Why do I only attract fat/obese women on tinder?

[Tomisworthless]

I’m 6’1 157lbs and like a 4 in the looks department. Make decent money but no college degree at 3.5k/month and I’m 28.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I move around a lot, but I like to figure out where I'm going or where I am... I use dating sites for this information (not trying to hookup with anyone). So currently, Bremerton WA, and you'll find tons of fat, old, or single mothers and not much else. I'm now scheduled to move to Rhode Island and I'm seeing on the sites a bunch of plane janes with a lot less super obese or old people looking like that and being a freak.

You're dating pool will reflect your options online. Try San Diego for instance... just search it. You'll see a huge mix up to whatever you're seeing right now.

[Tomisworthless]

I’m in Yakima wa currently

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh shit!!! I guess we both know exactly what each other is talking about. I gotta admit, I've never seen as many obese women as I have out here... I came here from Japan where an obese person is extremely rare to see. The only decent women I've found here in Washington are just actively cheating or they're basically riding the carousel and wouldn't really invest in a relationship. I think it's just the culture here.

Straight up my dude, it isn't you... it's the dating pool here. If you lived in Japan you'd be sought after as much better than a 4 out of 10. The women options here are just depressing.

[Anonymous]

I had a obese women rejected me because I wasn't fit and she was rude about it. Also stay away from online dating sites and its sounds like your not happy either and that's a turn off for women because women likes happy men. Do yourself a favor and take a break from dating and work on improving yourself for a while.

[Tomisworthless]

I don’t sound happy, and what makes you say that

[Rocknerd2]

That's just a general thing love to say on the Internet

[desidoll]

Because that’s the majority of women on dating sites. Maybe they don’t get approached as much in real life, so they try dating sites.

[Tomisworthless]

But the girls that aren’t don’t swipe right on me so wouldn’t that indicate that I’m unattractive to those women

[desidoll]

Maybe they just have more options so they didn’t swipe right you. Dating sites are tougher for men whether you are attractive or not.

[Tomisworthless]

What do you think of my appearance and does my face look like I’m fat skinny or average weight

[desidoll]

No, you look decent and good to me. I don’t think it is your look though. I think those women are just being picky because they can.

[Tomisworthless]

If don’t mind my asking how would you rate for attractiveness

[Tomisworthless]

I appreciate your time and insight thank you

[Anonymous]

Get off dating and hookup sites and go experience real life.

[Tomisworthless]

Well unfortunately real life is a failure too so those sites are my only option

[Anonymous]

Is just the numbers game man. Thier are simply more fat/obese women on online dating sites than not. And the non fat ones know they don't have to chase because thier are still more unsatisfied males on a dating site than even fat/obese women. This is why attractive women act the way they do. They know they can get away with it. And they'll still get about 50 messages a day.😆😆😆 I mean it does kill the online dating experience because it drives all the decent guys away when they learn they're fighting a losing battle. And then it's just f***boys remaining. But that's ok. Because most attractive women are just catfish anyhow.

In short, online dating is mostly just for entertainment. Take it with a grain of salt and you'll be just fine

[Ligerzzero]

For some reason I dont know why but fat and obese women love men who are skinny, and fit.

[PatriceONeal]

Bro you're 6'1 you have no excuse just grab one and drag her home

[Tomisworthless]

Lmao

[Serpil]

You look actually good. It must be coincidence