It's not or at least shouldn't be the reason it is viewed as such is because women now are doing what men have always done and surprise surprise men don't like it when the boot is on the other foot bring the downvotes lol @chrismaster69 agree?
@karaspara yeah I fully agree. your Typical Geordie lass has always been like this. you go to most places in the Uk and girls go on the pull as much as guys (when they feel like it), fuck all to be Ashamed of. We can have questions about why don’t girls make first move and why do they make the first move )
@karaspara okay and most girls lose their chastity today, but MANY men do not. And the numbers are far, far, far higher for it. Some men still value traditionalism but women see it as weakness and pray on those men as cash cows and then leave em for the guys that have no value and treat them like dirt. And the sad thing is that today they LOVE that. The problem is women think it's a large portion of guys that are players. I can assure you the 80/20 rule... hell maybe even the 90/10 rule is the reality of the situation. Also for men it's rather repulsive when girls sleep around. For some reason women are into players who get lots of action. So I guess we just are wired differently. But women dont have the right to complain anymore about not getting men to commit because they are in charge of who get's access and high value men don't want such women.
@karaspara I'm not saying this to be "mean" or anything but what you "feel" something is and what the facts actually are can be two different things. Women are free to sleep with as many men as they want but they will have consequences for doing so. If living a sexually liberated life is priority over family and kids and someone to grow old with I say go for it. I just know I'm not going back to school, to fix my life, to then share what I have with someone who's given herself up to multiple men who didn't have to put a check next to that name and just got all the fun when she was younger and at her best. To me that's not right.
@karaspara thankfully I practice what I preach and every man should. It's part of being one to begin with. I agree with you that men shouldn't be sleeping around either. Tbh I want it to stop on both sides but fat chance of getting people to see any sort of reason and form meaningful connections anymore. smdh
@t-8900 I know lots of good guys and good girls all is not lost I grew up dreaming of a white wedding getting married and living happily ever after but unfortunately life happens and it isn't always realistic
@karaspara all's I can say is "I'll believe it when I see it". Not in someone else's story but in my own. I'm tired of the false hope. It's draining and really did me a lot of harm in life.
@karaspara yeah and it sucks. It's not natural for people to be bouncing around like that person to person. It messes with the head and it's unhealthy. What's the harm in the parents being the one to bring up sex with their kids rather than someone you don't know in a time when most people are doing things for ulterior motives? I want the best for all children, especially my own. Why is the state telling my kids about these things? How are they teaching it to them? Look at where we are as a society now. Lets not say people are more happy today than 50 years ago because we know they aren't. That said I'm not saying women shouldn't have freedom and sharia law and shit, I'm not. But women need to learn how to respect themselves and find respectable men. Promoting this bad boy shit and IG models has got to stop...
@t-8900 I honestly feel things are quite different in the USA to here at least with the impression I get from here and Twitter personally I don't do Instagram and all that nonsense I prefer real life as a rule
Disagree. Most men don't get around. Most men lie about their counts for perceived respect.
Ironically, a man can sleep around far better in a relationship or married. Women tend to be attracted to these guys to their own detriment.
Most single guys are happy just finding one woman to be with most of the time. The guys who get their pick, of vast amounts of women are the top tier men who have it all going for them. These guys are way more rare than average. Again, women tend to seek these guys out and assume if you're a man, you have unlimited access to women. This is simply not true.
For the most part average to less than are practically invisible to women. Women assume they have their types to chase. Nope, all the women chase a smaller group of guys. Hence why Incel is such a thing. Something like 40% of the population of men under 30 are still virgins. This is unheard of.
@karaspara that's good because it's hard to not be black pilled sometimes with all the things you see. And black pilled can be for either gender. I know the red and black pill are usually used to describe a male perspective but it can also be from a female perspective too. My worst fear I think would be finding out my daughter was having sex with multiple guys, especially live on camera. That would destroy me I think. Just break me down to my core. I'm worried that US culture gets mimicked by other people's and cultures. I wish people would STOP with this idea. We are a failing society people, stop mimicking it! Lol.
@Qdbrown you're right about that. It's crazy. Also women had a lot of bargaining power before. Now they lost it because of the behavior and promiscuity. They think "all guys" or "most guys" are like that because the majority of men are invisible to them. No one cares how men feel about anything. Our feelings don't matter, and our lives are expendable. We're the trash of the world. Throw another tomato or egg at me... assuming I'm even worth your time to degrade lol.
Yes, I think most women do not necessarily want to be virgins on their wedding night, but they also do not want to view themselves as being promiscuous sluts. They are willing - and they want - to have sex when they feel a mutual desire for commitment and they trust their partner.
I went out and hooked up on 4th of July, but still felt guilty for a while. Double standards suck. I always wanted to get tag teamed but haven't because of so called standards: (
Because we have a conscience. Deep down within herself she knows. She can listen to it and change... or she can just keep slutting around until her heart is dead and her conscience has been muted. She can keep doing it until part of her heart dies and then her conscience will never bother her again.
@GenaBaby1995 do what makes you happy beautiful! Life is too short to let a judgmental society to stop you from enjoying it! Don't listen to these haters, salty virgins, misogynist! Lol 😂
We all have the liberty to ruin our lives. The problem isn't that they got the liberty, it's that they are unwilling to live with the consequences of said misuse of freedom. Freedom comes with responsibility, that is where many women fails in today society. They think just because they can, there shouldn't be any bad consequences from it.
Because people do understand the difference between being free from something and being free to do whatever you want.
Most think that being free to do whatever you want without consiquence is the highest form of freedom. Its like a drug addict who is "free" to do as many drugs as he wants, he isn't free to do anything but be imprisoned by his addiction.
No because women from long ago knew the importance of her sexual energy and knew it was her creative energy. They were Spiritually strong and they respected themselves. Many carried a dagger to kill herself should she be raped. They contain every man they sleep with for life. No man wants to have all that energy from the whole village inside his woman.
Thank goodness a voice of reason speaks out. Sometimes I believe the only people who comment are people who have run into the minority of people who behave this way. Everyone wants to give an example of a girl or a guy who has treated them like trash. And then apply it to the entire gender. It is so pointless. This is no sporting event and there is no one keeping score because there is no clear black or white in this. I’m sorry to break it to the men of this board, but not all women are conniving, deceitful, money hungry women who will stab you in the back. And to my sisters of the female Gender, I am afraid to break it to you that not all men, or even a majority of men are pigs, sleep around all the time, get people pregnant and then leave, etc. most of the behavior I read about here, it’s done by a small but significant minority of people with really significant issues. I can’t put a percentage on it, but why give these people all the space in your heads? I’ve had multiple women cheat on me including my wife in a terrible way, but even though it’s hard, I can’t treat every other woman I meet as if they are just like the other women. No wonder things are crazy with marriage these days. If everybody comes in to relationships assuming the worst, it’s going to be a self fulfilling prophecy. Sometimes it just looks like everything is slipping away
They are free to do as they please, like men. Unfortunately any serious potential suitor that does his due diligence will investigate and find out she’s a bed hopping harlot and her potential to find a decent life mate drops exponentially with every bed hopped into. That’s just the way it is, I investigate, do background checks, ask questions, I will neither date or marry a bed hopping Ho.
You’re not 100% wrong. A lot of women experiment with hookup culture then lose interest as they get older and mature. But women of any age (above the age of consent) should have that option available to them if they want it.
Yes, and that's great. But will they be honest about it later, or play it down?
Back in the day people experimented with maybe a dozen partners. Now that are going for gold, for 50, 100 or even an unknown but scary high number that would freak our a porno star.
When women said none of your business then, not a big deal. Now it could be an issue. A high sex body count woman is low value to most men.
I was raised traditional my mother would break my back if i ever did that and in the end its not personally who i am. I don't find it liberating but an excuse to disguise their reckless behavior
Women can have sex with anyone they want to just like men. Does a woman want to get together with a guy that has had sex with a bunch of women before her? Does a guy want a woman that has had sex with a bunch of men before him? People can do whatever they want but there are consequences.
Here is what I think. Some small group of women were pissed that they couldn't get laid and decided let's try to normalize all this behavior so that people think hook up and so on is actually good and healthy for women in general
Perhaps you missed the second sentence of my answer. I point out there that it’s equally unbecoming for men as well as women to be promiscuous, the king of the pick ups or a player hustler. And then point out how it’s demeaning to the person in a number of ways, I’m uncertain where you drew your conclusion but that was not my intention, so I’m terribly sorry if there was any confusion. As far as those “F-boys“ or pick up artist/hustlers, They might be a big deal if you’re in a fraternity or something for a little while but I can tell you as a guy, the older you get the more we just laugh at those guys. They were losers at the time and they’re losers now. I was not dropping on either side. I appreciate your answer. Have a good evening
@William7489 This: What are you talking about? You didn't ask this weird question. The second sentence in this states that: "As times became more egalitarian and progressive, women can do more and more the things they were told not to do." You might have me confused with someone else.
I find it liberating because I actually do want to have sex with multiple people. It's fine that not every woman wants to and find liberation simply in having the option, that's just not me.
Except many “liberated” women hide it so how is that liberating? They know that high quality men will see it as a negative in a potential wife. So make sure you don’t hide it and you know… be liberated and own that shit.
@ninani as long as when you're in your 40's your not complaining about a guy not wanting to stick around for you then that's cool. I just can't stand the girls that like to sleep around and still expect a man to want to stay with them long term. You can't make men find that attractive.
@t-8900 I don't want a man to "stick around." Men get frustrated that I don't want to settle down with them even when I make it clear that I am polyamorous from the start.
@ninani well you're saying that at 26. Say that when you are working to the bone to get your job done working 40+ hours a week and no reprieve. Shit's still on easy mode for you right now. You're welcome to disagree. You might be one of the exceptions happy to die alone one day. But Tik Tok and Youtube are full of ladies that lived their best years like you and then can't get a man to do shit for them. Actions have consequences. If you can live with them, more power to you.
@t-8900 I have already been married, that wasn't for me. I used to think I wanted those things in life, but turns out that living free is way better than conforming to other people's standards.
@ninani like I said, what works for you works for you. As they say "you do you boo-boo"... or something like that lmao. Me myself, I want to die around friends and family, not alone on a cold hospital bed waiting for time to tick down all alone. Fuck that shit!
As you age, that will change. There is an expiration date on everyone. Most women begin to wilt around 28, most start losing attention around 35, and you're bottom of the barrel after 40. There are exceptions, but that is average. Your DNA and how you care for yourself will play into that. But once skin hangs and the ankles pop out, that are out of your control, you will gain a new perspective.
@Qdbrown we call it the epiphany phase and when we say "the wall comes for them all" you best believe that's a nasty reality check when it happens. Honestly I hate to see it for anyone but life isn't all fun and games in the end. Life isn't about being "happy" all the time. If it was we wouldn't have a society...
that's true with glam make up and that and if you aren't demanding on drinks and things you could probably get it into your early 50's depending on how you care for yourself.
I’m sure sick on demand makes for a fulfilling life. I personally never found pussy on demand fulfilling but a short fun relief that leaves quite a bit of time left in the day. Madonna sang a song about something like this… satin sheets are all very nice but what do you do when not in bed, that’s where it really gets good.
@Jersey2 in my honest opinion sex without connection/emotion is an act of evil but people will do as they like. It's heartbreaking to think about though. I try to sperate us from base level animals. I like to believe there's something more, something better that can be achieved in each individual.
@t-8900 as long as they don’t want me to pay extra taxes for their kids, depression, meds, STDs or whatever they can do as they please, I just don’t want to hear about it when their world collapses.
@Jersey2 I mostly agree with you but I am pro-life and as such would be fine with them taking my tax dollars to save the life of an innocent. I also think we need free contraceptives available to people. As much as I wish we lived in a better world, we just dont. Better to give people incentives to use protection than pass things along. uuuuuh fuck society lol.
@ninani of course you are not from the US. Most people on this site are conservatives so they have this puritan mindset. There is no issue in wanting to have sex with multiple people over your life.
Some seem to embrace that. Today on the radio they talked about the death of one of the most famous groupies from back in the day. She would go to a show and service both band and crew - she said on one occasion 24 men in a day. That was her goal at the time, to be the most successful groupie ever. Apparently she had a full life, pun intended.
They have the choice to do so if they wish. "if the majority" So you understand there's women making the choice to do so because they want to too? How are you confused how this is liberating. What's the point of this question?
The point is to point out Ho's consider it liberating because they want to be Ho's and sleep with both houses of Congress and Biden too for all we know. It is what it is!
Oh look, someone trying to sling that tired BS that western women have it bad. Women in the USA, Canada, Europe are so mistreated. They are such victims. You poor things. You need to quickly move to another country where you won't be so victimized like you are in the west.
It’s always the same pathetic incels parroting the same delusions.
You’re making a lot of bold assumptions here. Firstly, I never implied “western” women, mostly just women in general. Instead of announcing your ignorance, figure out why your life is the hardest cope in the universe. Find another reach or troll elsewhere.
@Miristheiss Only a man can oppress women systemically for centuries then turn around and complain how they’re the most marginalized members of society. Go play in traffic.
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It's not or at least shouldn't be the reason it is viewed as such is because women now are doing what men have always done and surprise surprise men don't like it when the boot is on the other foot bring the downvotes lol
@chrismaster69 agree?
@karaspara yeah I fully agree.
your Typical Geordie lass has always been like this.
you go to most places in the Uk and girls go on the pull as much as guys (when they feel like it), fuck all to be Ashamed of.
We can have questions about why don’t girls make first move and why do they make the first move )
@karaspara okay and most girls lose their chastity today, but MANY men do not. And the numbers are far, far, far higher for it. Some men still value traditionalism but women see it as weakness and pray on those men as cash cows and then leave em for the guys that have no value and treat them like dirt. And the sad thing is that today they LOVE that. The problem is women think it's a large portion of guys that are players. I can assure you the 80/20 rule... hell maybe even the 90/10 rule is the reality of the situation. Also for men it's rather repulsive when girls sleep around. For some reason women are into players who get lots of action. So I guess we just are wired differently. But women dont have the right to complain anymore about not getting men to commit because they are in charge of who get's access and high value men don't want such women.
@t-8900 I feel it isn't that black and white to be honest there is a lot of misconception on both sides which is sad
@karaspara I'm not saying this to be "mean" or anything but what you "feel" something is and what the facts actually are can be two different things. Women are free to sleep with as many men as they want but they will have consequences for doing so. If living a sexually liberated life is priority over family and kids and someone to grow old with I say go for it. I just know I'm not going back to school, to fix my life, to then share what I have with someone who's given herself up to multiple men who didn't have to put a check next to that name and just got all the fun when she was younger and at her best. To me that's not right.
@t-8900 fair do's nobody should settle and it's not good to slut it out but it also isn't fair for a man to sow his oats and expect to marry a virgin
@karaspara thankfully I practice what I preach and every man should. It's part of being one to begin with. I agree with you that men shouldn't be sleeping around either. Tbh I want it to stop on both sides but fat chance of getting people to see any sort of reason and form meaningful connections anymore. smdh
@t-8900 I know lots of good guys and good girls all is not lost I grew up dreaming of a white wedding getting married and living happily ever after but unfortunately life happens and it isn't always realistic
@karaspara all's I can say is "I'll believe it when I see it". Not in someone else's story but in my own. I'm tired of the false hope. It's draining and really did me a lot of harm in life.
@t-8900 I get that but you have no idea how many times i've had my heart broken it goes both ways is all i'm saying
@karaspara yeah and it sucks. It's not natural for people to be bouncing around like that person to person. It messes with the head and it's unhealthy. What's the harm in the parents being the one to bring up sex with their kids rather than someone you don't know in a time when most people are doing things for ulterior motives? I want the best for all children, especially my own. Why is the state telling my kids about these things? How are they teaching it to them? Look at where we are as a society now. Lets not say people are more happy today than 50 years ago because we know they aren't. That said I'm not saying women shouldn't have freedom and sharia law and shit, I'm not. But women need to learn how to respect themselves and find respectable men. Promoting this bad boy shit and IG models has got to stop...
@t-8900 I honestly feel things are quite different in the USA to here at least with the impression I get from here and Twitter personally I don't do Instagram and all that nonsense I prefer real life as a rule
Disagree. Most men don't get around. Most men lie about their counts for perceived respect.
Ironically, a man can sleep around far better in a relationship or married. Women tend to be attracted to these guys to their own detriment.
Most single guys are happy just finding one woman to be with most of the time. The guys who get their pick, of vast amounts of women are the top tier men who have it all going for them. These guys are way more rare than average. Again, women tend to seek these guys out and assume if you're a man, you have unlimited access to women. This is simply not true.
For the most part average to less than are practically invisible to women. Women assume they have their types to chase. Nope, all the women chase a smaller group of guys. Hence why Incel is such a thing. Something like 40% of the population of men under 30 are still virgins. This is unheard of.
@karaspara that's good because it's hard to not be black pilled sometimes with all the things you see. And black pilled can be for either gender. I know the red and black pill are usually used to describe a male perspective but it can also be from a female perspective too. My worst fear I think would be finding out my daughter was having sex with multiple guys, especially live on camera. That would destroy me I think. Just break me down to my core. I'm worried that US culture gets mimicked by other people's and cultures. I wish people would STOP with this idea. We are a failing society people, stop mimicking it! Lol.
@Qdbrown you're right about that. It's crazy. Also women had a lot of bargaining power before. Now they lost it because of the behavior and promiscuity. They think "all guys" or "most guys" are like that because the majority of men are invisible to them. No one cares how men feel about anything. Our feelings don't matter, and our lives are expendable. We're the trash of the world. Throw another tomato or egg at me... assuming I'm even worth your time to degrade lol.
Yes, I think most women do not necessarily want to be virgins on their wedding night, but they also do not want to view themselves as being promiscuous sluts. They are willing - and they want - to have sex when they feel a mutual desire for commitment and they trust their partner.
I went out and hooked up on 4th of July, but still felt guilty for a while. Double standards suck. I always wanted to get tag teamed but haven't because of so called standards: (
Why do you feel guilty? No one knows besides you
It’s not public
Ru from Cali tho
She wants to blame society for her guilt rather than herself. She feels guilty because she’s acting immorally infront of God.
Women in their pursuit of ‘freedom’ are throwing themselves over the cliff
Because we have a conscience. Deep down within herself she knows.
She can listen to it and change...
or she can just keep slutting around until her heart is dead and her conscience has been muted.
She can keep doing it until part of her heart dies and then her conscience will never bother her again.
@GenaBaby1995 do what makes you happy beautiful! Life is too short to let a judgmental society to stop you from enjoying it! Don't listen to these haters, salty virgins, misogynist! Lol 😂
@vald9inches you know that nobody did anything to her and she felt guilty all on her own?
@Youdumbeotch There is no god, you ignorant Neanderthal.
@Ninjazzed Says you.
It can be because it allows us to live how we see fit, especially if we grew up repressed or abused.
We all have the liberty to ruin our lives. The problem isn't that they got the liberty, it's that they are unwilling to live with the consequences of said misuse of freedom. Freedom comes with responsibility, that is where many women fails in today society. They think just because they can, there shouldn't be any bad consequences from it.
Because people do understand the difference between being free from something and being free to do whatever you want.
Most think that being free to do whatever you want without consiquence is the highest form of freedom. Its like a drug addict who is "free" to do as many drugs as he wants, he isn't free to do anything but be imprisoned by his addiction.
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No because women from long ago knew the importance of her sexual energy and knew it was her creative energy. They were Spiritually strong and they respected themselves. Many carried a dagger to kill herself should she be raped. They contain every man they sleep with for life. No man wants to have all that energy from the whole village inside his woman.
I don’t think doing anything of that is liberating for anyone because in the end it just ends up hurting you regardless of gender
@pink_and_inlove Fuck, why did you have to throw out a reasonable response? We need hostile hyperbole to keep things fun.
Thank goodness a voice of reason speaks out. Sometimes I believe the only people who comment are people who have run into the minority of people who behave this way. Everyone wants to give an example of a girl or a guy who has treated them like trash. And then apply it to the entire gender. It is so pointless. This is no sporting event and there is no one keeping score because there is no clear black or white in this. I’m sorry to break it to the men of this board, but not all women are conniving, deceitful, money hungry women who will stab you in the back. And to my sisters of the female Gender, I am afraid to break it to you that not all men, or even a majority of men are pigs, sleep around all the time, get people pregnant and then leave, etc. most of the behavior I read about here, it’s done by a small but significant minority of people with really significant issues. I can’t put a percentage on it, but why give these people all the space in your heads? I’ve had multiple women cheat on me including my wife in a terrible way, but even though it’s hard, I can’t treat every other woman I meet as if they are just like the other women. No wonder things are crazy with marriage these days. If everybody comes in to relationships assuming the worst, it’s going to be a self fulfilling prophecy. Sometimes it just looks like everything is slipping away
They are free to do as they please, like men. Unfortunately any serious potential suitor that does his due diligence will investigate and find out she’s a bed hopping harlot and her potential to find a decent life mate drops exponentially with every bed hopped into. That’s just the way it is, I investigate, do background checks, ask questions, I will neither date or marry a bed hopping Ho.
You’re not 100% wrong. A lot of women experiment with hookup culture then lose interest as they get older and mature. But women of any age (above the age of consent) should have that option available to them if they want it.
Yes, and that's great. But will they be honest about it later, or play it down?
Back in the day people experimented with maybe a dozen partners. Now that are going for gold, for 50, 100 or even an unknown but scary high number that would freak our a porno star.
When women said none of your business then, not a big deal. Now it could be an issue. A high sex body count woman is low value to most men.
@Qdbrown I haven’t been with that many guys. Most girls I know who have lie about it and shave a lot off their number.
"But women of any age (above the age of consent) should have that option available to them if they want it."
CAN I GET AN "AMEN?"
I was raised traditional my mother would break my back if i ever did that and in the end its not personally who i am. I don't find it liberating but an excuse to disguise their reckless behavior
to each their own in this life i guess
Women should do who they want, get tagteamed or take on a football teams etc etc.
And people shouldn't shame them for it.
All the while everybody has the right not to want these types of women. For whatever reasons. And that is not sexist, it's a preference/requirement.
Women can have sex with anyone they want to just like men. Does a woman want to get together with a guy that has had sex with a bunch of women before her? Does a guy want a woman that has had sex with a bunch of men before him? People can do whatever they want but there are consequences.
I don’t care, as long as they’re being safe it’s their body and they can choose what they want to do with it. Same for anyone else
Here is what I think. Some small group of women were pissed that they couldn't get laid and decided let's try to normalize all this behavior so that people think hook up and so on is actually good and healthy for women in general
The very same question could be asked of men, don't you think? How is it "liberating" to be a sleazy 'pick-up artist' or 'ladies-man'?
Perhaps you missed the second sentence of my answer. I point out there that it’s equally unbecoming for men as well as women to be promiscuous, the king of the pick ups or a player hustler. And then point out how it’s demeaning to the person in a number of ways, I’m uncertain where you drew your conclusion but that was not my intention, so I’m terribly sorry if there was any confusion. As far as those “F-boys“ or pick up artist/hustlers, They might be a big deal if you’re in a fraternity or something for a little while but I can tell you as a guy, the older you get the more we just laugh at those guys. They were losers at the time and they’re losers now. I was not dropping on either side. I appreciate your answer. Have a good evening
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@Uptowngirl88 Yaasssssssss! :)
@William7489 This:
What are you talking about? You didn't ask this weird question. The second sentence in this states that:
"As times became more egalitarian and progressive, women can do more and more the things they were told not to do."
You might have me confused with someone else.
Ignore the first "this". We really need to have the ability to correct mistakes here.
I was referring to my answer. Sorry for any confusion.
Men don't use pathetic words like liberating
@Hallo626262 What's wrong with the word?
I find it liberating because I actually do want to have sex with multiple people. It's fine that not every woman wants to and find liberation simply in having the option, that's just not me.
Except many “liberated” women hide it so how is that liberating? They know that high quality men will see it as a negative in a potential wife. So make sure you don’t hide it and you know… be liberated and own that shit.
Jersey2 so do you think high quality women would want a guy that has sex with multiple people?
@Jersey2 I don't hide it and still have quality people around me.
@ninani as long as when you're in your 40's your not complaining about a guy not wanting to stick around for you then that's cool. I just can't stand the girls that like to sleep around and still expect a man to want to stay with them long term. You can't make men find that attractive.
@t-8900 I don't want a man to "stick around." Men get frustrated that I don't want to settle down with them even when I make it clear that I am polyamorous from the start.
@ninani well you're saying that at 26. Say that when you are working to the bone to get your job done working 40+ hours a week and no reprieve. Shit's still on easy mode for you right now. You're welcome to disagree. You might be one of the exceptions happy to die alone one day. But Tik Tok and Youtube are full of ladies that lived their best years like you and then can't get a man to do shit for them. Actions have consequences. If you can live with them, more power to you.
@t-8900 I have already been married, that wasn't for me. I used to think I wanted those things in life, but turns out that living free is way better than conforming to other people's standards.
@ninani like I said, what works for you works for you. As they say "you do you boo-boo"... or something like that lmao. Me myself, I want to die around friends and family, not alone on a cold hospital bed waiting for time to tick down all alone. Fuck that shit!
@t-8900 I have great friends in the kink community, wouldn't be alone.
As you age, that will change. There is an expiration date on everyone. Most women begin to wilt around 28, most start losing attention around 35, and you're bottom of the barrel after 40. There are exceptions, but that is average. Your DNA and how you care for yourself will play into that. But once skin hangs and the ankles pop out, that are out of your control, you will gain a new perspective.
@Qdbrown we call it the epiphany phase and when we say "the wall comes for them all" you best believe that's a nasty reality check when it happens. Honestly I hate to see it for anyone but life isn't all fun and games in the end. Life isn't about being "happy" all the time. If it was we wouldn't have a society...
@Qdbrown please, my greatest mentors are 40+ and doing just fine. Nothing a latex suit can't fix 😘
that's true with glam make up and that and if you aren't demanding on drinks and things you could probably get it into your early 50's depending on how you care for yourself.
I’m sure sick on demand makes for a fulfilling life. I personally never found pussy on demand fulfilling but a short fun relief that leaves quite a bit of time left in the day. Madonna sang a song about something like this… satin sheets are all very nice but what do you do when not in bed, that’s where it really gets good.
@Jersey2 in my honest opinion sex without connection/emotion is an act of evil but people will do as they like. It's heartbreaking to think about though. I try to sperate us from base level animals. I like to believe there's something more, something better that can be achieved in each individual.
@t-8900 as long as they don’t want me to pay extra taxes for their kids, depression, meds, STDs or whatever they can do as they please, I just don’t want to hear about it when their world collapses.
@Jersey2 I mostly agree with you but I am pro-life and as such would be fine with them taking my tax dollars to save the life of an innocent. I also think we need free contraceptives available to people. As much as I wish we lived in a better world, we just dont. Better to give people incentives to use protection than pass things along. uuuuuh fuck society lol.
@ninani of course you are not from the US. Most people on this site are conservatives so they have this puritan mindset.
There is no issue in wanting to have sex with multiple people over your life.
Some seem to embrace that. Today on the radio they talked about the death of one of the most famous groupies from back in the day. She would go to a show and service both band and crew - she said on one occasion 24 men in a day. That was her goal at the time, to be the most successful groupie ever. Apparently she had a full life, pun intended.
They have the choice to do so if they wish.
"if the majority"
So you understand there's women making the choice to do so because they want to too? How are you confused how this is liberating. What's the point of this question?
The point is to point out Ho's consider it liberating because they want to be Ho's and sleep with both houses of Congress and Biden too for all we know. It is what it is!
@Daniela1982
The fuck kinda drugs you taking? Lmao.
Men get to do what they want so why can’t women? Sexism still exists.
Oh look, someone trying to sling that tired BS that western women have it bad. Women in the USA, Canada, Europe are so mistreated. They are such victims. You poor things. You need to quickly move to another country where you won't be so victimized like you are in the west.
@Miristheiss Looks like I struck a nerve.
Must be nice to have life figured out at 15.
It’s always the same pathetic incels parroting the same delusions.
You’re making a lot of bold assumptions here. Firstly, I never implied “western” women, mostly just women in general. Instead of announcing your ignorance, figure out why your life is the hardest cope in the universe. Find another reach or troll elsewhere.
@Miristheiss Only a man can oppress women systemically for centuries then turn around and complain how they’re the most marginalized members of society. Go play in traffic.
@Miristheiss Men have never been oppressed for their reproductive capabilities. You need to do your research.