I don't know to me I think men age better than women I could think they have it much easier in that area for sure, as for a aging woman I'm not so sure how it would go, I'm 30 by the way.
They don’t, and the ones that say they do are in denial or won’t admit it. You’ll find that a lot of people feel uncomfortable admitting any sort of privilege.
I know, Women pretty much only have it easier in the dating department Which is probably the one area us Guys want to have it easier, That's the problem.
Genders have it about the same…but don’t push it. Chicks do have a pay gap, whatever it is, as well as a time of the month that would force us men to call in sick.
@msc545 Not according to research. Single women without kids are still on average less paid. Not by much. And I think it’s equalizing. Nothing to get nationalist about :)
In family law court most definitely - women get custody of children over 90% of the time, and of course, the child support that goes with it is paid by men. In the rare cases where a man gets custody of children, no child support is ordered, or if it is, and the woman does not pay it, the court will not enforce it against the woman, while child support orders are very vigorously enforced against non-paying men.
@msc545 I don’t have enough experience in family law. But I read the courts care only for children. Not the adults. Could it be that more fathers show less evidence of being good parents? They certainly don’t pay child support as much as women.
Actually, having done a lot of child custody cases my experience has been that for the most part people seem to be pretty much equivalent in terms of parenting skills. However courts heavily-favored women at least where I live. Additionally, my experience has been that women who don't pay child support suffer no consequences and men who don't pay child support suffer pretty horrendous consequences including going to jail and occasionally going to prison. There seems to be a distinct gender bias in Family Law Courts.
How are women forced to care for children by biology? They're only forced to carry and give birth to children. After that anyone can take care of the child male or female.
I know a lot of men that are extremely good caretakers with your children and I myself have cared for children I think I do a very good job of it if I do say so myself. I don't buy that women are better at taking care of children than men are but I do understand that a lot of people believe that to be true.
It's up to you not to be used by the opposite sex. you can be a little smart and cunning
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They call me a cheapskate 😐
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who and why says
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Some of them are like "oh but you should pay" or "not a manly man" or "you disrespect me by splitting the costs" or something like that. What happened to simply having real feelings for each other I wonder.
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Haha the girls you choose always turn out to be gold diggers. You always like this kind of girls instead of a decent girl. So i think they are right. These people are good for you.
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WTF No way. Even a decent girl can fake her sweetness in order to get our money and then vanish. You are not helping. If you can't help, don't bother replying.
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You are thinking wrong. Then all men are the same too. Have a nice day.
@bestwoman i always wonder why men rape women, ofc if the man is a rapist 🤔
I'm totally against that, a severe punishement should land on every rapist and to be thrown in prison...
You want sex, you have 2 easy choices: 1. date the girl that you life and everything goes well, marry her and you can have sex with her as much as you want and both of you will be very happy...
2. if you don't want to get married, pay a prostitute to pleasure you or find a girl who agrees with you to have sex for a one night stand... etc
If i'm the ruler in a country or senior judge, i'll tell every rapist that your going to be f*cked up!
@Heartache0405 I'm not a feminist but I do live in America and I will say that I very much agree women in some other countries have it very rough. @bestwoman I didn't realize this about Turkey, that sucks I'm sorry.
@whirled_up_girl they shouldn't have it very rough and if there are real men there than they wouldn't need any feminists because men should be the ones who are responsible to protect their women...
It's surprising that some guys find it okay for a girl to be raped!
Anyways aren't such scumbags the reason why the feminism movement have been created!
@TonyMetal___86 Well, I'm not going to go into the history of the feminist movement in out country because there are plenty of posts on that here on gag, lol. As far as other countries many of them have cultures and laws that are so different than what he have over here. I know there are international groups that have been tryng to make changes like the UN and Ammenesty Internatioanl to name a few but it remains a challenge. I wish I could say I understand why the challenges exist but it's something I've struggled with since learning about the inequalities in some of these other countries.
@whirled_up_girl it's because they were simply raised like that, some for religion, even though as a christian, i was never taught that a woman is lesser than me... etc
Also some countries have difference beliefs and traditions which are too extreme on women!
My own belief is between the middle, won't agree with the west and won't agree with the east because feminists these days are demons who must be stopped while in the east men should be taught a lesson about respecting a woman and treating them the way they treat themselves...
A man shouldn't become a woman and a woman shouldn't become a man, a woman will always have her basic role and the man too which are the traditional gender roles...
Also a woman will always be a woman and the man will always be a man...
Men and women should be equal under the laws and men should treat the women as their other half and not like a slave...
What's awful these days is that men and women are always in a fight and challenge mode while in reality they were created to complete each other and also to help and take care of each other...
I hope that was a joke, because all I've known in life was responsibility.
I'm well aware of the things that women are responsible for, and I have a lot of respect for that, but women also have incredible privileges for being female that men do not enjoy (in fact, men largely PROVIDE those privileges), so the idea that men have it any easier in life is laughable.
@MrOracle you men do have it easier because you all can use the excuse that she is a hoe on why you are not int the child's life. Men can spread their seed to any woman they can get they don't care what you look like without having to be their when the baby comes. He can run and be gone like the wind
You're looking at a handful of specific things, where men CAN have an advantage. But that's far from the entire picture. I can give you a dozen examples of female privilege too, but I am not so shallow that I think women have everything easy. Men and women BOTH have advantages, and BOTH have disadvantages, with regards to the other. We both have struggles and responsibilities and liabilities. But life has a way of balancing things out - when one sex gains in one area, they tend to lose somewhere else. Your gains always come with a cost.
@MrOracle well that is just my opinion women always have the shorter end of the stick 9 times out of 10. If we do one thing wrong than the guy loses interest and it be over pity stuff.
Do you really think we have 3 women messaging us like "hey cutie" per week (and have sex with them whenever we like) like you have with those creepy guys messaging you "wow u r beautiful" or "hey"? 🙄
Just because a woman has a lot of guys messaging her isn't a good thing and doesn't mean that those guys like her. Like I said women have a higher chance getting label as a whore than a man ever will be.
Men definitely don’t have it easy. Dating, professional, relationships. We do all the heavy lifting with the exception of some woman doing more in the workplace than some men.
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I think it depends where you live. In a developing country, women usually do have it worse.
In the west, they both have their own unique advantages and disadvantages but even out.
Also your views are a bit naive and childish. This mindset is what an incel would think.
But can you survive having a bloody vagina once a week for a month.. or give birth to kids?
Literally billions of them survived, so I would survive that too.
I don’t think this is true at all for many women but I think I’ve benefited a lot in life being a woman.
However, I did not get hired for a job I really wanted because I am raising children. They literally told me that was why.
I was also drugged and r@ped in college but that could happen to males too.
Getting drunk and having sex isn't rape
@anonuser838383 That’s not what happened but since you were there please go ahead
I don't know to me I think men age better than women I could think they have it much easier in that area for sure, as for a aging woman I'm not so sure how it would go, I'm 30 by the way.
They don’t, and the ones that say they do are in denial or won’t admit it. You’ll find that a lot of people feel uncomfortable admitting any sort of privilege.
Well they think it's because men are given more opportunities and therefore is able to make more money. Which obviously isn't true anymore.
I know, Women pretty much only have it easier in the dating department Which is probably the one area us Guys want to have it easier, That's the problem.
I would settle for having it fair in Court.
If you're a man you will never know what it's like to be a woman. If you're a woman you will never know what it is like to be a man.
And people are individuals.
Genders have it about the same…but don’t push it. Chicks do have a pay gap, whatever it is, as well as a time of the month that would force us men to call in sick.
That pay gap is due to their bad choices
@msc545 Not according to research. Single women without kids are still on average less paid. Not by much. And I think it’s equalizing. Nothing to get nationalist about :)
I think there is research that shows the opposite... women are always self-victimizing to obtain privilege, status, and sympathy.
@msc545 I mean it was 77%. Now it’s 84%. So let’s not stop the progress.
www.pewresearch.org/.../
yes, well - perhaps we can also do something to ensure equal justice for men?
@msc545 sure, where are we having issues?
In family law court most definitely - women get custody of children over 90% of the time, and of course, the child support that goes with it is paid by men. In the rare cases where a man gets custody of children, no child support is ordered, or if it is, and the woman does not pay it, the court will not enforce it against the woman, while child support orders are very vigorously enforced against non-paying men.
@msc545 I don’t have enough experience in family law. But I read the courts care only for children. Not the adults. Could it be that more fathers show less evidence of being good parents? They certainly don’t pay child support as much as women.
Actually, having done a lot of child custody cases my experience has been that for the most part people seem to be pretty much equivalent in terms of parenting skills. However courts heavily-favored women at least where I live. Additionally, my experience has been that women who don't pay child support suffer no consequences and men who don't pay child support suffer pretty horrendous consequences including going to jail and occasionally going to prison. There seems to be a distinct gender bias in Family Law Courts.
@msc545 interesting. That is a sexist issue. And hard to solve because women are forced to care for children by biology.
How are women forced to care for children by biology? They're only forced to carry and give birth to children. After that anyone can take care of the child male or female.
@msc545 theoretically yes, but I think a mix of biology (they have the kid, become attached) and society pushes it on them.
I know a lot of men that are extremely good caretakers with your children and I myself have cared for children I think I do a very good job of it if I do say so myself. I don't buy that women are better at taking care of children than men are but I do understand that a lot of people believe that to be true.
@msc545 didn’t say better. Just forced or pushed into it more.
It's up to you not to be used by the opposite sex. you can be a little smart and cunning
They call me a cheapskate 😐
who and why says
Some of them are like "oh but you should pay" or "not a manly man" or "you disrespect me by splitting the costs" or something like that.
What happened to simply having real feelings for each other I wonder.
Haha the girls you choose always turn out to be gold diggers. You always like this kind of girls instead of a decent girl. So i think they are right. These people are good for you.
WTF No way. Even a decent girl can fake her sweetness in order to get our money and then vanish.
You are not helping.
If you can't help, don't bother replying.
You are thinking wrong. Then all men are the same too. Have a nice day.
I don't know. I know I'm a guy and I for sure as hell don't have it easier & better in life right now. If anything I'm struggling big time.
I don't know any women to think men have easier lives... that's some of the most stupidest thing I've ever read online
Being a man is easy because when you rape women, you get applause. I say for Turkey
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I agree
Maybe the feminists of America should get their asses out of our country and help yours.
LMFAO 😂😂😂
@bestwoman i always wonder why men rape women, ofc if the man is a rapist 🤔
I'm totally against that, a severe punishement should land on every rapist and to be thrown in prison...
You want sex, you have 2 easy choices:
1. date the girl that you life and everything goes well, marry her and you can have sex with her as much as you want and both of you will be very happy...
2. if you don't want to get married, pay a prostitute to pleasure you or find a girl who agrees with you to have sex for a one night stand... etc
If i'm the ruler in a country or senior judge, i'll tell every rapist that your going to be f*cked up!
@Heartache0405 I'm not a feminist but I do live in America and I will say that I very much agree women in some other countries have it very rough. @bestwoman I didn't realize this about Turkey, that sucks I'm sorry.
@whirled_up_girl they shouldn't have it very rough and if there are real men there than they wouldn't need any feminists because men should be the ones who are responsible to protect their women...
It's surprising that some guys find it okay for a girl to be raped!
Anyways aren't such scumbags the reason why the feminism movement have been created!
@TonyMetal___86 Well, I'm not going to go into the history of the feminist movement in out country because there are plenty of posts on that here on gag, lol. As far as other countries many of them have cultures and laws that are so different than what he have over here. I know there are international groups that have been tryng to make changes like the UN and Ammenesty Internatioanl to name a few but it remains a challenge. I wish I could say I understand why the challenges exist but it's something I've struggled with since learning about the inequalities in some of these other countries.
@whirled_up_girl it's because they were simply raised like that, some for religion, even though as a christian, i was never taught that a woman is lesser than me... etc
Also some countries have difference beliefs and traditions which are too extreme on women!
My own belief is between the middle, won't agree with the west and won't agree with the east because feminists these days are demons who must be stopped while in the east men should be taught a lesson about respecting a woman and treating them the way they treat themselves...
A man shouldn't become a woman and a woman shouldn't become a man, a woman will always have her basic role and the man too which are the traditional gender roles...
Also a woman will always be a woman and the man will always be a man...
Men and women should be equal under the laws and men should treat the women as their other half and not like a slave...
What's awful these days is that men and women are always in a fight and challenge mode while in reality they were created to complete each other and also to help and take care of each other...
Everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Which just shows you their lack of responsibility to own their shit and be grateful
Because men do not have the kind of responsibility like we do.
I hope that was a joke, because all I've known in life was responsibility.
I'm well aware of the things that women are responsible for, and I have a lot of respect for that, but women also have incredible privileges for being female that men do not enjoy (in fact, men largely PROVIDE those privileges), so the idea that men have it any easier in life is laughable.
@MrOracle you men do have it easier because you all can use the excuse that she is a hoe on why you are not int the child's life. Men can spread their seed to any woman they can get they don't care what you look like without having to be their when the baby comes. He can run and be gone like the wind
You're looking at a handful of specific things, where men CAN have an advantage. But that's far from the entire picture. I can give you a dozen examples of female privilege too, but I am not so shallow that I think women have everything easy. Men and women BOTH have advantages, and BOTH have disadvantages, with regards to the other. We both have struggles and responsibilities and liabilities. But life has a way of balancing things out - when one sex gains in one area, they tend to lose somewhere else. Your gains always come with a cost.
@MrOracle well that is just my opinion women always have the shorter end of the stick 9 times out of 10. If we do one thing wrong than the guy loses interest and it be over pity stuff.
Do you really think we have 3 women messaging us like "hey cutie" per week (and have sex with them whenever we like) like you have with those creepy guys messaging you "wow u r beautiful" or "hey"? 🙄
Just because a woman has a lot of guys messaging her isn't a good thing and doesn't mean that those guys like her. Like I said women have a higher chance getting label as a whore than a man ever will be.
Men definitely don’t have it easy. Dating, professional, relationships. We do all the heavy lifting with the exception of some woman doing more in the workplace than some men.
I'd say try living as a woman outside the western world.
I think it’s because society is so focused on women’s issues that men are ignored.
Absolutely, every man needs a woman who supports him mentally and financially. Life is not about man vs woman.
Dude women definitely have it worse you have no idea what creepy shit they experience and how much of it.
Who cares what they think dude? A big part of successfully being a man is not giving a shit about what every fool thinks.