She said she is breaking up with her boyfriend. How to approach the situation?

[Xenon21]

She called me up after a few months of no contact. Said she was sad to stop speaking to me and that she is on anti depressants. Said she felt like she couldn't be herself around the guy she is with and when she hangs up the phone to me, she'll break up with him. I feel quite bad in what she is going through. Seems very up and down. I said i'll check up on her later in the week. She was also insistent that she needs someone patient and understanding (how she always describes me). Where to go from here and how to approach this situation? Feels a bit awkward checking in not knowing if she actually went through with it or not.

[ShakTreblat]

I’m currently going through a situation similar to this right now. My best friend cut off all contact with me for someone she planned to marry after only knowing him for 4 months. She told me she’d reach out to me when she felt she was ready and that there was something she wanted me tip hear from her. Well the way I saw it was like this: I’m not a pet, and you cannot expect me to wait around for you to tell me why I was ghosted. So I told her that if that was the case I’d rather not be the fool to sit there and look stupid, so I ended the friendship. Well, fast forward a month later, she’s posting sad shit on TikTok about how they broke up and how it was nice while it lasted and blah blah blah. Part of me wanted to reach out, but the other part of me, the logical part, told me that it would only end up an emotional shit show. And I already told this girl we were done. So my advice: Don’t let her problems become your problems. It’s not fair for you to take on her baggage. Not saying you can’t be supportive, but don’t overstep into a position you don’t need to be in.

[ethanallen]

She is a self centered narcissistic bitch. She called you because she wants to surround herself with "Beta Orbiters." Beta Orbiters are guys who women don't take seriously as sexually partners. They accept dates with betas and then refuse to fuck afterwards but when they get home, they call their alpha fuck buddy who comes over (after you paid for her dinner). The alpha guy turns her around and fucks her in the ass depositing his load bareback. Do not become a beta orbiter. Tell her that you are down to fuck. Anything else and she can fuck off. Stop being nice to bitches, They don't respect you for it.

[Siren777]

How do you feel about the situation? If you're not ready to deal with an emotional Rollercoaster I think it's best not to get on one. Are you willing to be that patient? The suggestion I have is that you let her heal and get back to her when she is fully healed. Being a friend to her now is an option but not in a vulnerable state do you want to get serious with her as she might be emotionally unstable. Be there for her as a friend and suggest therapy. It's not your job to heal her only for her to leave you for someone else when she has healed.

[Man-O-Metal]

This

[Drumlin2001]

What to you want from her? Do you see a long term relationship or just a bit of fun? If your just looking for a fling then leave her alone. If you really want a long term relationship then it's worth the investment of time. Work with her, however she wants but makes sure there's progression and it dosen't stagnate

[whiskeyontherocks]

Red flag
She sounds like she has some issues she needs to deal with.
I’d keep my distance and don’t let her move in.
Don’t let her take advantage of poor boundaries.

[Lurkergao]

women say that all the time. she is probably just fishing for validation and attention. i would try to ignore her and do something else fun she is just messing with your head dude.

[Jamesshinobi]

she should be alone. she is unhappy with herself, not the guy. she will do the same to you when you enevitably do not make her happy either.

[driven159]

you make sure she is over it not just jump right in

[Anonymous]

Let her heal emotionally and give her time to get help

[Opinion Owner]

And better yet, don’t try to contact her over and over again. You’ll be looked at like a whiny simp and no one likes a whiny simp

[postempestas]

Feels kinda like some vulture situation.

[baserunner611]

just be careful, one step at time

[baserunner611]

Go talk to her if love work throw love conquest all. Love ❤️ her run to her

[Anonymous]

do not waste your time