Situation is that me (Male 19) and my best friend's (Male 45) partner (Female 28) who I become close platonically *Clarification later is playing games with me I think. This is my first time posting on this forum although I am a regular reader so I am trying my best to provide information.
About me:
Lets name her J for ease. With J I have "agreed" and we are looking at each other like brother and sister, surprisingly both of us are what you would call "hot af" but at least me I don't want to turn this into a romantic or friends with benefits.
Honestly I just want to have a close platonic friendship without any of the added weights of turning it into anything sexual, but I feel like I am being played and the times when she ignores me are like a stab to my hearth each time she does it, I get sad, frustrated, etc...
The thing that confuses me that every time I confront her about this, she tells me she "loves me as a very close friend" but then she acts the way I described.
Thank you so much If you read it trough
About me:
- Been with a lot of girls before but now not interested in relationships
- Recently found out I am asexual trough psychoanalysis
- Is looking for a close platonic friendship
- When alone together very friendly (Laughing our asses off 24/7)
- When my best friend is around (M45) she (F28) ignores me like I am non existent
- She is touchy when we are alone together
- Usually ignores my texts
- She doesn't want to "label" me who am I to her if I ask
- Since I have Aspersers I am especially dumb at perceiving social interaction clues but she looks at me frequent when I don't look at her
Lets name her J for ease. With J I have "agreed" and we are looking at each other like brother and sister, surprisingly both of us are what you would call "hot af" but at least me I don't want to turn this into a romantic or friends with benefits.
Honestly I just want to have a close platonic friendship without any of the added weights of turning it into anything sexual, but I feel like I am being played and the times when she ignores me are like a stab to my hearth each time she does it, I get sad, frustrated, etc...
The thing that confuses me that every time I confront her about this, she tells me she "loves me as a very close friend" but then she acts the way I described.
Thank you so much If you read it trough
