I’m anxious that if my boyfriend knows I don’t have any friends, he will lose interest in me. what can I do?

[Anonymous]

I live in a muslim country, however, im an ex muslim and it’s quite hard for me to relate to people. And it’s hard to make friendships in my country because usually the people lifestyle are will be different than me. I wouldn’t say it’s impossible but it’s challenging. One of my goals in 2023 is to make some friendships. I will volunteer and do my best to make some friendships and i hope i can get a one. Also, i get a long more with men than women, however, because im in a muslim country it’s hard to make friendships with men.
Anyways, i have a boyfriend and he loves me and he is social, that’s helps me to develop my communication skills more with him, im grateful for that. However, im anxious to tell my boyfriend that I don’t have any friends. I used to have two female friends but i lost them after we graduated. And im unemploed, and it’s difficult to find jobs in my country but im trying my best to improve my situation. What can i do? I feel men love social girls who are surrounded by many friends. I’m so afraid that once my boyfriend knows about this fact he will lose his interest in me; and I don’t want that :(. Any advice? I need to know your perspective

[AmeerX]

I am the exact same as you except I am a Muslim. If I had a girl like you I wouldn't mind as long as you uphold family values.

I think he will like you more if he knows you have no one around you. So, don't worry you have a bright future ahead of you. Just so you don't feel anxious, unpopular girls are choice for marriage in most cultures.

You don't have to bring it up if he doesn't ask though.

[Daviddd5412]

I don't think he'll care if you have friends or not

[Berethor]

Men usually don't care about woman being popular, and popular girls tend to be bad girls.