Asking a girl out but she just laughed?

[Anonymous]

I asked a girl out at a party and first I said “ I was wondering if you want to go out” and at first she said “what” like she was confused but then I repeated myself and she just laughed and then one of her friend came and pulled her by the arm and told her to come and she didn’t know whether to go with her or not she’s like uhhh and then I sort of said yea go with her with my hands and I walked away and then as I walked away, I could hear her saying that I asked her out and he friend group started laughing. I was wondering what does that mean and also at work she would say oh this place is great and I would try to say something like oh we should go there sometime or we should go and always she either changes the subject or doesn’t even answer the question and also another time we were just talking and I asked for her snap I think or something like that and she said I won’t give you my Snapchat. I don’t know if she likes me or not can anyone explain to me thank you.

[Screamsgutter]

Wouldn't it just be easier to tell the guy she's already seeing someone, even if she's not? Short n' simple, y'know?

Unfortunately, I had to tell this excuse to one of the few girls to approach me and she took it well. Disappointed, but well. To me, it requires no further explanation or information. More importantly I think there's much less of a chance someone's gonna feel like it's a reflection on them.

[Adam1978]

You are a bit old to use that term, You should be more direct and ask for a date. Not weak terms like go out. If you know where you want to take her, you can throw that in too. Ie be certain of what you want.

[PhenomenalQueen]

She’s trying to let you down in a nice way without hurting your feelings. she’s doing everything she can to show you that she’s not interested. I’m not saying this to be mean, just trying to be as direct as possible so you won’t get hurt.

[Jennajay1719]

she doesn't like you and she shows it by avoiding certain topics and such.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In the game of baseball you struck out dude & if I were in your shoes at the time I would laugh at her answer & tell her you were just kidding & that you would never ask her out & after that just walk away.

[Anonymous]

Her and her friend are garbage and they laughed because they are entitled garbage who feel it’s ok to mock a guy taking a shot at finding happiness and believe they are “to good” for you because they have this delusional belief that they have value higher than they actually do and that they are more than just holes.

[exitseven]

She is not interested. Do not get discouraged You deserve a lot of credit just for asking her out. The great Wayne Gretsky says that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. There will be other girls and other opportunities. .

[Slartybartfast]

Ouch.. one of the worst ways to be rejected.

On the upside, she was obviously a horrible person out with other monsters, not anyone who will ever have a good relationship.

[Platy]

Would have helped if you could have described her personality.

[Anonymous]

She's just not that into you

Don't ask them out and ait for them to ask you
It's better no humiliation in and no violation of the MeToo statutes

[Medhat-M]

Yeah it's not mutual.. Forget about it buddy or you'll just embarrass yourself more

[Vegasrunner]

Lol, she doesn't like you, but better question is why are you spending time on someone like that anyway?

[Anonymous]

This is basically why I stopped approaching women. I can handle rejection but I’m no masochist.

[Anonymous]

It means she's very immature. Really, you can do better man. Move on to a woman (not some little girl) who is deserving of your attention.

[Patmedley26]

She sounds highly immature and indecisive. You're probably better off.

[luvvmf]

she doesn't. she's jus doesn't wanna tell you, without hurting your feelings.

[Anonymous]

See girls, this is why men stop asking you out.

[scott04sa22]

She’s not interested.

[TrillXHippy]

She’s just not interested in man

[Iron_Man]

MoveOn