I really hope these photos aren't of this friend you speak of... If so, that is a really shitty thing to do and not very friend-like at all.
Perhaps she can't afford many new clothes at the moment? Maybe she is planning on losing the weight and doesn't want to spend on new clothes if she won't be able to wear them for long (though since I've been there before, eBay/online second hand marketplaces and thrift stores are her friend in this case)?
Either way, weight gain is frustrating and losing the weight can be hard, so I wish her luck in whatever she chooses (and hope you will be supportive and not call her "gross" behind her back and post about her online; seriously, this is so junior high and you need to grow up).
If you're actually interested in helping her and don't just want to make fun of her on a public forum, maybe invite her shopping, to work out with you (or even just go for a walk), etc. If you want to be a friend, try to help motivate her and work with her. It does everyone good, even those who are not overweight, to exercise and eat healthy, so it's something you two can do together.
As someone who used to be overweight, but actually wore clothes that were way too big in an effort to mask my insecurities (and that didn't do me any favors), I can relate to her in a way. Just remember that it's one thing to disagree with the way someone presents themselves, but is crossing the line to take it to a public forum with pictures (assuming these are pictures of her).
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I qould hope if I looked like that with the pregnancy weight gain my partner would say so xD but I have been buying bigger clothes to try to keep up with it all expanding 🤣
Of course it's gross. But the clothes are besides the point.
No, but I've seen bigger girls who wear dresses like that.
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Tell her you're going shopping and ask her to go with you.
Maybe she'll get the idea.
Or it could be she is planning on losing weight or just can't afford a new wardrobe.People are lazy everybody got 2 hours a day 90 minute cardio 30 mins strength training
Half plate veggies
Half plate protein
You'll drop weight.Well, I see it as that you're not a good friend. The way you talk about your friend. And you publicly shaming her online. That's just not okay.
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wow you’re a great friend...
Lol why you are on her case
You're a cunt.
Don't be mean
dumb bish
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