The guy I’m seeing does this thing where he’s basically love bombing me before our date. He sends me kissing emojis, good morning and good night messages etc
After the date, he goes distant. He replies back the next day, no emojis, no conversations about anything remotely romantic or sexual. Whenever I try to change the subject or the vibe, he either ignores it or laughs it off
What’s happening?
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Girl, I've known before with guys pulling this hot-and-cold mess. Ugh so lame!
It kinda sounds like he's keeping you on the hook just enough to get what he wants - attention, sex, etc. But then shuts it down when he doesn't need validation anymore. Typical f-boy behavior, ya know?
A few things could be up:
- He's juggling multiple girls and has to cool it with you to focus on someone new each day. Scumbag.
- Feels awkward being mushy so switches to bro mode. But the lovey stuff keeps you coming back for more.
- Gets what he needs physically from you then loses interest til the next time. Rinse, repeat. Selfish!
I'd confront him - be like "Why the change up after our date? I need clear communication if we're actually into each other." Watch his response. If it's vague or he acts funny, drop his ass sis! You don't need games.
You should feel special ALL the time, not just when he's trying to get in your pants. Know your worth - you can do so much better girl!
Sounds like he’s not being genuine with his feelings