Would it be hard to find a girl who is 20-23 without a romantic history?

[Anonymous]

I guess I would prefer this. A pretty girl like this. I’m not too bothered though. I don’t really have time to care about girls anymore.

Not out of an any insecurity but I’m a bit skeptical of women. I don’t get how they just jump from one to the next. It doesn’t make sense.
Furthermore, many girls are fake and act ‘fake nice.’ Like they put on an act. Some girls also have a hidden agenda

No I’m not that other guy.

It would be hard

It would be not too difficult

It would be easy

[ObscuredBeyond]

There's a 22-year-old interested in me, and she has a romantic / sexual history. I've grown to accept it as the new normal. It's certainly not ideal; but I expect it.

Instead of getting mad, I just ask her what she's learned from each guy; and how her being with him has helped shape her into the woman she is today. I fully accept I won't be her first or even her seventh. So instead, I tell her I want to be the last she will ever need.

I can easily envision this scenario playing out:

Accuser: "Dude, she's a serial monogamist. Little better than a total slut! The guy screws her over, she just immediately finds another. She's had, like, 8 dicks in her! She makes really horrible choices!"

Me: "But she's wonderful otherwise. An absolute disgrace that so many men would mistreat her like that! How despicable of them to do that to her! She wants to settle down; I want to settle down.

And I've met plenty of despicable women. She's turning my fortunes around, as I intend to turn hers around.

She's had 8 dicks in her? Fine. I want to be the 9th who makes absolutely certain she can grow old with me, and never have need for a 10th.

I'll take her, scarlet letters and all! No matter how shameful her past; I love who she is in the present. And unlike you, I want to give her a better future!

If she's not allowed to wear a white dress to the wedding, I'll change my sport coat color to match whatever color dress she does wear. So she's not totally innocent. Neither am I. We'll both answer for it; but we'll do so... together."

Accuser: "..."

[Effably]

Not particularly hard. Although, while I don't plan to stick my nose into your business or preferences make no mistake: The reasons you listed and really everything in here screams insecure. Which is Fine! You are allowed to be insecure mate.

You obviously care, hence the question. Pretending you don't? Insecurity. You obviously feel insecure about girls' intentions and your own place to them, you say as mivh right after claiming you don't.

It is fine to be worried, insecure and want a partner who is more/less/equally experienced. Try to own it. I am not going at you out of malice but just hoping to help you have this minor realization. Owning your own shortcomings is much more attractive than worrying about them.

And well, plenty of inexperienced girls (and boys). So worry not.

[Alyssa_11]

I didn’t fall in love until I was 22 so no it’s not hard.

[exitseven]

"No I’m not that other guy."

hahahhaha I was thinking the same thing.

[Anonymous]

Ok, inthecraphole listen, yes it will be pretty hard to near impossible. Specially if they are pretty.

[Citizenkirk]

Do you have a romantic history?

[chilldude33]

lmao "that other guy"
you both weird

[Dasjdee1]

no. There are definitely virgin girls that age