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The word you are looking for is "slut" not "player"
You got dumped, you sleep with all his friends and associates to get back at him. That is, unless you are the psycho stalker type.
modern hookup culture, dating apps/sites and college turns many girls into players. since many have a long history of sexual partners.
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so the girl wants to get back at the guy by becoming like her? Is that the scenario? To be clear, she didn't want to be a player to begin with... she wanted to be secure and loved by him.
Is that right?
No, only guys can be players because they gotta play girls and manipulate them emotionally to get with them
Girls don't have to put much effort to do that with guys, she can make 10 guys chase her and she wouldn't have to do a thing, then she'd easily mess with all of them as she pleases, that's not called a player, that's called being a bitch
I don't girls can be players. I mean sure they can have lots of guys, but that is easy. Guys are way more easy to attract then girls so for a guy to be a player and get lots of girls he needs to be top notch. Girls... an average one can get lots of guys.
You have no idea
Duh!
@ronaldsnugs of what?
Girls are players
@ronaldsnugs What do you consider a girl player?
The ones who play guys. What don’t you get? You think they all are just “talking to you only” nah they have way more options and don’t think they aren’t using them up.
@ronaldsnugs And how hard was for her to do that being a girl? It's very easy to have many options.
I don’t get your question? We both just said it’s not hard for girls to get guys
@ronaldsnugs Then the guys are not really being played are they? They don't have to be tricked, just go with it.
How are they not being played?
Did she tell them about all the other guys? Then he’s not being played.
If she kept it a secret, as most do, he’s being played.
If she’s going out with other guys in secret, he’s being played.
If she doesn’t tell people she has a boyfriend, she’s playing them.
If she’s a major flirt she has player qualities.
You confused?
@ronaldsnugs Unless they agree to be exclusive she is not playing anyone. In which case she is just a cheater.
Kept what a secret? Their relationship? What is the problem with that?
Read the first one.
She is cheating on her boyfriend. The other guy is just having a friend with benefits, what the hell he cares?
You can be super flirty and never actually act on it.
The point is girls can be players...
what don’t you get
Unless you’re one of those guys who want to pretend men have no feelings and are only seeing girls for “fun” so you can’t play a guy. Then you’re just an idiot.
@ronaldsnugs I am not saying girs can't lie, cheat or trick guys. Sure they can.
But I just don't call them players due to how easy that is for them to do.
I guess we are on different pages them. Anyway, everyone can be a player in the end. Good night.
You could, but you don't want to do that. The best possible revenge is to be happy and get the relationship you want.
Well said. But I would like to self sabotage my life, I guess.
Why would you want to self sabotage your life?
Actually it is way easier for a girl to become a player and many are too. Why do you think they have words like slut, whore, hoe etc? Those girls are real players they can sleep with countless guys and won't be pinned down in a relationship
Definitely, women are masters at being a player and we're that way long before guys were, using their beauty and bodies to get hat they want.
Yes you can.
I know several women who teach very effective courses to women on how to be players.
I seem to attract female players I only have had 2 relationships which I panicked so I ended them Yes im an idiot So there are female players already