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Always depends, but under any reasonable circumstances it's very bad.
If you got raped, I don't think anyone will blame you for not telling the dude.
It's her body ! If he knocked her up and doesn't know that by now, it's still her decision
It depends on what her reasons for not telling him would be
Yes he should know its his baby too if a woman does some something like this to a guy she ain't shit in my book
Yes it is I don’t know how I would feel if my girlfriend got an abortion without telling me. I would probably tell her I think she should get one anyway but it’s just the fact that I wouldn’t know
I’ve done it , and I never told him. Cause end of the day it’s my body. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do but it was the right decision
The father has a right to know, the child is equally his.
Unless this happened after a one night stand with a stranger, then I think he has the right to know.
I agree
Not necessarily "wrong," but it definitely depends on her reasons for doing so.
That would be a huge breach of trust, I'd be pissed.
If you're gonna go through with it no matter what he says, then don't tell him. Is it wrong? Maybe. But telling him and then aborting it when he doesn't want you to is more wrong
Many times. Yes it's dishonest to not tell.
There are exceptions. everything isn't black or white.
Even if you tell him, he can't do anything about it but try and change your mind. It's pretty harmless
Morally I would say it's wrong but the laws are all on your side so unless you are deciding to keep it then it doesn't really matter does it?
I actually have a strong opinon on this but for your sake I wouldn't take too much out of what you get here. No one here can possibly understand soneone in your position and how difficult it may be. I feel for you. Take care of you and your situation. Dont put too much empahsis here.
yeah its wrong.. Its your choice, but he has a right to know that he created a life.
Depends on why she feels the need to hide it and the extent of their relationship.
I think it depends on the situation but ultimately its her choice
People should use condoms, birth control pills or use the morning after pill, otherwise it's this question.
I'd say yes. At least tell him. Won't change the result but he needs to know. Unless he said that he didn't want kids.
I think if you are still in a relationship with them, then yes, they should know.
Honestly, if I found out after she got one that i could have been a dad, I'd be devastated.
Totally understandable, but still her choice.
@MotorcycleMan
No shit sherlock. I didn't say otherwise.
... and I didn't say you did there Watson.
You've never been pregnant? You should definitely try it.
I'll get me coat.
The man has every right to know what the woman does with HIS SEED. I'mma trigger everybody here and say that instead of HER BODY. Because everyone considers HER BODY. Nobody considers HIS SEED.
The seed is not a human being. That doesn't occur until the zygot has attached itself to the uterine wall, then after several weeks?, it starts to undergo differentiation.
As long as our society continues to accept the morality of rewarding promiscuous behavior for males, yet, label's females as pariahs for the same behavior then men have no ground to stand on. We must change societies indifference to this obvious double standard
The first comment wasn't my point. My point was the man should have as much say as the woman with the baby, as it's his seed. Just because it grows in her body doesn't change that fact.
I meeeaaan, If he's a r/pist, abuser or p/dophile... just sayin
Would a mother demand child support from a father even if he didn't want to pay?
So why wouldn't a woman have the balls to tell a father she was about to abort his child.
Get the point?
Abortion itself is wrong, you are taking away a life of baby who has not even see the world
That wasn’t the question
Doesn't matter, its related
Let’s say a women gets raped she shouldn’t have to feel obligated to keep a baby that will remind her of something traumatic, that’s where babies start to get resented by their moms would you rather have a baby die before it’s even a baby or have it grow up an a neglectful and abusive household
Firstly why would men have to rape women?
What do you mean
Rape is violating another person, so why would men want to do that. When that is not done there is no issue of a women getting pregnant unwilling
What are you talking about men rape women every day
I don't understand what you are talking about. Anyway this question was not related to rape anyhow
Unless he's a rapist or a dirt bag, it's very selfish of her to keep it from him. It's his baby too, not just his.
It depends on the situation, woman will see the situation, may be some health problem
It depends on whether you had a casual fling or a committed relationship.
I think not fair not to tell him in general i think abortion is wrong you have to take responsability for your action its a life form.
Yes. Extremely wrong as he is the father to the child, besides the fact abortion is evil and wrong regardless if she did or didn't tell him.
You have no idea how much I'd like to hit you in the face right now.
@kitkills: I'll guarantee you won't have the balls to do it even if you had the opportunity and if you did do it I'll beat the living delights out of you that would remember the day you were born.
Bacteria is life on Mars but heartbeat on earth isn't
Yeah true, I never thought about it like that until now.
Kinda well I don't understand people these days
Sure, you're carrying doesn't mean it's yours. Like, what you would say if he gave you pill without consent to miscarriage and then, say something like I have to provide resources why bother
Yes it’s fucking wrong no matter how you try to spin it. Not as wrong as killing a fucking baby though.
Her body, her choice, period.
If a man and a woman are trying for a child and get pregnant but the woman gets cold feet and wants an abortion but the man is still all for the child do you say the same?
What about if the roles are switched?
@Birdlegs Yes, I would. I may not feel the same way. I may not think it's right, but it's still her choice.
I feel that
thats sociopath behavior.
Whoa what’s with the language young lady?
I'm sorry. It's just so hot out today. 😭
i forgive you
Thank you.
whats your opinion?
I would vote C.
yeah thats stupid
You're stupid.
Why make it personal?
nobody believes that
How would I be pregnant? Immaculate conception?
by having sex?
Who would I have sex with? The milk man?
is that your fantasy?
Yes. Now all of GaG knows my deepest, darkest fantasy.
wow it must be really hot out today.
You have no idea.
I do. It was like 80 degrees today.
It was 102 over here. 😭
Poor bebella :(
Its a moral issue most people would say yes
I think killing babies is what’s wrong here
No it's a good thing
Kind of a dick move, but in the end... her choice.
No it’s not your body your choice.
Yes; and an instant dealbreaker for me.
morally its partially wrong. its part of him too.
It’s fine, it’s her body not his
Yeah it’s very wrong to do that
They are wrong full stop.
It depends on your reasons and the context really.
Yes, you have to tell him
An abortion is wrong no matter what!
I voted C
Of course.
Yes it’s wrong
An abortion is just wrong.
You know nothing.
@RACSKC0B He knows how to pick up a phone n type, I'll give the kid brownie points for that.
I guess I can't argue with that really.
It depends.
I voted last option
Sometimes it's justified, sometimes not.
Yes big-time
Ask your doctor and psychologists.
It's a hard knock life.
Need a spell to turn things around? Hit me up?
People falling for this bait like it's cocaine
Next we're doing politics and religion. ;)
Yes, aborting babies is wrong