I don't smoke or drink, but is it shallow if I see smoking at drinking as deal breakers? (Page 2)

[MotorcycleMan]

I wouldn't date a smoker even though I used to be one myself. Drinking for me would depend on the amount and frequency, but do what's right for you.

[bolverk]

No, not shallow I don't like smokers myself, as I lost both parents to cancer, alcohol not so much of a deal breaker as long as is controlling it and they do not have to get falling down drunk to be able to 'enjoy' their nights out.

[slatyb]

Your choice. I would never date a smoker. Drinking is not a problem unless it’s a problem.

[FilmGuy93]

No? That's just wanting someone who shares your lifestyle choices.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Hey man, not all people are fun at parties. That for me is a desk breaker, gotta know how to enjoy life to the max 😁

[SillybrokenPanda]

I wouldn't say it is shallow, it is something you don't want to tied to your life.

[Dchrls78104]

No. Not shallow; wise and reasonable. I do not smoke ore drink, either; and smoking and drinking are dealbreakers for me, too.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, I won't date drinkers or smokers either, that shit is disgusting and stupid.

[clampfan101]

Definitely not. Those are very justifiable standards.

[Tabasco25]

I can't smell so if she smokes or drinks I don't care? But the physical health and the mental health is my concern.

[Surely]

It is like kissing a dirty ash tray!
I won’t date them either.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Probably not.
Women notoriously demean you if you smoke or drink

[m33lad]

You eat meat right? Which based on the new studies is 40 times worse

[Word2thewise]

No because it forms part of a lifestyle that be incompatible with our own. Plus smoking would impact your health as well as their own.

[Seppel]

I think it's a dealbreaker If someone doesn't do it

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Is it shallow to have basic ass standards?

[Shihab91]

In my opinion body isn't that big deal ( to a certain point)

[Ms_Vanderquack]

So you just completely missed the whole point of my response there huh?

[Shihab91]

Oh yes , sorry lol 🤣. Yes i agree its a basic standers but for some its not so i want to know their point of view

[Anonymous]

I do also see smoking as 100% deal breaker. Who would want to smell and kiss an ashtray!

[KatherineJ]

I don’t think it’s shallow at all.

[Iron_Man]

No it’s not because you’re not smoky or drinking

[t-8900]

I quit for my girl 🤷‍♂️