We see a lot of beautiful women with rich guys, they seem attracted to money and rich men, why? You think that is just for interest or is something deeper than that? Is there a scientific explanation?
Why are women so attracted to money?
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In ancient times before and during the invention of a currency system the privileges, security and stability of life was usually measured by the men fighting off hostiles (wild animals and hostile tribes), ownership of home and land (to grow edibles and livestock) or providing community services such as forging weapons, tools, armor...
In modern times money translates to many things: Your privileges in life, your social status and social class, quality of living, your influence, power, exercising out your potential, getting all your needs and wants met and even the medical services you can afford.
This is attractive regardless of gender. The men tend to take on such quests directly. (Possibly they got influenced by gangster rappers and rich guys getting all the gold diggers or gold diggers running after Mr. Big Wallet) The women do that too but apparently not as often as men do and instead some of them choose to find a guy with money and take advantage of it and selling their love. This case is a dumpster and if you have any considerable amount of self respect left, you wouldn't go down that route (and neither would the high quality ladies as they would rather finance their expenses themselves and then find someone to truly love *if* they so choose).
Regardless of past or present, a person not contributing to society (in modern times it would equal to a lazy couch potato watching TV and settling for minimum wage slavery type of "jobs" (if not scamming people for a living) or playing for very long time videogames) is not a person gaining any value in dating. Yet I know many people, who do what I just mentioned and they are married with kids. However I choose not to be part of them even though I was born in one such family but have chosen to escape from that madness.
In summary: It doesn't matter if you are male, female, transgender or non-binary. The following applies to YOU: It is YOUR job to become a person of value. At the same time it is YOUR job to screen out those, who mostly intend to take advantage of you or are trying to sell you their love. It is also YOUR job to find a partner rather than waiting for miracles to happen *if* you so choose. Find a teammate, not a liability.
You know, I'm 63 and have some money. I don't live large but I do drive an expensive car and live in a nice luxury apartment. I have had really beautiful gals make it known they would let me come close. I generally don't though. I much rather be with a lady with an inner beauty that knows how to have fun. "trophy" Women are in fact a dime a dozen. I have never been fully comfortable around them. I know I can get mean in these comments about only wanting to be around women that act like ladies. The thing is acting like a lady does not mean she can't have fun as we all toss back some suds watching out favorite teams on TV. I guess I am so old I don't enjoy the games anymore and just want to be around women that let their beauty come through. Pretty faces with nothing behind them honestly bore me today!
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To answer this question directly. It's in a woman's nature to want to be taken care of. One of those ways is financially. A man who is rich can pay for tasks we don't want to do but you probably want us to do. Like cooking. A rich man can provide us a chef, maids, a nanny. (not that all women want those things) but it's help. It signals a more easy going pampered lifestyle.
This isn't to say a hardworking minimum wage man can't pamper his wife. But let's be honest the pampering is different. A rich man can get his woman a massage at a luxurious spa twice a week. While the other man would have to save up and gift it to her once a year on her birthday. There's nothing wrong with that I'm just saying there's a clear difference.
For the young girls, they want to live up life. That's why some of them they have "sponsors". They're sponsors can put them on yachts, fly them first class, take the to places they didn't even know existed. In a woman's world, most of us are not going to see this life, yet many of us dream of it because it's rare and hard to come by in men. Men who have money know this which is why some flaunt it to get women.
Women are attracted to security, stability, and safety. In today's world, those things are best achieved via money.
So... there. A deeper meaning behind it.
I'm not into flashy cars or fancy things, but I do desire to feel secure. I'm also financially responsible and I make my own money, but we do have an emergency fund for our emergency fund. So like... we have our day-to-day money and then we have 6 months of expenses in a separate account... and then we have 3 months of expenses in a third account because I need to feel secure in my home lol
That's so funny your response you're basically saying you fuck some guy that you may not even really like just so you don't have to work that's exactly what you're saying
@the29thhuman true!.. Along with money, being Rich means important to society that means higher social status and more security and support in help of crisis
@Seqngreen yes because God forbid you die while she's taking care of your 2 plus kids and doesn't want them ending up on the street or having to whore herself out or date abusers to make ends meet. Ffs look at the bigger picture.
You also see a lot of beautiful women who aren't with rich guys, but no mention of them... Or the fact that you are assuming that they're with those men just for the money, how do you know those women didn't have their own money or are rich themselves🤔 no, far better to assume and label all women as money hungry gold diggers🙄🤦🏼ââď¸
Itâs always been the case that successful people attract others.
Historically itâs always been successful men that attract women who are usually more attractive (based on social requirements in that era) than other women. Itâs nothing new and itâs always been a thing.
Some of it was families getting a move up the social ladder, other times it was down to the woman looking for herself.
These days successful business women etc also attract guys who are more attractive.
invariably people who have money, have likely been well educated, have confidence, have drive, have passion etc, even without the money side of things, these attributes are more attractive than the average person, definitely more than the Incel living in his mums basement (those that would moan about this the most).
Because certain types of women are shallow and materialistic. Perhaps some grew up in a family that struggled financially and seek security. Some may have low self-esteem and base their worth on money to boost it. There are many reasons this could root from. Keep in mind the men allow this.
Personally I couldn't give two hoots if a guy drove a shitbox and lived in a 1 bedroom unit. If they have what counts on the inside that's all that matters. We come into this world with nothing and can't take anything materialistic with us when we die.
Personally I feel we as women are attracted to a man that is wealthy, or comfortable in life because itâs hard to find men who make a decent amount of money & itâs hard to find someone who actually has a job. Being financially stable with someone is the ultimate comfort we as women and (humans ) longfor and want. So to answer your question women want men with money because they want to be able to live comfortably with a man. And letâs be honest we as women do enjoy being spoiled here and there as well. Thereâs many layers to it, just depends on WHO you ask.
Yea, i guess having a job is no longer enough for women it seems.. What about growing together, and getting wealthy together as a couple? The media truly fucked up people's minds.. it's either you are rich & famous, or you are a nobody in many people's eyes.
That's what this post is about. Why are so many women trying to normalize/silently get rid of the word goldiggers, by saying "we just want a stable man" and stuff like that.. meanwhile all they really want is the goldigger comfy lifestyle.
@ElvenMr I know you men are going to be mad at me for saying this but you mentioned the media and growing wealthy together. Great I want to take that angle. If you look at the media, there have been a lot of scandals to where the rich husbands have been cheating (not all of course) but many are. Now, there's this "High Value Man" narrative of men telling women that if a man is of a certain financial bracket, the woman is going to have to share him with other women because he's rich. So, understand young women are seeing this and hearing this from men. What she thinks is If I grow old with this man and we get wealthy together... he's going to cheat. And if I marry a wealthy man he's going to cheat. Some of them also grew up under grandfathers and fathers who were also cheating. Because of this, It's not worth it to them anymore.
Men can want a woman to be attractive but a woman can't ask for any quality of a man without being ripped to pieces for it. If we want a man over a certain height. Men find that to be an issue because most men don't make the cut. If we want a guy of a certain income bracket. Men call us gold-diggers. If we want men to be attractive. Men find an issue because she's ignoring 80% of men (so the men claim on here). If women want a man with status, she's an opportunist. We can't ask for anything. Being honest gets us attacked.
@Truthbewithyou I mean you just assume all men will cheat eventually, which is not true. The things you listed, the things women want are all superficial things. Women put way too much emphasis on these. I get it some women want a tall guy, which is fine, it's like how some men only want women with big boobs, but they are not really the majority.. a lot of men will be fine with any boob size.
Compromising shouldn't be a bad thing. I don't mean compromise to the point of dating someone you absolutely don't find attractive in any way.
Wanting someone with money usually means, she puts too much importance on money over other things. And she'll probably not date a guy with not enough money, even if she likes her otherwise. Women wanting someone attractive is fine again, but sometimes women's requirements for men to be called attractive is a bit too much.. i mean some women's expectations are way too high. Why do women even want status? I know why, but what's the point of it? Not much, it's just another superficial bullshit women like.
@ElvenMr No, I am saying that's what is being put out there for the assumption to be made. Men can be satisfied with a smaller bob size because their needs can be met as to what they want from a woman. That's not the same with women. but saying this, "The things you listed, the things women want are all superficial things" ... and that's why women are quiet about it.
It is simple. babies are expensive and resource heavy. Women typically select males that can provide a safe and stable home for her and the potential off spring she might bare for him. So it is not so much money women are attracted to but stability and security. this is a throw back to when humans lived in caves. it was the male that could provide the warmest cave the biggest deer and the most protection that got to select the best mates. So for example. the fry cook at McDonald might be handsome and physically impressive but lives at home and has no goals beyond that. Getting potentially pregnant with his children is a huge financial burden to a would be mate. Unfortunately you can't feed love to kids and if that relationship dosent work out she is left to financially support his offspring a lone. Now, a man doesn't have to be physically impressive to provide the best cave or food as that has all been replaced by money. So it pays to select the best possible mate you can.
@Manab most single mothers are usually rendered single mothers when they are still little more than children. teens to early mid 20s when that fry cook looks a lot more attractive because the consequences of those choices are buffered by still potentially being financially dependent on others (mothers or fathers or government). there is also things like education and location, poverty and the like that plays into this. all those single mothers tho factor into the 35% of women who for what ever reason choose poorly... and a lot end up paying for it with a long hard life.
Yea, i guess having a job is no longer enough for women it seems.. What about growing together, and getting wealthy together as a couple? The media truly fucked up people's minds.. it's either you are rich & famous, or you are a nobody in many people's eyes.
That's what this post is about. Why are so many women trying to normalize/silently get rid of the word goldiggers, by saying "we just want a stable man" and stuff like that.. meanwhile all they really want is the goldigger comfy lifestyle.
she's right you know. Women invest so much into the reproduction process, at best you might have 24-30 off spring in a life time. At best. A man, well in theory, he could sire thousands of off spring. It makes sense for the woman to look at a mate from the prospective of resources and whom can best take care of her and their offspring.
Women for far too long had only one way to get money/resources and it is now encoded into their behavior genetically... How? you know how, from men. Because of hypergamy their standards have shot through the roof as well, if that's why she is choosing that man. They still also get the tingles and butterflys for physically strong men which is basically for the same reasons as the money seekers... Because way way back in history before being a wage slave was possible, that meant safty and resources as well.
There is no scientific explanation because itâs not a fact corroborated by observation. Itâs a made up myth.
The thing that come closest to an explanation of what you think you are observing is that some people are indeed looking for a shortcut to social success or safety. Itâs reasonable this happens because we learn we have to survive in a rough world. The gender role difference is purely social. Women have less opportunities to be independent and achieve safety. This is a documented fact. For some women, this is exactly that rare opportunity.
Money is vital , life is far easier with money , power is sexy , some try and make out that some relationship is more " substantial " if a female just goes with some poor dude , with a life that is just ALWAYS going to be super tough , no one wants to live like that.
Financial literacy is a skill , to then be able to study more , play more sport , associate with those who are winners , who run business , who have ideas , who want to create , association in life is key , assets are nicer , yep.. clearly its an attractive , powerful set , of course all women ( and many men ) are attracted to the same.
Or go and get with a gardener? for Love? hahahaha , yeah right. Goals , association , influence , power , money , its all in the bag , and its great.
because actually not long ago it was a norm for a man to take care of a woman financially and she had no right to work. Nowdays things are different but still some things from old times remain, like most men being in power positions and therefore still most men earning more, well pay gap as well. Then you also still have social expectations of a man to earn money and for women to look pretty. Then there are physical predispositions, like women having to give birth while men seek such fullfilement and purpose in their work. BUT golddiger women are not majority. Majory of women care about guys income but not really cause of his money but its a way to figure out if a guy is capable and can keep her safe and protect her, that is desirable, women seek safety, protectivness and reliability, cause they are physically weaker and they may be pregnant.
Women are usually attracted in guys who will give them stability and a comfortable life. In other words the men who have money will in general attract most women attention, ladies tend to feel protected and are usually grown up hearing that finding a guy who can give you a good life is the most important thing in a relationship.
While the opposite is said about men, us guys are attracted to pretty women or women who will sexually showcase themselves because we have wired into thinking that finding a woman who you can give you a child is the most important thing in a relationship.
So basically women go after men who have money, while men go after women who have good looks.
Because guys with money can be the biggest simps on the planet. Sitting ducks. Like GMB says, stuff confidence does not make up for self confidence. I am pulling better and hotter and finer and younger than... oh let's see... Will Smith, Jeff Bezos, Dwayne Wade, Steve Harvey. Even Jay-Z, stuck with some old washed up strag. And I am doing it on 1/100,000th of their pile of cash. Nah. Money is trash. keep your money. It just makes you look lame. That's not how it's played. Good day and good luck gentlemen.
Not all are. I prefer a stable average income over lots of money. All the rich guys I have come across are not the kind of person deep inside that I want. Many rich men have money to look handsome but they usually can't commit to one woman and any woman is seen as a gold digger even if she isn't interested in his money. Some guys are such hypocrites that they offer luxuries first and then call the women gold diggers even if his offers for expensive things were rejected. It is so rare to find one with a good personality. I also agree that many women are, infact, attracted to money that's why many old men are able to attract much younger women even when they are past their prime. It is going to continue as a woman's successful career turns men off while many rich men are okay with women who are only attracted to their money as long as they look good. It looks extremely shallow to me.
I think a better question to ask would be why do men use their money to attract sexual partners and then get upset when that's why that partner dates them.
@Neosporin firstly she is not ugly and secondly your question is also valid as it happens but not in all the cases and her question is also valid as it also happen but not in all the cases. nothing to get rude so behave mr.
A female looks for a mate who can provide and give safety for them in their offspring For the most part also health is important because if you die you're not going to be around to do that. In our society high income and money means you can provide a good life and very safe for them in their offspring so biologically they are attracted to you. This is all done on a subconscious level they will act like it's not true They like it's something else but then the guy loses their job and suddenly they want to break up or get a divorce
Love this question lol. I don't care how much money a woman makes. What matters is she has a job. On dating apps and here I've seen women say "I want a man with a steady career". That to me means you want a guy that has a lot of money. Not everyone has the luxury of a great career. Reality check, It's hard to find a steady, well-paying job. This world can be harsh and businesses lay off their workers sometimes when the economy takes a plunge.
There are gold diggers out there that tried to target me but as soon as they asked me to buy them gifts, give them money, etc it's ignoring time 😂
Itâs a human survival instinct. Speaking strictly biological, if an animal has more available resources then the offspring is more likely to survive. Therefore all animals try to show that they can provide so that their genes can perpetuate. In human terms that means money.
"Speaking strictly biological, if an animal has more available resources then the offspring is more likely to survive."
this is complete horseshit. if this was the case then women nowadays would not be initiating divorces from left to right. and boy am I not lying when I say most of them initiate the divorce before even thinking about having children
@CasaNorba Key word "animals"/ Humans moved beyond being animals 100k or so years ago and we can modify our environment. Hence money/beauty equation in this conversation
That is like asking why people like money, everyone is attracted to money and if guys show us interest and are willing to throw money at us, why not use that situation to the best of our advantage?
If you found cash laying on the ground, would you just walk past it and leave it? or would you take advantage of the situation, pick it up and use it.
I have literally never been drawn to money. The first thing I see in a boy is how he looks and if he is my type then thatâs it. After that it is how funny he is, how intelligent he is and if he is a good person or not. I am a sucker for sweetness, romance and loyalty. Just need the boy to be obsessed with me and thatâs it.
@COL_D of course not. I would not get into a relationship with a scrounger. I am emotional but not a fool. Obviously I want children and I want a good future for them so he does have to be ambitious to some extent and have a job. He doesnât have to be rich but he should be at least doing okay for himself.
Because it's what buys nice things it's not a hard concept to grasp really. And that goes for everyone not just women. Men are attracted to money just aswell, you would not see them say no if some woman pulled over in a lambo said i will pay you to spend time with me with a wink. Just less common for a woman to actually do that for us lol.
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I just noticed lots of women in the comment section (most of them western women) who are trying to justify this bs but then at the same time turn around and try to justify âwomenâs equalityâ via feminist bs on other posts. Equal but âspecialâ right?
Just because you have a vagina doesnât mean you are entitled to have your cake and eat it too. There are real world consequences to this attitude as well. You wonder why there are so many âincelâ men out there? This is precisely why.
If you date a man just for money (whether for one night or life) you are a prostitute plain and simple. Forget the âsugar daddyâ and âgold diggerâ euphemisms. No if you live in a country that has given more opportunities and freedom to women more than any other country in human history and still expect this then you are worthless oxygen wasting piece of human debris.
I actually respect actual hookers 100x more than women with this entitlement crap. At least they are honest.
Hyper feminity aka hypergamy lol. The same reason why guys want to fuck around if they had the oppurtinity due to their polygamous aka whorish nature. It is primitive instincs and some struggle to control it. Money means power and strengh and in the nature females mate with strong powerful males. HOWEVER, these are just instincs that you can control.
Maybe if man would stop dating useless stupid young 19 ,21 year olds and date a woman that is According to your same level social statues this wouldn't be an issue! Why do man live their beautiful mature wife that know how to clean cook for a useless young trash?
@Alwayreckles93 so I guess men just cheat for no reasons, they just canât help themselves like how women cheat for no reason and canât help themselves
@Alawayreckles93 plus men will never stop, if men where happy in relationships they wouldnât be straying to find that comfort excitement and beauty, which married women no longer have or try to keep
@globetrotter22 That sounds like its a little close to home, anyhow, that sweet young thing suddenly slides into that place the mature woman once occupied when she provided for his sexual needs, emotional needs and so on that are no longer being provided.
@aquamarine321 You Better be with a 28 year old woman that knows how cook and clean instead of a useless young 20 year old woman. You know what I find very interesting? Sure you are like oh you are cute I like you let's go in a date then drop us break our hearts live us crying all because you decide to live us for a much younger woman how is that fair?
I just wish their was more consistency from women in general. They play victim/special when it benefits them. Then they want to be âequalâ when it benefits them.
Things just need to be hardline. If you want equality than you take all the hard responsibilities that come with it. A manâs world is far from easy contrary to feminist popular belief.
@globetrotter22 I never mentioned any of those things not sure how you come up with all of this. All I've said is younger woman are the useless ones younger 19 year olds are not wife material.
But let me tell you a brief story about when I was in a relationship with a much younger woman.
When I was 34 I went on a few dates with a 35 year old. But she was surprisingly flaky and sent mixed messages about what she wanted in bed. I got frustrated.
Around the same time I matched up with a 20 year old. She loves to exercise and so do I. Our first âdateâ was a workout at my apartment gym. She was real standoffish so I didnât push it. Just gave her a hug goodbye after meeting up.
She did suspected that I was married but I told her I wasnât. She was slightly bitchy but kept texting me. Later I asked her what she was doing and she was at the gym. I stopped by and gave her a protein shake expecting nothing in return. I noticed she loosened up in her body language. She later texted me saying âshe was going to throw me a boneâ. We went on a second date that got more intimate. But I told her I donât push sex unless she tells me sheâs ready. After a few more dates she told me she was more than ready.
@globetrotter22 Okay but I bet that useless 20 year old wasn't good enough to clean your apartment or cook you dinner. I bet she was chasing after your wallet. You had more in common things with the smart intelligent 35 year old. I know for a fact the 35 Year old woman is wife material and even clean your apartment and cook you dinner. The 20 year old was useless lazy I bet the 35 Year old woman looked way much better then the 20 year old. I am 28 but people always tell me I look 19 .
We ended up dating for 9 months. I treated her well and vice versa. She cooked for me, surprised with a dress shirt one time and even took me out to dinner for my bday. She initiated sex more than I did. She texted me cutesy notes saying âshe was in loveâ.
At first I thought this was going to be a quick fun fling but it lasted 9 months. I started to think âhey maybe something might come out of thisâ. Then we got in a minor argument over Christmas break. She completely ghosted me and I never heard from her again.
I guess thatâs what I get for dating a 20 year old. But it wasnât all about me using her for sex. I had real feelings for her too. It hurt a lot being ghosted.
So i guess it was a lesson learned. But it wasnât a âmanipulative creepâ setup the way you envision it. Not at all. I wouldnât do it again but donât be so quick to judge.
Just go clarify the typos above: I have never been married and I matched that girl on bumble. She knew my age before meeting me for our first âworkoutâ date. There were no lies or secrets.
@alwayreckles93 you know what. I used to think the exact same thing. But in that scenario the 35 year old was a much bigger, flaky and selfish POS then the 20 year old. I am not kidding.
I am actually 40. But I reconnected with the 35 year old two years later. However I took it slow. She later gave me one of the worse friĂŠndzone insults I have ever taken from a woman in years. Her selfishness and immaturity was insane. She showed up at my doorstep in another state on the 4th of July and hung out with my family (who she just met) and later I overheard her asking my sister in law if she could sleep on her sofa as a conniving attempt to avoid going home with me. I never said anything creepy. I wasnât even expecting sex.
She ended up coming home with me. I didnât do anything of course. But the fricken 20 year I dated earlier would of never asked my sister in law such a shitty insulting question. On top of that the 20 year old cooked for me AND treated me nice on my bday. Complete reverse of what you would expect
@globetrotter22 If this 20 year old woman was a hoe. I bet she had std. She ghosted you because she was on to the next older guy to pay for her useless ass. I bet she was ugly and desperate.
@alwayreckles93 more wrong assumptions. She a young beautiful 20 year old. Petite and fit body. Not a virgin. She lost it at 18.
But it looks like you are not open to hearing me out. I wish you the best of luck. Itâs too bad you arenât willing to hear my POV with an open mind. Anyway I hope things go well for you. Best of luck
@globetrotter22 I bet that 20 year old woman looks way more ugly. Going to party getting drunk while the beautiful 35 year old looks like a 19 year old super model. I am actually 28 but people always tell me I look way much younger. I bet I look way more better then the stupid 20 year old. I bet you had to go to the hospital to he next few hours after you eat the disgusting meal that stupid 20 year old cooked for you.
@globetrotter22 Thank you I hope you find a beautiful mature wife material that can actually take care of you not a stupid 20 year old. I hate it when younger hoes chase after older man. Not a virgin yeah she's a hoe for sure. You should had said to her after she ghosted you , You know what bitch your nasty STD pussy is disgusting I would had said that to her face.
@alwayreckles93 smdh itâs sad you make so many bad assumptions. But I donât think I can convince you to hear a true story of how it went down. I expected what you assumed when I went into this. Instead I oddly got the reverse. Younger girl legitimately liked me, treated me nice and was in love for a time. Older woman tried to take advantage of me, acted flaky and entitled and tried to gaslight me when I called her out on her bs.
The only lack of surprise was being ghosted by the 20 year old.
Also I donât know why you keep bringing up STDs. Both women were clean. I am clean. But anyone can catch an STD. It only take one mistake with the wrong person. Yeah I get your 20 but you should listen to all the details before passing judgment. Life isnât that simple.
Alright well I hope you find a decent guy. Just remember appearances can be deceiving. I expected less from the younger girl and pleasantly got more. I expected better from the woman who was a year older than me and turned out to be a selfish POS.
You never know sometimes. What matters if two people respect each other and are happy. I donât give a shit about peopleâs judgment. I was very happy for a brief time with the younger girl. Yeah I admit the sex was wonderful but it was actually much more than that. There was some true love there on both sides.
@alwayreckles93 the last few years have been rough. Very rough. There was one other relationship with a 27 year old that ended in disaster but thatâs another story.
Dating for men is radically different than it is for woman. Truth is Iâve gotten pretty jaded and depressed on everything. Iâve pretty much given up.
She was a decent age. Right around what I was looking for. Not too young but also good child bearing age. But thatâs a long story. We can DM later about it if you like.
Because some girls rely on their ability to attract men and see dating rather pragmatic than emotional. I know some gold diggers and those girls are attracted to losers, however they prefer to date guys with money. Some of them even keep silently their relationship with their loser and finance him with money they get from their "sponsors".
Everyone is attracted to money. Women just have a harder time getting it because, while men choose higher paying jobs like doctor, engineer, or lawyer, women choose lower paying jobs like female doctor, female engineer, or female lawyer. Why not just sell your body if people aren't going to value your work because of your body?
Seems the guys on this website are spiteful of men whom they perceive to have "more". Its not that these guys have lots of money, its just that they have their life in order. Being in mommys basement and playing video games will pale in comparison to the so called rich guy who has a house, car, a boat or a plane.
Evolution. The man with the most resources and social standing is a good mate selection. Everything evolves to reproduce. Your offspring were less likely to starve if the man had a lot of resources. A man with a high social standing would have more respect and protection from their tribe.
Qell 2 types of girls dates guys for money 1 gold diggers and 2 the girls that see money as power. Most woman date whatever they perceive as power, sometimes the think money makes a powerful man that can protect them. As much as they all claim they want to be treated equal they always look for some guy to protect them.
Women value themselves to the amount of money they can see on a bank account or in their hand whether its in ACTUAL money or just hard assets. Its part of the reason so many forget the value of themselves. Its all some huge relativity psychology syndrome.
It just makes everything even more difficult to find the right girl as most just come off greedy.
Itâs called hypergamy. Also if you truly want to figure females out here are two books they are available on audible and other reading apps. â The Red Queen â by Matt Ridley âHack Her true female nature â by Rosemond P. Cherubin I found them very good the red Queen they are books founded in science with logic and reason. When you read these books do so with logic and reason.
No assumptions about you. Iâm glad your life has the satisfaction you need and I couldnât care less. You referenced incel culture in your post, and it reeks.
Sounds to me your one of those who wants to shut men up , however I agree Incel culture is pretty dumb a bunch of men crying cause they canât get laid. I tell them maybe they are trying to hard or getting out of their lane. Personally I think people would be much happier knowing their limitations and staying in their lane. The men were probably raised by a woman who taught em to be sweet and nice and not argue to always give in to a women. The irony is thatâs exactly what women do not like.
Because women donât look for love. They look for specific things and then claim that itâs love when they find a man who has all of those qualities. Then they use their bodies to get them.
Men look for the most attractive woman even though their attractiveness will deteriorate with age. But men donât consider the long term.
The cost of reproduction is far more for women than it is for men. Men can literally have thousands if not tens of thousands of children in their lifetime, eg. Chinggis Han, whereas women can only have a handful. On top of that pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare is incredibly resource and time expensive. The compensation for which is extracted from the male of the species via resource exchange.
LOL, I guess they are super lazy and are always worried about someone ELSE making the money and then just giving it to them as opposed to just making their OWN money. If they make their own money it is disturbed to care how much money someone else has.
Theyâre attracted to the qualities that the men with a lot of money usually possess. Itâs not just the money itself. Case in point, I know someone who has parents of means, but has no ambition whatsoever or even a job, and therefore just ends up getting used by a girl that was with him but now just uses him for money from another state while she dates and fucks other dudes.
Women have a biological desire to birth and nurture children. Men who are able to provide the resources to give that to her are more attractive. Women are also attracted to power, and money does grant an individual power. You have the power to quit a job. You have the power to move when circumstances don't fit what you want. You have the option to vacation. You have the option to choose your life in a sense. Of course that's attractive.
I dont know if there is any scientific reason but it is only because rich guys can buy us anything we want and in return all they want is sex which we are happy to give in return
Natural selection designed men to pick the most physically healthy women as mate.. And designed women to pick the men who can provide the most as her mate.. đ
@imbeingmyself Iâm insulting subarugirl because she has a long history of posing provocative anti-Christian anti-male questions and then not acknowledging any of the points the opponents make. Sheâs just trying to stoke fire for her own vindication. Probably because of what Christians did to her in the past? I donât know but after a while I got tired of her not acknowledging my or other peopleâs points so I resorted to calling her out on her dishonesty and blocking her.
I'm surprised a 29 year old is asking this. till then because its encoded in their DNA to be gold diggers.
women dont just like any man. they like the man who has financial and secured resources because obviously it is that man who will have enough money to spoil and pamper her with all the things she wants and it is also that man who will give her things to brag about to her so called bffs and make them jealous.
Women are attracted to men with resources, it's an epigenetic - anthropological issue from how we evolved as a species. Get the money and you'll have heauxs all over you, including the 8s, 9s and 10s so you can pass down your seed with better genes.
They know how guys are. Every one will cheat when they have the opportunity with the right girl. So a girl looks for something else.
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Because they're a woman. For better or worse we live in a patriarchal society. Money is a form of power and women know through their sexuality and through money is the only way they'll achieve any sort of power. Look at Hillary Clinton she sure ain't doing it with her sexuality.
They'll either just feed the same excuse back as I've said or they'll try to justify themselves as totally well meaning. Either way, I don't see what that has to do with anything. What point are you trying to make here?
@vald9inches And I'm pointing out that the demand is not for the reasons she thinks, and the response to that was nonsense. Hence, my question remains, what was the point?
@vald9inches I didn't say there wasn't a demand for prostitution, did I? No, read closer. I said wanting money wasn't an attractive quality. Do you think a girl wanting money is more attractive to men than an identical girl not wanting money? I doubt it. Women are attractive for their bodies and good personality traits which generally don't include suckling at a guy's wallet, unless he's a sub who gets off on that shit.
As for the second part, neither did I say they don't put effort in or spend money. I said they don't need to. They spend way more and put way more effort in than is necessary, often neglecting the more important aspects. Don't drink booze or do drugs, get a bit of exercise, eat right, and they're going to be more attractive while spending less. They don't go to the effort they do for men, they do it for themselves -- just as they're always saying.
Dude there are lots of rich guys that go after and are attracted to girls that just want to use them for their money its pretty much a meme now lmfao
And yea its true they should concentrate on other things like being healthy and exercise but some girls just put all their effort into looking good just like how some guys put all their effort into making as much money as possible because they both know that they can attract the opposite sex and get what they want with that strategy
@vald9inches "Dude there are lots of rich guys that go after and are attracted to girls that just want to use them for their money" It's a meme because as I said before, it's a narrow band of weirdos who like to be dominated by women in that specific way. It's a meme because it's an oddity. This does not accurately represent rich men let alone most men.
"but some girls just put all their effort into looking good just like..." In other words, I'm correct when I said it's not needed. Thank you.
@AllThatSweetJazz â In other words, I'm correct when I said it's not needed.â
You arenât correct. There are still large amounts of woman with fake boobs and ass, injected lips, the full works, waiting behind stage and stadium doors just hoping that famous/rich guy will pick her. And he does. He encourages and feeds this behavior, which is why they do it and will continue to. I agree in the sense that it isnât needed, and some wealthy men are not like this, but doesnât cut facts. It happens. Enough rich men like woman with fake âcurb appealâ, it triggers woman to make fake choices knowing that is how you snag those men. As long as the demand is there, there will be supply. And, again, itâs not cheap.
@dustybiker no problem beautiful just trying to talk some common sense to him. Some guys just don't understand this simple concept of supply and demand lol its like how do you know what rich guys want and dont want? Lol its pretty obvious they would want to use their vast wealth to get any girl they want which encourages girls to take advantage of them and encourages more of the behavior. It doesn't make any sense to argue which came first the chicken or the egg what is even the point? Just so you can point the finger at someone for your problems and go on a witch hunt? Lmfao đ¤Ś
If don't prefer that type of person just don't date them that simple! If everyone is consenting to it i dont see the problem and more power to them i say!
âThere are still large amounts of woman with fake boobs and ass, injected lips, the full works, waiting behind stage and stadium doors just hoping that famous/rich guy will pick her.â Injected lips and all the rest of that stuff being generally considered attractive is news to me. Most guys donât like that stuff. So again *she does it for her, not for men*.
âAnd he does. He encourages and feeds this behavior, which is why they do it and will continue to.â That makes it *useful* for him, not *attractive* for him. If she did it for free it would be even more convenient â again meaning it has nothing to do with her desire for money being an attractive trait.
âEnough rich men like woman with fake curb appealâŚâ Yes, but the more accurate way of saying that is âEnough rich men like womanâ. The âfake curb appealâ part is women doing things to themselves for themselves and then think it actually matters because they attracted a guy â not realizing they could have got the same or better results without all that mess.
âAs long as the demand is there, there will be supply.â As I just said, thereâs not demand for that appeal. Thereâs demand for women. But women do this shit to themselves and then mistakenly decide thatâs the relevant part.
âAnd, again, itâs not cheap.â The part that is relevant is cheap.
âWe are free to pick and choose, it really does boil down to that.â Which conflicts with literally nothing Iâve said. My point was about your understanding of the mechanisms at play.
@AllThatSweetJazz You prove nothing against my points. You based every one of your replies on your own personal opinions not the fact there is demand (rich men who like fake curb appeal) and supply (woman who know this and produce those results directly for those men) Just because you yourself do not possess these feelings reflects nothing on the facts. Enjoy your life.
Firstly, your own responses would also be nothing more than opinions, so donât start playing that game.
Secondly, you continue to misunderstand. You keep arguing about if it exists or not, but thatâs missing the point. Whatâs actually happening is that Iâm stipulating to its existence, then discussing its characterization; the mechanisms behind it. Thatâs what Iâm pointing out: that you donât understand the nuance of how its functioning.
The mistake women are making is using a sledge hammer to crack an egg and mistaking it for the best tool for the job just because you got to the yolk. Understand? Just because you happened to get to the goal doesnât mean you did it efficiently, properly, or that everything you did was necessary. Get it?
Why are men attracted to beautiful women? 🤔 You often see beautiful women with old rich men. I am sure there is expectations on both sides. These women earn every penny⌠twice over.
Itâs attractive in the sense that I know he could financially support me and our children; and also because being spoiled in that way makes me feel wanted, desired. That Iâm worth it; Iâm not gonna lie it does feel nice and turns me on.
My Lord so many hoes on here well you are only going to be a sex object to him not else. You younger woman need to learn to work and make your own money instead of walking your pussy. Don't have kids you young woman are useless to become mother's much less wife's. This is why rich only date rich and lower income people only date lower incomes. My grandmother always said you can't turn a hoe into a house wife. I bet you don't how to cook or clean your mother still picks your ass up.
How does this make her a hole @alwaysreckless STAY AWAY FROM YOUNG WOMEN IF you're OLD. most young women are not going to date someone older if they cannot provide like itâs common sense đđ
@itsmeurmom bruh fr she needs a chill pill đđ I was just saying why I like it; I didnât say anything about only needing that, just why I liked it. Which was askers question. My top priority is a man who would be a good father for our children.
They arenât they are attracted to a easy life. Woman are grown children, not in the sense like once a kid now an adult but rather a 30yr old kid. They want the Man/Dad to buy her things and love her. They lack ambition and drive (most obviously there are a small percentage with masculine traits) so they leech of off hardworking men
Because men are out there spending their resources on girls. That's really it. If there weren't guys throwing money at girls then there wouldn't be girls hunting for that cash because they couldn't get it like that
Currency/Money is an imaginary concept created by man. Women are brainwashed into thinking that imaginary idea is important. It's pretty simple, it's cultural conditioning and they are just a bunch of sex puppets if they fall into that trap.
Well some women are attracted and tend to feel attracted to a man who is basically good at something. And they are normally attracted to guys who have money and flushy cars because those guys are good in mastering there hustle n getting cars that are expensive. So most of women just feel like a beautiful expensive car means money and a good life.
Scientific? Rich men can take care of their offsprings. It used to be the clan leader, the best hunter, or the champion knight, and nowadays it is the rich guy.
Some women are attracted to rich men because of greed. They want to be spoiled with jewelry or expensive clothing. Others want a rich man for stability. As in if they have children will they be able to raise them in a decent household. There are women out there though who don't look at things like money and want a geniunely loving relationship. Hope this helps!
That's because everybody likes money okay and it's easy for them to get money using what's between their legs and I'm not saying by charging for it either
Breeding. Younger women are most likely to be able to bear children from conception until they are old enough to fend for themselves. Thats the biological driver.
@cold_D younger women also like younger men so you better be rich if youâre trying to get one. Even most are still disgusted with the idea of being with older men with money. You creep them out. Your attraction to them is not a two way thing so not returned. and theyâre not your natural counterparts Thatâs why you need a lot of game and even more money to be with us. So donât sit here calling anyone a gold digger when no young woman wants to be with older men in the first place
@COLD_D get your money up and stop winging. And you need to stop with this whole âmore fertile thingâ you like them out of your perversion if it was all natural and science they would all naturally like you back leaving younger men with less option but itâs the opposite.
Yea I know. Many guys on here think that just cus they find a girl hot then it automatically means sheâs attracted to him too. I can easily tell you that I am not attracted to guys in their 40s or sometimes even in their late 30s
@shayshy87 I donât know why you older women donât speak up more against these fools. I have a feeling if women spoke out more these idiots would get their heads crewed up correctly
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