Women got a lot more to worry about when meeting a guy from a dating app. I can respect where they are coming from. I’ve gotten more careful about the things I say and I do my best to make the first meeting somewhere comfortable for them (and inexpensive for me). I never mention sex. Even if she brings it up first I don’t go too far into it.
With that said I truly believe women have gotten worse over the years about being way too paranoid, picky and flaky. Yes some men can be this way but women will always have more options when all else is equal.
I just wish females could be more self aware of the privilege they have here. That doesn’t mean you have to go on a date with every guy you match. But respect his efforts and hope. Do not ever waste some guys time being a virtual “friend”. Only chat with him given the possibility of meeting up in person.
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I think it's a combo of both. They know they can capitalize on people's loneliness, but I've actually had women admit they are ONLY on it for attention, and nothing more. No intentions of talking or meeting anyone. But there's many different reasons I think. These 2, but also fake accounts. The experience for any women that might be real and seriously looking on them is so very different from a guys. Most say they get so overwhelmed by messages, and/or "harassed" by so many guys, that they "give up" on it almost immediately. I think Bumble has the right idea in making it that women have to make the first move, then only problem is they don't LOL. And if they do, they are even worse than guys are at it. They complain about guys just saying "hey", but they do that ALL the time.
Sometimes the site puts on fake profiles to get things going. Or when your subscription runs out you suddenly get 10 messages. I don't know about a paid site, but on free sites there are usually a bunch of fake profiles / catfish just as there are here with low Xper pink anons.
Do you think it’s one sided? I matched with someone recently and after a few messages, they’ve disappeared.
Why?
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I think you're just using them wrong. Dating apps have been great for me personally. You have tons of women at your fingertips and never have to leave you couch to get to know them My guess is what your doing is using the Apps as your primary source of meeting women instead of using it as just another resource. I personally never swipe or like a girl on a app rather just look at the ones that reach out to me and then make a decision accordingly. Instead of trying to find the "one" just keep looking for the next one and your results will change for the better.
I have used onlne dating several times in my life: 2005-2008, 2015, 2017-2018, and 2019-2020. I have never had a problem getting a date when I made the effort and spent some time making contact with women. Over that time span, I have probably had 50-75 first dates and several of those turned into relatively long term relationships.
If women aren't responding to you, maybe you need help with the way you approach online dating.Match. com worked well fir me.
What do you mean “can’t make a decision”? If you ask for a meeting, there are only two answers: yes and no. Any sort of “maybe” is just another way of saying “no”. If you ask for a meetups no and she doesn’t agree, move on.because they're not in it to actually date and meet up, they're just in it to get an ego boosts from watching them simps hit on them desperately trying to get in their pants.
also the ones that do want to date and meet up aren't any better. most of these bimbos have ulterior motivesI've said this before dating apps really aren't for dating. I mean isn't saying you can't get an occasional date but your odds are about the same as they would be if you left the house today and just randomly started asking women out.
Honestly dating websites are just for getting an idea of where you rank. After that it's just for entertainment purposes. Treat it as such.You'll complain if they don't meet up with most of the guys but also complain if they do meet up with most of the guys. Can we women ever win?
I think most people don't meet their partners on dating apps
All men aren’t the same. I’m not sure how you got that idea.
We don't need to meet with all the guys we match on dating apps we just need to meet and give a chance to that one we think is the best for us.
With so much attention, why do they need to make a decision when they can have it all.
Yeah I see the same problem, they are dating apps and keep me talking to them for a week or two and then they are too scared to meet or want to stay single
don't use dating apps
i wish women wouldn't either
THEY ARE SCAMSYou are kind of an idiot, aren’t you?
Maybe it's less the app and more the individual.
Same with men. I dont get it
Money the app maker and advertisers make.
it all down to the lies we all tell
yeah... fck women!
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