A woman who chooses to wear a bikini to the beach or pool, as opposed to wearing swim shirts and swim shorts to cover herself up in a public place where there are probably children present.
Is this kind of behavior done solely to attract the attention of beach and pool men? Why would she not take measures to keep her body from attracting attention if she was not actually seeking out that attention in the first place?
Do you think a woman wearing a bikini to the beach or pool is just seeking attention from men?
I can only speak from personal experience. When I go to the beach or to a pool, I wear attire that I like and that I feel comfortable wearing. It does not matter to "me" that other people are uncomfortable about my wearing a one piece or a bikini. Generally, as long as people are not breaking any laws or causing a riot, they should be left alone to their own devices. If we are ever allowed to start policing what other people wear, the human species is doomed. This encroachment upon our civil liberties will never end.
No.. I do not think the woman is seeking attention from men, generally speaking, when she chooses to wear a bikini. She may just prefer it over a one piece because she is trying to tan a larger area of her body.
The first bikini was modeled by a show girl, if you don't know what that is, think a performer in a nightclub who's only job is to get the men to lust after her to pay more money to come back, and buy things at the show. It shows the intention behind said clothing, it's all lust, and nothing else. Look at the history of women's swimwear, in the turn of the century, women and men alike swam fully clothed in swim apparel. This is when womens apparel was generally modest, unlike today, where the woman is encouraged to dress like she just blew in from the red light district.
To answer your question, some women dress like this to look for attention, sure. It's sad that society just accepts this display of completely lack of modesty and open encouragement of deviance, but, sadly, it's what's going on out there.
I find it sad that this is how you see things, you should read my my opinion above maybe it will expand your outlook on this subject matter. There are places in the Middle East where the modesty you are referring to is illegal so it all depends on culture.
Studying different cultures can give a lot more insight into this topic. In France women show a lot more and it’s not always for men, although wanting to attract the opposite sex is human nature. The female body depending on where you live can be thought of as strictly sexual or a beautiful work of art so viewed with more admiration and respect. Both these women are equally as sexually attractive in my opinion regardless that the women on the left is showing more. Children don’t think of sexual things like adults and I think it would be admirable as a parent to teach their children to not disrespect women and objectify their bodies from a young age don’t you think?
No. She's a woman swimming and having fun and feeling good in herself and at the pool or beach. What. women wear in their spare time doesn't mean anything except they wear what they want to. Grown women can snd should comfortably be able to wear what they like without worrying about unwanted attention or being branded as attention seekers.
I say maybe in some cases some wear to attract attention.
But I really believe its the fact of less material, the less restricting, to keep cooler, get more vitamin D from the sun, and maybe even more comfortable to wear.
Heck if I was a dame, I would wear a bikini all the time to. They look like fun to wear.
Not really , I enjoy going to the beach and the pool , and I mostly wear a bikini , not because I want attention , but because its a lot more comfortable to be in a bikini. and yeah sometimes i'd wanna show off my abs so yeah haha
Believe it or not a lot of women just want to wear a cute bikini, not to call attention but just because they like it. Why don't men cover their chests at the beach? It might call the attention of people they dgaf about while they just want to enjoy the beach. Same thing.
Not at all whenever I’m anywhere the last thing I do is judge but weather every guy admits it or not they will look so if you want to minimized being looked at wear something more covered if you don’t mind looks but aren’t doing it for looks then wear whatever you want
I feel girl feel more comfortable in a bikini when on the beach or the pool. They also wear it so they don't sweat and they are probably wanna get tan up with some sun. Also I think bikinis are a little more fashionable and they probably do wanna get attention from men do I don't see what's wrong with that.
No... how are they gonna get a tan with a wet/dry suit, swim shirt/shorts... Sometimes people go to the beach just to lay there and relax not swim or go into the water. There are girls out there that just want to seek attention though. Not going to deny that one.
This really sounds more like a bait question about “triggering men”. Each woman has different reasons for what they do. Bikini’s are widely accepted. If some people don’t want to see they don’t have to look.
Not necessarily. She may choose to wear a bikini because she likes the style or it's really hot outside. Don't assume women dress the way they do just to attract men. Some women seek attention from men but not all of them do.
Most of the girls I know tell me they dress up for their female friends - my friend has a kid and a husband and I’ve never met her husband but she dresses like a model when we hang out - it’s her behaviour around woman.
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Women expose themselves for sexual attention and nothing more. They can claim it is for all sorts of other reasons, but there is absolutely zero other reason to expose your body to that degree unless you were wanting the opposite sex to look at it.
Regardless of the type of swimsuit, certain ones clearly draw more attention than others. I personally could not judge the difference in motive without more information.
The reasons will vary from woman to woman. Some to show off, others to attract attention, some for getting a tan and others who like a bikini as swim wear. Regardless of their reasons, it's their choice what to wear and not for anybody to judge.
I don't agree, the human body is not dirty. I can still see her shape through the picture on the right, if we go too far with this we will be expecting women to wear garbage bags
For having this kind of incel attitude. And before you have a knee-jerk reaction, I'm not saying you are or aren't an incel in a literal sense, I'm saying your views on women are clearly informed by retarded incel opinions. You need to move away from that, because that stuff is highly toxic.
Good point. It just seems like a lot of people—not just incels—have this kind of opinion. I don't think this sounds right, but often if I say it's not right, people (including women) disagree. But now, if I ask if it is right, people also disagree. I'm not sure how to know which is generally right and which is the exception anymore, but I'd at least like to know which one people assume more, and even that seems just to depend how you ask it.
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