It depends. I feel bad for women with really big breasts. They can throw on a sweatshirt and get negative attention for not being "modest enough".
However, there are women who dress this way to go back and complain about it later. It's because they want to pretend that they are soooo beautiful, they can't help all these thirsty men chasing them. Essentially, it's that general idea.
If they're proud of their boobs but not the rest of them, they might do this. Or if they're insecure about their breast size, they might play them up and show them off, to get male attention. Then, come back and act like their boobs are soooo big, that all the boys stare at them, so they're definitely not tiny.
Sometimes, I get that it's fun to dress up. But if I personally just "wear what I want", it's going to be comfy and fluffy, not bare-chested. Unless it's a super hot day. I don't think women who dress like playboy bunnies all the time are necessarily just doing it for themselves.
Showing one's chest is probably a trend in certain areas. But boobs were more of a 90s thing. Now I'm seeing everyone getting reductions. Aside from actual breast pain, I don't get it.
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They only get angry at ugly guys. Women love to be sexual objects for attractive men. They are just mad that attractive men don’t want to settle down. Why would you when you can have as many as you want? They then apply what they see from attractive men, as not wanting to settle at all, who only care for sex with many women, and say that ALL men are that way.
I know this is the truth because I spent my life respecting women. Being afraid to make them uncomfortable. Not staring at their bodies. Not chasing them for sex.
It left me lonely and alone. But I’m attractive. I’ve always had girls attention. But I was scared to be what they really want me to be. Which is a guy who chases and sexualizes women.
I only learned because of being immersed in a large group of women. By luck, my job, as well as my sister and her friends. I met and became friends with a large group of women.
They encouraged me to stop being shy. To chase girls. To be a player. Yes, they told me I can be a player and that I should work to become one. Yet women will always tell you that they hate players.
They wanted me to be a player, they wanted me to chase girls. Because I’m attractive and that’s it. If you’re ugly, they want you to stay in your lane. They want you to leave them alone. If you’re attractive they want you to chase them.
Don’t listen to the bullshit they say. It’s nothing but lies.
Oh please... There is a normal dress not to show your boobs and slut dress. The same goes for man. Year ago I was changed my clothes for the gym and from formal to shorts and t shirt all the women at work start steering and whistling.
- WOW look at this man big one and it looks like hi have big dick too. I mean that was a 90% women 10% at the building. Is not the first time but I didn't care. It happened in England but even back in East Europe the women are the same. If a guy do this... Oh My Goodness. Imagine that.
- What a nice tits. I bet you want them to be grabbed roughly.
I could dress in the gym but I didn't the very first time and then I asked the from 20-55 years old women what will they do if I make that to them. (There was a 2 women's that ask if they could dress the next day and I call them sluts but that was to be expected from 30in one building)
Why not a woman be cool? This is typical BITCH behaviour of showing but get angry to a man for looking. WTF is the purpose of that?
It's common sense, staring is impolite wether it's the breasts, the legs, the nose or the shoes. Be respectful.
No woman expects you to stare, quite the opposite. Breasts should be naturalized like legs were. When men didn't allow women to show their legs they went as far as to cover the legs of wooden tables too (England, 1890s) which was quite insulting for men and women alike. I mean, it is implied that men were such horndogs that they couldn't even stare at a table's wooden leg (let alone a woman's leg) without having sexual thoughts. Or do you think we should cover up our cleavages because you're still too primitive to behave and respect societal norms?
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Why do women show clevage?
Remember that women may choose to reveal their cleavage for a variety of reasons, and that this is a personal decision that should be respected. In addition to enhancing self-confidence and giving women the freedom to feel beautiful and at ease in their bodies, cleavage may also be a form of self-expression. Another reason some women might decide to expose their cleavage is to embrace their femininity or to improve their physical attractiveness. Everyone has various preferences and comfort levels, so it's important to encourage women in making decisions that make them feel confident and happy. Let's honor individual choices and celebrate diversity!
1. To show off to other women
It's true that women sometimes choose to show cleavage as a means of expressing their personal style and feeling confident, but it's important to avoid assuming that their intention is solely to impress or compete with other women. It's crucial to remember that women's choices in how they dress should not be reduced to seeking approval or validation from others. Every individual has their own unique reasons for their fashion choices, and it's essential to foster a supportive environment where women can freely express themselves without judgment. Let's celebrate diversity and respect each other's personal preferences, allowing everyone to feel comfortable and confident in their own skin.
2. To get served first at the bar
It's crucial to remember that bartenders or anyone else shouldn't regard cleavage display as a way to get special attention. The values of fairness and respect are violated by such conduct. No matter how they look, everyone should be treated equally. Let's promote a culture where people are valued for who they are as people, not for what they do or don't.
3. To get ahead in the queue
It's crucial to keep in mind that exposing cleavage should never be done in order to get an unfair advantage or skip a line. These behaviors violate the ideals of justice and equality. To guarantee that everyone has an equal opportunity to be helped or serviced, queue systems were created. Let's build a culture of fairness and respect where people are appreciated for their character and accomplishments rather than their outward appearances. We can create a more peaceful and compassionate community where everyone is treated with care and respect by encouraging a culture of fairness and inclusivity.
4. To look sexy
Women who feel it permits them to express their sensuality and feel attractive may decide to expose their cleavage. Respecting each woman's unique choices in how she displays herself is vital since feeling sexy is a deeply personal and empowering experience. But it's important to keep in mind that sexiness is subjective and that everyone has their own definition of what it is. Instead of objectifying or evaluating women exclusively on their appearance, we should celebrate the many different forms of beauty. Let's create an atmosphere where women can feel empowered, embrace their own special brand of sensuality, and be recognized for their inner strengths and abilities as well.
Why do guys stare at women's clevage?
It's crucial to address the subject of why some guys might stare at women's cleavage with respect and understanding. Even though not all men exhibit this behavior, it might be caused by a mix of biological urges, social upbringing, and personal opinions. By nature, men are drawn to visual stimulation, which occasionally includes the female body. Socially, because of cultural expectations and media representations that frequently place an emphasis on physical appearance, some people objectify women. But it's important to understand that staring is impolite and might make women feel uncomfortable or objectified. It is essential to advance a culture of esteem, agreement, and equality. We may try to create a culture where people are valued for their character and treated with dignity, concentrating on genuine connections rather than objectification, by facilitating open talks, educating about limits, and encouraging empathy.
Do men find clevage alone attractive?
Human nature's complex and multidimensional trait of attraction differs from individual to person. Even though some men might find cleavage alone alluring, it's crucial to remember that attraction is influenced by a variety of elements, such as individual preferences, cultural influences, and life experiences. What appeals to one individual might not appeal to another. It's crucial to understand that attraction extends beyond a person's physical appearance and takes into account their personality, IQ, and a variety of other traits. It's essential to promote a culture where people are valued for their distinctive qualities and where respect and understanding guide all of our interactions. Let's appreciate the variety of human attraction and promote a culture of sincere connections built on respect for one another and similar principles.
I know is cultural and religion, i fully respect.
Is this the reason India origins covered?
There is some YouTube documentary. Quatar soccer games womans from different countries arrived and all males were thirsty 🤣. Authorities, prevent and asked or be locked up for females not covering themselves.
Example even CR7 his wife is sick covering her body. When she is used to wearing almost see through dress, short dresses or bikinis or shorts. She had complained him about it, if she continues living this type of life. She heading out the door with the kids.
Yesterday, i was at the grocery store. I am Latino and saw an beautiful Indian female dress up nice but covered as office work and head covered. The reason I say beautiful is by her personality.
I was analyzing, it works for those they are thirsty because pushes them off, there is nothing to view (respectfully) and works for those who really are man that are interested in their personalities. Is like if you want to date me, date me who i am not by cleavage. That was my point of view.I agree with you. It's should matter what's on the inside and getting to know someone instead of judging someone by there looks. I get so sick and tire of hearing men/women say I would never date him/her cause they are ugly. Men/women go by looks alone when it comes to deciding on who they want to be with and it shouldn't be that way. We shouldn't go my looks alone we should start getting to know someone to find out if you want to starting dating them instead of judging my looks on if you wanna start dating someone. A person that you think is to ugly to ever date could be the sweetest man/woman you could ever meet and treat you like a king/queen but instead you go for only attractive men/women who 9 times out of 10 treat you like garage and the relationship doesn't workout. Then after some many failed relationships go by and you say you will never find the right person for you when that right person for you could be a man/woman who you think is to ugly to ever give a chance cause you go by looks alone instead of getting to know someone personally and going by that to decide to date them of not
Dependssss on the girl & situation. In general, it is uncomfortable, creepy/pervy vibes, or not very gentlemanlike to stare hard as to why most women may get angry.
Lets say I am in my idgaf mode how I am dressing, just minding my own business, this is just part of my style when I go out yet I can't help I have natural big boobs, or look sexy at times even when I ain't trying... so I do not like it if guys stared when I had no intention for it rather I find him attractive or not. But if I am feeling myself, low key wanted some attention, it's a guy I wanted to create sexy vibes with, partying/clubbing, or wanted to show off my goodies in a cute/sexy fit... then I wouldn't be mad but be flatter lol.
can't speak for all women except from my knowledge, experience, and this is just me.Tbh i believe no girl should mind that coz if they are confident enough to show off then they should own upto it n shouldn't be bothered by staring...
Only time its not acceptable is when someone gets really weird about it n stares like a creepy person
And i believe in as they say flaunt it if you got it lolI don't care if you look at them, I probably won't even really notice.
I just hate it when guys feel the need to yell at me to let me know that I have big tits or good tits or that they make you horny.
I'm aware that I have boobs... please let me just walk by in peace.As a woman, I roll my eyes at this. You obviously want that attention popping your tits out and wearing tight ass booty shorts. Quit denying. I've done it and would do it to show off.
I am gonna say women get mad at ugly dudes staring, but, of its a hot boy she'll not complain
🙄because they are hypocrites and show cleavage because they want to attract a guy, but if another guy they consider unattractive flirts with them they immediately and often publicly reject him, they only want very good looking guys to approach them.
this behavior is the reason why Asian and Middle Eastern societies value modesty in female behavior and clothing, because as soon as women tie their looks to their value to society, the whole thing goes to shit and you end up with a degenerate society of only fans models making more money than female Law professorsI don’t show cleavage because I feel uncomfortable and feel like I’ll be sexualized in some way so I prefer to wear a regular shirt or something that won’t show off my body like that. But that’s just me.
However, a lot of women wear shirts that show off their cleavage because they feel confident showing their body, but that doesn’t give anyone the license to harass her sexually. You can look at her etc but you’re crossing the line when you only focus on her boobs if you’re talking to her. That’s something you CAN control, it’s not like your “biology” doesn’t let you focus on the words she’s saying. That in itself is objectification or sexism.
When you see a woman wearing a tight skirt and a blouse that reveals a lot of her cleavage, just let her be. She’s not doing anything to you. Women start to get bothered when they’re actively harassed though. That is when it’s on the person harassing her, it’s that persons fault and not hers.Well you said it there STARE. Women don't mind if a guy glances generally as they know they'll get looks with their boobs out. They just don't like dudes leering and gawking at their boobs as it's creepy to them. A women might not like if a guy glances either if she sees him. But the stare can feel uncomfortable to her. And it might not be fair, but a guy's vibe and looks also gives a man more leeway too. No good looking guys will still not usually get a pass if they stare like creeps. But a confident, handsome man who may briefly glance and then look off. May have a chance of being flattering to some women whereas, unattractive guy looking not welcome. Women have never had a problem if they noticed I glanced, but I also don't stare either. I try not to look if she's look at me or a subtle glance and that's it.
I don’t think women care about a glance. I think it’s when men are obviously staring and thinking god knows what and it gets worse if men verbalize their thoughts. It’s about tact. Glance. Don’t stare. If she’s attractive enough to get your attention do her a courtesy and introduce yourself and learn she’s more than a body. If she doesn’t tell you no, compliment her outfit. Don’t compliment her body.
Why do women do it? They like to feel pretty and beauty. Most people feel good when they look good. But that doesn’t mean they’re open to random people staring. I know it’s a paradox but look. Admiration takes like 3 seconds. Glance then drop it unless you’re wanting to get to know that woman.Women will say that it's for themselves, or that men should control themselves. But when they hit 50, a lot of them say they feel invisible...
Read one of the many accounts of this...
https://www.readersdigest.co.uk/culture/books/meet-the-author/what-50-looks-like-now-the-invisibility-of-middle-aged-women
''It's outrageous and humiliating for a woman to be ogled at as she walks past a building site.
Until the moment when it stops, at which point she feels crushed by the unfairness of her advancing years. Hurled into invisibility when she still feels like a girl inside.''
In answer to the question, it's because they only want attractive men to look... not mr receding hairline, beer bellied Bill from accounts.Because you STARE as if they are just a sexual object instead of a person. Admire is one thing staring is just rude and inconsiderate.
Why men go to job but than get mad when woman ask for money? 🤨
Why men have car if not want to give women free rides? 🤨
Why men have big strong arms if they not help women for everything? 🤨
Why men have phone if they no want women to go through it? 🤨hahahaha!!! Ever see the old original cast SNL where Gilda Radner played a Patti Smith type called "Candy Slices"? She sang a song called "Mick you Make Me Sick". One of the lines in the song lyrics was "If you look close you can see my tits-'cause I want you to but don't want you to know that I do". (Song stars at 5:59 but the whole thing is worth seeing)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tx9VGQDNMJATo stare is a bit creepy... yet, kind of in our DNA to look. Just don't stare... at anyone really, unless they are being really weird.
And women do dress up for attention, and MOST women know that and use it. If she wants a lot of attention, she shows cleavage and maybe some leg. If not, then no cleavage and no leg or short shorts.
Woman do have many more clothing options than men do, which is great. And men like to look at women dressed well.
Sorry if some people don't like my opinion, but it is the truth!I agree... the stupidest thing EVER!
they dress hot. dress slutty, dress very skimpy, and then act offended if we look...
its my opinion that if they are going to dress that way, they need to at least be able to handle a guy looking... they could even use it to their advantage, IF they were smart enough to know how...
what i mean by that is, some women who dress that way KNOW what they are doing and play the part a little bit, where as some of the less intelligent girls dress that way and dont know what to do or how to act when a guy looks, so they get mad...They feel sexy showing the goods but they don't want some cock monger drooling all over them. Guys have no self control when it comes to any private part of a woman. Doesn't even have to be on them. You could find out they use a toy, they confess to masturbating, or something. The horny little toads salivate and can't form a simple thought.
Sometimes it is a wonderful feeling to expose oneself and it would feel even better not to be objectified just because they are showing cleavage. I see women all day that are highly attractive and sexy wearing yoga pants or skin tight shorts or high skirts but I am not begging to measure their inner thighs. They want to be admired but not drooled on.As far as I understand the problem, I think it's first of all a matter of good education on behalf of the guys. Appreciating discretely the lady's charms will most probably be welcome, but then, keeping insisting and staring gazes to their cleavage becomes disturbing, whether their boobs be big or small. Many women seem to have contradictory feelings about their breasts. My advice for guys is to take an appreciating look without insisting. Rather obvious, isn't it? Just imagine girls staring insistingly at your crotch ;0)
Yes it is true, girls get angry when men look at cleavage. But Here is one Question, Human bodies are just flesh. just need to think positive for both male and female.
People lives naked in jungles. No one stares at them.
Problem is that Modern human is just running after sex than respecting Women. Why do sex is important all time and Thinking about sex only.
If everyone think positive that breast given by god to women to feed their children also. What cleavage does? Positive side means nothing, negative side sexuality.
Note: Bitter truth is Human are just running after sex only. that is why women gets angry. May be many people will not like this question but it is true
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