Is it true that if you are a tall strong man, most women will treat you better compared to the average guy?

[Anonymous]

If you are tall and strong, with a dominant, yet non aggressive demeanour, with a good personality,
is it true that women will generally treat you respectfully and be nice to you, and be less likely to treat you with disrespect, even if they aren’t particularly attracted to you?

(compared to the average guy)

[whirled_up_girl]

So I tend to judge based on personality more than looks, people don't decide how tall they become, they may be a certain weight or muslce build because of they health habits but other than that I I find it silly to make that a basis for how I would treat someone. I've known guys who are tall and muscular and complete jerks and others who are very kind and friendly. It's the kind and friendly guys who I'd go on date. Even if we're not talking about dating, it's the kind and friendly ones I'm going to show the most respect for.

[btbc92]

No. Most women who are sexually attracted to that will only come to you because... they are sexually attracted to what you got. You wouldn't be treated any different than the average guy, because most girls eventually grow out of that by their early 30s. Anybody who treats you differently because of your looks is not the people you want around you. I don't treat people any better or differently because of that. Again, it is about sexual attraction. Not because he is for who he is, but what he can offer them, no different it is for men in how they treat women. Men treat women like me less because I am not putting them out before marriage or look super attractive. They treat people I know or friends with better. That is just how it is.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

No. Most women go to taller and physically stronger for protection. Plus most women obsess about sex and wildly self-actualising (which is absurd since self actualising, the psychological term for 'reaching one's potential' translates to 'masturbation' not to love from another)
The whole lot of that advertising/marketing based economy of ego building is wrong/self defeating.

[btbc92]

@ThatNoUVAtYourEyes You're not telling me anything new. Most of us overall want to be with a man who is in general taller. Not so much physically stronger unless he is in need of that for himself. And no, most of us do not obsess about sex. It has everything to do with the discovery of that because again, it's mostly the programming. It has to do with again, spirituality and genetics. The men the girls want are actually who they are genetically compatible with to birth to children. They want the genetics and the blessings that may come from it. It is always about that exchange. The more the guy offers a woman the higher probability of creating a family or birthing children. It is again, genetics (strong genetics) and the spiritual.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

You're lacking some meanings there. Blessings is 'he will work for me'. But, anyway, I get your point/I don't disagree overall, just in fine detail

[btbc92]

@ThatNoUVAtYourEyes BLESSINGS refers to bloodlines and what God may want to pass down from generation to generation, such as inheritances, good familial relationships, etc. It has nothing to do with working for any woman. But that men must be able to provide or have a strong desire to do so if he is building himself up. The woman must be a helpmeet. So he cannot just be with every woman. Not every woman will marry. So women are scrambling to snag a guy with the most prospects.

I find that women tend to be happier, like myself as a standard or preference for a person to be within the same range of 3-4 inches taller, rarely 5-6 apart, the same as age range the same age to 3-4 years apart, rarely 5-6. Anything by 7+ can cause friction or problems. AT least by observation alone. For some reason, it would seem that mathematic principle seem to play a big role in physical compatibility between couples. Though it doesn't mean it's impossible for uneven couples such as short males and taller females or large age gaps. But it is extremely RARE and there must be a purpose for their union. However, what you referring to is mostly a trend. Most females don't really want that but are encouraged to because society says and determines who you should or shouldn't be with.

[btbc92]

I didn't lack any meaning, I explained it as it should be known to you to understanding what it is really about. See you are not a woman, so you don't understand this process for us. Every woman desires to feel safe in some way. That is just naturally in us. Taller doesn't always mean protection. I should know. My dad is stronger than most taller man and he is my height of 5'3. He gets plenty of women's attention now especially since he got older, has been married to my mom, and gain financial viability in some way, sadly not stability. Anyway. It is again about spirituality and genetics. What society is trying to do is weed out certain genetics they don't want in their system. So the modern women today are going after those who have a higher chance of genetic survival and the rest eventually weens out. The problem is, while most of us do want a taller guy, we are not asking for the top like 6'0 mess that many people keep throwing around as a myth. It is strictly myth. And most girls cannot get a guy like that. If you ever notice the numerical pattern that gets thrown up today a 6'foot guy, 6'pack, and 6' figure income. What do the numbers add to?: 666. The number of men. You never noticed it? Stop falling for the Okie Doke. It's demonic.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Bloodlines is usually 'his family wealth'when translated. Would you date/marry a taller orphan?

[btbc92]

@ThatNoUVAtYourEyes I am celibate. So dating is not my focus. However, bloodlines do not have anything to do with actual financial wealth. But again, what spiritual inheritances are to be passed down. I say ultimately it is up to God. As long as he is able to do the basics and takes care of me, and we are to do what is for God, that is all that matters. Plus that depends on how tall. I am petite as it is, so a guy over 5'5-5'7 is too much for me. So nobody taller than that.

[btbc92]

Because trust me. I would not just date a guy because he has wealth. I need to know the history behind it before you marry into a crime family, mason, or a curse. Those are a BIG no-no. No dirty money. If it's not with clean hands. No. Before they taint your bloodline. This is why I say no premarital sex before marriage too. Because once you have sex, that's it. You created marriage, and that is a no. I understand the spiritual ramifications of it. A lot of people do not understand.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

It is reasonable, what you are saying. But, for that to work, we _all_ need to fight crime and eradicate it.
Any crime money represses labour/legitimately earned money and in fact devalues or destroys legitimacy.

[_Troian_]

Being tall isn't about being strong tho, first of all u should get out from that mentality. Not only women but people in general show more respect to people who look bigger and stronger, by strong you can say a fit and athletic body aswell. You don't have to be 6.5-6.7ft for that there are many guys who get their asses whopped by much shorter guys and being around that height.

It's also like that in the animal world, physical appearance is important that's right, so u should at least show people that u take care of yourself and at least look strong. That's how you will get a respect, to keep that up u should also have a nice characteristic.

[Tyme1313]

Yea, I can confirm this for sure. When I was younger I was actually short for my age, and people treated me like shit, even despite being decently dominant in personality. After hitting puberty I ended up at 6'3" by 14, and everyone that treated me like shit at 11 and 12 wanted to be my friend, or fuck me at 14.

Full grown at 6'7", I can say people defiantly treat me differently than short friends. I can also assure you, being attractive results in being treated better too.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of people don’t admit this and/or aren’t consciously aware of how they treat people based on looks. I do think yes because women have been hardwired over generations, as men, to fight for our survival, and over time we have come to believe those with these genes will provide better chances at survival. So, I think women do treat men as you described as superior because it makes them feel more safe but they don’t consciously run this thought through their head, and that said, women can consciously determine based on other factors what makes someone more safe or not. So, maybe initially they prefer tall and strong men but within literal minutes or less, this can be shifted.

[Crazybeeguy]

Maybe 100 years ago that would hold true. But, no amount of muscles or tallness will stop a bullet.

[Asker]

@Crazybeeguy two things

1. It’s much more than 100 years
2. If you can read, she saying it’s an evolutionary trait that is subconscious, so what you said adds nothing to the table.

[Crazybeeguy]

You weren't paying attention to what I said, your problem is not being short or not muscular. You are condescending

[Opinion Owner]

@asker yes

[HighValue]

@Crazybeeguy And no amount of shortness or weakness will stop a bullet either. And strength helps to keep a steady aim, especially for longer range heavier firearms. So even with firearms, the stronger have an advantage.

[Crazybeeguy]

@HighValue haha ha ha BMT sharpshooter, Special Reconnaissance I was a buck thirty at that time. Decided not to go that route, went high tech instead. Wasn't a meathead apparently I should have been because women want a hyper masculane male.

[t-8900]

no one likes a cocky asshole. Women and men both find it a turn off. Doesn't matter what the guy brings to the table. If he doesn't have humility I can promise you that at best he's going to get cheated on and most women will give him the hand and walk away and rightfully so.

[Anonymous]

Yes, women up to their thirties drool over good-looking guys irrespective of their personality, bad behavior. Then they want guys with low sexual market value but high social status, wealth. It's nesting habits of female species all over the animal kingdom. Sometimes they say they were immature, blah blah blah but those were lies. They exactly knew what they were doing and had plans like this all along from their early ages. You can't blame anyone, everyone wants what's best for them irrespective of what they bring to the table. Dating is always a huge gamble.

[Anonymous]

No. What you just described right now is a toxic male alpha. They’re good at manipulating good women into being with them only to cause them emotional trauma and pain. We couldn’t care less about his looks, the majority of us would even date a guy with a dad bod or average joe body because there’s a higher chance that those men aren’t narcissistic.

[Opinion Owner]

They’re the types to stay single forever just because they think they’re better than that women and have that complex.

[Not_Average]

1. Strong
2. Tall
3. Good Personality
4. Dominant, yet not aggressive.

That’s a narcissistic manipulative toxic alpha male who causes emotional trauma and pain? How did you come up with that thesis lol

[Opinion Owner]

By you focusing on the appearance first tells me everything. We really don’t care. You should have asked a different question like “do women like guys who are attentive and clingy” stuff like that.

[Not_Average]

That’s just a lot to assume off of those characteristics lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well honestly the last two options should have been the only thing you should have asked about, the personality.

[Not_Average]

Women are more emotionally driven when it comes to attraction, but of course looks still matter. you don’t think so? Sure one can take precedence over another, but you’re saying looks don’t matter at all? That doesn’t seem accurate

[Opinion Owner]

I had some grammar mistakes. I wouldn’t contradict myself.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know why you’re bothered by it you should be happy to know that women really don’t care about looks. Yes, we obviously have eyes to acknowledge an attractive guy but that’s really it. It’s not like we’re gonna turn like the 50’s house wives for them just because they look “strong” and “tall” and “attractive”. The heck 😭

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not that deep, the last two things you listed were fine by itself.

[Not_Average]

I don't know maybe it's a little deeper for me based on my experience. Not trying to ride your ass or anything. Still in shape today, but I'm taller and was a steroid using bodybuilder in college. I also didn't take steroids for attention. Former Marine Corps vet with a bigger personality. Based on the generic description, I'd match the criteria of an "Alpha" if you want to call it that. I definitely loved the attention I got when I was single, but fuck... people literally hated me for no reason sometimes. Insults towards my intelligence. Insults towards the size of my dick when they were intimidated. Insults towards my character when they didn't even know me. Girls and guys would make up rumors about me all the time. Women would act so bitter towards me sometimes. I went through a whole phase of if people are going to treat me like this, then I'll just give them what they assume and had fun with it. I was the guy who would get the shy girl laughing in class. I was the guy who would help out overweight people at the gym quicker than anyone else. I took bodybuilding seriously. I didn't just date skinny bimbos. I just experienced a lot of unwarranted envy and hate during that period of my life. That was a confusing time. I'd just urge you not to judge others so harshly based on those descriptions. You don't know their story or who they are. Looks and status can be deceiving.

[Not_Average]

When you say that looks don't matter, that doesn't seem right. When I started building a physique it was a day and night difference with how much female attention I got. Looks get you in the door, but personality and morale is what keeps a good woman around.

[Opinion Owner]

The last thing is exactly what I was trying to say. I wasn’t trying to offend you , matter of fact you didn’t necessarily make it clear that YOU were the person you were describing in your question. Sorry you went through why you did. everyone had their struggles in high school.

[Opinion Owner]

Again still not sure why you’re offended by the fact that I said women (not high school girls) don’t care about looks. Again, you should be happy to know that. Especially since you’ve told me your whole background experience.

[Opinion Owner]

You’ll find a good gal. Wish you the best of luck ✨ take care.

[Opinion Owner]

What you did *

[Not_Average]

You're getting at me wrong. I'm not offended at all. I'm referring to college after the military, but I digress. I'm also happily married. She's great. Just wanted to put what I said out there. Glad to offer someone a different perspective if I can.

[Opinion Owner]

Or college experiences , not really sure if you had that experience in high school. If you experienced it while in the marines I know people in that type of industry can be pretty rough so it’s bound to happen to everyone there I had a friend who was in the military and the commentary’s ate her up to the point where she had to leave the military. She couldn’t continue and decided to go to school instead. It’s life man. Again sorry you had to go through that stuff. Hope you heal.

[Opinion Owner]

Jesus not marines , military

[Opinion Owner]

That’s cool I guess but it’s oddly specific to even describe yourself on the internet for girls opinions about you if you had the intentions of offering other people different perspectives. Everyone’s different. Focus on your marriage instead. You don’t need our opinions.

[Opinion Owner]

Answering Respectfully.

[Not_Average]

No intent to garner up opinions for validation from strangers. Was describing my experience with the intent to give you another perspective if you were bitter. Seems as if I misjudged what you originally said. That's fair... have a good one. God bless

[MCheetah]

@Anonymous
You seem to be projecting your own baggage onto something no one said.

[girlygirl2034]

Probably. Woman admire men that are tall and strong and some woman like to feel safe and tall men make them feel safer. But men don’t tower over women. Make them feel safe not imposing. They don’t want to feel like they are a scrap of dust they want to feel valued. Treat them like they matter to you and they belong

[BroodyRuby]

I think pretty privilege is a thing for both men and women. Women and men who are considered conventionally attractive will always have people treating them kinder than people who aren’t considered conventionally attractive

[Ninani]

Yes, because you pose a greater threat, so subconsciously women want to minimise the risk of getting murdered by being a bit more friendly. The women who do not change behaviour are the ones who've never been afraid of a man before.

[HighValue]

In my experience, yes. But being that type of man I also have to deal with jealousy and hate from plenty of women after rejecting them or after they realize my standards and know they could never measure up if they don't fit the criteria.

[TallAnon]

So I'm 6'7 and can be quite intimidating.
It seems to make my approachability lower, but in a situation where interaction naturally occurs, I do seem to get beneficial treatment. At work, both men and women take me more seriously as well. I never get into fights these days either.

[Anonymous]

Of course i will be nice to a nice handsome tall guy but I would not disrespect nice average looking guys. However, people are more attracted to attractive people than average looking people. Being attractive is a huge plus since looks helps you to get easily sexually attracted to the person. So to be honest i may be extra nice to a handsome nice guy.

[Opinion Owner]

However, i loose easily any interest in a guy if he disrespects me or is not nice to me and it does not matter how he looks. I feel sudden disgust to bad people. I remember how i had a huge crush on a handsome guy in Highschool but i suddenly was disgusted after i find out he is bad guy. I dont know why. My stomach even hurt a little bit when i find out that the people i like due their looks are toxic. This is how disgusting toxic people are to me. However i dont know why i feel more safe around nice tall attractive men than nice average looking men.

[Asker]

Can you please describe how that person was “bad”

[Opinion Owner]

I was a shy naive introvert. So i only saw him in class. So i did not know that he had ton of exes and play with girls. I only realized this after he played with a girl who l know from class. He even tried to approach me but i ran away from him after knowing this. He was basically a player. I dont know if he still like this

[Opinion Owner]

After that i "stalk" him a little bit at school and saw him flirting with random girls although he was taken. His friend often sat next to me in class and told me many things about him after i asked him some questions which i usually did not do

[Asker]

Be honest, does him having many girls that liked him make him more attractive?

[Opinion Owner]

When i was 15 i did not care about man's bodycount as long as he ain't player but now i feel disgusted by promiscuos. I can't explain it. It is just i feel like a cuck. I mean i dont care about promiscuos men but when it comes to relationship/marriage i dont want them. So i dont slut-shame men

[fabrikant]

Yes. Women are hardly hiding their antipathy. There might be three forms of treating: when they like you (and will definitely know about it), when they don't (and you will probably know about it), and when they are not considering you as a male or have 0 interest in you (like when you have a ring on your finger, or you're a gay).

[Asker]

Ok, I agree with everything except for the ring finger part lol. Women lust for married men. And being married can actually make you more attractive (although not practical) so they still see them as male lol.

[Kaamraj]

Height conveys authority by default so normally people will be nice to you. This is because in ancient times the tallest man was the alpha of the group and had access to the best nutrition and generally came from a superior genetic stock.

[Anonymous]

I'm 6'1 (not very tall), but have had women get grabby and try to touch me or press their breast into my back. Maybe I'm not tall enough or don't project enough charisma, but from my experience women get more physically aggressive if they think you can take it or they want to take it.

[Anonymous]

A tall, strong man can woo a woman but he can have zero morals as a human being and be a piece of shit in life. As I've gotten older I stopped caring what girls or women. Females change their mind everyday, why would I take that seriously? lol. If a girl is offended by this here is one token/coupon to McDonalds with the new I-don't-care burger (hold the onions).

[Opinion Owner]

I stopped caring what girls or women think*

[Anonymous]

No. I treat everyone equally. Respect is something that is earned. If someone is not respectable i will set boundaries to him or her. I just look for attitudes not looks. If someone shows me respect, i will Show respect them. Otherwise, their looks is not my concern.

[siseñor]

repec

[Asker]

I wish this were actually true, but unfortunately most people are lying when they say “equally”. They usually treat people they find ugly a bit different.

[Opinion Owner]

I can not talk about the other people. I can only talk about myself. I am not perfect and nobody is perfect. I always look someones’ attitudes towards me. Not his or her looks.

[whirled_up_girl]

I'm sure there are people that do that with people they find ugly, but I know for myself I don't usually become physically attracted to someone or find them attractive until I get to know them. Most of the guys I've dated or even just found attrative are not what society would refer to as "attractive" and yet if they treat me right or have a nice personallity I could easily think they're the hottest guy in the vicinity.

[cloudspy]

No. Height and strength doesn't determine how nice I treat a man or how much I respect a man. I would probably be more physically attracted to a taller, strongish looking man though.

[15_Debo]

WEll yeah
but if u treat me well I will also treat u well
EVEN if a tall, strong, macho man treats me wrong, he'll have to suffer

[Somegirl408]

yeah i noticed tall, strong macho guys have more authority, people kind of almost bow down to them lol

[MCheetah]

@Somegirl408
People bow down to and get intimidated by tall people in general.

[siseñor]

@MCheetah hi mr cheeto

[otaku_owl_91]

Short answer, yes. Women will never actually tell you what turns them on. When women give men "advice" about what women want, they're usually telling you what will land you in the friendzone. This is a red-pill basic.

[LavenderLuna]

“Tall and strong” men are intimidating So I’m actually less likely to talk to them at all lol