Why do girls often say that they like nice guys even though they actually like bad boys?

[IllusionShedim4h2]

Why do girls often say that they like nice guys when in reality they actually worship sociopath alpha male bullies with masculinity like they're gods?

Girls in my highschool would not hesitate to kill if it is a requirement for them to have sex with those bully alpha males in my highschool. Girls don't even care even if they know that the alpha male bully is just using them and is cheating on them by having all of them together whether they are 15 or 40 girls. Multiple girls like 16, 17, 8, 6, etc. having sex with one alpha male bully is very fucking common in my highschool and many of them even happens at the campus itself.

And when I'm talking about girls, I mean ALL types of girls. Some girls are nice girls. Some are musical girls. Some are girly girls. Some are mean bullies. Others are slutty. Others are sexy and hot. Others are beautiful. Others are cute. Not kidding.

Many nice guys on the otherhand are ignored and rejected like they don't exist despite the fact that those nice guys are very socially skilled, very outgoing, very understanding, very hardworking and smart in academics such as math and science, physically well built, handsome, brave, physically strong, talented, and kind.

There's this one girl in my highschool who was your average girl. She was super attracted to this alpha male hypersexual hypermasculine violent bully. That alpha male bully is a tall muscular junior highschooler notorious for physically and verbally bullying his gay highschool classmate and a 4th grader from India. This racist alpha male bully just brutally beat up the physically disabled 4th grader from India to a bloody pulp for no reason which put the Indian elementary kid on coma. The Indian kid even vomited blood. He literally almost killed the Indian kid!

Now back to the girl who worshipped this alpha male bully. This alpha male bully just manipulated her with sexual words into killing another Indian kid so she can have sex with him and she did killed the Indian guy!

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"Why do girls often say that they like nice guys when in reality they actually worship sociopath alpha male bullies with masculinity like they're gods?"

For the word "masculinity", I forgot to put "toxic masculinity". Sorry.

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Also, the 4th grader Indian kid isn't disabled. The violent alpha male bully just mercilessly bullied him for being racially Indian.

[Holisticapproachsara]

Oh they grow older and get married to the bully ends up being abused in every way. And appears crying later in a documentary about her domestic abuse story. The older women get the more we appreciate nice guys. I can spot now an abusive guy from a mile.

[IllusionShedim4h2]

Yeah but how will the nice guys even want those girls? Those girls are most likely all used up by more than one alpha male tough guy bad boy. No one wants left overs. That's probably why there are a lot of single mothers.

The nice guys on the otherhand get married to women who are rare or odd and there is a rise in males who choose to be virgin singles. The male virgin singles I am talking about aren't incels but are actually nice guys who are too busy with their high education careers to care about or have time for girls or marriage.

[Holisticapproachsara]

Its true, but thats what’s cruel about life. It gives you the test. Then the lesson

[EternallyCorrect]

They don't know what they want. They don't know what they want to eat, they don't know what to wear, they don't know where they want to go.

Guard: "What do you want for your last meal?"
Female prisoner on death row: "I don't know... what do you want?"

Why would you expect them to tell you anything accurate?

[jshm2]

Because "nice" is subjective.

What they mean is "nice to me, not to you"

[IllusionShedim4h2]

I said that the bad boys in my highschool were bullies and one of them just brutally put an Indian kid in a coma and manipulated a girl to kill another Indian kid. If that's not bad for you, then I don't even know if you're mentally sane.

[Picassoo]

Because the term bad guy is thrown about so often whether to pass the blame or as a self indulged reason to being rejected

[IllusionShedim4h2]

No. It's true. They're indeed bad boys as in literally BAD! Did you even read my post? I said that the bad boys in my highschool were bullies and one of them just brutally put an Indian kid in a coma and manipulated a girl to kill another Indian kid. If that's not bad for you, then I don't even know if you're mentally sane.

Seriously, those types of bad boy alpha male bully murderers DO exist. Just watch the movie Bomb city which is based on a real life account of a group of school alpha male bullies bullying people that are culturally different from them. Bomb city is based on a real life account of alpha male bullies trying to bully a punk rock group for being different. Conflict and street fights eventually resulted between the two sides and it led to the punk rock guy Brian Deneke being murdered via car attack by the school alpha male bully Dustin Camp. Not kidding. It's reality. Alpha male bullies are truly sociopaths in a literal sense.

Judging from your comment, you're probably thinking that I am an incel. No! I am not an incel. I am though a tall muscular virgin celibate who wishes to live my life as a single virgin for the rest of my life. I am successful, independent, and have a job as a computer engineer. My passion is problem solving, building robots, and designing artificial intelligence. Bodybuilding and martial arts training are also other two hobbies of mine. I love my parents and I support them financially when needed.

I was always a celibate virgin from childhood up to now because I wanted to and wishes to stay as one to the day I die. I was never interested in girls, sex, or marriage.

Now you're probably thinking I am just an incel trying to pretend that I am successful and that I am a virgin because I chose to. If I am really gonna lie then I will just lie that I have a girlfriend and I am handsome.

Done.

[themythos]

They like the masculine, confident nice, not the shy timid nice. Assholes/badboys tend to be confident so they get pulled in with the rest despitered flags.

[IllusionShedim4h2]

I never said that the nice guys in my highschool were shy, effeminate, and timid. I clearly said that there are a lot of them who are brave, strong, and social.

That's the problem with girls and guys who love bad boys. They mistake the niceness of nice guys as timidness, cowardice, and shyness. You guys and girls just really have this need to see boys being vulgar disrespectful assholes who love to pick fights as a way for you to see them as "confident".

And what I mean by bad boys is that they are your signature assholes who cheat on their girlfriends and loves to bully like the alpha male bullies in my highschool.

[themythos]

I think we agree but said it different? I pretty much agree with everything on the last 2 paragraphs

[Iron_Man]

Girls that like bad boys aren’t serious they just wanna play around and have sex, serious girls that want a lifetime commitment are different

[IllusionShedim4h2]

I guess that could be true. It's pretty absurd for me to think that all girls love alpha male bullies.

I would say that most girls who don't like alpha male bullies are girls who are intellectual and have personal passions such as being a doctor, being a humanitarian, being a scientist, being an engineer, etc. They also have meaningful goals and want to build a great family. One of Albert Einstein's wives seems to be an intellectual herself.

Cultural factors are probably one of the major reasons for girls liking alpha male bullies. American culture seems to glorify hypermasculinity while countries such as India and Japan typically see the alpha male asshole as just a worthless immature animal. In Japan, highschoolers aren't even allowed to have romance and highschoolers having sex is super taboo and super scandalous in Japan. Lots of Japanese parents will literally disown their highschool teenage kid if they happen to find out that they had sex.

Yeah, those are my thoughts. It's pretty interesting.

[Iron_Man]

Yes it sure is

[In_Trance]

Because the reality is they have no idea what they like. Especially the ones that say "my type"

[IllusionShedim4h2]

It's very clear that they like the ones who exhibit masculine traits like being domineering, arrogance, toughness, aggressiveness, possessiveness, and just assholeness in general.

I don't know why though but it's probably because girls evolved and are hardwired to like the primal tribal aggressive protective male instincts which evolved from the Stone Age.

[Lone_wolf122]

Where did you go for high school? Mental asylum?

[IllusionShedim4h2]

No. I went to a geniune highschool. You have any proof that that I was in a Mental Asylum? None! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! The fact is that I was truly present in that moment in my highschool while you're not! So beat that!

What's the matter? Are you one of those bad boys which is why your comment is like this? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! As expected. I am amused.

[Lone_wolf122]

Lol... You're so dramatic you actually called me a bad guy? ... Your description seems like a really weird place with psychos... Why do you give a damn about these shitty people's preferences? And to answer you... Everyone choose who they go with... If they choose bad that's what they think they deserve...

[IllusionShedim4h2]

It may look like a place for psychos for you but it is the truth. It is indeed a highschool.

Don't be surprised. Lots of crazy shit happened already like people glorifying gangsters, cartoon level antisemitism, people glorifying serial killers, and of course BULLYING. Bullying itself pretty clearly exists and it is super irrational. What's so rational about insulting, humiliating, hating, and physically beating up a harmless person just because that person is shy, gay, foreign, disabled, autistic, introverted, goth, etc? Nothing! Bullies might as well think that mass genocide is okay with that kind of fucked up mentality they have.

Parents instilled these bullies with a sense of right and wrong. They are Middle to High class students living in safe neighborhoods with great economic capabilities. Their parents loved them and never abused them. Yet they're still psychos who love tormenting others with utter brutality like rape, bloody bone crushing beatings, exposing someone's private parts, murder, etc. I never understood why it's such a norm. It's no different from ancient violent barbarian savage parties. Fucking sociopaths!

When I said that multiple girls like 15, 8, etc. are having sex with one alpha male bully in my highschool campus, you probably thought that I think they're doing it openly without the teachers caring. No, they're doing it secretly and they're making sure no one will find out.

Yeah.

[Lone_wolf122]

OK.. So? It was a bad environment with bad people... Why is it taking over your head? It's not like your home or neighborhood... It's a school!