Is it weird for two female cousins to shower together?

[Curious3alatol]

Me and my cousin grew up together and are best friends. We used to shower together when younger and never really grew out of it. We still had showers together sometimes when I was in college and I never thought it was weird at all. Now I'm in a relationship and haven't seen my cousin in a long time, we shared a hotel room on a 1 week vacation and ended up having a shower together one day when we were in a rush to leave. I'm 26 years old now and my boyfriend says it's weird. She's my best friend and we don't think of each other in any sexual way. Is it still weird?

Not weird

Weird

Depends on culture

[Jake99999]

If you both are comfortable with it, its not weird. Asking a bunch of strangers on here if its "weird" you are going to get all kinds of answers.

Guys in a gym will all shower in a group area, some gyms have wide open shower areas. So do women in locker rooms, sometimes big group showers. People change in a gym and their bodies show. It seems pretty accepted in the US at least. So in general same sex people showering or changing clothes in that setting is not generally deemed as weird.

Now in private, in your home or in a hotel, where you could each take your own shower but choose to shower together... well that is up to you, and like I said, if neither of you think its weird, then it isn't. Just my opinion. Keep in mind someone else who sees you two getting in the shower together, may form their own ideas about it.

[Anonymous]

I know you said you're arab ( I am too) but I've never heard of this being practiced anywhere in the Arab world lol. Its kind of weird yes I'd say

[Curious3alatol]

I am so surprised with these results! I truly thought it was normal lol.

[PolkaDotShorties]

If you’re not watching her get clean or vice versa or have fantasies about her, I don’t think it’s weird!

[Curious3alatol]

Thank you! I've seen so many girls change in front of each other and it's no big deal. As long as no one is staring I always thought that was fine. No difference here.

[whatsthereinname]

May i ask where are you from

[Curious3alatol]

Yes, we are Arab!

[whatsthereinname]

So kind of depend on the culture there

[Curious3alatol]

Thanks, I wasn't sure if it was a cultural thing or if most people thought this was different. Guess we'll see. 😄

[whatsthereinname]

Well a lot depends on how you're brought up

While show if skin would be a big taboo in some part of world, it's fashion for other

[whatsthereinname]

And regarding you being together, if that's in with females bathing together in the place you live, that's not weird

What could be weird is you not getting sexual thoughts or talks while setting each other naked

Lol

[Wise4myage]

Not weird and pretty damn sexy too.

[Luckycharms12]

If still doing it yes. As kids normal

[Avicenna]

Its weird