men trying to “change “ a girl who “lost” her way. And then she ends up returning to her old job and cheating on him. I heard many of these stories in headlines of men who killed their wives in a crime of passion
@Meropatrick maybe because he just really like her.
wishful thinking.
@Meropatrick i believe it's possible.
@Meropatrick
Only low value men are going to try to change a woman. The good ones know how to find a woman that already suits him as is.
or one that cares and is willing to take the chance. you sound like a very cynical person.
No I’m just smart enough to know what people’s motivations are in reality. I've studied this shit for the past fifteen years.
as have i. a real friend would be a happy her friend has found someone who cares enough to take a chance and help her make something of herself instead of whatever deadbeat comes her. let me know when he starts acting abusive and controlling or something.
He is. He’s constantly accusing her of cheating. He’s a drunk who disappears for day’s at a time.
okay, now those are actual problems. that makes him one of those deadbeats. than he's not motivating her to be better out of love or genuine concern.
I was curious to see how many people would accurately characterize him without me giving all these details.
this isn't a real situation, is it?
It is. My mission is to help women fine tune the more subtle toxic traits in men. This is how I got to be successful in my marriage: my unwavering boundaries is a big one. This guy made himself unqualified from the getgo yet how many people would have caught on? A little less than half. Not good.
In fact, people were championing this guy for trying to talk her into quitting an occupation she enjoyed doing. There’s no excuse for that in my book.
Women especially need to start looking out for the red flags before things get too deep. A bartender is not okay with his girlfriend being a stripper but it’s perfectly okay for him to be a bartender? I’m surprised only one person pointed this red flag out. Right then I would have said goodbye.
well who's faults that for dancing around the real issues? what if he really liked her and decided to take a chance on her and wanted to try and and motivate her to better herself? this brings us right back to full circle-these are the kinda guys she'll attract while you watch-these are the results. this is no better than a made up story-i don't think she'd appreciate you making this into a guessing game.
cept for the guy didn't want a stripper. again-she goes back-it'll happen again and again until she just stops trusting... how long she stays in the relationship... that can last until she's old.
The only guy worth a damn will not say a word about her dancing. Period.
yeah-that's working out real well. but let's stop playing games. this wasn't out of concern-you came here to exploit her for a social excrement.
I have permission and I didn’t name names. Big deal.
Well if he is going to take care of her, then he have a right to but if he isn't going to take care of her then he should put up or shutup
Why would he date a stripper to begin with? Even if he didn't know, he could have figured out that she's not worth his time. Just break up
It turns out he’s actually not worth her time.
Probably not worth anyone's time TBH because A: he dated a stripper. Or B: he is dumb enough to not figure out that she's a stripper
He knew she was a stripper.
So he's retarded
If she enjoys it I think Toss the boyfriend. Contrary to belief some guys are ok with it
No and she can find a new boyfriend
She should find someone who would not judge herself
what idiot would wanna be wit dat anyways a snag ragg 🤣🤣
@GennySanders You are something else, why are you judgy
So what 🤣🤣
Nope. Only, when she is ready. Nothing wrong with being a stripper.
Also, you guy's on here talking against it. You should be ashamed of yourselves. If the roles were reversed. You wouldn't like it. Female strippers are people who, are just more comfortable in their own skin.
My girlfriend is no stripper and is very comfortable in her skin. No need to show her body (and being touched sometimes) by those jerks there.
Okay, but this isn't about your girlfriend. You obviously have never gone to a strip club. In other countries besides the u. s, you can touch the strippers. Here in the us. You are not allowed to touch them. Regardless, of what you here. Security is to make sure of that. Even in private rooms. There is no sex act's allowed in them. I worked security for many years after I got off active duty. In many states. And when I was in rhe army. I been to a lot of strip clubs over seas. The sad part is people look down on strippers because a few bad eggs in the industry. Yeah a lot of them have issues. Who doesn't? But, it's a beautiful art form.
Sorry, I can get a little carried away, when I am defending other's.
Srtipping is like, nude modeling. Except with music. And the girls (and in some states) guy's, get crazy paid for it.
She was stripping before she met him now want to control her.
I don't see that as controlling but wanting her to stop showing everyone her boobs out of respect and growing stronger in the relationship. No way would I date a stripper.
@Sambobelfast226 Same here! Let's see how fast those feminazis (maybe not her) will speak up against us.
@roland77 🤣🤣🤣. They can talk on. I speak my mind.
@Sambobelfast226 Yeah, right. :-)
@roland77 maybe never happen but could surprise you.
Let's just cut to the chase.
They are both pretty pathetic humans.
Any girl who strips and grinds on strangers
Any guy who goes to these places and dates strippers.
Both suck
Forget about him, she should learn how to respect her own body to not lose self-esteem. Working as a striper is just objectifying female body
Because he doesn't want her girlfriend to be seen by others
Stripping is good money and a short lived career. She should get back in that pole of she's good at it because 35 comes sooner than you'd think.
No why should she. It's a honest living
Ooooo... Someone didn't like my reply and gave me a thumbs down.
Well stripping is a thousands times safer then whoring and pimping. Plus they can make more money at stripping than whoring (aka prostitute themselves on the street)
A friend of mine back in the day. Made over 300 bucks a night. It paid for her college education
(Ooooo... Someone didn't like my reply and gave me a thumbs down. )
This made me laugh so hard😂😂😂i get also thumbs down from some grumpy people for being honest
@Meropatrick like a thumbs down is going to ruin your whole social life...
Well if they think that... Thumb down away... Ruin me... Ruin me I say... My social life is at your mercy...
Yes, be respectful have some self respect first and formost.
Meh, women have asked me to change plenty of things about myself for the sake of a relationship.
Date people you don't want to change. Marry people who you could tolerate.
I would encourage her to stay at dancing and make that bank
Is he going to give her his paycheck?
what the fuck is your point?
That she’s compromising too much in the relationship and suffering because of it.
Yes. Women must take orders from men or society will become degenerate and immoral.
Yeah we see how well that was working out before women’s rights.
It was better back then.
I’m sure you think so.
When women took over they made sure men became worthless slaves, from alimony, to child custody, to divorce courts, to criminal courts, to police bias.
Men have become completely disposable mules whose only worth in society's eyes is the resources and sacrifice they can give to women.
I understand that you’d like it better back when it was the other way around.
Back then men and women were actually equal. When women took over they turned it into a female supremacy because women innately view themselves as more valuable than men.
Since ovaries are evolutionarily more important than sperm, this is how the female mind developed. The only thing keeping it from establishing supremacy was resistance from what you claim was the "patriarchy".
At what point do you think it was that women took over? What would you like to see changed?
Late 19th century.
I'd like for the matriarchy to be destroyed and equality restored.
Nah that’s back way too far.
That's when women took over all of politics, courts, lawmaking, and media.
Sure, Jan.
You're a fucking idiot if you can't see the fact that women control all courts, lawmakers, public discourse, politicians, and police force.
This is a different discussion for a different day.
Yes, she should, for her own sake as well as his.
She should dump his controlling ass.
She is not respecting herself, doing strips to strangers, including jerks and other bad people.
@roland77 just because you're a stripper doesn't mean you're self deprecating. Some women are just that confident with their bodies, they might even like stripping because it makes them feel powerful and sexy. Its just discouraged because if stripping makes them feel sexy people call them sluts even though there's nothing wrong with feeling sexy.
@AliyahMia And you know that some watchers want sex for money with a stripper? You didn't hear that some turn into prostitutes? No? Nothing wrong with feeling sexy, really. But not for complete strangers, for your own boyfriend, all fine. And I would have the right to reject her, if she would be a stripper because she is showing her body to others and come in touch with bad people.
Yeah obviously I know there is prostitution in the stripping industry don't assume things of me. But if you already knew she was a stripper like this guy did then you have absolutely no right to complain because you knew what you were stepping into. If you didn't like it, you shouldn't have gone further than looking at her.
@AliyahMia
Ah look, we got ourselves a stripper... here to feed us bs about how great strippers are.
Nobody buying that idiotic poo
@Miristheiss In case you can't read, I'm 16, so no I'm not a stripper, I'm just here to tell your misogynistic ass that you can't possibly understand this girls situation because you're only looking at the surface. I never said being a stripper is great, I just said being a stripper doesn't mean you aren't self respecting. And either way this girls job is her choice and the guy is at fault for dating her in the first place.
@AliyahMia
Oh yes because this account sign up age info is always 100% accurate.
I love and respect women.
Strippers do not fall into that category... nor their cuckhold fans and "boyfriends".
I am not buying your "I must respect strippers" crap. I don't.
I do not respect people who spread their legs for strange, disgusting men, flirt and talk in sexual tones with them hours a night and grind on strange, gross mens laps for money.
I would divorce my wife if she did that for even 1 minute and disown my daughter if she ever did that.
Just because society tries to pass this as normal and your femanist indoctrinaters sell you this as some female empowerment lie doesn't make it so.
You can feel whichever way you want about strippers but your attitude is exactly the type of attitude I highly encourage any and all women to stay the fuck away from.
do what u want, not what others want
She should not have to quit her job.
Only if she loves him
I don't think strippers should date/marry
Why?
Why should they?
Because they’re people too.
Right, and so was Jesus
If you don’t like strippers then don’t date them.
I'm just sayin'
She is always free to break up with him.
No, he has no say in his own sexual health 🙄
What?
Plenty of strip clubs offer "extras" in the back.
Some might but this girl doesn’t do that.
Not saying that she does. It's something that would go through any guy's mind if he was dating a stripper.
And that’s understandable. If that’s a concern, one should not date a stripper.
that's between the two of them
If she wants to keep her boyfriend, yeah.
She should obey her boyfriend or break up.
Girls don't strip. Women do.
She should do as she's told
Nah lol
No she should stop if she wants too
Nope, just private strip for her dude...😉
A girl has no name.
Nope. I would have no problem dating a stripper
Nope
For one instance she should stop: red-light district. If she has a decent body, other folks would look after her, proposing her "better" "job" offers.
That’s up to her to decide. As her SO I wouldn’t demand she quits
Okay, your choice then. Still I won't date them, knowing others look (and maybe grab) at her body parts, all naked (swimming suits like bikinis are okay to wear in swimming places for me). And strippers have sex with some of who watches them, if the price is okay for them. Here I see a major problem as I'm monogamous.
If she’s having sex that’s not ok. But if she’s just a stripper and was when I started dating her, would be unfair to expect her to change
That is why I avoid them, not being unfair to them, still wanting the good and better job for them.
Uh.. no
Nope
Get a new boyfriend
It's a complicated