BUT...
And these are my thoughts before the incident at the Oscars based on all the Red Table Talk episode and interviews she's done. I don't think she's a bad person, you can have bad qualities and not be a bad person.
So here it is. She's very manipulative. Really good at it. Especially with men. She get's a man to think very highly of her despite not being a saint (who is?). To the point where they don't expect any type of "evil" (lack of a better word) from you so you get away with manipulations without suspicion. This is the type of woman that when she get's a man he can easily become obsessed with her. In other words she's fake a lot of the times. Not to gain anything, like money or power. In some way she genuinely wants to be that person she pretends to be but she's not.