Snow bunnies practice imperial dating. As long as she’s in a position to lord it over you, everything will be fine. Be aware and beware. Read Frantz Fanon’s book, especially the one about masks. and Alfred Memi’s book “the colonizer and the colonized.”
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She definitely doesn't realize how she's coming across. White privilege at it's finest.
More concerning - It did sounds like you'd be willing to put up with her comments because she's attracted to you. Um... not ok. Tolerating racism so you can get laid? There'll be other chicks.
Just tell her how you feel. Some people are literally tone-deaf to what spills out from their mouth. She might be truly oblivious to what she says.
So just sit her down and tell her that some of her comments are down-right racist 🤷
Maybe it is her (inappropriate) idea of teasing. Did you confront her that you find it uncomfortable?
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