If a woman is ugly but has a lot of confidence does this make her more attractive?

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Does the high confidence make up for what she is lacking with her looks?

KennethNoisewater · Accepted Answer

Sure it makes her more attractive. Absolutely. But it has nothing to do with her looks. I doubt I would be sexually attracted to a dogface with a great personality. I'm not saying dogfaces are not great people either. For me I would rather surround myself around a smart dogface than a smoking hot blonde who can't tie her shoes. So in that sense I would be more attracted to the confidence than looks. But they are two very separate things. If I was trying to park my beef bus down in tuna town I would be searching for the girl with velcro shoes.

OddBeMe · Accepted Answer

And there’s very few things considered “ugly” by the way. The hyper polarized media has extravagant ideas of “beauty” in order to keep you buying moisturizer.

But yes confidence is incredibly important. My YouTube playlist is filled with female comics who I’d bone in a minute.

LovingLoverReturned · Accepted Answer

Funny 14 guys said no and 14 said yes.. all girls said yes

The answer is yes "more" attractive.. not necessarily meaning attractive "enough".. even... some people will find her enough.

Remember there are people who lack the ability to bond of love, so with psychopaths, they gotta find her sexually tolerable... then there is the fact that not even the so called most beautiful women have all people like them. There will never be everyone who find us physically beautiful or like us.

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Accepted Answer

I guess so because when I watch those murd*r documentaries on the ID Channel they’ll recount the murd*ress as this beautiful charismatic woman. Then they’ll show the real life picture before prison and she’ll be busted. I find it funny that during the entire episode if the suspect is particularly unattractive they’ll always try to drive home their charisma, confidence and persuasiveness.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Oh absolutely. I’ve been absolutely all about a few girls that are straight up ugly. I’m not gonna say I don’t think hot girls are hot just for their looks. I’ve always dated super pretty girls…. But a good personality that if funny and confident…. That’s all I need. The problem is that ugly people are usually not super confident.

There was one girl in particular I remember that I was all about. I was dating a girl for a long time… Almost 10 years. All through college and grad school and after…. She was hot. I’d say anyone would rate her at least a 9. She had a friend come out with us one night…. Confident, funny… Probably most people would have rated her a 2. I was with my much prettier girlfriend at the time and wanted to take the uglier chick home all night. Lol

SamIam96 · Answer

Hell, yeah. Confidence is nearly everything. Walking around my city, I see very few people I'd call ugly. At least their looks. I see plenty of ugly behavior, attitudes.

In my first job, I dated a woman that all of us considered beautiful. She was. But, God, she had a nasty personality. Was terribly unconfident. I didn't loose a minute sleep when I stopped calling her.

Guy13 · Answer

Confidence in a soft and fluffy girl way, YES

Confidence that can be interpreted as defensiveness or overtop “hear me roar, woman” 💩 …Confidence that would lead to a conclusion of “don’t this woman know that she’s been smacked by the ugly stick…”. Not Good.

Lliam · Answer

It sure doesn't make her look LESS attractive, unless she is haughty or delusional.

People who like themselves are appealing.

Someone who has good posture, will look people in the eye, smile, and engage in conversation is more attractive than someone who slouches and seems to obviously not like themselves.

When a person who is lacking in physical beauty looks confident, they make people wonder what they have that's not apparent. What's their hidden secret?

Xhuy_006 · Answer

Oops I selected wrong. I meant to say no. For me, if she's shy and kinda humble, i find that extremely attractive. Especially if she's a romantic type. You'll be able to tell. But if she's overly, keyword *overly*, confident, it's a turn off, regardless of how attractive she is. Like hold up your hoeness, nobody crown you with gold, just pearls LMAO

crossdressingrihno · Answer

If a woman is legitimately ugly then confidence isn't going to help I would think at least I don't think it helps
Now if you were average or even a little bit below average then yeah confidence can take you a long ways but ugly is something reserved for "ew I don't want to look at that"

Jamie05rhs · Answer

"Ugly" is a bit of a strong word. But yeah; if a woman is actually "UGLY," then she is going to NEED confidence! Because no guy is going to hit on her, since she looks so ugly.

Don't get mad; I'm just telling the truth.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Have you never met an ugly woman with tons of confidence? It's even more ugly.

By ugly i don't mean, naturally unattractive but okay in general. These women are fine/still decent.

By ugly i mean overweight and/or women who smoke, curse, spit etc, you can see their drinking habbits by just looking at their face, manly posture etc. Now that is ugly.

nawtee_me · Answer

They say beauty is only skin deep... But ugly goes all the way to the bone... lol I think that a girl who wears confidence like a well fitted sweater won't be considered ugly to begin with... She is comfortable in her own skin and that makes her desirable. People do not tend to desire ugly...

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I don't know if it makes it up completely but a fun personality, nice smile, and not being shy, judgmental, or superficial always add at least a point or two to me in terms of looks. I actually find those better-looking.

dolemite89 · Answer

If a girl is average looking but has moxie and a certain way about her she can definitely earn herself some brownie points for sure, that being said i don’t care how confident or cool a girl is if she’s physically unattractive it’s not gunna help if she’s confident.

SweedyPie · Answer

To me the ugly people are not the ones who look different from societal standards, ugly people are the ones whose personalities are so far gone you'd wonder if good sense could even return to them. In such a case, nope. No amount of confidence can fix ugly. It's like trying to put powdered sugar on a hot load of 💩💩💩

Looking different doesn't mean she's ugly. Different is beautiful. So I couldn't choose A or B.

StormMistress · Answer

Course! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But there is nothing more beautiful than pure soul. Looks are fleeting. Soul is eternal.

MrOracle · Answer

Confidence (that's been earned and is justified, and isn't just arrogance) is an attractive quality in everyone. Men and women both find it attractive in the opposite sex.

katiesmuff · Answer

So many things other than your facial appearance that make you more attractive such as your humor, your friendliness, a good heart are some including having confidence.

Avicenna · Answer

Depends on the context. It would in a business environment but not in a romantic situation, where it wouldn’t hurt or help. Ugly is what it is- undesirable in a romantic situation.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

It depends on how ugly and how good her personality like if she has a unibrow but she is generally a sweet girl I can live with that but if her face is way too masculine and she thinks she is the hottest thing on the planet I definitely pass.

Nigjt · Answer

Not alway's because u can have to much an that ain't good at all. It can make u even uglier. God Bless

Adam1978 · Answer

No confidence is only attractive in some you already are actracted too. If it someone you don't want it work against you.

OneNineZero · Answer

A lot of confidence or over confidence is actually arrogance  Is that beautiful  I dont think so

VikingWarLord · Answer

If she's confident in herself but still a fat slob, then it's even MORE unattractive.  She doesn't take care of herself and yet... She's confident? WHAT?

turnpost · Answer

Not really, you see poeple Amy Schumer she is really confident but she is not hot to me.

Stereotypical African American are super confident are they more attractive. Usually the more the mature and straight laced African women are more atrractive to me.

Jennifer lawrence she is a hot girl who is confidence over confident mkre like it and that is like a lack of depth with her lack genuiness

KrakenAttackin · Answer

The thing is, modern women think "confidence" means loud, rude, contrary, drunken, and oversexed. Perhaps this is what lasses for confidence in 2022 but it's very different from what I perceive as confident.

globetrotter22 · Answer

What do you mean by confidence? I notice some bbw girls are really loud, rude and often bullies. Is that confidence?

sage2021 · Answer

There are women that are confident and ovrt weight. They call themselves Big Beautiful Women (BBW).

Anpu23 · Answer

To a point, absolutely. Confidence is alluring. Obviously it can't overcome every flaw but it does certainly help.

TCredo · Answer

confidence is always good - plus lots of other attributes make up for someone's overall attractiveness :)

DownIndaDumpz2 · Answer

Nope... my eyesight and visions don't change.. she can be hot with no confidence or hot with confidence and she looks exactly the same amount of sexiness to me either way

jshm2 · Answer

Ugly is subjective. But fake confidence is always ugly

BoobMan · Answer

Generally speaking, I'd say no. It can make her cool to hang out with but if she's not attractive, she's not attractive.

Grond21 · Answer

The confidence does make her more attractive. And it can sometimes make up for her looks, but it often does not. It just partially closes the gap.

DrillBeats · Answer

I’m honestly not calling or categorizing a woman as ugly… or anyone else. It is just rude for no reason. Beauty is subjective. I will say that confidence supersedes a lot.

Jerre · Answer

I think a girls confidence and personality most often make up for her being ugly. I have found that many girls think they are ugly, but in reality are cute.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, personality has a lot to do about how attractive somebody is.

gabby100 · Answer

This is a thing, that you only look at the wrapping not what is inside..

Anzhus · Answer

No I don't think that's true. Sometimes it may have the complete opposite effect ya know

maverick2022 · Answer

No I absolutely loathe ugly arrogant women. Seriously is this a troll question?

Browneye57 · Answer

No. While beauty may be skin deep, ugly is to the bone. :)

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I think that works positively for both sexes. Even a pretty girl can lose attractiveness if she had no self confidence

Fuentes · Answer

Yes and NO i mean a chick can bring all. the confidence but once we have sex i see things clearly and i might just block her lol

n4meAL · Answer

have you ever seen fat and ugly women make videos like tiktok, they make their faces look cute do you like it, lol that's the answer they will actually look annoying if they are ugly but too confident

EssenceOfLight · Answer

No. Confidence is an multiplier. If you multiply 0 with other number it's still zero.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

No. She is just confident ugly.. lol 😂 but she will still go far

crmoore · Answer

I'm not really into confident girls but I'm sure that would be true for a good portion of guys.

Southcoastradwolf · Answer

I definitely agree that confidence in your self, letting yourself feel sexy and letting yourself hear compliments makes you much sexier

bananathunder · Answer

usually has for me... hot quiet girls aren't really my thing also

Guardian45 · Answer

To an extent, self-confidence can make up for a lot in anyone, man or woman.

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah it can make her more attractive if she is confident

Rudon00 · Answer

Its funny that you asked this. Confidence in a female can indeed be adequate for attraction

Slim57 · Answer

Not to me I don't really care for confidence as long as they can take compliments and not shun every single one

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Ngl guys are pretty visual and we only want attractive women approaching us

Jouth · Answer

Hell yes. Confidence is so attractive in anyone!!

Anonymous · Answer

Confidence makes everybody more attractive. Man or woman.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No way. An ugly girl thats super confident is like the biggest turn off ever i can't stand those women at all.

Mossberg500 · Answer

Why would a woman who is ugly be confident? I would say she is 'oblivious' to the foundation on which she is primarily judged upon.

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Hot is an attitude more than anything else

Anonymous · Answer

no, even a pretty female who’s cocky and self entitled is less attractive.

dudeinohio · Answer

I'd say yes. Personality has a huge impact

Wise4myage · Answer

Sure, IF I find her attractive enough.

scooogy · Answer

Yes, at least in my case.

If a woman is ugly but has a lot of confidence does this make her more attractive?

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