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You're welcome. :D Will that be payed for with paypal or mastercard? I also accept doge or a large side of fries. :D
Well to start with, by not seeking validation from strangers on the internet.
Then by having a heathy relationship with yourself.
Exactly.
The key is learning to realize that the opinions of other people are generally unimportant. Once you accept that, you will lose some of what generally causes insecurity (the feeling others are judging you, especially negatively). Remember, never take into account the opinion of someone you wouldn't ask for advice and odds are that's a pretty short list.
Doesn’t sound like insecurity it sounds like “pick me I need attention” which you could’ve gotten without your question
Slowly.
You have to build confidence with who you are and accept you're great.
Not everyone will think so, you'll always have negative moments. That's life.
But just find something about yourself to appreciate and build off that. Even if it's something small like loving your hair that's a start.
It just takes time. I’m not entirely secure of myself I’m still a very shy girl but I’m a lot better than I used to be I used to ask how do I look everyday and take millions of selfies not because I thought I looked good but because I was convinced that I was ugly. I also think that socializing more helped me and distracted me.
Accept it. Whatever you think your flaws are, accept them and improve what you can. It can act as a filter, to recognise who values you.
(This doesn't mean that you stop caring for yourself, just don't go overboard.)
(and if the picture is yours, god knows why the hell are you insecure (assuming you are talking about physical attributes) 😂😂)
to honestly jus stop caring thats what i just started doing. Easier said than done but i jus got broken up with and i just dont care anymore tbh I jus don't care anymore about what ever I was insecure about ima work on got to
*I jus don't care anymore about what ever I was insecure about and what i am insecure about Ima work on got to
But please tell us what are u insecure about?
My appearance bc every guy takes me for granted or doesn’t hold interest in me after a while. Its def not my personality
Okay now what do you mean by take you for granted? Okay so what happens after a while what you mean they don't hold interest? Do they fade away?(Ghost u, stop messaging u?) do they break up with you?
All of the above
Damn I'm sorry i was just broken up with so i feel ur pain
Best way is exposure therapy. I bet your shy? So start taking more risk's. Like a theater group, karaoke, what ever it is that you have to do with other people. Start giving a shit about what people think and start enjoying life.
Find things to be proud of about yourself that involve more than just looks or outside validation, such as hobbies, skills, or personal accomplishments. FAR easier said than done, though.
Obviously you've had some negative people in your life. When people like that cut you down it's because they feel so inferior to you.
All of us who follow you, think you are gorgeous.
Be careful that the guys you date are not part the problem. Date the ones you are genuinely interested in you. Not the ones that look at you as a conquest.
You don't. It's a mental thing. You can be insecure or suffer imposter syndrome.
Everyone has insecurities, but you work on your strengths to ensure they outstrip your weaknesses.
It's a journey, but it's probably not one that relies on external validation by showing off your body on here.
Okay.. are you purposely posting sexy pictures while ignoring me to make me realized that I messed up hahah
All depends on what you're insecure about. Generally speaking, first thing to do is to stop comparing to other people
You are beautiful. Stop comparing yourself to fake, edited photos on the internet. I went to therapy and it helped a lot.
If you are not already, start learning about and practicing mindfulness and meditation. Training your brain, yourself, is the best way to conquer that stuff. Check out the Waking Up app if you are new to meditation.
I would have to say date older men, way older. As a young attractive woman an older man would have a tendency to worship you physically and work hard to keep you happy. That would have to make you feel good, and should boost your confidence.
Does someone that is really that insecure post a semi-revealing photo on a website such as this?
Oh lord I would love to get into your pants and make you feel good!!! Wow!!