Why is very hard to find women who dont want to have babies?

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Again I personally love babies. I would like to sponsor money for children in adoption places for their education and well being. I just dont want to have kids on my own due to over population, environment concerns, global warming , human selfish desires. I personally not have met any women who dont want to have babies for above said reasons. ARE THERE WOMEN IN THE WORLD WHO FEEL. THE SAME give me your reasons or perspectives why you dont want to have a baby

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most women like to behave or be close to the ideals their partner and or society is seeking. If it was popular to not want kids in media than it would be hard for you to find women that deviate from that norm. What you're looking for is a rebel in these times. As we all know rebels are rare. No matter how many women want to fake like they are rebels. Media keeps shunning adoption and women to put their babies up for adoption. A lot of other men say that they won't marry a woman if she isn't fertile. In the media, men have publicly left their wives for their pregnant mistress just because the wife couldn't or refused to have children. It's a lot of stigma around it. Some people in society use this to look down or talk down on non-breeding women. The shunning around this makes it a stigma to even say out loud as a woman ": I don't want any children of my own." Any woman who says this around where I live gets shamed and called "selfish." Just hope that you come across that rebel woman that will stand against societal norms and others with you on the matter. Good luck! 😎

Arezzoo · Accepted Answer

I have a good relationship with kids and can easily handle them.
but whenever I look at the parents around myself, I see how they sacrifice their time, energy, money, themselves & ... to raise their kids and they are happy with this lifestyle!
sometimes I think that if they knew that they couldn't sleep well, go to long vacation/ clubs / parties whenever they want, eat whatever you want, get rest well during the day, they definitely didn't want baby.
It seems love towards their kids makes them blind and can't see that how their life is affected. they are happy with kids.

I'm not selfish and I can't say I'm against having kids, but If I'll be mother in future, I won't forget myself!

AmandaYVR · Answer

I don't want babies. And I can think think of three women I know who feel the same. (One is younger than me by a lot, but the others never wanted babies, even in their twenties.)
I have no idea what the general population stats are on this, but they are definitely shrinking (those who want kids.)

katjmj · Answer

I find babies cute but I don't want to have any. I can't even grow plants let alone raise another living creature. Also, I've seen women give birth and never in hell will I subject myself to that kind of pain.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

I don't want kids. I could MAYBE be convinced to adopt or use a surrogate.

Anonymous · Answer

So are looking for a woman who wants to adopt children or doesn't care to have children because she's just not into children?

bbycakes101 · Answer

I'm only 15, but I share the same opinion as you.

Anonymous · Answer

Have you heard of a thing called biology? It’s what women are made of. Our biology is DRIVING us to want children. We were made to have babies. Think of it this way: if women didn’t want babies, then you wouldn’t be here ;)

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