This man gets it! The privileges are only reserved for attractive men. You should see the way I talk to them on dates. If you make certain rude comments and by that I don't mean insulting, the attractive guy is "daring" and "confident". But if the lesser attractive guy does it, he is called a "creep". I know this because I always get away with being a tad rude and end up sleeping with them. Often, they tell me about the "creeps" they went on a date with and what they have said. They are typical things that I would say aswel. So I hit them with the "if I said that, would you also get mad?". And they answered "no because you're different.". So I reply with "Yeah, I'm different because in your eyes you find me more attractive and worthy of pursuit". It always gets them to realize that they can't bullshit me lmfao
@TruthBringer one question. If this is true, why do unattractive men give attention to women because they know women only want the attention of attractive men?
Yea you’re right. They don’t see what makes them tick. Us men, we know what makes us tick. Beautiful sexy woman. But many women are angry about that. Because most women aren’t beautiful and sexy and perfect. They think all men are willing to cheat on them with a sexy woman if she were to come along.They reject the idea of looks and status and other things that have nothing to do with your personality. Because that’s how us men operate. On beauty. So women fight and claw and sputter when we say they are the same as us. They don’t want to admit it.It’s true that what “good looks” are to them is different than what good looks are to a man. For men good looks are beauty. For women good looks is strength and dominance. Either way, you’re ignoring the real character of the person and only looking at the surface level FIRST. Who the person really is on the inside always comes second for both men and women.
It’s just that women don’t want to admit it. They think their view of attraction IS the character of the person. But it isn’t. What attracts them has nothing to do with the character of the person. Being a big strong male who is overly confident says nothing about his character as a person. Just the same as a woman’s beauty has nothing to do with the character of a woman. An ugly woman can be an amazing inspiring person who lifts up everyone around her. A man who is not dominant strong and confident can do the same.
The world wants to tell us guys that women don’t care about our looks. That “alpha” and “beta” don’t exist. Women are attracted to “alpha” men. There’s an infinite amount of studies that prove it. Yet we still tell guys that they can get a beautiful woman if only he keeps looking. Obviously that’s nonsense. Not every man can have a beautiful woman. And not every woman can have the dream alpha man.We all have to settle. It’s just us men admit it and women do not admit it. And society also won’t admit that women are just the same as men, caring first and foremost about primary and secondary sexual characteristics, and the actual content of the person comes after.I think everyone will be happier when we admit we all wish we could have that top1% mate, but we can’t. Everyone settles.
@Kaazsz do you think it is bad when women care about looks? I also do not understand why women dont admit that we like hot young fresh guys. Everyone like beautiful attractive things.
Neither men’s or women’s mating strategies are moral.What I find wrong is what I said in my original reply. Women’s perception of a man depends on her attraction to her. Women get upset about a man looking at her breasts unless she’s attracted to him.Hey, men do it too. I don’t like when the fat ugly girls stare at me. I’ve had them grab my ass and sexually harass me. There’s no excuse for sexual harassment.But I don’t make posts crying about women staring at me and how I’m being sexualized by evil women. I’m just grossed out by a fat ugly woman checking me out. I don’t want her to think she has a chance. I don’t want her to think she could ever have a piece of me. Hell naw bitch. You nasty.I think women have valid reasons to call out men who sexually harass them. But it doesn’t stop there. It also includes favorable behavior that women enjoy from a good looking man, but for an unattractive man, those same behaviors get lumped into the category of sexual harassment. There’s being grossed out by someone unattractive, and there’s sexual harassment. They aren’t the same thing. But women seem to me to be treating them as the same thing. And the evidence we see all the time. Because hot dudes can say and do whatever they want to girls and they swoon. Ugly guy comes along and tries the same thing and now he’s “just another disgusting male pig who can’t control his sexual lust and behavior.”
And as I did in my comment I refer to myself. I made a large group of female friends who told me they thought I was gay. I asked them why. We have open and honest relationships.They told me it was because I did not stare at their tits and make them know I am lusting for their bodies. They expect it.They encouraged me to act that way. To chase women, to flirt and be sexual and be horny and look at their bodies with lust in my mind.The post asks why women get upset when men look at their bodies. I’m saying it’s a lie. That women love it as long as the right man is doing it.
I am apologizing then for women who harass you. But you do not answere my question. Would you be ok with it if women care about looks? I have seen studies that say women are more "shallow" than men and that means that women only think that 20% of men are attractive. I dont if it is true really true. I personally care about looks and i am honest with it. But i was "attacked" by some men for saying it and they told me nobody should reject someone because of their looks. But we can't control to whom we are attracted to. I tried it once by dating a guy who i think was ugly and i end up feeling shit and i always feel disgusted when he was close to me. So i did not reject him because i did not want to be shallow which was very stupid of me. Since then i am very honest with me even it means people think a shallow asshole
Even it means that peaople think I am an asshole *** . But i still try to be less shallow and i am also afraid of rejecting guys because of it
By the way I am very sorry what happened to you
I think everyone wants attractive people to look at them. If i was extremly unattractive i even would not try it or would not stare at an attractive man I personally try to ignore any guy who is out of my leaugue. I think everyone should do it.
I don’t care if women care about looks. I don’t hate women I’m not mad. I shouldn’t even bother talking about it because I’m cute AF these hoes like me the minute they see me.I’m not mad. I don’t hate women. But I have to say the way I see shit. Especially after being friends with hella girls and learning so so so much and seeing them act as they really are. Girls ain’t innocent flowers.One of my friends broke down crying one day. She has 2 young boys. She said she is afraid for them, because she doesn’t want some horrible women to do whatever it is that girls do. She said “girls are bad!” I didn’t know what she meant at the time. But I know now. Girls are not innocent.It’s hard to describe. It’s hard to put a finger on it. But I think girls know, if they really wanted to be honest they know. They aren’t moral at all. My only problem is society’s view that women are moral and men are bad.
First of all, assholes exist on both sides. There are bad and good women/men. Yes, i also think society should not portray all women as innocent. It has nothing to do with gender. As i said assholes exist on both sides. Do you also slut shame men like this? Like you slut-shame girls for thinking you are cute? 😶 My problem is also that society kinda do not allow women to be shallow. This is why you heard in your whole that women only care about personality which is bs.
Thank you for your reply by the way
When i say i prefere tall men, people think i am a witch for doing this. This is why i dont talk about my preferences since nobody understand that i also care about looks
I don’t slut shame women. But I have to call them out when they say men are horny disgusting pigs. I see women in real life and I see how they act. I have many female friends now. I know women so intimately now unlike I ever did before. I used to believe all the crap society taught me.I only aim to call them out on it when they lie. Men are sluts, we all know and believe it. But so are women. Men do bad things. But so do women. Men and women are equally sexual.But nobody wants to believe it. But we all need to know the truth. And it hurts to know the truth for us men.Because yes men are sluts. But we recognize that we give almost all women a chance. The reverse is not true for women. Women can be 100% as slutty as men. But they are only sluts for a very small percentage of men.And that is what makes men angry. We know that women are having a lot of sex. But it’s only with a small percentage of us. We know that women are horny and love men. But only a small percentage of us. The rest of us, women only settle because there is not enough men who they truly desire around. So they have to settle eventually.That I think is what we believe. Am I wrong? I don’t feel like I am. I see it all the time. Girls flirting with me in front of their boyfriend. Touching me, telling me I’m cute. And he’s standing 5 feet away. Hell I had girls say it to me with their boyfriend standing right next to them.Girls are just as horny as men. But the Love only goes to very few of us.That’s why I think men get angry and slut shame. We know women are sluts we accept it. But we hate it because we know we don’t get a piece of woman’s slut action unless we are a certain type of highly desired man. The rest of us have to beg for scraps. Pay women and be their beta male provider while the attractive men get to have fun casual sex with as many women as they want. We all wish we could have a piece of that too and be desired too. But we aren’t.
Well that’s how I see it. The root of all of this man vs woman hate, on the men’s side is that we know and see very well that women love men, love sex. But only a very small percentage of men get to truly experience a woman’s love and lust. The rest get scraps.
Thank you for your reply. But for me is nobody is a slut except this person cheated or play with someone's feelings.
Anon... you win the weeks award for most clueless and/or hypocritical.
@KrakenAttackin Oh, I'm sorry. Which country are you from where staring is a polite thing to do?
As a woman, cover up or don't complain. Sick of hypocritical women like.When I want attention I show more skin. Get over yourself and quit justifying retarded female behavior.
@LLYN-95 then I expect men not to complain if gay men ogle them while they're shirtless in public
@mistixs basically. Lol
@LLYN-95 "cover up or don't complain" you tell that to sexual assault victims as well? We all "take a look" but staring is impolite wether its the breasts or any part of the anatomy. It often comes with verbal or even physical harassment. Keep the insults to yourself because I don't recall asking for your opinionHey it's ok if you like men staring at your chest fat rolls, I just don't. Here's your bag of attention
oh for fucks sake. Its not ok if they touch and rape. "eye roll". Just stop bitching if they stare. Sick of you woke ass women.
@LLYN-95 People like you are the reason they keep disrespecting us women
no, its people like you that create hypocritical annoying ass women that flaunt their twat then throw a fit when some guy gives a stare.
@LLYN-95 Also, don't say retard. Having cognitive disabilities like my brother is not an insult, it's a condition some people can't control and it's definitely not a pejorative term..
switching the subject now to look superior lmao fuck off yah smelly twat.
@LLYN-95 I barely understand what you're writing and I don't "flaunt", I'm skin and bones. I don't even have a chest but that doesn't stop men from staring at whatever they think they can see through my clothes. They don't even need to see chest and when they do some think it's an invitation to be nasty. On top of that it's plain rude to stare and if your tiny brain can't comprehend that then this conversation is pointless. You're a lost cause
@LLYN-95 Thank you, well said.
The only ones I've noticed starring are women. Women must be very impolite according to your definition of the word.
No, actually you are. LLYN-95 is being an adult about it.
Retard fits you all the way. I certainly don't mean that toward your brother. He wasn't given a choice while you were.
I feel women dress to feel better about themselves... so question an answer time...Why does dressing like this make them feel better?It’s the attention they get... they don’t like it but the attention makes them know their desirable...So even if they hate the attention they do it FOR the attention...Bigger question... if a woman goes out naked in stilettos do you think men should look away? Why? She’s out there voluntarily so why can’t we look? Oh you feel bad then cover up! I think it’s rude to men for women to dress like that if we can’t look you can’t dress that way.
You people aren't worth it. Have a nice day
Men do stare at legs. When I'm fit, they are one of my best features. I'd rate mine a nine or a ten. I feel dirty wearing shorts. I tend to cover them up more. You go to Africa, and women don't wear shirts, but the legs are a big no-no. Until recently, it was a universal thing that women wore long skirts.The legs are pretty sexual. Imagine living in a second world country where you're running up and down mountains every day. Or a female gym rat in a mini skirt. We show them now because they aren't the legs they used to be. Not because they aren't inherently sexual.
Women stare at men too. That is all.
https://gyazo.com/ebfd84b9936e3c82937e78b5978ea5deSo you're telling me that women don't expect us to look when they wear things like this. Sure. And lovely how you used Mark Twain's quote as a means of damage control. The irony is that you're the kind of stupid that quote tells to avoid.
@TruthBringer there's a difference between looking and staring
@mistixs Staring is an even bigger form of validation. Just saying.
@TruthBringer someone plagiarizing your work is a form of validation (imitation is the sincerest form of flattery) but that doesn't mean most people want it to happen to them
@mistixs They don't want it from that ugly dude. They do want it from that attractive stud. Why? Because it boosts their self esteem.
@BigSis Different cultures different customs. Naturally, there are going to be differences between North America and Africa.
@LLYN-95 She feels so strongly about "normalizing" cleavage that she post Anonymously.
I honestly can’t believe how men can’t handle such an easy thing to do. It’s like saying thank you after someone does you a favor. It’s basic fucking decency. If you can’t fucking understand that you’re either a psychopath or have autism, and I’m not blaming you if you have social issues but you need to address those instead of blaming women and talking about rape. I can’t believe how y’all started talking about rape only because we said we don’t want to be harassed. You guys are probably the type of person who justifies rape and says that the girl was wearing revealing clothing so she “deserved it.”You guys don’t represent men as a gender. I know men are much, much better people. You are just the excluded group, the disgusting animals exiled from society who only blamed women and think everything is done for your own pleasure. Disgusting animals.
@navyrobin Thank you Karen.
@navyrobin Oh look, Karen is still pleading her case. Even after everything she said got debunked by a bunch of people. Sorry booboo, but facts remains: Don’t want attention, then don’t ask for it. And just because we realize this, doesn’t mean we smooth talk rape or that any girl dressing revealing clothes deserves to get raped or whatever. Rape comes to literally anyone. Not our fault that the rapist gets the urge much quicker when he sees a girl dressed provocatively compared to a woman wearing modest clothing. “You guys don’t represent men, there are much better men wah wah wah”. Yeah, the same thing can be said about you. I’m glad my family members, my girlfriend and a bunch of other women on this website like Marilynjuana and Daniela1982 don’t think like you. They aren't entitled women who can’t fathom the concept of accountability.@KrakenAttackin As you can see, this is a clear example of “if they can’t control you, they try to ostracize you”. Typical feminazi behavior whenever they are incapable to come up with intellectual arguments.
@TruthBringer It's true. This is almost like man taking dating advice from a woman, the advice is wrong 99.9% of the time. These women don't even know their own minds, which is the really bizarre aspect.
@KrakenAttackin Hey we#ve all made that mistake at one point.
"Don’t want attention, then don’t ask for it. And just because we realize this, doesn’t mean we smooth talk rape or that any girl dressing revealing clothes deserves to get raped or whatever. Rape comes to literally anyone. Not our fault that the rapist gets the urge much quicker when he sees a girl dressed provocatively compared to a woman wearing modest clothing. " so it is the victim'd fault? Ok then dont complain about getting raped by gay, if you show a liitle of disgusting face. I can't believe, i did not know you are that low“You guys don’t represent men, there are much better men wah wah wah”. Yeah, the same thing can be said about you. I’m glad my family members, my girlfriend and a bunch of other women on Daniela1982 don’t think like you. They aren't entitled women who can’t "As you can see, this is a clear example of “if they can’t control you, they try to ostracize you”. Typical feminazi behavior whenever they are incapable to come up with intellectual arguments." Says the one who report every opinion of mine. Stop being hypocritical. You care only about freedom of speech, when it only benefits you.
"Don’t want attention, then don’t ask for it. And just because we realize this, doesn’t mean we smooth talk rape or that any girl dressing revealing clothes deserves to get raped or whatever. Rape comes to literally anyone. Not our fault that the rapist gets the urge much quicker when he sees a girl dressed provocatively compared to a woman wearing modest clothing. " so it is the victim'd fault? Ok then dont complain about getting raped by gay, if you show a liitle of disgusting face. I can't believe, i did not know you are that low"As you can see, this is a clear example of “if they can’t control you, they try to ostracize you”. Typical feminazi behavior whenever they are incapable to come up with intellectual arguments." Says the one who report every opinion of mine. Stop being hypocritical. You care only about freedom of speech, when it only benefits you.
@KrakenAttackin Even though we can't stand each other, I respect you for no reporting/blocking me. I do the same. At least you hold on to your principles.
@TruthBringer i did not expect that from you. i really believe you care about limitless freedom of speech ' cause you mention this a lot and so I thought you dont block/report people. At least hold on to your statements, instead of being hypocritical.
@hi_it_is_me123 Rape is not the victim’s fault in itself. Like I said, rape can come to anyone. Even if you wear the most modest clothes, being in the wrong place and the wrong time can lead to rape, unfortunately. Yet ignorant people like yourself keep ignoring real life. A rapist (if male) is still a man. A man with urges. If he can’t control his impulses because he sees a provocatively dressed woman, then YES the decision of dressing that way ADDED to the chances of things getting out of hand. Does that mean she is entirely at fault? No. Does it mean she is partially to blame? Yes. Will that blame justify the rape? HELL NO.Like I’ve said to the other twinkle toe. If I’m flashing a Rolex in a ghetto, then I increase the chances of getting mugged. Perhaps even shot. Or maybe kidnapped. Who knows.Freedom of speech is for everyone. Your racism towards people isn’t considered freedom of speech, girly. That’s considered forbidden at least here in the Netherlands. And we got better freedom of speech compared to the US from what I’ve seen. You’re commenting here, right? It’s your freedom of speech to give your opinion on this topic and I’m free to comment and contradict it. Why? Because it’s freedom of speech. You’re the one telling people to shut up and stop talking because you clearly don’t like what they say. You’re another snowflake who can’t handle people having different opinions. Get off the internet then, sweetie. This place is not for you.Also, I don’t block. I only reported your racist comments to the other man. I’m not going to sit here and report every comment you made. And unlike you, I’m not going to make duplicate accounts and act like I’m the other gender in order to “get back at” another person.
I know more modest women than who get raped. It has nothing to do with provocative clothes. If their only goal was sex, they would go to a prostitute. In my country prostitution is very cheap and available everywhere but it still happen. They do it because they are satanic psychopaths who like to make the victims suffers. And dont call them men. Men dont rape, only satanic monsters do that
Freedom of speech is different in america. I would not report anyone to police just because this person was racist to me. Police has better things to do. I experienced racism and my cousin get attacked by some austrians for wearing hijab, by friend was beaten up for wearing hijab. Making racist statements does not matter and reporting people for this is belittling racism.
Dont lie to me, you freak report every opinion of mine. who would report it then opnions which was at you? I am litterally shocked.
I am starting to be afraid of you. First you report every freaking opnion of me, second you spam everyone who does not agree with you, third you stalk me to report every statement of me. Are you a sociapath? What the hell is your problem? Who stalk a person to report every opinion to the point my account frozen. I get it we do not agree with eachother but who tf does that? Stay away from you. You have serious issues.
Stay away from me**
@hi_it_is_me123 Trust me, I only reported like 1 thing of yours. It takes more people to report 1 comment to have it removed as far as I know. Quite the hypocrite aren't you? Look at the amount of replies you've given. And then you tell me I'm spamming. Not to forget you created a duplicate account just so you can respond to me which is now inactive. If you don't want to talk, then don't talk nor message me privately. People who are scared of another person don't send them private messages. Weirdo.
@TruthBringer if you are honest at this point, i am sorry then. I just was confused that someone would report only the opinions who are adressed to you. Anyway if you are true here, i am sorry again.
@hi_it_is_me123 It's alright, don't worry about it ;)
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I don’t mind if someone is looking
Women are like fine art to be admired... if you don’t wanna show then cover up if you don’t cover ima take a peek. It’s fair.
The women who annoy me are the women who get angry when men are looking while she's leaving literally nothing to the imagination.
@Kelly6 and thats how it should be
@VanillaSalt yea fair enough lol
@Lloyd1985 and you are right in getting annoyed tbh
@Lloyd1985 Truth bomb dropped
Ah, finally a woman with sense. It's a breath of fresh air.
@TruthBringer hehe thanks darling
You mean this doesn't get you feeling all Niagara Falls? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KqcZDWOgj3U
Exactly this is just respect.
mmm... those are some sweet tits!
@Sabretooth Cringey guy alert
@navyrobin hahaha! I'm sorry, I couldn't resist myself. And no, I wouldn't say things like that publicly.
@Sabretooth LOL ok good 😂
I troll from time to time-I make it pretty obvious.
haha truth fucking hurts baby cakes don't it?
hahaha, I love how every now and then someone sincere pops up xD
Finally someone said the truth
Yes. I mean if a girl has giant tits and she's wearing an oversized fruit of the loom t shirt while grocery shopping, please leave her alone. But I like buying a lowcut dress and thinking "ho ho, wait till he sees this!" If there aren't any men in my life, I'm going to wear pajamas and the occasional pretty dress. Dress like a slut is uncomfortable, but sometimes worth it just for the thrill factor.
the girls downvoting this be like "stop telling our not so secret secrets!"
Alright she said it perfectly 😆
Thank God for common sense women. Too bad you are a minority.
Yeah that's more often true. I don't stare, but women have seen me glance and either didn't mind or gazed back at me or actually moved their hair aside to see her boobs even better when making eye contact with me, I more often think it's nothing, but find it interesting. When I was shopping at a store earlier today. A pretty girl was walking down and I was going by and we both made eye contact with each other. She kind of held it or well I guess I did for a split second, but sub consciouis or conscious in doing so. She didn't really have cleavage, it wasn't a deep cut shirt. But my peripheral vision noticed she did have a little v cut. But when making eye contact with me, her hair kind of moved her hair a little, it was subtle, but a little and a slight adjustment with her shirt that made her boobs more visible or less obstruction to the view of them. Sometimes if a girl is uncomfortable from a guy she'll do something that might alter to where she's covering it a little bit. But she did the opposite and that wasn't the only time that's happened.
Most helpful opinion right here!
Late to the party, but it's refreshing seeing a sincere woman with a functioning brain on this website. You are absolutely right! Sad to see you're not active anymore. This website got even worse each time someone sane leaving it. I can only wish more women choose to take accountability of their actions and see they are in control aswel instead of playing victim while they themselves are the perpetrators.
I couldn't have said it better myself! Everyone should read this. How the west is today with simping and only fans is why more conservative societies see showing off body parts as a taboo
Why do white American men think like cavemen. As middleeastern/Asian woman you are bullshit. Come here in turkey, you will get beaten up for staring like a bastard at us
@hi_it_is_me123 I’m not American, I’m from Libya.And your women are Muslim in name only, Turkish women have god awful personality, they dress like a slut yet act all moral when approached, they want to have it both ways, at least european girls are more honest with themselves
Aww so you arabic bastard. At least we dont lock the women up and force them to wear Ninja outfits
Anyway you guys shouod learn to control keep your dick inside, instead of raping women.
Arab men are most backward think men all over the world. You guys are stuckend in the stone age. By the way most of the Asian countries wear normal western clothes
@TruthBringer shut tf up, if you dont know a shit. Majority of arabs are backward. That is not racist, you libtard.
By the way you are again hypocritical and dont care how he talk shit about turks.
@hi_it_is_me123 *yawn* sorry, I don't speak racist. @Mark-IV has made far more sense than you ever will. And yet you call him "backwards". How ironic. Bet some Arab hurt your feelings and now you're talking shit about an entire race. And what he said about Turks doesn't make it a good thing. Although I agree with him to a certain point. But not entirely.
By the way nothing what I say was racist.
It is a fact that women are forced to wear burkha/hijab in many muslim countries and arab men tend to be more sexist and bsckward. I dont blame them, i blame their culture. They are raised like that to think so
@hi_it_is_me123 Well why didn't you say that much earlier? You've literally called Arabs in general backwards. And sorry hun, can't have your cake and eat it too. You only want me to stop because I don't buy into your bullshit. You're clearly hurt by an Arab. Need a hug booboo?
By the way if you hate onlyfans or any sex worker why tf you all supporting them by watching porn doe example? This whole sex industry exist because of men. It also exist in muslim countries where underage girls get forced to marry for a temporary time.
Also porn is mostly consumed in Asian/arabic world although it is sometimes illegal.
@hi_it_is_me123 It seems that you're the one obessed with them. That's why you have such strong feelings for them. You're so mad lmfao
@hi_it_is_me123 Sure you weren't serious, only you got mad when you found out this guy was an Arab lmfao so much damage control here
@hi_it_is_me123 Hahaha so mad
Creeps are one thing. but if you don't want any straight man within visual sight of you to look, don't wear it. By all means that's asking for the wrong attention. Men are visually stimulated above all else. Don't want to turn that on that biological impulse that we do unconsciously to vet for a healthy "mate". Don't dress like that simple as that. By this logic I guess a female baboon likes her ass being red. It doesn't signify anything at all. *Rolling my eyes into the back of my fucking head*
@matt_gymrat What I said:"You can look at her etc but you’re crossing the line when you only focus on her boobs if you’re talking to her. That’s something you CAN control, it’s not like your “biology” doesn’t let you focus on the words she’s saying. That in itself is objectification or sexism."What you thought I said: Do not ever look at women or you're a creep!
There's literally no difference in what you just typed. lmao
@matt_gymrat If you really can’t see the difference, that’s quite tragic.
I've literally had this conversation hundreds of times already with multiple women. Hot guys = good, not attractive guys = bad. The point is we don't get a chance just like right now with the condescending response. Holy fuck you're a piece of work.
My response is condescending because it’s like talking to a wall. Hot guys are still creeps for staring. Staring isn't the same as glancing. Okay?Staring = looking intently at somebody for longer than 5 seconds Glancing = just casually noticing somebody and then looking away and going about your day. If you are telling me that women should be held responsible by the lack of control men have over their own behavior, then yes you deserve every condescending response there is to it.
Well creeps should be told to fuck off but it seems like hot guys get off with a lot more.Don't act like what you just cooked up in your head came from my mouth. 24, was it? With sincerity you do well with the time that you have left because the wall is not gonna tickle.
@matt_gymrat "Creeps are one thing. but if you don't want any straight man within visual sight of you to look, don't wear it. By all means that's asking for the wrong attention. Men are visually stimulated above all else. Don't want to turn that on that biological impulse that we do unconsciously to vet for a healthy "mate". Don't dress like that simple as that."That is what you said, there's nothing more I "cooked up" in my head. You are justifying men's lack of control over themselves, and you're acting like women are responsible for YOUR behavior. "24, was it? With sincerity you do well with the time that you have left because the wall is not gonna tickle."Time that I have left for what? Are you on drugs?
RIGHT they'll blame the fact that they can't control themselves on the fact that they're a man. no sir, you're just a horny mess.
@matt_gymrat there is. why would you sit there and stare at someone's chest for eternity when you could take a glance then move on. that's just a lack of self control.
@life_is_hard He’s ignorant and doesn’t know it. In a way it’s comical because it makes you realize that he’s not trolling when he says women are to blame for all of men’s irresponsible behavior
@John_Doesnt. Well said John. This soi Boi needs to find his nut sack.
2 perfect examples of boys ⬆️
Exactly! Staring is rude at
Even the wording of this question proves my point..
@teesquareCanadian fag just like Justine Trudeau.
@joeblow123 Exactly, he probably goes on rants about "man spreading" as well.
Love the way you 2 keep proving what I said as tight. Thanks👍 maybe one day you'll grow up into a man and wear boxers too
One key thing you've missed. It's only rude and inconsiderate whenever they don't find a guy attractive. The dude they DO find attractive who is staring gives them validation, ESPECIALLY if it's a guy they desire.
No you're wrong... its rude and impolite to stare regardless of they find the guy attractive or. not. How would you like it of some girl you found attractive did nothing but stare at some body part. Would you rather not talk to her face to face instead face to distant eyes?
If I'm so wrong? How come so many feet. alws agreed with what I said?
Hahaha 8 women agree with you and many more men disagree in the comments alone. If you think the truth is based on the amount of likes you got, then I got bad news for you. This is female nature I'm talking about. Staring is uncomfortable unless in certain circumstances. I'm talking about these circumstances. Never have I argued that staring itself is good
@teesquare"How would you like it of some girl you found attractive did nothing but stare at some body part."It happens all the time.
@teesquareI get stares and smiles from girls all the time, dude. Hang it up, boy. You"re out of your league.
@teesquareTight with falsehoods.
@John_DoesntWhen it comes down to it you're alright.
Smh... definitely different leagues. Classy vs trashy. Guess which you're not
@teesquare your being a beta/soi boy/white knight will NOT help you get laid. These women wear skimpy outfits, push-up bras, short skirts, tight yoga pants, because they WANT ATTENTION. Just like the idiot who blasts his car stereo in residential neighborhoods. We can argue about "right" and "wrong" all day long, but what we are dealing with is fundamental human nature. If you take certain actions you will elicit certain responses, only a fool denies this. These women WANT attention, but they only want it from the top 5% of Chads (which does not include you by the way). Think about that. You are fighting for a woman's right to cock-tease every man in a room and GET MAD if they get attention from anyone but the one Chad. Don't go down this female non-sense road.
@KrakenAttackin Isn't it sad that I got more experience with female nature compared to that man who is literally twice my age. It's thanks to this knowledge I managed to have success in dating (relationship and weeding out low quality women) and overall self improvement. I can't imagine thinking like that guy at the age of 47, yuck!
@KrakenAttackin I've read the other threads where you are in a flame war with my stalker. Yes, I know she is here. Stirring shit up. She gets bent out of shape when I talk to other girls. She is so jealous she tries to sabotage my conversations with other women. I told her incels and MGTOW's are not the same thing (I'm MGTOW) and now she is finding out how right I was.
@joeblow123 Who is the stalker? Maybe I also clashed with her lmfao
@TruthBringer "Who is the stalker?"Hi it is me 123. This will back my case: mensrightsboard.blogspot.com/.../...itisme123.html I told her not to badmouth the Men's Rights Movement. She didn't want to follow that rule so I told her to hit the road: mensrightsboard.blogspot.com/.../blog-post_21.html "Maybe I also clashed with her"I don't know. Have you?
@joeblow123 Dude that racist girl I've been arguing back and forth with under this thread? LMFAO. Just check out Mark-IV's and Scarlet's comment section and see for yourself. That girl is not only a stalker (apparently), but is also a low IQ racist prick who can't come up with arguments that don't backfire at her. She attacked a Libyan man for being Arab and shared a video that Arabs are "the least desirable". That video ended up contradicting her claim. This girl is beyond pathetic.
@TruthBringer She gets into fights with so many people it's hard to keep track.
- There is a difference between intentionally baiting someone, and envying their wealth.-There is a difference between flaunting your body in spite knowing how the opposite sex thinks, and acting entitled to an inanimate object in someone else's possession when they didn't invite you to that inanimate object.- There is a difference between sexual self-broadcasting, and being enslaved by another for something you have but don't broadcast boastfully.- There is a difference between noticing something that someone puts on a huge display, and breaking into someone else's private zone to steal forbidden knowledge.- There is a difference between gazing, and outright theft.All your counters are lynch-pinned on an inability to make fine distinctions.
Why do men feel the need to come up with the most random analogies about when it comes to issues regarding gender? Like what you guys say don’t even make sense and even you sillies know it because you constantly have to do this irrelevant analogies that aren’t actually touching in the actual subject and essentially creating loopholes so their ideology can make sense.
You crafted the analogies. I merely deconstructed them, showing them to be absurd and dishonest. Unless invited, or it were an emergency, I wouldn't go through a woman's phone. I expect the same courtesy regarding mine. Besides, you'd be bored going through my phone. Mostly Instagram posts about how Whitmer is an evil dictator. Or how FB Fact Checkers are full of BS. Or how Pelosi is insane. Or how Bill Gates belongs on a rocket headed for the nearest neutron star.My salary wouldn't impress you. My van wouldn't impress you either. You might like my arms, but that's about it.
@laPrincesitaRoxi Exactly. Some men are pathetic they only wanna blame their bs on girls/women
@ObscuredBeyond What do you mean by women intentionally baiting men?WE 👏🏼 DONT 👏🏼 DRESS 👏🏼 FOR 👏🏼 YOU!
@navyrobin: "I'm gonna flaunt it, cause I got it!"Dude: "Okay."Her: "Not you!"Other gal: "Skank!"Her: "You're just jealous!"Dude: "Whatever."Whether a chick flashing her rack, or a dude rocking his guns, it doesn't matter whom you're doing it for. It's still vanity. And do you think vanity is without a price?
@navyrobin : YOU don't dress for a man's gaze. You don't speak for all women. Believe me. I've had wannabe "Girls Gone Wild" show up at disrupt video shoots of mine that had nothing to do with the topic. Maybe you're not insane like that; but trust me: those types do exist.
We don't have boobs though. What you listed are things everybody should have.
@ObscuredBeyond You just don’t get it, do you? Not everything is about YOU. Women don’t dress for YOUR pleasure. Assuming that we do just speaks volumes on your selfish and entitled attitude
@navyrobin Hey dipshit.Actually challenge his point.
@FýrdracaDócincel Hey scumbag. Actually insulting other people will not make them take you seriously or listen to your demands.
@navyrobin Hey retard.I don't care. Argue correctly or kill yourself so the rest of us don't have to deal with it.Do.. the world.. a favor.
@FýrdracaDócincel I think this advice would serve you well. Thank god for abortion rights. We can now decide not to have a child who’s going to be such an ignorant, meaningless moron like you. 😘
@navyrobin Right.. moron.Like someone who was EXPLICITLY TOLD that what she does doesn't reflect on all women and still found it in herself to talk back.
@FydracaDocincel And you found it in yourself to insult someone you don’t even know! And NOBODY a asked for your contribution. You’re truly a disgusting animal. Have fun with that attitude 🤩
@FyrdracaDocincel You act exactly like a spoiled brat. I realize you literally ARE a spoiled brat. Pathetic. Jump off a building and do everyone a favor 💞
@navyrobin : That's been all you've been doing this entire time! DEEERRRRRPPP!!! You insult and accuse me, instead of address my actual point. And you're mad that Fydra does it? Don't beclown yourself!
@navyrobin : You don't know on God's behalf what the child's attitudes are going to be 20 or 30 years later. Stop using your inability to argue correctly as a justification for your bigoted ageism.
No women don’t dress for you like navyrobin said and fydraca it was sarcasm I was making fun of how stupid men sound when they say we do things just for them like gross, this why the marriage rate has significantly gone down
You would've found the women I went to high school with extremely stupid then. They DID do those things for men. They wore the sluttiest outfits they could get away with to a Halloween party one year. They WANTED the attention. But still bitched if the exact guy they wanted the attention from didn't give it to them; and complained when they got attention from one they didn't want. As if everyone were supposed to read their minds, and know which one they were trying to impress, and that only that one was allowed to have an opinion, but only if it were the opinion they wanted.My only opinion of all that, was that it was asinine. I still focused my attention only on the two different women that I really gave a rat's behind about at the time, and not for what they were wearing. But they were always off trying to impress some other guys with all that skin-tight cat suit wearing and all that ass-shaking, as if they didn't think they had anything else to sell. And ignored me when I told them otherwise.The night ended with me disappointed that I couldn't find anyone to have an intelligent conversation with. And them disappointed, because the dudes they tried to impress with their bodies could always find some chick with a better body somewhere else, and didn't need them. But it never occurred to them that all they had to do was talk abstractions with me; and I would have happily returned the gesture, and made their night more productive.So YOU don't do it, Roxi. And good for you. But don't act like there aren't women out there who don't. You've never lived in my neck of the woods. You'd probably consider them beneath you; but they do exist.
They weren’t “women” they were girls, I get a bad taste in my mouth when guys referring to young girls as women when they aren’t it’s just creepy as fuck. Also no high school girls don’t just dress sexy for men that’s just the age age when a lot of girls want a more mature look sorry but it’s just a part of puberty. Also well yeah most people end up disappointed when their crush didn’t like them the fuck? And it was high school girls OF COURSE THEYRE EXTRA EMOTIONAL AND BECOME UPSET ONCE AGAIN PUBERTY DOES THAT. Also you just aren’t understanding women don’t dress for men right? Like I don’t understand how males just can’t take a fucking answer for what it is, nobody dresses for you a want to act mature in high school and obsess over boys is completely normal and apart of growing up you’re overthinking it line crazy. Also they ignored you because you sounded dumb and thought what you thought on your own, they dressed sexy for them and probably didn’t give a shit about their crushes approval neither it isn’t how it works. Also you sound like a narc if you think agreeing with you is an “intelligent conversation”.Sorry to break it to you but they didn’t care to and probably wouldn’t care to now, you ended up alone because you have a shitty personality and don’t let people talk for themselves. They didn’t need you and pretending all of it was more than it was and trying to project all this negativity onto them is clearly just you. Everything you describe was just pure misogyny, there was nothing there that told me these girls dressed for anyone, you’re just an idiot who had weird ass Incel like thoughts if I’m keeping it real.
@ObscuredBeyond Lol, I'm not the one who started throwing insults. You are just biased toward his favor because he has a dick too. a small one probably :P
@laPrincesitaRoxi It's like some guys are born with a tumor in their brain or some kind of brain condition or EGO PROBLEM that doesn’t let them understand basic shit. Hilarious but tragic.
The logic of creeps: “Lets blame women for our own irresponsible and entitled behavior”
I spent my life controlling myself for the benefit of women. Not looking at their bodies, respecting their boundaries.They thought I was gay.I now know that I was wrong to be so cautious and caring for women’s feelings. And that it has caused me to suffer alone for most of my life, despite being attractive and having women’s attention. Having women throw themselves at me. I was so scared of being offensive, so scared to make women uncomfortable. But all it ever did was screw me over.I only learned that women think I’m gay, because I ended up making friends with a lot of girls. And these girls wanted me to change. They wanted me to flirt with girls. They wanted me to look at their bodies. They wanted me to “be a man” and to chase women. To chase every cute girl I see. They told me I should be a player. Why the hell would a bunch of girls tell me that shit if women supposedly hate players?So you know what? I think y’all are full of it lol. Complete BS. You want men to chase you. Just the attractive ones. That’s the only reason my female friends encourage me to chase women. Because I’m allowed to because I’m attractive. Ugly guys are the ones that make you uncomfortable and angry.I now see it for what it really is. And women are the ones that taught me.
@Kaazsz Welcome to the Brotherhood.
@Kaazsz this is a masterpiece. Give this man a prize. 👏👏👏
@Kaazsz You have absolutely 0 understanding of what women actually think. They probably thought you were gay because you acted in a more "feminine way" like having a high pitched voice or flirting with men. Being a decent person who doesn’t harass women is not a gay trait. Lol
You girls know that if you show your tits then guys will stare. Instead of bashing men and blaming them, fucking own it and keep it pushing. Why all these mental olympics. Who cares.
If it bothered you, you'd stop. That's common sense.
@Marilynjuana That is exactly like saying if a man is showing off his brand new million dollar Lamborghini, don't be surprised if he attracts gold-diggers. He has to stop showing off what his money can buy so that women stop attracting themselves to his money.
@navyrobin It's not the same thing :'). Just because you might be selfish and a gold-digger, doesn't mean that the rest of us are. Men, however, are mentally wired to be attracted to tits. We all know that. If you don't want the attention, cover up. You can't be the victim when you are perpetrator, darling girl. Sorry.
So, it’s completely okay for men to stalk and harass women because they “are attracted to tits.” Got it.
Not to be cruel but this is exactly why you attract men who cheat. You accept any type of irresponsible behavior.
@navyrobin Oh fuck off with that. Don't get personal regards to cheating with me. I got cheated on because I was long distance with a man whom I didn't fully know. I take pride in owning my shit, instead of convincing everybody around me that I am some sort of a "victim". You're absolutely vile for using cheating against me here. Clearly you read my past questions and saw that I struggle deeply with the pain that followed. You're disgusting. I have no other words for you. Go flash your tits and keep on whining, little cupcake. Other little delusional snowflakes will agree with you, I will stick with being rational. Using cheating against me is the battle cry of somebody who just lost. To hell with you.
And yes, shocker, straight men are attracted to tits. Are you really that surprised.
Okay. I’ll ignore your rant. And yes, I know they’re attracted to women but that doesn’t give anybody the license to harass others. I’d say the exact same thing if a woman objectified a man just because he happens to wear an attractive outfit. It’s not right to whistle or cat call.
@navyrobin actually I’m lucky to have overheard them talking about me too. They liked me from day1 and flirted with me relentlessly. They decided I was gay when I didn’t act like most men act.We used headsets to communicate. They thought I wasn’t on the headset one day and I got to hear them talking about me. Basically I’m very masculine. My voice is super deep which I already knew. One girls said I had a very masculine laugh (how does that work?) and it’s very cute because of it. They said they love my smile and it makes their hearts melt. They said they catch female customers ogling me from a distance.This was all before I was closer to them.I was always very open and honest with the girls. And I asked them directly for help. I talked to them about my shyness and how I felt about approaching women. That I didn’t want to disrespect women or make them feel used. I am an extremely honest guy and I told them everything about myself and they gave me honest replies.They basically told me to “fuck their feelings, and have sex with girls. Flirt with girls. “Fuck bitches get money” literally they said to me. When I asked why they would encourage me to be a player when they themselves have said how much they hate players, they said to me “you’re different. It’s OK because it’s you.”I was very open and honest with them and so they were open and honest with me. I asked them for help and they gave me the opposite advice I expected to hear. They didn’t tell me to be respectful or whatever. They told me to fuck bitches get money lol.
@navyrobin You'll ignore my "rant" because a deluded coward never has the balls to take back something like that. Sweetheart, go to hell. Be a victim there.
@Kaazsz If they really told you that, that is fucked up. Their viewpoint is toxic and self destructive. I don’t think you should take the experiences you had with a couple of girls to mean that it’s the same thing with all women... @Marilynjuana Are you done complaining or are you going to keep defending people for being disrespectful asshats by saying it’s in their “genes” to harass?
@navyrobin I'd gladly stop chatting with you, so please don't quote me. You have no valid arguments or points so just stop. Perhaps head back to school, yes, it is wired in straight men to be attracted to women. I didn't say shit about harassment, as you can see. Stop imagining things to fit your narrative. It's weird.
@Marilynjuana You understand that women are not bothered at all by men being attracted to them, but by being harassed for wearing clothing that exposes their cleavage right? That was what the question was asking. Your mindset is so sad it’s not even funny
@Marilynjuana what if a man is attracted to female ass?
@navyrobin Since when is "staring" harassment? Please look at the question yourself and riddle me on that.
It was a lot more than a couple. I have a large group of female friends now. Girls I worked with, girls I met around the town I moved to, my sister’s friends. Also a couple gay dudes who offered to help turn me into a player. And the girls said I should take them up on the offer.Well I never did take up the offer and I still haven’t become a player. I still feel too much shame and guilt for being a man.It’s funny, when I was younger and far more clueless, I was a loser and loner. I’d go to bars and clubs with my loser friends. I’d stand there and do nothing and drink.Girls would actually approach me. They would try to talk to me and flirt with me. I remember one time a girl got mad and screamed in my face “what are you fucking gay?” She was angry that I wasn’t flirting back and touching her and all that. Many girls approached me and walked away looking dissapointed. Because I was too scared to be flirty and sexual because I didn’t want women to be afraid of me. I didn’t want to offend women. I didn’t want them to think I was nothing but a sex crazed horny monster.Back then I believed I was ugly. I wasn’t ugly I was cute AF. I didn’t know it because of how much I hated myself. I had all the evidence in the world that chicks liked me and I was blind to it.I always wondered why girls sometimes would get into these weird situations with me. Like “you dumb bitch you’re lucky I’m not a rapist cuz you shouldn’t have gotten alone with me like this” I would think. It was just because they thought I was gay because I want being flirty and sexual with them. Like damn, can’t a guy just be a nice respectful man and not be gay?
@scooogy So? The solution is that if you are attracted to anything, face, tits, ass or anything (men or women), don't stare? The people who complain here (including @navyrobin who accused me of complaining, bit hypocritical) are in full power over this situation. Cover up your tits or wear pants less tight if you don't want looks (which apparently is harassment now?)
@Kaazsz That is honestly so weird to me. Where are these girls even from? If anything these girls were the ones harassing you.
@Marilynjuana Staring is harassment. Glancing isn't. Learn the difference.
@Marilynjuana I actually discovered your reply so late that the staring thing came right within. I just wanted to ask if preferring a girl's made me less of a man in your opinion. 🙈
@navyrobin Please Google what “harassment” actually is. You’ve proven to be a clueless hypocrite, please stop tagging me lol. Embarrassing.
@navyrobin all over the world. I was in the military. Though I was stationed in various states in the US and went to clubs there. I also deployed and went on training excursions to other areas and countries. I would be the only guy from my career field sent along with a large group of guys one for each area of the aircraft we worked on.I would just follow them where they went. Lots of the military guys were players. Get girls drunk and take them to the hotel.I’ve been to bars and clubs all over the world lol. And girls approached me in all of them. Though I had too much self loathing to see what was going on. When the girls would walk away disappointed it just reaffirmed my believe that women didn’t like me at all.But really it was the fact that I wasn’t flirting and staring at their bodies and being sexual with them.It took so many years to finally figure it out. My friends I have now helped me a lot. I can flirt now. I tend not to though. Not unless I feel comfortable. Like if my other female friends are around I feel comfortable to flirt.I’ll touch girls. Hug them. Look them up and down head to foot. Let them catch me looking at their hips or their tits. They love it.But I still feel guilty about it. I have a lot of anxiety around it. A lot of times the anxiety hits me and I have to stop and I have to get away. Because I spent my life afraid to do those things and now I know how to do them and I know I’m expected to do it.I feel like when I do this stuff the girls latch onto me. And I don’t want to end up going home with one girl. Because what if I don’t like her tha much? What if we have sex and then I don’t want to see her anymore? I don’t want her to think I was just using her for sex.So I literally avoid girls now. I avoid flirting and all that even though I can now. And I learned cuz my female friends flirted with me relentlessly until I started flirting back. They would poke me and hug me and tease me and push me until I was comfortable.
You need to look up what it is, clearly you have no idea. The definition of harassment is “aggressive pressure or intimidation.” Are you seriously okay with a stranger staring at you for a long period of time and following you around because you’re wearing a certain type of clothing?
So I did learn to flirt and all that. I learned how to make girls like me. But I still avoid it. I feel guilty to date any girl because I never know if I’m going to like her. I don’t want girls to think I’m using them for sex.I told my friends about this as well. They tell me I’m being silly, that I should have sex with anyone I want if I want to. They literally told me to not care about their feelings. They tell me I deserve to have whatever I want.Why? Why do they say that shit? They are toxic? I don’t know.I don’t know what to think lol. And that’s why I’m still single. I just stay alone until who knows when.
@Kaazsz Thats honestly terrible. I wouldn’t want to force a guy to touch me just to show he's a real man. The women that have said this to you are ridiculous at best.
My happiest moments are when me and a girl both liked eachother. And we kind of end up drifting closer to eachother, physically and emotionally I suppose. Like one time I liked this girl. We never said a word to eachother. But she sat next to me at a friends house while we watched a movie. And somehow we inched slowly together till we were pressed up against eachother. By the time everyone was gone me and her were kissing. It was magical.I wish it could just be like that.But I can’t wait for that magic scenario. I feel like I have no choice but to flirt and touch and play these games to find a girl to like me. Because most of my life I have been alone and I now know that it’s because most girls expect the man to chase her and to flirt and do all this stuff.I don’t know any other way to do it. To get a date. Either get lucky and have that magic scenario, or flirt and all that. No flirting = girls don’t want you. As attractive as I may have been in my life it didn’t matter because I didn’t have the confidence to flirt and be sexual with girls.It’s not like I don’t like it. It feels nice to have females attention and to touch them and all that. But it definitely feels like a requirement to me. Like if I don’t do it I’m just making myself wait longer to date someone.At the same time I feel guilty for flirting and I feel guilty to have sex with a girl who I am not planning to marry. So while flirting and hugging and touching and kissing a random girl feels very nice. I feel guilty like I’m using her for sex so I just avoid it all together lol.At this point it isn’t about what anyone told me anymore. I have felt it now. I know what it feels like to have girls flirt with me and like me and throw themselves at me. I’ve had girls flirt with me right in front of their boyfriends lol.
Girls are crazy. They don’t give AF. Her boyfriend is like 10 feet away with the baby carriage and their 3 kids, and she’s leaning on me and touching me.It’s not a matter of what my friends told me with words anymore. I’ve experienced it myself. I see how flirting and touching and looking at a woman in a sexual way makes them respond to me.I know it because I feel it.I know a lot of guys harass women. It’s terrible for sure. I think some are doing it on purpose because they are angry at women and want them to feel bad.But some guys are just trying to not be weirdos who get rejected and they fail and get rejected anyways. Cuz most dudes are lost when it comes to women.And there’s plenty of guys like me who respect women and want to treat them right. And yet there is no help for them. Great guys y’all females would love to have but you don’t want them becaus they spent their lives respecting women instead of chasing them like animals.Women like that shit. They love that shit. As long as you do it the right way. But very few know how. And the rest are either lost or they are legitimate assholes who treat women like shit and harass them for fun.I don’t even know what I’m saying now lol.
@Kaazsz I don't know if it’s just me who absolutely isn’t like this or is it really a good % of women? I’ve met plenty of girls obviously and most of my friends are girls, I’ve never seen them act like that and I have a hard time imagining any of them acting like that. The women who’ve ridiculed you for being a normal decent person are assholes. Please don’t take their advice. I swear there are plenty of nice girls lmao
I feel like part of the reason you get harassed is cuz dudes don’t know what else to do. We would do whatever it is that gets us the girl we like. But most of us are lost. So we compensate with different strategies. Some are harassment. Some learn pick up artist stuff. Some go the red pill. Some say fuck it and go MGTOW. Some just hate women and treat them like shit.Cuz most of us are lost and don’t know wtf to do. If you’re not the perfect man flirting the exact perfect way, you’re either creepy, a jerk, gay, a loser, a “nice guy” a guy who is too nice, or who knows what.I mean I dunno. Maybe the Majority of dudes do just fine. If so I don’t know how. What are they doing that is respectful but also attractive?
@Kaazsz Minding their own business and not feeling the pressure of having to chase after girls is actually very attractive because it shows that you’re not a desperate lonely random person trying to get into our pants. If you genuinely like a girl because of her attitude (not just her looks) then you have a good reason to go up to her and have a casual chat. It’s social skills. I think that is what most women find very attractive at first (besides your physique of course).
I remember early on in my journey of changing, I would hang out with my sister and meet her friends. They were all beautiful of course. I would pretend like I didn’t like them because I didn’t want to be a weirdo.My sister told me they thought I was mysterious lol. I was just being shy and pretending not to be shy AF.It’s hard to not feel the pressure of having to chase girls. Because we’re all taught from day 1 that our value as men is entirely based on how many girls you can get.I was bullied all my life. I remember guys would say I’m a faggot, or a “never could get any pussy” loser.So I think we feel an immense amount of pressure to be able to “get” girls. It fucks us up. And we see certain kinds of guys have all the girls attention. And we try to emulate it.I believe what you said about not being desperate and having social skills. But I don’t think most guys believe that lol. We see the successful guys flirting and touching and try to copy.But you’re right it’s about social skills. It’s just some guys are legit assholes. And some are just feeling too much pressure from a society that says a man who has trouble getting a girlfriend must Automatically be some kind of inferior male.And I suppose most normal dudes just don’t have problems. I don’t know what that’s like lol.I love women. They treat me so well especially lately. The way they look at me. Maybe I always had it but was just blind to it. They are alway so sweet. Always treat me so nice. I like the way they look at me. It makes me nervous I get too much attention.I guess I can’t complain. I just wish some dudes who I know are the way I used to be, and are great dudes, could get some attention too. And I don’t know how to help them along. I don’t care about the assholes. But I do care about the shy lonely dudes who lived how I lived.I mean I can tell them to try not to feel pressured or desperate, and to work on their social skills. I don’t know if they’ll believe me though lol.
You would understand this if seeing skin turned you on as well. It's like that for men. We see too much skin or shape wr get turned on. In a way ut sexual harassment of men. You wear what you want but dont think it doesn't effect us. It does. It distracts us and we lose focus.Weak willed? Women are almost only exposed to motherly instincts. Men on the other hand have enough instincts and reliance in those for it to be an automatic response.Just cus you want to wear it doesn't mean that its harmless for all. Sure anyone whose used to seeing you like so won't get distracted much. But dont ask that of other men.Healthy men will actively look for good looking women. Its just like so.
@Marilynjuana YOU REKT HER. It's about time more women who think like you are on this website. As you can see, so many snowflakes are on this website that can't hold any accountability. It's all men's fault in their eyes. Even though they are part of the problem
@navyrobin Yes let me show off cleavage and call it harrassment whenever a gy can't help but stare at my boobs. Now that's "harrassment" all of a suddent, alrighty then. It's women like yourself who don't want to be held accountable for things you are also in control of. Sorry girl, but @Marilynjuana is in there right here. And nice attempt of using strawman arguments and bringin cheating in the game. Clearly a manipulation tactic since you can't come up with anything valid to counter Marilyn's arguments. You're clearly trying to damage control
@TruthBringer Ah yes, she “rekt” because she is always ready to kiss a guy’s ass even if it meant that a woman is being harassed. It’s always okay for men to stare no matter what. Got it!
@navyrobin Oh how cute, is that what you got out of her comment and that of others? And yes, a man is allowed to stare if you’re showing off your assets. Because you’re asking for it. What’s not okay is for him to physically or verbally do things that are unacceptable. If you’re so insecure and weak about males gazing your melons, then don’t show them. It’s that bloody simple. I bet if that hot Chad with a six pack happens to gaze for a while, you wouldn’t mind, just like how “harrassment” and “creep” and reserved for unattractive men. Oh and yes, she actually did rek you, and with simple logic. But ofcourse it won’t get through your thick skull, because it’s all about the FEELZ
@navyrobin aah yes your one of those types who simply wish to degeneratively speak of men and nothing else. You see if women aren't ready to understand men, men won't give a fuck about what a women thinks. So rant on. No one care.When your ready to find middle ground and "try" amd understand men, then you'll get answers you'll understand too.
@Harris_sresht @TruthBringer https://ibb.co/T2WSPtC
@navyrobin Ah yes, that guy's reply pretty much says it all. Women dress for men AND to compete against other women. Why do they compete? They compete for their sexual position in the eyes of men. It's that simple. Thanks for sharing it, even though you've pretty much proved our point even more
@navyrobin sure get off your own high horse and accept that if you wear stuff that can get attention it will get attention. Some might stare some might glance, sure staring is rude, but just using that excuse to downgrade all of men isn't acceptable either.SoDear numbskull pin up. Getting a character means having an ability to listen and understand other characters too.DONT. GENERALIZE. MEN. Also double standards much?Its ok if you dress around and distract us? We can easily call it deliberate harassment as well.
@Harris_sresht I’m not generalizing all men lol. I’m talking about creeps (and that includes women)
@TruthBringer? What point? It seems like you as a person only came here to complain
@navyrobin I'm not complaining, I'm contradicting you
@TruthBringer But you have no points to give. Just denying what I said. 😂
@navyrobin The point has already been made multiple times by people like Marilyn. It's not our problem you like to close your eyes to reality and try to avoid accountability. Sure booboo, it's all men's fault! Men are bad!
@TruthBringer I don’t believe things are necessarily men’s fault. And no I don’t think men are bad. It’s honestly pretty sad that you got THAT nonsense out of everything I said. You should learn that we’re not responsible for people’s creepy behavior and that includes staring and harassing. Creeps = men AND women
@TruthBringer You literally made 0 points. You just came here to contradict and deny and throw in strawmans.
@navyrobin Here is my point missy. Women don't dress for themselves when they show off their assets. They do it for attention. If you flash your assets willingly, then don't complain when you get "unwanted" attention. Which includes staring. I have said this before and I'm going to say it again. If I flash my Rolex in a ghetto, then I shouldn't be surprised or complain that I get mugged. What you project out to the world is what you get back. A woman who dresses classy/professionally is not going to get as much unwanted attention compared to a girl who shows off her cleavage and ass in leggings. So yeah, it IS your responsibility to lessen the odds of it happening. Don't want it, then don't entertain a whole gender who are following their instincts which they are biologically programmed to do.
@TruthBringer You are so insanely self-obsessed, so much to the point that you really think women give a fuck about YOU when they put a shirt on and some pants just to go to a local supermarket to get some groceries. "If you flash your assets willingly, then don't complain when you get "unwanted" attention. Which includes staring." That's like saying, if you buy a luxurious car, don't be surprised if you attract all types of psychopathic gold-digging women who will suck your wallet dry. You don't like that, do you? How convenient of you to say that."I have said this before and I'm going to say it again. If I flash my Rolex in a ghetto, then I shouldn't be surprised or complain that I get mugged." You are comparing thieves to men? It's very interesting that you say that, because it seems like you're the one who underestimates the level of control a man has over his own behavior. Do you consider men so desperate and so impulsive that they cannot help but to harass a random woman just passing by wanting to be left alone in peace? You are full of shit."So yeah, it IS your responsibility to lessen the odds of it happening." It's not a woman's responsibility that SOME PEOPLE are creeps. We are not responsible for your lack of self-control and your lack of morals. "Don't want it, then don't entertain a whole gender who are following their instincts which they are biologically programmed to do." Again, you're acting like men can't control their bodies like they're born as robots who cannot help but to do these things. These are the same excuses people make to justify rape and sexual violence in countries like Afghanistan. If that is your philosophy, your mindset isn't compatible with modern culture, so you should probably go to an ignorant culture who'll accept your viewpoints. Educated people absolutely hate the way you see things like this. What a disgusting opinion.
So i guess if a man wore bedazzled speedos and bow tie to your wedding or dates or approached you for a date wearing those, then at that time if you find that creepy, i guess we can call your way of thinking disgusting too?Its creepy when men wear those? You don't wanna see those types of clothing? Hmm i wonder why.Its a similar analogy that yiur trying to put off. The same way you get "turned off" or "disgusted" by something like a speedo tux in an event or on a date. We have such connected emotions too. Sure people who use it as excuse for harassment are scum. No way in anyway should a woman be harassed for it. But trust me on this, all men who look at your face when you wear something like that is making a damn good effort at it.Its in certain times disgusting, mostly distracting and if you're saying that some women can't feel good if they dont show skin then i disagree with you. I personally know friends who can dress up drop dead gorgeous without more than their face showing. In such clothes, we only have admiration to the beauty of women.Also yeah whether we want it or not getting a luxurious car does attract all sorta psycho gold diggers. Its a fact and packaged deal. Getting good money and getting good cars means also mostly getting exposed to those types tooo. IT can't BE AVOIDED. No use complaining (men do complain though, but eventually accept it as well).I suggest that you try to understand what comes with things and decisions you make. Is it your fault? No.Do you do it for men? No.Can you avoid the stares? No.Move on.Also i dont support any sorta criminals with this. I say these cus its about time you understand our side too. Also because we can share opinions here.
"Its creepy when men wear those? You don't wanna see those types of clothing? Hmm i wonder why." No? It's not creepy that they wear it? Why would it be, and why do you assume this is the way I think?
You think? Oh no sorry for that. No, its the way most women think. Now try and answer the questions in this perspective.
@Harris_sresht Yeah I know what you mean, but I think people are misunderstanding women when they say "You can glance, but staring is creepy" because it's true. Imagine a woman who can't stop staring at you and even follows you back home just because you decide to wear some shorts or a pair of pants that exposes your bulge (I don't know).
Glancing is okay. Looking is okay. But when it becomes a stare (when you literally don't stop looking at our body in that way), we get uncomfortable because it makes us feel unsafe like you're planning on doing something wrong
It is creepy but can we avoid it 100% of the time?
@Harris_sresht It's called manners, just part of being polite and not disrespecting another person. If a man can't do that, it means he's a bully and doesn't consider the other person's feelings because he lacks morals, which is the type of men women label as creeps for good reason
The question my dear friend, is how you label many men who like that who just happens to find your cleavage or exposure good and looks a bit longer. Is tgat fair? If its obviously stalker - ish, it is fair to assume that. But is it fair to do that or to act like that just because someone looks a few seconds more?Guess what, most women do this. Why?
Also, dont women have to follow such manners too? Can we call you creeps if we catch you looking a bit longer? (you might have just fallen for guy, but regardless of that?)
@Harris_sresht Some men may lack the social skills that most people have and they genuinely don’t know whether it’s okay or not okay, so I’ll give you that and it is unfair for those specific men, dear friend. But when you have a basic moral compass and when you respect others at a fundamental level, you know that it’s not right to do that to anyone, men or women. A lot of guys have been creeped out by women as well. But guys also get told that women can’t be creeps which is 100% false.
See? Now we're getting somewhere in middle ground.The thing is most men are socially awkward when it comes to the womem they like.Suppose a man falls for women, trust me, he's gonna have a hard time talking up. If not, then damn he's a good smooth talker.But otherwise, men just get labeled left and right for these "misunderstandings". This genuinely damages some mens social anxiety levels.Imagine getting called a gold digger or pervert by someone you happen to fall for, just because you were looking at them.This is the day to day life of some men.You wearing clothes that we can't look away from or have to actively try and look away from doesn't makes this any easier for us.Imagine a guy walks up cus he likes you and trys to ask you out, but happen to blank out cus of your "cleavage", calling that guy a creep wouldn't help anyone, but will actually kill his confidence (sometimes).Lifes hard, especially for men who want dates, cus its easier for a women to land a date than it is for a man. So life IS hard, why make it harder?
Lemme just say for the record, life is hardest for women i do understand that. Being a women is like playing the game of life at its hardest setting possible, i do get that. But all im saying is that, do you have to make it difficult for other players too? If so, should it really be this way?
@Harris_sresht The problem that you don't seem to acknowledge is that there are real creeps out there, it's not always because a man is socially awkward. Many times he's literally a douchebag, an asshole, who just wants to harass a woman because he can. That is what women refer to as creepy behavior. If you're labeled a creep, then maybe change your behavior. Women don't have to adapt to your needs either, you don't have to make it harder for us either, we already get enough sexual harassment in other areas of life, why do you have to allow literal weirdos to stare at our bodies and make us uncomfortable? It's not fun. It's cute for you to say "let's make men's lives easier" but what about instead learning basic courtesy? Women don't stare at your dick when you pass by, do they?
I do acknowledge that there are creeps, just dont group us with those. And yeah I've been called a creep but guess what? I did nothing wrong. No stares no touches no nothing and yet still was called so.And no, i did mean to say it like "male men's life easier". You don't have to do shit about that. Just dont make it harder. You literally took the opposite meaning. Not making harder isn't actively trying to make it easier. Jsut dont make it harder.And yeah there are creeps, stalkers and, stares from women too. You dont have to allow anyone anything bjt taht doesn't mean that you can make em stop either.Just cus you said this do you think the stares will just go away? This is almost like you trying to shift all men into this. Manners or not, everyone looks. Some glance and makes an effort to not look again, some don't care and they are rude, some actively try and be creeps, if you can't distinguish between the creeps and and accidents and start labeling all into one category. Then I'd say its about time men did the same to women too.
Maybe men should all just label most women as gold diggers if we ever catch y'all looking at our cars or houses or expensive shit.We didn't buy em to get your looks, so eyes off. We don't appreciate you evaluating us as well, so we gonna wear what the hell we want and if you get turned off by it, guess what? Your thinking is just sub par.
@navyrobin Oh, how cute. On with the manipulation tactics again. I’m not self-obsessed, that’s what you make me out to be. I am speaking about (western) women in general, not that they want MY attention and validation. In fact, I couldn’t care less about if they did things for me. That care I reserve for my girlfriend, not some stranger.Ah yes, that’s also the by product when buying a luxurious car. It’s how you deal with it which matter. If I buy a luxurious car, I shouldn’t be surprised that I DO attract these types. And I don’t like gold-diggers. No where am I forced to be with one. A girl showing off her cleavage isn’t forced to deal with staring either. Don’t like it? Then don’t ask for it.Oh yes, men do have control. But so do gold-diggers. Reality is, there will always be those who lack impulse control as there are gold diggers who exist. And never did I imply men are thieves. Also, where did I say men? It could be a woman who is mugging me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbuVif1YzJwAlso, staring at some boobies hanging out is not harrassment. It’s only harrassment when they come at you with unwanted attention. You aren’t physically or verbally affected by staring, sorry boo but it is what it is.It’s not your responsibility that there are creeps and no one said it. It IS your responsibility to lessen the likelihood that you attract those type of people. Also, don’t twist words and make it seem we promote rape. We aren’t talking about rape. We are talking about staring and wanting attention. Strawman arguments won’t work here. So far, the only thing you’ve brought is butthurtness and manipulation tactics. It’s also insanely clear that you tend to attack the person rather than the statement. So you try to “discredit” the person in an attempt to “discredit” their statement (s). Typical behavior from someone who doesn’t have the intellectual capacity to come up with a valid counter argument.
@navyrobin And sorry to burst your bubble, but I am educated. Both academically and by expanding knowledge through books, podcasts, lectures, scientific studies etc. And funny enough, many educated people DO agree with me. We just happen not like our FEELZ and lack of sense for accountability drive our mindset. Sorry hun, but facts don’t care about your feelings. And facts stay: Don’t want unwanted attention, then lessen the odds by not dressing like a slut.- Greetings from a Dutch Air Force fighter pilot (in training) who has a background in psychology.
@Harris_sresht Yes go ahead and call out the gold diggers. That’s totally fine with me. Just have some manners and don’t stare at our boobs for 2 minutes straight. Basic courtesy. It doesn’t make your life harder. It’s easier than lifting a finger.
Y’all are really complaining about not being able to look at us. You guys clearly live in first world countries because that’s really something funny to be whining about. THAT is your problem right now? How cute.
@TruthBringer LOL. Trust me, you’re not as educated as you believe. I have a degree in psychology and currently working on my PsyD. Pilots aren’t very knowledgeable in studies around social psychology. Please don’t make me laugh.
@navyrobin Your degree ain't looking too good. Since apparently you can't seem to understand half of the population.Call it whatever you want, do whatever you want as well noone has any right to stop you.The question on here was why y'all getting angry about some who looks at cleavage.Well apparently you've convinced me that some of y'all can never understand nor are you capable of understanding that when you wear something that can get attention, it will get attention.Go ahead and be angry at creeps, but its when ignorant self absorbed narcissistic women can't tell apart those men from normal complimentary looks or even glances and jumps to conclusions, thats when it gets to the point where most people like get enough of that garbage.You clearly dont seem to understand this.I suggest that you save up before choosing a career based on this "degree" you have or are working on or whatever. It clearly isn't working out well for you.Also im done with this. The more this goes on the i feel like im losing brain cells here. Trying to explain an obvious so as to get an answer is tiring, doing it to someone who simply can't or won't understand it is even more so.Good night.
Also i request you to not tag me anymore this is getting embarrassing. Have a great day. Bye
@Harris_sresht Half of the population? LOL.See, this is what I mean. You think every single man has your exact same opinion, which is not true. There are plenty, and I mean PLENTY, of men who understand basic courtesy rules and basic decent behavior and they apply it to their lives. It's not that complicated--YOU are making it complicated by worrying about it and overthinking about what people expect and want from another person. It's basic respect, nothing more and nothing less. If you TRULY can't handle that, you have a real problem. This means you can't fit into societal norms and that's a big issue that'll affect you sooner or later.
@navyrobin Hahaha the psychology thing was prior to applying for fighter pilot training. And you're supposed to know anythign about psychology and yet deny women seek attention/validation when they wear revealing clothes. I sure am glad not to have studied where you did. at least we actually learn things here in the Netherlands 😂
@Harris_sresht You're so right. She clearly can't phatom basic understanding of female nature. She is the type who believes what she feelz is right instead of what is actually right. Clearly an uneducated little girl. Even a child can think more realistically than the likes of her. She is a waste of time and brain cells.
@SphynxUK. Another crazy feminist from the UK.
@SphynxUK. This is so beyond reason as to be idiot-speak. Seriously, either you don't know your own mind or you have simply convinced yourself of a colossal lie. Either way it once again shows how you can never take a woman at her word.
@TruthBringer I'm glad you didn’t study this either because if you did all you would do is deny what's right in front of you. I'll repeat it again, there's a huge difference between just LOOKING at someone in admiration, and then the other thing is if you stare for long periods of time. That's something anybody is uncomfortable with, not just women. If you can't stop looking at someone, that is truly a creepy and weird thing to do. It's like you either have no morals or you truly don't know how socialization works at all. 0 understanding of basic human interaction. It's part of being a decent person, it has nothing to do with gender.If you look at someone for large amounts of time, all you end up doing is making them feel unsafe. If you feel good doing that to someone else, whether it's a woman, man, child, whatever, then you're a downright creepy ass person. Nuff said.
@TruthBringer Look at what people think when someone stares at them for too long. www.quora.com/What-do-you-do-if-someone-stares-at-you-for-a-long-timeit's not just women. if you've never been stared at by a creepy person then you're fucking lucky, but if you're a normal human being you'd be creeped out as well.
@Marilynjuana Well said!
@navyrobin Ah, strawman arguments again. Of course it will lead to being uncomfortable for most people when they are stared at. Especially women. But that wasn't the whole point of this discussion. The point is, if you don't want unwanted attention, then don't provoke it by wearing certain things that increase the chances of it happening. But sure, keep beating around the bush, sweetie.
@Mamamialetmego Absolutely, he is spot on correct.
@TruthBringer LOL, beating around the bush? No. Your mom didn’t spank you hard enough. Learn some fucking manners.
@navyrobin Thanks for proving my point 😂
@TruthBringer Nobody proved your point, not even you, so please stop talking nonsense already. Lmao, you proved my point that you can't control yourself. Got it.
@navyrobin Lmfao literally everyone here has countered you. And that's not just under this post. And yes I have made my point. But you stick to your ignorance, self-victimizing mindset and wishful thinking if that helps you sleep at night 😘Fact remains: If you dress provocatively, then you're asking for (the wrong kind of) attention.
@TruthBringer Fact remains, if you can't control yourself, then you deserve the label of creep and every sexual harassment accusations there is. :P
@navyrobin True to some extent. Yet I don't call staring from a far sexual harrassment, especially if you didn't take pre-cautions that don't enhance the chances of these things occurring. But like I said, stick to your self victimizing mentality booboo ;)
@TruthBringer Staring is creepy and if you do it you’ll be labeled a creep, which you’ll deserve. Just a warning, nothing self victimizing about it. You’re the one blaming us for your actions. But anyway have a good day.
@navyrobin Creepy is something other than harrassment. And yeah staring can be creepy. But it's not (sexual) harrassment if no verbal or physical advances are made. Have a good one aswel.
@navyrobin Hey Robin, do you have a lock on your front door?
@TruthBringer Yes it is. You probably are very inexperienced with social interaction so you just speak from your imagination and 0 experience
@KrakenAttackin Irrelevant question, thieves come to your house to steal because they want your money or possessions. On the other hand, you are a human being and I hope you are able to have control over your actions. Or are you the type of person to harass somebody and blame it on them? Are you the type of man who will stare at a woman nonstop for the sole purpose of making her feel uncomfortable? If so, you deserve all type of sexual accusations that exist.
@navyrobin I've been in relationships and I'm currently in one. I've also had one night stands and have no problem interacting with both men or women. But please do keep guessing. You reek of cognitive dissonance and clearly suffer from prima donna syndrome and have no sense of accountability.
@TruthBringer You’re so incredibly confused. Go stare at all women for more than 1 minute, even while interacting with them stare at their boobs all the time without giving zero focus on their face. Let me know how it goes for you! :)Me, having no sense of accountability? How about YOU? You think I’m the one without a sense of accountability? You’re funny man.
@KrakenAttackin If staring is already considered "sexual harrassment", then imagine what happens if someone says hello. This is how women like her are: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c07k33O4aAU😂😂😂
@navyrobin The context you speak of differs from the one I speak of. When I talk about random dudes staring, I talk about them staring from a far and not making any advances. NOT in mid conversation. But like I said booboo, keep self victimizing
@TruthBringer Damn. You really don’t understand anything 😂.Staring is creepy as fuck, I don’t care what you have to say about it. Any normal person would agree that prolonged STARING (NOT glancing) is creepy and very inappropriate. You’re entitled to your opinion though.
@navyrobin You're backpeddling again. I already acknowledged staring to be creepy. And personally, I never do it because of that and because I never feel like doing it. I'm talking wether staring from a distance without engaging physically or verbally is considered sexual harrassment or not. Which it is not.
@TruthBringer Finally, you can acknowledge what I was originally saying. So you were arguing against something you imagined me saying. I said staring for prolonged periods of time is creepy and these are the things you got out of that:- You thought I was demonizing men. What a baseless assumption, coming right from your emotional impulsive reactions. - You thought I was talking about glancing or casual looking. I wasn’t. I’m glad you’re getting it. Before you react to what others say, read and listen to what they are saying. I was saying something and you were translating it into something completely different. Read.
@navyrobin I recall mentioning my train of thought before. I did mention that staring from a distance without making physical or verbal moves is not sexual harrassment. But you seem to have ignored that completely. And my original point was that it's within a woman's power AND her responsibility to minimize the chances of unwanted attention by NOT wearing provocative clothes that increase the chances of unwanted attention happening. Hence why the word "provocative" in 'provocative clothes'. Something you kept pushing aside and making it men's fault. I suggest you take your own advice. I've only repeated myself and you're the one who finally snapped out of your own impulses. Ironic really.
Lol again. And this is something you keep ignoring: I’m not talking about men only. I’m talking about creeps. Do you know what a creep even is? I highly doubt it. You are free to look at someone, but if you can’t stop staring at them, that’s fucking crazy. And you’re wasting your time. If you can’t stop yourself from doing that you belong in a nuthouse. I think the main reason why you keep arguing is because you thought I was talking about taking glances or just looking at someone casually. That isn’t what I mean. And you completely misunderstood the initial point.
Just as a little experiment. Pick a woman who’s wearing revealing clothing and stare at her for a solid 30 minutes. Go to a bar or restaurant and continue to stare at her until she leaves. I’ll be very interested in seeing what your experience will be like 😊 Good luck.
@navyrobin Clearly you're running around the bush to what my point is. My main point wasn't about wether someone is being a creep or not. You're clearly taking it to the extremes with your example. But you do you ;)
@TruthBringer Not beating around the bush whatsoever. I think you just keep arguing because you don’t actually understand what I’m saying. You actually agree with what I’m saying but you’re something completely different 😂. Staring someone for prolonged periods of time is fucking creepy whether you're butthurt that or not. But hey, you do you 🤣
You think I’m saying something completely different **
@navyrobin I already acknowledged that staring for a long time is creepy lol. I was talking about wether it's sexual harrassment or not 🤦♂️. But whatever 😂
@TruthBringer It is sexual harassment if you stare at their body parts for too long. I got bored of talking to you. Have a good one. You’re definitely entitled to any insane opinion of yours. 😂
@navyrobin Lmfao ironic when you talk about insane opinions when you're playing the vctim card. Like the others, including a woman have said. It's not sexual harrassment. It's only sexual harrassment when there are verbal or physical approaches made. Not when staring from a far to some cleavage that the person herself is happily to show. But be our guest and keep projecting your own bullshit, little snowflake 😂
Lol I mean I'm not insecure but it sure sounds like you are anon. 😂😂😂
@Simplismilez I'm talking about those who show and also get angry. Those who show without getting angry are at least honest.
How are they hypocritical? Because they are confident enough to wear clothes they feel good wearing, but don't want to be harassed? That is hypocritical?
Navy, they guy said staring, not harassing. There is a big difference from looking at something when it is written infront of your face and harassing someone.
@nathanp97 You can stare and still be harassing somebody. Unless you are glancing at her cleavage or just casually looking at them for 4-5 seconds at best, you're probably harassing her and she'll notice that you're doing that.
That's isn't harassment. You aren't actually doing anything. Looking isn't a crime. If harassment is anything that makes someone feel uncomfortable than everything can be harassment. It might be rude, but harassment is a crime staring isn't. And yes I keep repeating what I said. I'm just trying to get that across in slightly different ways
@nathanp97 It's okay, you can repeat it 1000 times if you want. But I hereby provide you with the definition of harassment by the Oxford dictionary: the act of annoying or worrying somebody by putting pressure on them or saying or doing unpleasant things to them. This can be in the form of staring. Most people, whether it's men or women, know innately when they are doing something wrong. If you don't know when you're doing something wrong it just means you have an issue with morals.
So by your definition showing cleavage is harassment? If a women is potentially harassing a guy, why does it matter if he does it back?I was also referring to the legal definition. Here is the Canadian definition of it:"Harassment is a form of discrimination. It includes any unwanted physical or verbal behaviour that offends or humiliates you. Generally harassment is a behaviour that persists over time. Serious one-time incidents can also sometimes be considered harassment."
"So by your definition showing cleavage is harassment?" No, I think you should read the definition again. I can’t believe this is actually what you got from it." If a women is potentially harassing a guy, why does it matter if he does it back?" Showing cleavage is not harassment. That is what she's choosing to wear. It has nothing to do with you.
@nathanp97 That is the legal definition, which means that type of harassment may get you into jail or the victim may press charges on you. You can still harass and not be committing a crime. It's similar to when your little sister/brother said "I'm not touching you!" while pointing a finger at you and constantly annoying you. Not a crime, but still harassment.
"Saying or doing unpleasant things to them" is part of your definition. If a guy finds cleavage is uncomfortable than it is harassment. Your definition doesn't imply intent.Your definition basically means anything can be harassment if someone doesn't like what you are doing. It doesn't even need to be intentional. That's why the legal definition is a better way to go, and staring isn't harassment legally.
Gets the popcorn out and enjoys the big catfight
@nathanp97 Dude. I know it’s not a crime, but it’s still harassment. You won’t go to jail for it but it’s basic courtesy to not stare at somebody else or you’ll be labeled a creep by everybody. If you want that please go ahead and enjoy the bad reputation of this weird habit.
@Anonymous As you can see, they can't counter your arguments, so they revert to shallow shaming- and manipulation tactics.
@TruthBringer It happened before when I EXPOSED the REALITY of gold digging and nude girls of Instagram. One bitch got so mad at me just for telling the truth. I also showed her REAL PLACE. She got exhausted and finally gave up.
@TruthBringer like you logically explain but they still take it personally and see it one sided. Getting mad when someone tries to rape or stalk is totally acceptable. But don't we girls stare when a guy shows his hot body? It's just normal. If they don't like to get stared at then why to show it? But if it's more than starting then it's the guy's fault. Staring is harmless unless he actually tries to do something.
@Anonymous You should see how my gilfriend presses herself against me whenever I take my shirt off at the beach or whenever she comes with me to the gym. Because I get stares from left and right, especially when I walk away from her for a couple of minutes. I don't mind them because they aren't doing anything to me. The hypocrisy and doublestandards here are so intense, that they are almost tangible. These kind of women only want to complain and know nothing about accountability. A shame that women like yourself are in the minority.
@TruthBringer I don't have much female friends because even if I'm generous, loyal and caring they will still find excuses to be jealous of me and compete against me. That's the reason women are viewed as an inferior gender. They have no self respect, they betray their girls but will happily get used by men and then play the victim card.
@Anonymous Then you can imagine how we men must feel and thinks when dealing with their bullshit. Fortunately, there are women who are worthy of time and investment. Usually these are the ones who don't scream out to the world that they are there and aren't seeking attention or drama. To they are a rare diamonds burried in rocks
@TruthBringer yes those women do exist but does those rare men also exist? They also might be buried somewhere precious, right?
@Anonymous they are actually out there mostly rotting in the friendzone lmfao
@scarlett774. If you are advertising you are selling.
There’s a reason that you are 41 and single
this is why i dont like females
its like putting a nice yummy looking cake in a shop window then getting mad at seeing people look at it,i swear they do it jus so they can make someone feel bad and shout at youfucking bitchesim glad i never had a girlfriend and never want onefucking evil cunt bitchesall of them
I want to see a comment like this written by someone out of highschool. You really don't though, because what's taught in highschool is much different than the real world.
Women stare at men too. That is all.
Damn all the incels are mad bro
Yet, it seems to be fine for women to stare at men they like even if their attention is also unwanted? Those double standards tho.
No one ever said that but yourself
you don't have to say it, you're implying it.
When did I imply it? Your just using that as an excuse to justify unwanted looking towards woman which is pretty sad since neither scenario is ok.
"Because their bodies aren’t objects to stare at? It’s a you problem if you cannot control yourself." But you're not denying my assertion that women do it too, therefore implying. Gotta read between those lines kid.
There’s no lines to read between... your just flipping the scenario to justify yourself, as I’ve said before neither situation is ok, I think you actually need to read the lines before you read in between them.
So still not denying it then? THose double standards tho.
Denying that women are just as bad.
I didn’t deny it I literally said TWICE that neither scenario is acceptable yet you kept arguing to try to justify that just because woman do it, it’s ok for men to do.
Only after I pointed out your bullshit double standards. But you've still not expressly said that women are just as bad (in my experience worse) for this sort of behaviour than men.
@scarlett774 incels and whores.
@TruthBringer You are wasting your breath on Scarlett. I agree with all you have said.
You guys are mad because woman don’t want to be objectified and have gross men staring at their boobs 😂😂 sad sad men, (also known as incels) oh and I’m sorry you not men your little boys because real men have respect for woman.
no they don't. that's a generalisation. they have respect for some women but none for others.
@scarlett774. Why do you think waitresses show a lot of cleavage? More titty skin the bigger the tips from men.
Waitresses don’t have a choice in what they wear
@scarlett774 you'd be surprised. A lot of smaller restaurants don't have specific uniforms and simply give guidelines on staff dress codes such as "black shirt"
Plenty do. Also they do have a choice HOW they wear their uniform.
@KrakenAttackin And that
Restaurants like hooters etc. where uniforms are supposed to be somewhat scandalous are very strict in their dress code where the shirt must be a certain length and you must wear a certain bra with it, I have a friend who works are hooters and they are very strict with their dress code. Most restaurants where woman are preferred have uniforms like that and you don’t get a choice in that. And even so if they choose to wear a black shirt with a little cleavage that doesn’t give you a right to just stare? Have a little respect and human decency, image how uncomfortable that would make the girls who work there at a daily basis to have old men staring at them 24/7.
@KrakenAttackin Lol my comment seem to have been removed. Guess some snowflake chose to report 😂
@scarlett774 Ah, the typical shaming tactics coming from one who cannot produce a valid counter argument. Who said we're mad about women not want to be objetified. The cognitive dissonance in strong in this one 😂
I think your just disrespectful boy who has no human decency and that’s fine by me but I’m just worried about all the woman you make feel uncomfortable on the daily.
@scarlett774 Once again, 0 validity in your comments. Thanks for proving my point ;)
Yes 0 Valid points like all of what you just said, absolutely right !
@scarlett774. Yeah it's an outrage how these young girls were forced at gun point to wait tables while shoving their boobs in the faces of male customers.
Your clearly illiterate
If telling yourself that helps you sleep at night, I'm more than happy to get along with that thought 😘
Yes yes have fun being immature and disrespectful 💕💕
@scarlett774 You've used the wrong "you're". Make sure your own grammar is on point before you attempt to "insult" someone for being an "illiterate". I would feel ashamed to have a foreigner correct my own language. The irony in calling someone else disrespectful and immature 😂
Well clearly grammar doesn’t stop someone from being immature YOU’RE living proof of that.
irony strikes again 😂
Grow up and stop commenting YOU’RE annoying
Keep reporting dem comments sweetie. We know you hate getting rekt ;)
Go cry about it
Sounds like you're the one crying because people don't share your own views. Freedom of speech boobo, learn to live with it 😘
Respecting woman and having human decency is not a view it’s common sense. Your mother clearly didn’t raise you right.
You’re the one gas lighting and playing the innocent victim act but that doesn’t work with me try again.
Okay bitter misandrist 😘
Okay mister misogynistic
We call people like you incels 🥰
Hard to be an incel if you're in a happy relationship for some time. Guess my incel ass went on a vacation with a ghost. But sure boobo, I'm an incel 😂
That’s not funny... try again
@KrakenAttackin are you that sexually frustrated to the point that you think women do every shit for you?
@hi_it_is_me123 This from a sex worker who makes a living by "doing shit" for men, for money.
That is what you can do? You know it ain't funny anymore. You always bring up the bullshit again and again after realizing I am right
I am not a sex workers but i also do not have problem with them. You are just a close minded idiot
@KrakenAttackin is a desperate old man who can’t get a date so he obviously needs to be a fucking creep to get any woman’s attention
@KrakenAttacking now you are justifying the act of serial killer? 🙃 what is the next? Are you going to just pedophilia? You fucking pedo
It is also freedomf speech to not listen to the bullshit of you guys. She does not have to get spam messages of you the whole day and endure your bullshit
It is kinda disgusting and pathetic how grown ass men attack a young girl scarlett774. Man let her alone.
@KrakenAttackin Isn't it lovely how they can't engage your statements, but rather choose to attack you for your age. Just think about the outrage when a man comments on a girl's weight. WW3 starts 😂
@TruthBringer Man, the women are slamming me with admins. I had one question removed (question about blocking and reporting being cowardly) and now the women are randomly reporting my posts as "offensive" and of course, the gynocracy of GAG just removes the post with no due process.
This just reinforces my belief about women and censorship.
@KrakenAttackin Exactly. And yeah I've noticed your question got removed, even though it was in no way offensive. Literally 9 times out of 10 they prove us right about them. It's has become such a pattern, that is actually boring and you can smell what they are about to say far before they opened their mouth. They keep proving Stefan Molyneux right
She is 17! . Let her alone
@TruthBringer he often attack women who are no longer in their 20s? So what? Or he degraded women for their age. And again you guys are posting under her opinion and she has the right to do what she wants. Itvis her right to to do. You guys also can do it.
According to gag policies, you are allowed to report, block or even remove opnions. I also get blocked or my opinions get removed by some mgtows and i have no problem with. It is their right to do so
@hi_it_is_me123 Blocking and reporting are the tools of cowards. Go ahead, report me.
I dont report anyone who do not report me
I hope you also think it is a coward action if you report for any resone such sexism/ageism/, racism. So you have never ever report anyone on gag?
@hi_it_is_me123 Aren't you the social justice warrior now. Having a problem with people speaking their minds about women who are no longer in their 30s (depending on what they say since there is a huge difference between women in their 20s and 30s) while you yourself 'speak' your mind about certain races (Arabs), even though your comments are racist. Also, you do seem to have a problem with getting your comments reported and removed, hence why you backlashed at me thinking I was doing it to you. Starting to suspect you have some bipolar issue or something.
Let me alone truthbringer you are the only social warrior idiot who call anything racist.
Arab is not a race by the way
I dont understand why you defend them so much? Why dont you defend turkish people then so much as much as you defend arabs when turks were disriminated? Hypocritical? And it is my issue with the markiv or whatever. Do not interefere yourself between me and "Markiv" (- i am not sure about his exact profilname). The same for KrakenAttackin. Mind your own business These both can defend themself. I am beg you to let me alone. Ok,
Yes, it was childish and was not right of me to generalize arabs, i should not do that but my intend was not to disriminate any arab anyway. If you have argument with someone, you stop being political correct. Words like whore, slut, fag, etc is sexist and homophobic but many people use it when they get angry, does this make them a bad person? No. KrakenAttackin call women sluts, whores or any racial slures all the time but i never start a huge discussion with him about this, and complain like days like you do. I have never ever seen someone like you who still talk about the same topic for literally weeks
Wait. Are you offended by KrakenAttackin 'cause he call you coward indirectly? I have known him for 2 years and he really do not report anyone even if you are racist or whatever except you report him. At least he holds on to his principles. Anyway if i hurt you so much, then i am sorry. I did not mean to hurt anyone here and usually people do not take any word that personally. That is why a lot people use swear words and political incorrect expressions. I am sorry again for offending you
@hi_it_is_me123 I'm not here for weeks. Check again. And I'm not returning here because I love it so much. I come back here because I receive notifications. Also, the type of reporting Kraken speak of does not reflect to me. Whenever I report, I report not because I'm butthurt of someone else's views. I report whenever there is a spam account or a duplicate account or undeserving racist slurs which are against the rules. And don't worry, I'm not offended. it takes a snowflake to be offended by some random person over the internet. This website is full of em, but I'm not one of em.
Oh I don’t even want to hear this... I wear fire resistant clothes in plastic coveralls in a concrete mixer for hours... if I can handle this you have no reason...
Did you choose to do that job?
Did you choose to dress like that?
I choose to dress for comfort over having to wear a turtleneck and 2 bras to make sure I dont draw attention to myself?
Why would you need 2 bra? Why a turtle neck... why the extremes? Why not a tee and slacks? Why short skirts and spaghetti string or tube tops? Why vneck shirts? Why care? If your comfortable your comfortable... but if you dress like a whore don’t be surprised when men offer money.
Because they're a little hard to cover up/flatten down, and to do with the original post if I wear something comfortable it more often than not shows an few cms of cleavage.Doesn't bother me because again I dress comfortable but it doesn't entitle you to excessively stare
Who says you have the right to tell me where I look... you act like when you walk down the road all men stare at you like your naked... here’s now it is you dress skimpy men look you dress modest men will still look just tons less... odds are if you feel uncomfortable it prob means you know you shouldn’t be doing something. Again if you wanna be comfortable then deal with the looks. I brought up my cloths from work because after a while I got used to hot cloths and hard work so maybe you gotta get used to dressing modestly.It’s really funny how people think they will break from something then when they suffer that multiplied by cancer their alive still and managing.
I don't have the right to tell you where to look.But I have the right slap you in mouth for staring at my chest regardless of how much is showing.But feel to actually have a test run of being around 6 foot and putting 2 balloons under your top and see how many looks you get
Actually no you don’t. You can’t assault me if I’m not touching you. Also I ain’t 6’ I’m short 5’7” and of course a guy wearing balloons or boobs for that matter gets looks.
Does assault count if I passively aggressively pat you on the head?
Can I change my answer to calling you little buddy instead?
Never knew of K cup shape
Lol name calling and insults... I’m done here
How's that name calling
@VanillaSalt dont leave please stay
also why many women of different age ranges. are working out their legs and butts more these days. they want to look and feel attractive to hook a guy they find attractive.
Aahh.. Nice... How about dm? Haha
ha ha funny
@robocop666 what is?
your honesty and attitude
@robocop666 glad you find me amusing
well if your honest. I would probably be more amused if I met you in real life ha ha
@robocop666 honesty is the best policy.
Down boy. Jesus your thirsty ass is giving me a bad name. Sorry for his stupid lmao
@VanillaSalt lol giving you a bad name?
@Simplismilez. Boy you are thick. He wants a DM with pics of your tits.
@KrakenAttackin and your an ass. I know that. Do you make it a point to be rude to people for no reason?
I agree with kraken if your not understanding how men asking for tit pics is giving a bad name to men then your quite thick...
@VanillaSalt again. I know that. Him asking is not giving you a bad name. I'm not sending anybody tit pics. Tf. But thank you for turning around and being a dick also
I need a screenshot of this... this is an example of women either being thick or playing games.
@VanillaSalt no. It was me trying to be funny. But alright. Spin it however you need to in order to make yourself right.
Seems like your the one spinning but at what do I know... shoulda known better than to try and defend myself and my gender... never goes well for men.
@VanillaSalt omg. Why is it always a gender thing on here?
Because the fact is your actions not only reflect on you but the people around you and like you. While an individuals tend to reflect more on family and friends a common trait found in specific groups reflects on them groups. Aka stereotypes.
@Simplismilez Dumb as a door knob.
Girls * lol 😂
@RingOfFire oh no you found my glamor shots 😂😂😂
When you see pink dislikes, that's when you know you speak the truth
That makes sense.
You ain't wrong on that.
Exactly. Those who aren't attractive are called "creeps" and are always labaled as "ew that thing". But when a dude like myself comes and is straight to the point and rude, they call it "daring" and "confidence".
Yes, please ugly old bastards like you should not look at us. Thank you😘💕
@hi_it_is_me123 Oh look, the racist Arab hater comes and gives her two cents Hahahah
💕 awww so you are a libtard
@hi_it_is_me123 Making fun of a racist is now being a "libtard" aii then 😂
I just love how this triggered dem wahmen 😂
@TruthBringer Do you think they realize the asker is the best troll on G@G?
@sadMeester Troll or not, there is always something they get triggered by 😂
@Kayla45"There's a difference between getting cheeky looks and getting pursued by belatedly horny men"Which will cause her ego to skyrocket.
I suppose so, different people different situations. 🤷
@Kayla45Women love male attention and all a "horndog" is a man who isn't afraid to be a man.
Well of course woman do, it's natural after all. Although a horny guy is a bit of a different subject, not saying he isn't bold and being a man for trying.. but sometimes it like legitimately creeps me out.
It's not pc, but I don't believe women get flattered if it;s any guy looking at her boobs either. I think staring is creepy to women. But glancing, if by an attractive guy can be an ego stroke for her. A dude with the looks of like Steve Buscemi, now that's another story. Basically to sum it up. Jimmy Garrapolo glancing at boobs more likely an ego stroke vs guy with funny looks like Steve Buscemi, probably not so much.
@brennanhuff I never heard of Steve Buscemi until Seth MacFarlane got ahold of him and put him through the Family Guy wringer.
@brennanhuffScratch that. I have heard of this dude. I remember he did Fargo and he has done some other films after Fargo. The way Seth created the animated version of Steve Buscemi he wasn't as sinister looking. He has always portrayed evil characters. The type of characters that move into your neighborhood and shortly after that children and small pets come up missing.
@joeblow123 this isn't true at all. Male sexuality frightens and disgusts women. That's why women are hysterical 24/7 about rape, sexual harassment, sexual objectification, etc... Thir hatred and revulsion towards it is so intense they consider it worse than murder and genocide.
Quick glance is ok but if you are stare at her long like a freaking creep, then dont complain about getting treated like a shit
@RandomLoser if you knew that why are you trying so hard to harrass women with your stares then? Stay away from us then. I dont understand. I also would not bother any guy who dont like me
@hi_it_is_me123 because I like staring at big boobs and big ass, and idgaf if you feel "creeped out" about it.Like I told someone else, if you don't want to get sexually objectified just get a breast reduction or mastectomy. Insurance and healthcare providers almost always cover it and it's one of the safest and most common surgeries doctors carry out.
@RandomLoser What we both wrote is accurate. Even though they contradict each other. But then again women have always defied logic.
@joeblow123 he’s in a lot Adam Sandler movies. Adam likes to include his buddies in his movies as I notice the regular guys in all of his movies. But I meant like as in funny looking. Buscemi is a creepy looking dude and weird looking in my opinion thus women don’t find it flattering for any guy. A guy like him they my be more likely uncomfortable with him looking vs Jimmy garrapolo. I don't know if you watch nfl football or not but there’s a reason his nickname is jimmy gq ha
@RandomLoser wtf. Then dont complain about getting beaten up if you can't behave yourself. I swear that is why i go around with my pit bull so guys like you dont sexual assault me.
@RandomLoser go get a surgery yourself to get a new brain. Why should women get surgery so little boys like you stop sexual assaulting women.
I am curious how you all feel if some random men stares at your girlfriend like that? Probably you are all cucks
@hi_it_is_me123 you've got it backwards. A cuck is one who puts himself in physical danger just to protect the honor of m'lady.In an ideal world no man should give a shit if you're not getting paid your vagina's worth.
@hi_it_is_me123 I don't care if someone is googling my women. I'm not going to attack them like a mindless savage/chimpanzee.A real man is one who doesn't shame other men's sexuality. It's one who doesn't attack other men who hurt your feelings in the hopes of getting rewarded with sex.The only reason women make a big deal about rape is because they know their only value in life is a hole between their legs and they want to get paid for temporary usage of it.
You are sick. Stop belittling rape. How would feel if you get raped by a gay man?
@hi_it_is_me123 that would be totally gay