Another GaG user talked about how it is inappropriate for men to ask women out at the gym. I do agree that men should do so tactfully, but I do not believe the asking out itself is wrong. I do believe in treating women with respect, but I am not a fan of bending over backwards for every little thing that offends women. For example, at the gym I do not think it is wrong to ask a woman out, but I do think it is wrong to interrupt her workout to do so. I also believe a man should stop when a woman says no. It just seems that women get offended so damn easily today and that society expects us men to just change everything to make women feel better. Hence the question "Why should men bend over backwards for women?". I do believe in being a gentleman, but I also think it is wrong and destructive to just give women what they want just because they whine when what they are whining about is something stupid. When is enough enough? Where do we draw the line between being courteous versus letting women get their way just for whining over something stupid?