Do you agree with my statement?

[Rosabelle98]

Women had body hair but they can choose to leave it or shave it off or maybe trim it. I felt bad for this one girl who had hairy legs which is very obvious even if I’m 2 m away from her. She never dared wears shorts because it will show her hairy legs. Some guys will never understand what it’s like being a hairy woman. Shaving takes up lots of time and effort, there’s a possibility she will get razor cuts on the area she is shaving or itchiness after shaving. Plucking hurts but doesn’t leave any cuts or itchiness. And lastly laser hair removals are considered expensive af unless she is lucky to get 6 sessions plus 2 free at $360. I’m considered a little hairy, my parents don’t have hair on their fingers and I always envied them. I ended up plucking them every 3 days. I also pluck some of my underarm hairs. The rest I leave it because it’s too much work and it’s not obvious at all if I’m heading out or wearing shorts. Women need more rights to choose to do what they want with their bodies, even if lesser guys are less attracted by them at least its better to be single than to attract guys who force you to remove all body hair without respecting your decision. I know guys need more rights too but women also need just 1 right which is choosing to shave it or leave it

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Oops I forgot to add, women should also get equal pay and be treated with respect too

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And guys shouldn’t be expected to pay everything for dates.

[Tstrbrainer]

Yeah you are right. It's their body, their choice.

Retaining body hair might be a turn off to many guys, but why bother? It's your comfort that should come first

[Rosabelle98]

Ikr. There’s some guys who accept their partners for their body hair even if they don’t like it. If my partner doesn’t shave his face for a few days that won’t make me leave him even when I preferred a clean shaved face.

[Tstrbrainer]

I'm asking this out of curiosity, what if your partner decides to grow a full beard all of a sudden? 🤔🎅

[Rosabelle98]

I will ask him to trim a little, because sometimes shaving might cause irritation that’s why I stick to plucking instead of shaving

[Tstrbrainer]

Okay

[NightOwl8801]

I respect a womans decision on how she grooms herself because it's her body and her choice.

[Nawlins34]

I agree with equal rights and all, but I still disagree with your statement.

Woman DO have a choice to shave or not shave, you're arguing the consequences of choosing not to shave. To which I say, this is reality.

I would recommend you talk to your fellow women regarding this.

Woman are constantly competing whether they want to admit it or not to attract men. So I don't pretend to know or care how it started, but the reality now is all things being equal, most guys will select the woman who shaved vs. the one who didn't.

I acknowledge the existence of guys who don't mind if a woman doesn't shave and there are those who prefer it, but this is a VERY small portion of the dating pool.

This is about leverage on a gender level. Women have that leverage and they choose not to exercise it.

If every woman on earth stopped shaving, in about of year of that event, men will be on board with dating women who don't shave, because there would be no alternative. Yes, even the guy who can have any woman he wants will be doing so since every woman no longer shaves.
So any woman who chooses to shave undermines that leverage and the choice of not shaving.

So, I circle back to my original point. Your issue isn't lack of choice because women have a choice, your issue is the consequences of choosing not to shave to which, you should look at your fellow women because they made it that way.

I hope I helped in providing a different perspective. Good luck and be safe.

[Rosabelle98]

You’re right tho. I liked a guy with a clean shaved face but I won’t leave him if he has a little of moustache he just need to keep it trim and tidy. But I don’t expect guys to fit in all my expectations of what a partner should look like. He can choose to do what he wants but he should at least keep it tidy and clean and ensures that a beard cannot get too long because it gets in the way when it comes to love making. I think I know why guys preferred girls with almost no body hair, it’s because it looks more appealing to them plus some guys like to go down on them that’s why they can either shave or trim it short. If my partner wants me to trim it short because he wants to go down on me I will do it, shaving down there is a no no for me I can pluck other unwanted hairs on my body but shaving leaves cuts. For other unwanted hairs I will pluck but as for ‘down there’ I will trim if he wants me to but if he only wants sex and doesn’t wanna go down on me then I will leave my ‘down there’ all natural. Hair does get in the way when it comes to oral sex. Women who wants to give oral sex will want their men to trim it short or shave it but for me I will tell him to trim short because shaving if not careful will cause cuts and itchiness.

[Jjpayne]

Hairy legs are fine as long as women don't get equal rights or respect 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

But seriously 🤔 it's a tough place... It's the idea of matching with your peers. In a sea of girls with shaved legs you have one girl that does not and she sticks out...

I think you just need to own it with confidence.

And of course girls deserve equal rights and respect silly 😝

[Lliam]

I agree what women have a human right to do what they want. They don't have a right to have their choices appreciated by everyone, though. That applies to their grooming and clothing choices. The same applies to everyone, not just women.

I totally agree that women should also get equal pay and be treated with respect.

[Cherokeehp]

You literally have every right to let your body hair grow. No one is stopping you or anyone else. No one is forcing anyone to remove body hair. You’re complaining for no reason.

[Rosabelle98]

Yeah you’re right. But it’s because of my ex that made me like this

[Cherokeehp]

If you say so

[Rosabelle98]

There will definitely be some guys who don’t mind at all. But they’re in the minority

[mrgspoter]

Yes I agree but I still haven't got used to seeing a pritty lady with a hairy body never seen it in more obvious to see places as far as I can think

[ccmiller]

I actually prefer women with hair on their head only. And if I met a hairy woman I don't think I would ask her out I'm not forcing anyone or telling anyone what to do but that's just my preference

[Rosabelle98]

For me I preferred a guy with clean shaved face. If he doesn’t wanna shave too often he can only grow a little moustache but it can’t be too long or else It won’t look good on him. I think most guys will want to go down there that’s why they preferred a woman bare down there. For me if he wants to go down there I will trim very short so he won’t get hairs in his mouth. But I won’t shave down there because it’s much harder compared to trimming. I mostly pluck my unwanted body hair like my underarms, finger hairs, eyebrows. If he’s not into going down on me at all because he might think it’s a turn off I will just leave it natural. Actually no one wants to have hair in their mouth when giving oral sex even women expect their partners to either shave down there or trim it short.

[Rosabelle98]

But I don’t think I’m the only one who likes my partner to have clean shaved face

[Rosabelle98]

And I also preferred a guy to only have pubic hair that is trimmed and well maintain

[joeldalton]

Lol, you have the right to not shave, but I have the right to not find it attractive. Women already get equal pay.

[mich15smith]

women can choose to leave their hair.

[Jerre]

Totally agree with you.

[msc545]

You can leave it. Most guys are repelled by it.

[Rosabelle98]

It’s ok to have preferences but forcing on someone to fit your ideals is wrong. If a woman doesn’t like a guy with beard she can choose to accept it or leave him. If she choose to leave him it shows that she’s very picky. My ex was a toxic partner he expects me to mostly fit his ideals, if he don’t like it he can choose to leave me or accept me for who I’m. It’s kinda rare to find a partner who accepts their loved ones for who they’re. I have preferences for a clean shaved face, does that mean I will leave him if he doesn’t shave for a while? No. If he forces me to remove all body hair without respecting my decision he is not the one for me. If a guy loves me for me then I’m considered lucky. Removing almost all body hair is a lot of effort and not all girls like shaving but some do it to look good not just to please guys. Some girls do it to please their partners.