Girls, how do you get a guy's attention when you're interested in him and want him to talk to you?

[Anonymous]

I made a poll a while ago asking if a woman would approach a guy if she was interested in him and not a single woman said she would. So... girls, if you won't approach him, how do you get a guy's attention when you're interested in him and want him to come talk to you?

Stand near him but ignore him OR scroll your insta feed while positioning yourself towards him

Talk out loud to no one hoping he'll take it upon himself to jump in

Stare uncomfortably at him for forever like you're piercing his soul

Give a wide, dorky smile and wave enthusiastically

Make subtle, but unnecessary, movements near him to get his attention

Stand at a distance and look at him when he's not looking

Combo of above or something else (List 'em)

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+1 y

Come on ladies. The poll's not going to fill itself out. Please and thanks.

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+1 y

Only 5 girls answered? Come on now, I know you can do better than that!

[aestheticfrog]

Personally, I will stand or sit near him and talk to my friends or stare at my phone hoping he will come talk to me. Or, if he's in a group with mutual friends I'll just try to engage if the conversation and try to make eye contact. Haha I'm a very shy person though, so keep that in mind :)

[Asker]

Do you think you staring at your phone sends the message that you want to be approached or that you're busy with your phone?

[aestheticfrog]

No, I definitely could do better in the situation, but I have crazy social anxiety lol I'm not saying it works, but that's how I act :)

[Anonymous]

Now. I would smile and stare. Or look at him then look away

[Flower7]

None of the above.

[Asker]

Well that isn't very specific...

[Flower7]

I wouldn’t try to get his attention at all.