Why is very hard to find women who dont want to have babies?

[praj89]

Again I personally love babies. I would like to sponsor money for children in adoption places for their education and well being. I just dont want to have kids on my own due to over population, environment concerns, global warming , human selfish desires. I personally not have met any women who dont want to have babies for above said reasons. ARE THERE WOMEN IN THE WORLD WHO FEEL. THE SAME give me your reasons or perspectives why you dont want to have a baby

[Anonymous]

Most women like to behave or be close to the ideals their partner and or society is seeking. If it was popular to not want kids in media than it would be hard for you to find women that deviate from that norm. What you're looking for is a rebel in these times. As we all know rebels are rare. No matter how many women want to fake like they are rebels. Media keeps shunning adoption and women to put their babies up for adoption. A lot of other men say that they won't marry a woman if she isn't fertile. In the media, men have publicly left their wives for their pregnant mistress just because the wife couldn't or refused to have children. It's a lot of stigma around it. Some people in society use this to look down or talk down on non-breeding women. The shunning around this makes it a stigma to even say out loud as a woman ": I don't want any children of my own." Any woman who says this around where I live gets shamed and called "selfish." Just hope that you come across that rebel woman that will stand against societal norms and others with you on the matter. Good luck! 😎

[praj89]

I am rebelious king and I want rebellious queen that want to be part of my journey

[praj89]

If you are aware of any women ike that let them know men like me would like to know women like that

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, I'll let them know if I meet any.

[Arezzoo]

I have a good relationship with kids and can easily handle them.
but whenever I look at the parents around myself, I see how they sacrifice their time, energy, money, themselves & ... to raise their kids and they are happy with this lifestyle!
sometimes I think that if they knew that they couldn't sleep well, go to long vacation/ clubs / parties whenever they want, eat whatever you want, get rest well during the day, they definitely didn't want baby.
It seems love towards their kids makes them blind and can't see that how their life is affected. they are happy with kids.

I'm not selfish and I can't say I'm against having kids, but If I'll be mother in future, I won't forget myself!

[praj89]

You would think that you can make time for yourself trust me if you do that you would he a bad parent in eyes if your children and rest is your mentioned comments

[Arezzoo]

actually I'm sure I can't...
maybe I should raise him/her to be independent haha I shall teach him/her how to cook and do home chores lol

[praj89]

Trust me my parents also did that but the way the society is going with all the materialism and idealism and selfish attitudes yiu need to work really hard to provide to. your kids trust me you wknt have time one and two your kids have to study really hard in this global competition

[praj89]

Also would you be interested in getting to know me i am single educated feminist and would show You how loyal and Caring I am if you give me an opportunity

[Arezzoo]

I'm sure you are a nice guy

[praj89]

Yeah I am if you are interested give me an opportunity we can get to know each other?

[Arezzoo]

yea sure

[praj89]

If you are interested kindly send me an email @ prajsesr@gmail. com from there we may discuss and get to know each other

[praj89]

You interested please kindly email me if not I will take that as a no

[AmandaYVR]

I don't want babies. And I can think think of three women I know who feel the same. (One is younger than me by a lot, but the others never wanted babies, even in their twenties.)
I have no idea what the general population stats are on this, but they are definitely shrinking (those who want kids.)

[katjmj]

I find babies cute but I don't want to have any. I can't even grow plants let alone raise another living creature. Also, I've seen women give birth and never in hell will I subject myself to that kind of pain.

[praj89]

I agree growing up I used to listen to my mom a lot and she used to make me feel so bad for giving birth to me and why I should give priority to her thoughts because she suffered a lot of pain giving birth to me and my sister. I never want that to any woman and let alone be my future wife

[katjmj]

Omg 😂😂 if you experience childbirth you might understand why she says what she says. It made sense to me when I saw a big head ripping a coochie apart. It wasn't something you easily forget 😳

[praj89]

Yeah I agree and that's why I dont want my future wife to go through that pain as well

[Prettygurl12]

I don't want kids. I could MAYBE be convinced to adopt or use a surrogate.

[praj89]

Cool

[Anonymous]

So are looking for a woman who wants to adopt children or doesn't care to have children because she's just not into children?

[praj89]

Either one is fine. I just dont want to have my biological children I dont want to be medium of bringing an soul to this earth and make that soul live through pain and also living of soul destroys the other living species and environment

[bbycakes101]

I'm only 15, but I share the same opinion as you.

[praj89]

Damn good sister I am glad to know that there are women around who feel that giving birth is not only their important thing and women are doing so much these days and women should do more than that they are equal to women

[praj89]

Also kindly spread your thoughts among your female friends and peers and forward my interest as well of you know anyone older who have the same mentality recommend me to them thanks

[Gisellesexybaby]

She’s 15 for crying out loud.

[bbycakes101]

@praj89 um I'm not gonna force my opinion onto other people... they can do what they want lol

[Anonymous]

Have you heard of a thing called biology? It’s what women are made of. Our biology is DRIVING us to want children. We were made to have babies. Think of it this way: if women didn’t want babies, then you wouldn’t be here ;)

[leafygreen]

There are a lot of women who would disagree with you. Not all of us want children...

[praj89]

I do agree but I have tried lots of dating apps and spoke to lots of women personally I have only found person who feels like above mentioned comments that it's how God made them and that how biology wants them to be. Dont take offensive are yiu aware any place or hangout groups where I could find girls with this thought process I am not looking to fool around. I am looking to get know a person for serious relationship and marry that person if you can help me out would be great.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you talking to me or the other poster?

[praj89]

The other owner

[Opinion Owner]

U should stop

[Opinion Owner]

Asking

[praj89]

I can ask whatever I want what is your problem you said your perspective. I want to see if there are women who have true purpose in life in more than making babies and stating stupid biological facts and reasons. You stop coming to my post there are women here who we are having genuine decent discussion if you dont like it with all due respect stay away. Use your biological instinct and make more babies is because that's what this world needs more to help the humanity God bless you

[Opinion Owner]

You’re weird. Stop being to desperate you loser

[praj89]

I am desperate yes for a logical intellectual and ambitious women. You enjoy your life being very useful by making babies by all means yiu succesful and amazing women