I wore shorts and a crop tops around the house all the time. My boobs grew faster than most girls my age when I was a teen. Parents never said anything about it. My brother hated when I wore stuff like that out though as I always got hit on by creeps and I was only 14
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provided her outfit covers the key areas (chest, butt, privates) well enough. when she moves, sits down, lays down or bends and it's no see-through. I have no manage issue with her wearing something like this around the house. so long as it's just her direct family members in the house with her. however if there are visitors or extended family over would request she cover up more.
but her dressing like this in private is not much different then her wearing a swimsuit to tan in the yard or swim in family pool. however her going out in public like that might raise some concern for me. because she's likely to attract attention from sources she may or may not want to. which could cause issues for her and/or the family to deal with.
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Yeah if it's at the house. Sexualizing a minor in their own home is disgusting. Out in public I'd be scared for her safety because I've witnessed firsthand how creepy men are, but at the house that's totally fine. You shouldn't be forcing your kids to change into something more appropriate. Maybe if the uncle's are coming over, instead of telling her to put pants on, keep the uncle's and their predatory behavior out of the damn house.
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yea. If you get turned on by family, seek psychiatric help.
If she’s working and buys it for herself and isn’t leaving the house wearing it at that point who cares. My wife and I have both changed their diapers and have washed them on bath days. My oldest is seven, so it will be a long time before she gets to that age. It’s just a body, and we don’t want her to have body issues or confidence issues. No one is trying to be inappropriate to a family member.
Yes, she's home so why would I care about what she wears?
I also usually just wear a longer shirt with a thong around the house. Nobody is going to peek through the windows.Don’t find nothing wrong with that outfit to sleep in
I'd prefer my daughter not to wear that in my house but only in her bedroom for a boyfriend if they'd both want that... I don't like it when people wear too short clothing in public. It seems like not caring about basic decency or limiting to show off your body. I think sexuality is really private and only for a partner. So should be more sexual parts of the body. For the rest my daughter is free to do what she wants in her own room as long as it nobody sees it except her boyfriend. Same would go for her own place.
If I had a daughter, I'd raise her to have basic decency instead of shamelessnessI wouldn’t care of my daughter did not sure she would as she very conservative lol, she is into sports she dresses in shorts and sweatpants all the time. I try to take her out shopping for cute outfits and she rolls her eyes saying it’s not her thing lol.
I'm a daughter, not a parent, and I don't see the problem with this.
Coming from small town in India, I didn't even know this kind of wear existed.
I didn't have my own bedroom and used to sleep with my doors opens in early teen years.
When my brother got married, my sis-in-law showed me something like this.
For a very long time, I used to dream wearing something like this in the night at home.
But, never happened while I was living with my parents (and brother and sis-in-law).It is shorts and a tank top. Seems pretty standard to me
She can run around naked, if she wants to. As long as she keep her bits clean so she's not leaving skid marks and spots where she sits..
I mean it’s just a T-shirt and shorts. I mean I wouldn’t want to see my daughters ass in my face but am i supposed to ban her from wearing shorts in the comfort of our own home? 😅
If she wanted to go out in public with shorts that short, that’s when I would have an issueIf she's wearing panties and only the immediate family are in the house, I wouldn't object, though it's not my ideal. Otherwise, I'd ask her to wear something more substantial.
Parenting 101. If you object to something your child is wearing, they'll just find some way to wear something more offensive. Sometimes you have to live with things you don't like, and learn to pick your battles.We wear a lot less than that when we are home. Clothing is optional in my house. I don't see anything wrong with your outfit
My mom wouldn't even let us walk around like that if men were visiting. Once my future daughter hit her teen years, i’d ask her to put on some shorts or pants when outside of her room if men were around
I'm not a parent yet, but considering that nudity is a norm for my family, I don't see anything wrong with it in the comfort of the home
i dont know. i wouldn't want them to feel uncomfortable about their bodies. their gramdmother did that to their mother and I've had to live with it. i think id tease them lightly like "you couldnt find anything a little warmer/longer" or id just turn the air on so high they would make the right decision on their own ha ha ha.
No my parents will never allow me..
i wear it when i am alone at home... :) :)At night? Sure. It wouldn't be much of a bother to me.
The bigger problem is girls wearing that out and about in public, which they do. I don't understand it. Looks disgusting, improper, and trashy.
Wearing it at home in private isn't really an issue.I'd say its fine but make it clear if she catches her bros staring to tell her to remind them her eyes are up here ^^^ and give her permission to keep the other young guns in the house on the straight and narrow.
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