Why do women always assume the worst with guys and never investigated further to see if their assumptions are correct?

[Gangactivities911]

This is something women do that makes dating incredibly difficult for men. Like men ask for ur Snapchat instead of ur number and u assume they just want sex. Men come on too strong u assume they just want sex. Men text u too much u assume they just want sex. Men don’t text u enough u assume they just want sex. Men talk to multiple women in the same night and u assume they just want sex. Men make 1 wrong move and u just assume all they want is sex without ever investigating further. It’s like a guy has to have perfect social skills that specifically are tailored to u in order to even get a date out of u. I don’t think women even realize how ridiculously picky they are most of the time.

[Anonymous]

We look for danger signs and run away. There are so many guys approaching us all the time we don't have time or interest to stop and find out more, especially if you've scared us away. All the things you mention are warning signs to us because we've been through them with so many guys.

Here's an actual conversation from yesterday. A guy asks for my Snapchat and literally the next thing he says is, "Gonna be a good girl and get on your knees?" I don't respond and he says, "Sorry if that was too forward." A few hours later he comes on and says, "Hey" so I say "Hi" and he says, "How about I come bend you over and let you feel this cock."

Game over.

This is the typical conversation from guys, not just once in awhile.

[Gangactivities911]

Ok that’s understandable to not text back but the things I mentioned earlier are not really understandable yet I’ve had women bail for all the reasons I mentioned

[Opinion Owner]

What I said was things guys say and do when the things you mentioned happen.

[Gangactivities911]

So if I ask for snap instead of a number ur gonna assume I’m gonna send creepy messages right away? Seems valid…

[Opinion Owner]

That's what happens when guys ask for Snap.

[Gangactivities911]

Yes each and every time that’s what happens I’m sure

[Opinion Owner]

You are asking why we react this way. I don't have time to sift through good guys and bad if the signs are bad.

[Anonymous]

I guess it’s bc of past experiences. Maybe they’ve been hurt or used way too many times even though at first they thought that they could trust the guy so now they’re too scared of being hurt. To counter this, I usually just ask the guy to be straight forward. I’d want him to tell me his intentions early on it could be “not sure, want to see where this goes” or “I just wanna fuck”. There’s no wrong answer, I just appreciate transparency so there’s no room for assumptions.

[Gangactivities911]

That’s mature. I’ve like never met a girl that did this tho. They always just assume and never ask Ime. And I get they may have had bad experiences but they’re not even gonna investigate further?

[Opinion Owner]

I think they’ll appreciate it if you’re up front with them tho. I think a lot of girls are just way too scared of getting hurt again so they just close off their heart and immediately assume the worst.

[Gangactivities911]

No they don’t if ur upfront about just wanting sex they get mad. If u show them that ur romantically interested in them they think they got u and play hard to get to evaluate their other options or they think ur lying. At least until they get so old that I’m actually not interested in either anymore

[SeekingVirginWife]

I never had a problem with women who are virgin. It's the Non-virgins you need to watch out for, they became demons from their horrible past.

[Gangactivities911]

I agree virgins play the least games by far

[FilmGuy93]

Well they get a certain benefit from not taking any chances with men. It keeps them safe.

[Gangactivities911]

Like not ever finding a relationship?

[FilmGuy93]

If the alternative is finding the wrong relationship, that risk might be worth taking for her.

[Gangactivities911]

Why not investigate further tho?

[FilmGuy93]

I just told you; it keeps her safe. She wants to avoid putting herself in any weird or vulnerable situations.

[Gangactivities911]

Texting the guy back puts her in a weird or vulnerable situation?

[Gangactivities911]

Going to lunch with the guy puts her in a weird or vulnerable situation?

[FilmGuy93]

It might, yeah. Why are you expecting or asking for logic in this? Women are women. At most mature, the best you can expect from a woman is like the maturity of a 15 year old boy. Trying to understand anything is useless. Men don't have much choice beyond loving them as best we can and being patient.

[Gangactivities911]

I don't know I’m just trying to see if there is any logic behind it. I’m just trying to not die alone and this game is getting really old

[FilmGuy93]

Ah... I know that feeling. I wish I had better answers for you. The thing that really sucks about women sometimes is that they make a lot of their decisions based upon their emotions in any given moment. And their emotions are reasons to do things in and of themselves, which isn't something most men can relate to.

[PatriceONeal]

For the same reason they shouldn't be allowed to vote. They are biologically irrational.

[Gangactivities911]

Lmfao