Why do girls always want guys to be feminine now?

[poopooBUMbum]

not hating but... recently I've noticed a lot of girls wanting us guys to be more feminine and girly...
for example: I've been seeing questions: why is it wrong for guys to cry? and then in the comments section all the girls are like "its ok for men to cry, no need hold back ur emotions, just cos u are male doesn't mean u can't cry" - well its not that im holding emotions back, i personally jus dont have the emotions there, i dont care about anything enough to be sad by it.

and then i be seeing questions like "is it ok for men to wear this pink handbag?" and then in the question us guys obviously say "no, its faggy"
and then the girls always have some war with us like "why is it not ok for him to wear a feminine bag?
jus because he's male? we should all have the freedom and choice to wear what we want"

its like they dont understand gender roles... men are suppose to be tough, not girly,
could u imagine a world wear every guy is weak and cowardly, never does anything brave,
and constantly crying in the corner over the smallest things? i dont think u do.
why do you girls are always trying to encourage us to be feminine now?
what for?
i dont get it

they feel weak being the only feminine 1 in the relationship and wanna feel tougher

i dont know

theyre attracted to feminine guys

theyre tryna be morally/ politically correct

they dont know what they want

other

theyre stupid

[Yads_Is_Back]

I don't, and I'm 100% with you on the gender roles. That doesn't mean a man can't cry though. I want a man with some passion and emotion. Now if you're crying because of something like you lost your toy, then yeah you need help lol but showing emotion as a general idea is not against men.
Completely with kaylaS91 about the crying thing...

But when you guys automatically assume that all of us want what you've just said, that's when we become resistant to you. I'm not the enemy of men. I respect them for being men and I'm a supporter of men being masculine and women being feminine, but I also don't want them assuming (making an ASS out of U and ME) that I want them to be feminine.

[AzureGirl]

Society needs to change so there’s less of a pressure on guys to not cry or be sad or display any certain emotion. It doesn’t make one less than a man if he cries.

As far as the handbag thing, that’s a troll that creates accounts every 2-3 days where they ask if a guy can wear a certain dress or carry a certain bag. Pay no mind to that.

Bottom line is men and women are human. Humans have emotions. We’re supposed to be able to feel them and show them when necessary. Doesn’t make us bad for it.

[Anonymous]

Good women don't want men to be feminine. It's only the shitty ones who do. There are two distinct groups.

1) Dishonest women who feel like they must be politically correct and say the right thing, despite the fact they know feminine guys are terribly unattractive to them and any other normal woman.

2) Feminists who want female supremacy and know women stand no chance of successfully dominating masculine men.

[Liam_Hayden]

"Why do girls..."
How many do? 5%? 10% Certainly not a majority, which is why soy boys have such a hard time getting dates.

[kaylaS91]

Crying is not 'girly'.
The notion that men need to be 'tough' and equating that into the idea that it's only acceptable for men to feel one thing (horny) is toxic af. That's how you raise generations of men who have trouble with self-regulation (sexually speaking, as well as their anger).

[poopooBUMbum]

maybe its not girly but it sure looks girly,
if i ever see a guy crying over something i sure think he looks slightly girly

[poopooBUMbum]

u can't deny that and say it looks masculine to cry lol

[kaylaS91]

the only thing that looks 'masculine' to me is a dick.
Men who boast about not having emotions or 'having never cried' sound like children whose emotional intelligence is severely underdeveloped.

[TonyBologna25]

Crying is a result of your emotion becoming so overwhelming, to a point where your body needs to release it. Women are more emotionally driven due to our endocrine system. It’s just logic

[poopooBUMbum]

iv never cried but its not cos my emotional intelligence is underdevloped or because im trying to be tough, its jus cos i truley dont care about anything... i think girls have this misconception that guys actually want to cry and feel the need to cry but are jus holding it back... but thats not true... i think most guys jus naturally never feel the desire to cry.. i think were more of problem solvers.. when girls upset she wants to cry... when a guy iis upset and has a problem.. instead of sitting around crying he jus wants to fix the problem instead

[poopooBUMbum]

not bragging or anything but thats really how i am, blank face 247

[poopooBUMbum]

if i had something to cry about i would n wouldn't be scared to (assuming im alone)

[Secret6620]

No one wants this... I prefer them masculine and dominant...

[poopooBUMbum]

me too

[KatQueen1313]

I don't want a man to feel pressured to be masculine or feminine. It's his choice how he wants to express himself.

[DevikaButts95]

Emotions aren't feminine, they're human wtf.
What kind of coward is scared to cry dude? Lmao.
No real talk, like I'm more impressed by a guy whose not afraid to have a pink handbag and/or doesn't care about what others think compared to someone like you who is just pretending to be macho.

[poopooBUMbum]

its not that im scared to cry, i dont feel the need to... and im not pretending to be macho, i jus naturally am by biology and the nature of being male... imagine if i said girls are scared to act masculine lol,,,, they jus dont want to by nature,
and how does that make u cowardly if you're scared to cry? lol, that completely contradicts itself... thats like saying you're scared to show everyone that ur a mega wuss and afraid to go into a dark building at night, like no, thats actually brave to not show fear and pretend like your not scared and go into that building anyway when u really are... so u are telling me the coward wimp guy who shows that he's scared and a pussy and cowards outside the building and doesn't go in... is more brave and less of a coward than the guy who puts on a brave face and goes in (despite his fear) jus because he isn't afraid to show that he's scared? LMAO, thats stupid, thats girl logic there... showing your emotions isn't brave at all, anyone can do that lol... thats not tough girls, thats easy... its more brave to hold back ur fear or whatever and not show it, it takes more energy and courage... i dont understand ur logic

[Anonymous]

women believe lies
and all they want is to control men

[Anonymous]

Some of it is trolling

[poopooBUMbum]

oh lol

[wcrooks]

Girls say they want one thing and really desire something different