Hot and cold, distant etc.. ?

Anonymous
I'll try and be brief as possible.
I met this girl online and then we met up physically. Instant magnetism, she wanted me to come back to hotel room that night, but I said no and that we will take it relaxed. Met up again and spent a whole day and night having sex. Meet up a few more times after that, She then nervously says she loves me, I respond and say it is unusual but I feel the same. I have a wobble because of personal issues (financial) and pull back which I explained to her honestly. She starts acting distant and cold towards me via text rarely phones me anymore. Then we meet up again last week, sex and everything is right back where it was. Since then distant and cold again.
She lives up north and me down south in the UK, so don't get a lot of opportunities to see each other. But I am trying to change that. Why the distance and coldness after she came on so strong in the beginning. I just feel shit, like I've done something wrong or she was lying.
Hot and cold, distant etc.. ?
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