Well you did say to be honest and you called yourself a “fatass” and was pretty much self depreciating and made it seem like you lack the confidence. If you’re kinder and more positive to yourself then I’m sure more people would like you more. You’re not a bad looking dude at all!
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As a Chinese girl I would give you 11/10 - but I don’t date random strangers online.
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I have a few opinions on this...
1 Girls/Women do not like being labelled as the bad ones or "big meanies"... that right there is going to automatically make them go against you... most women have zero sympathy for anything "Incel" like on the internet and don't like hearing about men's struggles and problems (but that's a whole other discussion...).
2 You're not wrong, women are very critical of both men & women when it comes to appearance and aesthetics online (definitely notice that this has gotten worse over the years and in my opinion men have become more lenient, empathetic and understanding towards other men and their struggles/problems BUT very heartless & unapologetic towards women and their struggles/problems).
3 these numbers (from 0 to 10, rating someone's appearance) are all arbitrary and can be altered very easily depending on a variety of factors, style, setting, etc... in this case it's a photo of yourself BUT most importantly - it's a selfie!!! You're not going to get a good opinion/rating with a selfie and a blank expression on your face.
4 this is my opinion but based off of that photo you look average at best but mainly because it's an uninteresting photo & a selfie.
5 the number rating system for attractiveness sucks, you're better off asking whether or not you're unattractive, slightly unattractive, neutral, slightly attractive or attractive... because when I see someone it's usually 1 of those 5 indicators, because I don't see the point of trying to figure out someones imaginary number... but the number system means nothing because your could be a 2/10 and luck out by finding someone who views you as 8 or 9 out of 10 and end being in a relationship with them OR you could be 8/10 and can't find anyone because other aspects can make you unattractive.
- what are you looking for from this, are you looking for confirmation on how you feel about yourself? (because that isn't a good way to live your life, to have your emotions and self worth based off of other people's opinions)
- are you looking to change something about yourself? (because if that's the case you probably already know what you want to do and what to change)
So what are you trying to accomplish?DO YOU HAVE ANY FUCKING IDEA HOW UGLY AND FAT 95% OF THE WOMEN HERE ARE?
THEY'RE ANONYMOUS FOR A REASON!! DON'T LET THESE FUCKING UGLY COWS BREAK YOUR SPIRITS MAN. THEY SAY YOU'RE A 4/10, BUT YOU MIGHT AS WELL BE A MILLION OUT OF 10 TO THEM BECAUSE THESE WOMEN LITERALLY LOOK LIKE DOG SHIT!!
YOU WOULDN'T DATE THESE FUCKING GOBLINS IF SOMEONE PUT A GUN TO YOUR HEAD AND TRIED TO MAKE YOU!!
YOU'RE AWESOME, HAVE A NICE DAY!! 🙂🙂🙂Because they are women…that’s how they are. You are free 🎯 . They usually do that 💩 to each other. YOU WERE FREE‼️
We aren't, guys just aren't used to getting embarrassed by other people and tend to have thinner skin in regards to that. We however, are used to it and thus have thicker skin.
Maybe put on some makeup. That's what most of these women Do. Cover up their faults, or hiding something, then take it out on others..
To be fair, you probably look better than most girls without makeup 😂
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